It’s my JUNE BOOK REVIEW!!!
Eeeeeeeks! I love book day!!!!
Okay, per your request, this summer, I’m not just reviewing books, but we’re going to have a little book club discussion too. Typically, I don’t publish comments with spoilers, but for today’s books, in the comment section, you can talk spoilers if you want. My review here WILL NOT contain any spoilers for those of you who haven’t read the books yet (just make sure you don’t read the comment section!), but there will be spoilers/discussion in the comment section for everyone who has already read the book(s). I will not be publishing any comments that are hateful/ugly. There are a lot of book clubs if you want to express your thoughts in that way, but mine will not be one of them. You can absolutely say you don’t like a book and list reasons, but we’re going to even keep that in a positive, upbeat way or else it won’t be published for the discussion.
Make sense?
Also, at the bottom of this post, I’ve also included our summer book club picks for July too.
One last thing, I’m off right now to the cutest little 4 year old’s house to wish him a happy birthday and then…
…this weekend, we have July 4th, so I’m going to take a little break and try to unplug a bit this weekend. I will see you guys back here on MONDAY.
Lots of fun stuff, so let’s get started…
This month, I kicked things off with…
Okay, I liked this book but didn’t love it. It checked a lot of boxes for me (light, summery, easy to read, cute, a little cheesy…all of my faves), but looking back, I’m kind of “eh” about it (after reading my other books for the month). This novel is about two writers who were frenemies back in college and somehow, several years later, both end up living next door to each other in small cabins in the middle of nowhere…both struggling to write their next book. There’s banter, there’s chemistry, there’s a cute little town as the backdrop with some adorable side characters…but when it was over, even though the book wraps up nice and neat (which I love), I still had questions that felt unanswered. I wrote in my notes 3.5 stars out of 4 when I finished reading it. If you’re looking for an easy little book for your summer, here you go! I will say, due to language and content, I would say this one is more rated R as well. I can’t wait to read the comments about this book…it was just okay to me.
The second book I read this month was more than okay, it was really, really eye-opening…
…at the beginning of the month, I asked readers to give me suggestions for some racially diverse books to include in my monthly reviews and White Fragility was by far the most recommended to me. I didn’t even read the synopsis before I cracked it open because I wanted to go in “fresh”. I knew that so many of my readers wanted me to read it, so that was enough of a rec for me.
I was really surprised when I did start reading because it’s written by a white woman. As I began reading though, I loved that it was written by a white woman because it gave me (a white woman) a perspective from “my seat” versus someone else’s. Make sense? I found myself reading and re-reading sentences, paragraphs and portions of what she was saying because so many of her relatively simple points had been going right over my head (so her perspective spoke to me). As someone who was called into large corporations for diversity training, she observed so much about white culture and how, even the most well-intended white people, can really cause racial divide without even realizing they’re doing it. I read this book really quickly because once I got started, I couldn’t put it down…and what I loved was how many great conversations it lead me to have with Andrew, my kids, my friends, my family about how we’ve become extremely desensitized in our roll in racial divide. I also loved that this book really addresses how we (as a society) are not going to change the minds of truly racist people (because those are people whose minds cannot be changed), but we can make personal changes that will hopefully create less racial divide and more unity. Change has to come from the lives of those who are not racist at heart but the rest of us who, even if we’re not aware, might be contributing to the problem instead of eradicating it. Does that make any sense? I am certainly not qualified to recap a book with this much information in it about something so important. That point (of how eradicating racial divide is not about changing the hearts of racist people) really hit home to me because in my family, we are diverse and definitely teach our kids that everyone is equal, made perfect in God’s eyes just the way they are and how we should love one another…but change in society will really will come from our hearts and our homes (we can’t keep thinking “oh, we’re not the problem, we need those horrible racists to change” because that’s never going to happen). The change starts with us. I’m excited to see the book review portion of this in our comment section and hope many of you read it too.
The third book this month on our book club list was…
Okay, the only thing I didn’t love about this novel was the title. Looking back, after reading the book, I just don’t think it fits with the actual story. (I know that’s silly, but it’s what I thought about!)
Nancy Thayer novels just never let me down. They always have amazing settings (this one is in Nantucket!), they always make me feel good, they’re never rated R, they’re always upbeat, there is always an ending and they’re always charming. That’s the word I would use to describe all of her books…charming. This is a story about a woman in her 50s who has been a single mom for many, many years…well, she falls for a younger man (in his 40s) at the same time her kids are falling for people too. It’s a lot about moving on, not looking back, being okay with yourself (the main character really struggles with dating a man 10 years younger). There are cozy cottage references, lots of lobster being cooked, beach scenes, cobblestone roads discussed…everything I love about summers in Nantucket in one book. If you need an easy little beach book, here you go. Loved it.
Speaking of books I loved…
…my favorite author wrote one of my favorite books so far this year.
I loved 28 Summers.
Loved it.
Now, you know I love me some Elin Hilderbrand…so I was super anxious for this one to come out this year. IT DID NOT DISAPPOINT! I do, however, think this little chick-lit might be controversial in our comment section because you have to be okay with a “same time next year” mentality when you read this book. Am I okay with that in real life? No. Did I love it in this book? Yes. Would I end my husband’s life if he had a “same time next year relationship”? You better believe it. Did I find this story endearing? Yes. Ha! You can’t ask questions…you either have to go into this one accepting it or don’t read it. This novel is about a man and woman who have one amazing weekend on Nantucket and then for 28 summers after that, they meet at the same time each year to be together despite what’s happening in their personal lives. I loved so much about this book. I loved how at the beginning of each chapter, there was a synopsis of the year, I loved how we had a narrator pop out every now and again to give us scoop on “our girl” or “our boy”, I loved how the book toggled back and forth between our two main characters, I loved that it was based in Nantucket but you got glimpses of other cities too. I loved how original I thought the plot was, how well-written and thought out it was, how there were a million little snippets of different years woven seamlessly into each chapter, I loved it. Now, I’m about to head to the comment section though because my gut tells me many of you did not. I highly recommend this one though. This book is a great example of why I love Elin Hilderbrand so much.
Okay, that’s my JUNE BOOK REVIEW!
As always, you can see the other book reviews I’ve done so far in 2020 right HERE along with my TOP THREE books of 2019 and a list of every book I read in 2019 ? .
For July, we have two books for Shay’s Summer Book Club that you can read along with me and we’ll discuss at the end of the month…
…I am excited to dive into both of these.
From here, if you do not want to see any spoilers, click off and come back Monday. If you want to read spoilers/participate in our book club discussion, that’s happening below in the comment section.
Happy Book Day!! I hope you all have a wonderful, wonderful July 4th weekend!! xo
Meghan says
I also LOVED 28 Summers, and it was my favorite Elin Hildebrand book so far. I hadn’t even thought about real life… so I definitely agree with you. I wouldn’t be ok with a “same time, next year” in reality, but in this book, I just loved their story.
The ending left me hoping for a sequel with the kids! Do they go on to have a real relationship or a same time, next year too?!
Mix and Match Mama says
I really hope there is a sequel too!!!! I would love to think they get a real relationship though…but I bet they don’t.
Lisa says
I loved this book so much. I had such a hard time being ok with the “same time next year” concept but got over it and flew through this book. I was rooting for them. I loved jake and Mallory so much like they were my close friends. The story was so, so personal and real and raw.
Laura w says
I agree loved the book and didn’t even think of the real world part. I wouldn’t be ok with it. This was definitely my fav book this year and I’m so hopeful for a sequel too. The characters were so real to me!!
I didnt love Beach read. I found it a neat idea but found it forced with weak character development. I’m still waiting for white fragility to ship!
Carrie says
I absolutely loved 28 Summers! I did not want it to end! One of my favorite books by her. I hope she does a sequel.
Sarah Williams says
I really liked 28 Summers also (one of my faves this year) but to me it was just a smidge too long. Some of the side characters that she followed could have been cut, and it would have been better, to me. With that said though, it was definitely a good book for sure!
Denise says
Agree!!! Loved the book even tho personally that wouldn’t work for me it worked for these characters and even Jake’s wife. She recognized who she was and what she could give In her marriage so it worked for her so to speak. I cried because I didn’t want it to end. I loved them together and yes to a sequel!!!
Kristin says
Reading the Elin Hilderbrand one now!
Kristen Cartledge says
I read two of the four books! The Thayer book was great! I thought it was a cute cozy story and I loved every minute! The Hilderbrand book left my hanging- it was probably my favorite book of the year until the last few pages! If she’s setting up for a sequel then I understand but otherwise I felt it ended in an odd way, I wanted to know if Link and Bess were told about the “same time next year” and all the mess that would come with it. I also wanted to know what Ursula thought of him going to Mallory’s side and if she won the election. There were just a lot of what ifs. But I did love it until the end. The writing style felt different than some of her other books and I loved that!
Sarah Williams says
I completely agree! I think she spent a smidge too long with some of the side characters, and then rushed the ending! Maybe she is setting up for a sequel though? I hope so, because it was a good read.
Megan says
I totally agree! This book had me until the very end. Was kind of disappointed in the abrupt ending, but thank goodness she gave us a little hope with Link and Bess. Hoping for a sequel but regardless of the ending it was still a top book for me
Ashley GJ says
YES! I absolutely LOVED this book but felt the end was rushed a bit as well! I wanted more. I really hope there is a sequel!
Emily Firko says
I loved 28 Summers too!! I loved the love that Jake and Mallory had for each other. I too had to put aside the fact that Jake was married. I was pulling for them to get together and stay together! My only complaint was I actually didn’t like the forward when we found out very early on that Mallory dies. I just think it was at the back of my mind the whole time I was reading the book, if that makes sense? Overall, I loved this book and couldn’t put it down!!
Melissa says
I agree!!! I just kept waiting for the death to come.
Jill says
Yes!! Me too. I couldn’t stop thinking about her death the entire way through the book.
Katie Cameron says
I read White Fragility and boy was it an eye opener. I keep recommending it to every white person I talk to. It’s so important to keep learning and growing even though it may be uncomfortable. I loved the discussion she had with the black man who said it would be revolutionary if he could tell a white person they said something offensive. I also loved how she said we think of racists as good or bad instead of recognizing our racist reactions/behaviors. This book was life changing!
Mix and Match Mama says
Yes!! That actually lead Andrew and his bestie into a great conversation. That right there. I’m so happy you read it too!
Laura says
If White Fragility stirred a desire to understand more, I encourage you to follow Dr. Lucretia Berry and her educational channel Brownicity. (Separate accounts) I’m currently taking her “What Lies Between Us” course. She starts from a place of love and is such a light, and, together with her husband, does an incredible job explaining not just racism as individuals but also institutional racism. She always ends the session with a beautiful prayer and you feel at the end of each session that your heart was open even wider to something really important.
Mix and Match Mama says
Thank you, thank you, thank you! Looking her up now!!
Carlin says
Me too! Thanks!
Chris says
Oh this is something that I love a point of learning to love one another in the way we need it. I love it and can’t wait to look her up!
Stacey Mazurek says
Shat, thank you for recommending “White Fragility” as a book club read. I learned so much reading it. Many times I had to put it down and really let the issues and information soak in. I realize that I live in a “bubble” and have so much to learn. I tried to get my book club to read it, but I was shot down. Good news is my daughter, who is a college professor, agreed to read it with me and we have been discussing the book, and other videos and podcasts regularly,
One issue I am having a hard time with is calling out blatant racism statements by my close friends. I am absolutely no expert but am sometimes shocked by the things that people around me say and write. Just yesterday I received the most horrible racist rant from someone that I consider a close friend. We have played tennis together for over 15 years and even attend the same church. It was actually appalling. I shared the text with my daughter as I was so shocked.
With her help I was able to craft a reply that I think was both kind and enlightening. But, I don’t want to be “that woman” that is always criticizing others. I am afraid I will lose my friendships.
Are any others having these issues?
Stacey Mazurek says
Whoops, dang auto correct – Shay
Mix and Match Mama says
I’ve been waiting for your comment, Stacey! I knew you read the book, and I’m so happy you’re participating today!!!
CarolineK says
I absolutely have had this problem. People I am close with, love and care about, when I point out something possibly hurtful in their statement, I am met with “why are you calling me racist?” I’m not calling you racist, but I am saying we all participate in racist actions that can be hurtful and add to the overall problem.
It is also hard because I’m only saying something because I know, In their heart, that they don’t want to be hurtful to someone. I believe in their ability to be better. But, the immediate jump to defensiveness is so hard.
But! We have to keep doing this, even if it is hard for us! It is our duty, especially now that we have identified this as a problem! Just know, your heart is in the right place and this is important. Good luck!
Steph says
I’ve been having these tough and uncomfortable conversations with people in my life as well and I think it’s super important we call out the racist behavior. And honestly if they have a problem with it it’s probably best you don’t have a racist in your life.
Kristin says
Yes! I read the book, and think I want to buy it. And How to Be An Anti-Racist by Dr. Kendi, which is also great. I have been shocked when my fil and mom both said things I would consider racist, because I know they don’t in any way think white people are superior to people of color. It’s so tricky to try to explain why what they are saying sounds racist to other people. I am trying to remember that it is kind of an honor to be corrected, because it means that person cares enough about you and your relationship to point out what you have said or done, but I don’t know how to instill that feeling in others.
Michelle Antunez says
Hey Shay,
I’m so glad so many people around the world are reading this book. I know you’re from a small town and so are many of your readers maybe I am the minority in here. I am Latina and from a huge city in Miami, Florida. I’ve been around different races my entire life. I moved to Charlotte and I experienced racism for the first time. At times it was blatant racism and other times it was like you had mentioned. You know they don’t have any hate in their heart however, it’s still offensive and comes off hurtful. With those people you do need to call out their behavior just like in any other situation. If they respond with how was that racist you explain it to them. If they don’t understand you set. a boundary example: I can’t control how you think, feel or what you say but please don’t say those things in front of me I would appreciate it.
Mix and Match Mama says
Thank you so much, Michelle for sharing this!
Rachel says
I am having that issue too! It is SO hard -SO SO HARD- to call out blatantly racist things that my loved ones have said. I ask God every day for courage to stand up for what is right, even if it puts me out of my comfort zone and makes me feel a little nervous. Each time I have done it (it’s only been 3 times that I’ve really gotten the courage to say something), I tell myself that I’m standing up for something bigger than myself and even though it is hard, the marginalized people I’m standing up for would appreciate it. It feels worth it, even when it is difficult.
Watching the news lately, educating myself, and reading White Fragility have been so eye opening. I’ve lived in such a bubble of privilege and wealth and ease. I will never look at the world the same way again, and I’m glad for that. I have vowed to make personal changes in my heart and home that I hope will have a larger impact on the community around me.
Thanks so much, Shay, and all other who read this book! We can make a difference!
Jayne says
Stacey, learning to be anti-racist can be lonely when those you spend the most time with aren’t there yet. Keep reading and learning. See if you can find a like-minded group of people that you can learn with – perhaps find a Be the Bridge group to join or check with a local indie bookstore or library to see if they know of a book club that is concentrating on racism. The deeper you dig into this work, the more comfortable you will be speaking up. Buy a copy of White Fragility for your friend and ask her if she would please read it. I sometimes have a hard time confronting people close to me as well, but I always regret it later if I don’t speak up. Sometimes doing what’s right costs us something, but I think that’s when we know we are truly changed and are walking the walk.
Stacey Mazurek says
Thanks for all of the suggestions, I will keep reading, listening, and learning.
Keisha Dawson says
Katie – I 100% agree with your views on this book. It was such an eye opener!
Sarah says
Thank you so much for suggesting this book! Are you planning on reading something on racial justice by a Black author soon? Maybe Latasha Morrison (Be The Bridge)? Super highly recommend!
Mix and Match Mama says
Yes! I have a list (all recs from you guys) that I’ll continue to work my way through.
Amber says
I also loved 28 Summers. The year recaps were a nice walk down memory lane. I loved the complexity of the relationships. My only sadness was I feel like Mallory didn’t have true love all those years. Like her brother, I felt like it wasn’t really true as she got it until 3 days a year. With the ending, it made me really think about making the most of our choices life.
Jenn Rogers says
Thank you for putting so much time into a book club! I have read all three fiction books, but have White Fragility still to go! My favorite was Beach Read of these three books. I loved learning the back story on each character and how their pain was reflected in how they saw life, this gave empathy to their story. The Elin Hilderbrand book had neat elements, I enjoyed the pop culture references each year, but I found myself really saddened by the premise of the book. I can’t imagine not marrying someone if you really loved them and then living your whole year for a few days with them and how this affected all the people in their lives. Girls of Summer was my first Nancy Thayer book and I did enjoy it, it was a sweet read.
I am currently making my way through The Color of Compromise by Jemar Tisby and it addresses the church’s complicity with racism throughout history. It’s been very eye opening, convicting and helpful – I’m realizing how one sided I have seen history. I’m grateful for how the Lord is opening my eyes!
And BTW, I LOVED Big Summer!!!
Mix and Match Mama says
Yay!! I’m so glad I picked it for next month then!!
Kristen Thompson says
I absolutely loved 28 Summers too! It was just different than the typical “beach read” and fresh. I also loved the beginnings of each chapter, it made me laugh to remember some of it and shocked how long ago some of the things happened!! I also loved the Girls of Summer. Totally agree with you with the title-never even thought of it until you mentioned it. I love how Nancy Thayer’s books just always leave me feeling good and happy!
Mix and Match Mama says
Me too!!! The little snippets at the beginning were so much fun to read!!
Brianna says
I liked Beach Read but felt the same at the end!! Like there was so much more with each of the character’s past (and that creepy cult) and at the end I felt like I needed to know more about that before the happy ending!
Eileen says
I agree 100% about Beach Read . . . it checked off all the boxes for a great chic lit book but was just “eh”. I also felt the same way about Girls of Summer. I loved it so much, but when it was over, I was still left wondering why it’s called “Girls of Summer”. I just finished Emily Giffin’s The Lies That Bind. So SO good!
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Trish says
I loved, loved, loved 28 Summers! I sobbed through the last couple of chapters over the story being told, but also at the thought of saying goodbye to all of these characters! I just didn’t want it to end.
I thought Beach Read was great. I liked their chemistry and the way they could challenge one another.
Girls of Summer-thank you for mentioning the title not matching the story. I thought the same thing! That read I struggled with. I am not sure why, though. Just felt kind of “eh” about it.
Mix and Match Mama says
Why was it titled that?! I am so glad I’m not the only one confused!!
Karen T. says
I thought that too about the title. I read the book while at the beach so it was a quick read and I enjoyed it
Caryn Lane says
That was my very first thought as I ended the book! Why in the world is that the title?
Mix and Match Mama says
Oh my gosh! I thought it was just me!!!
Lori says
This was my first Elin Hilderbrand novel and I’m now a fan (and have read another and ordered 2 more since). I appreciated the detail on the supporting characters and mainly that she didn’t make Ursula an obvious “villain”. At times I was rooting for her and thinking of the jerks Mallory and Jake were! Life and love isn’t black and white. All characters had their faults and made it more “real” and up to us to make decisions on their actions.
I thought Beach Read was just ok. Way too predictable with the ending. I guess for me I didn’t really like January as a character from the start and I always felt annoyed. Good idea for a book overalll, just wanted more unpredictability. Maybe that’s just the mood I’m in this summer!?
Can’t wait for next months reads!
Jessica says
Totally agree with you! I thought 28 Summers was fantastic, and so sad. Really reminds you that life is short and nothing is guaranteed.
This was my 3rd Nancy Thayer book and I’m just not a fan. The stories are cheesy and unbelievable to me, and the dialog just doesn’t seem natural.
I love the idea of the summer book club though, and like reading all of the different opinions!
Mix and Match Mama says
Okay, I’m going to have to agree about some of the dialog. I do catch myself thinking “people really don’t talk that way”.
Rayne says
I loved 28 Summers too! I especially loved the what we were talking about in each year, brought back fun memories!
Melissa O’Brien says
I agree with you about Beach Read. Halfway through the book I was excited about the possibilities and the direction the book would go. I really thought that more secrets might be revealed at the end too. The last half of the book was just a disappointment. I really wanted to like it.
Mix and Match Mama says
I had questions at the end! I hate that!
Katie says
I’ve been waiting to get 28 Summers at the library through my Kindle- I have 4 more weeks, so I’ll probably end my summer with it- ha! I did get Beach Read from hold and it was enjoy for me, but I really didn’t care for January. She just wasn’t very likable to me. She just made the littlest things of how Gus reacted huge (probably to keep the story going). I did really like Gus though, and also enjoyed how everything ended nice and tidy. I also liked how the novel title made sense in the end!
Not part of your list- but I also read Feels Like Falling this month and reallllly didn’t enjoy it! There was just not much to the plot for me. Two books I did love, however, are This Tender Land and The Lovely War. This Tender Land might be my favorite book this year. Happy Reading!
Mix and Match Mama says
Feels Like Falling didn’t have a very substantial plot. I thought the main characters’ relationship was unique, but yeah, the plot was pretty light.
Lori Brewster says
This Tender Land was so good!
Kathy says
If you loved This Tender Land you also might love Ordinary Grace by the same author. He is a beautiful writer and Ordinary grace is probably one of my favourite books of all time. I just loved it-the setting, the era it took place in, the characters-a beautiful book.
Amber H says
28 summers was my favorite too! I was so sad at the ending though. I wanted them to end up together.
Mix and Match Mama says
It helped me that she began the book in 2020!
Lauren says
I agree. KNOWING from the beginning really helped me not to be wrecked at the end. UGH, though. To miss your one great true love.
Shelley says
I LOVED 28 Summers!!!!!! Best book I have read in a long time. I have read all of Elin’s books like you and she is my favorite author and I think this is her BEST BOOK YET!
So funny that you brought up the real life thing too because just the other night, I had that conversation with a friend. I would never be ok with this in real life but in my book, I was rooting for them every year and didn’t mind it at all. That is why I love books…they are an escape and great entertainment. Loved loved loved this book.
Felt the same about Beach Read too. It was good but not the best book ever.
You need to read the Lies that Bind by Emily Griffin. Just finished that and would love to hear your thoughts on it. I really liked it but it warrants some discussion! Happy 4th!!!!!
Mix and Match Mama says
Emily Giffin’s is on my to do list too!! I loved everything about 28 Summers! I don’t know how she’s going to top that next year?!
Jane says
I think it’s wonderful that you are staring out by reading White Fragility. It probably feels safe because it’s written by a white woman for other white people. It’s a good starting place, but I recommend reading books about racism by people who have actually experienced racism. I recommend I’m Still Here by Austin Channing Brown or How to be An Antiracist by Ibram X. Kendi. These books are written by Black people and don’t “go easy” on us White people. They discuss what it’s like to experience racism in America first hand. I think at this point it’s important to elevate and amplify Black voices. I’m proud that you are taking the first step to being an ally but I encourage you step further outside your comfort zone and make it a point to diversify your bookshelf (or kindle because who reads physical books in 2020)
Mix and Match Mama says
I’m Still Here is on my list! I’m glad you recommend it too!
Kim says
I just finished I’m still here. It taught me so much. I have so much to learn.
Allena Gurley says
I was going to say the same thing – I have read a lot of criticism of the white community for reading a book written by a white woman who hasn’t experienced racism. It gave me pause because I read (and loved) White Fragility for the same reasons you mentioned, Shay. I never thought past ‘I’m not racist, I’m good’ and never realized all the racist thoughts I had or actions, etc. BUT I can totally see the other side – that we should really (like Jane said) be amplifying black voices. I’ve read a lot of books about racism by black authors that were also amazing – in addition to the ones mentioned above – Me and White Supremacy by Layla F. Saad (this is a 28-day journaling challenge), Biased by Jennifer L. Eberhart, The New Jim Crow by Michelle Alexander, Between the World and Me by Ta-Nehisi Coates (I also read a fictional book by him called The Water Dancer that was phenomenal), Ghettoside by Jill Leovy to name a few. I also started Stamped: A Remix by Ibram X. Kendi and Jason Reynolds with my son (who is 11) and also got This Book is Anti-Racist by Tiffany Jewel also to read with my son and older daughter (7). I think it’s wonderful that you are using your platform in this way because we have so much work to do!
Suzannah says
I would also add So You Want To Talk About Racism, as it was also written by a Black woman, and brings that perspective with it. It was written very well – succinct, doesn’t gloss over anything, but doesn’t belabor the point. I’ve also learned a lot by following these insta accounts: Rachel Cargle, and Here We Read (diverse books for kids).
Sarah Williams says
“I’m Still Here” was truly eye opening for me, and it was very well written! “How to be an Antiracist” is on my very long list!
Julie McMahan says
I loved reading 28 Summers but it also made me mad. Jake had the better deal, even though he was unhappy he held all the cards. He got to experience some happiness with Ursula and also go back to Mal every year. I wanted more for Mal- I wanted love and happiness for her, a husband who she loved (even if only sometimes and she kept up the Labor Day tradition). Also why didn’t he just leave his wife?! Two people in love who are meant to be together – it frustrated me ?
But I still loved it and would recommend it!
Mix and Match Mama says
YES! I will say, I kept thinking that too. He clearly didn’t love her (or even really like her!), and it wasn’t his political career in jeopardy, so I didn’t get that either. Why did they not just stay together that first Labor Day and never break up? I thought this often, but kept reminding myself it’s a “same time next year” romance so I had to shake that off. But YES, YES, YES!
Deborah D. says
I agree. I wanted so much more for Mallory because I really liked her character. I liked Jake, but found myself more frustrated with him than anything. I don’t think he was amazing in the fact that he was willing to let both women live the way they did, while he got to benefit from their sacrifices. I wanted him to make a choice. Overall, I did enjoy the book even though I don’t like the idea of the “same time next year.”
For “Girls of Summer,” I also think it needed a different title. It didn’t fit since one of the major story lines was about the son. I really liked it though and was rooting for the mom all along!
Robin says
I had those same questions over and over as I read the book! I felt like they BOTH gave up so much when they could have been together from the very start ! But Mal did lose out on so much more because of that one weekend a year! I just couldn’t get past that premise and the fact that she was going to die in the end! I love anything EH writes but this one wasn’t my favorite of hers .
Stacy says
I think maybe the reason he never left Ursula is because she was a link to his sister that passed away?
I did love this story though!
Mix and Match Mama says
Ohhhhhh!! Okay! Yes! She should have developed that story line a bit more. You’re right!
Sarina says
I got some backlash for reading White Fragility since it was a white author profiting off of race over black authors(Never thought about it like that, which is part of this journey to being a better person!) – so I am going to include “I am still here: Black dignity in a world made for Whiteness” in my July pile (Reese book club book for July!)
Beach read – I agree it was eh. I pictured Augustus as Timothee Chalamet! Anyone else?
Mix and Match Mama says
I’m glad I read it first because I think I would have been really disappointed had I saved it. I have a list of books to read in the future and will note I Am Still Here too!
Karen says
I love Hilderbrand too, and during the quarantine discovered her “series” books….the Paradise books and the season books (winter, fall, summer, spring). I LOVE a a series/sequel. Can’t wait for the next Paradise book to come out in Oct.
Mix and Match Mama says
This Christmas, you need to read her Winter Street series!
Brooke says
Speaking of Winter Street, I loved the nod to her previous characters-where she talked about a party at Winter Street Inn and the names of a couple of the boats were her previous titles. Very clever and fun to catch the cameo. While the book was mostly predictable/set up from the get go, Fray’s escapade, the way Bayer was woven into Ursulas storyline, the parents, all created a bit of uncomfortability that enticed me to read further and try to guess how that would impact the story. Very well written-I loved the book 28 Summers. Now to pick from the loads of other great suggestions!
Lauren says
ME TOO!!! Loved the nod to Winter Street.
Lisa De says
I thought 28 Summers was such a creative way to write another sweet love story. When the book started with Mallory in hospice, I read the whole book knowing what would happen at the end. I think that was a really good way for us to not be like “what the heck!?” At the end. In theory it would be so controversial to watch Jake chose his wife or Mallory. We could just enjoy a good love story without the angst of will she get the guy or won’t she. I was never offended by the “cheating” because it’s just a story, well written and so hard to put down!
Mix and Match Mama says
YES! You know I love a happy ending, but knowing that upfront really helped me at the end!
Melissa says
I read 28 summers and read the entire book in one day!! It was amazing!! I am officially obsessed with Elin and need to read all her books now!
I agree that in real life I would be veryyyy against all the cheating that goes on, I found myself cheering for Jake to leave his wife for Mallory and kept waiting for it to happen!! It was such a great concept for the book but the end left me in tears! I closed my book and my husband was just looking at me like what is wrong with you?! ?
I’m so glad I read this and will be trying to read both books this month and catch up on some older ones too!
Mix and Match Mama says
I’ve been obsessed with her for years!! Have you read Summer of 69? If not, read that one next!! Blue Bistro and The Identicals after that!!
Melissa says
I haven’t read any of those so I will be ordering them today!! ?
Maddie Boerema says
I loved Beach Read! It may be because I went to college in West Michigan where this book takes place or the fact that the author went to the same college as me. It was so fun to see her talk about things/places I went to in college but with a different name. There were times that i thought it could use some more substance or wasn’t going anywhere but I rated this a 4/5
Sarah Williams says
I actually really loved “Beach Read” as well! It was such a different type of story line, compared to the predictable ones that I sometimes read! I rated it a 4/5 just due to the language and rated R content…but other than that I really liked it.
Maddie says
I loved Beach Read! It may be because I went to college in West Michigan where this book takes place or the fact that the author went to the same college as me. It was so fun to see her talk about things/places I went to in college but with a different name. There were times that i thought it could use some more substance or wasn’t going anywhere but I rated this a 4/5
Mary says
So I read three of the four books, and I will just give quick thoughts on them…
White Fragility – I did not love that it was written by a white woman, but I actually love what you said about it. I have a while stack of books I am reading about antiracism right now (slowly making my way through them), and I have chosen to have the rest of my reading be from Black authors. I felt like it was problematic for me to have a white woman lecturing me (another white woman) about all the things I am doing wrong on behalf of Black people. But I do like what you say you took from it. I did learn a lot about systemic racism from her, and I am glad I read it, especially because so many other people are reading it. It just wasn’t the best book for me that I have read on this topic.
Girls of Summer – I agree that the title did not fit! But I love Nancy Thayer, and I look forward to her books every year. I thought that the age difference wasn’t as big a deal as the book made it out to be…so that got a little bit overdone for me. But I have never been to Nantucket, and I go there every summer in my mind thanks to her and our girl Elin. So this one was a win for me…her books always were.
28 Summers – Oh my goodness…this book! I agree that you have to suspend how okay you are with the concept. I mean, I read some reviews that mentioned that infidelity often factors into her books, and I don’t know how true that is (Maybe it is? My memory is not great for that kind of thing.), and the reviewers (like on Goodreads – not national reviewers) found that off-putting, and that is the case in this book, but the story was just so amazing. I loved those snippets at the beginning of each summer – sometimes I was like, “Wow, that happened in 2007? It feels like just last year!” about some of them. And I just cried at the end, even though it was very clear what was going to happen. I agree that a sequel could work. I loved UDG’s character…how you wanted to just be indifferent toward her, but then she would seem almost human, and then she would turn frosty again, and then she would redeem herself a little. And every time that guy Bayer showed up, I felt a cold wash of terror, like, “Oh, this isn’t good.” I love how she weaves such a complex story while still giving us a good strong love story. I just loved this book so much.
Mix and Match Mama says
I actually think infidelity is in all of her books. isn’t that weird? I really think it is! I’m so glad you read along with us this month!!! Have you read the books from next month’s list?
Mary says
I read The Hate U Give when it first came out, and Jennifer Weiner’s book is on my Kindle and ready to go! I will definitely be ready to participate!
Grier says
Hi shay! Have you ever read the book Z for Zachariah? It’s one of my all time favorites and I really think you would like it. 🙂
Also I know this is going to be a completely out of the blue question. I’m pregnant and we just found out it’s a girl!:) We have two other daughters named Pauline (polly) Grace and Riley Paige. We really like the first name rawlings for our next daughter but we don’t know if it’s too out of the box. Do you like the name rawlings for a girl? Also any middle name ideas? Do you think rawlings goes well with our other kids names? Our last name is McKoy. Thank you so so so much!
Mix and Match Mama says
I’ve never heard of that book before! Looking it up! Okay, I love their names already!!!! And why did I just say Rawlings Rae out loud? I did. I think it’s a keeper! Congrats!!
Grier says
Thank you! I LOVE that name combination so much! how did we not think of that! Thank you! Let me know if you end up reading that book! Do you think its something you might like? I also read 28 Summers and loved it!
Ellen says
Your girls’ names are darling. Can I toss out a couple of others that are maybe a little more harmonious with Polly and Riley? Caroline (nn Carly), Cecily, Susannah (Susie), Lucy, Margaret (Maggie)? Rawlings would make a great middle name.
Grier says
Awwww thank you so much! My husband And I went through your suggestions and we both LOVE Margaret! Thank you so much!
Laura says
Congrats Grier! I love YOUR name! I think Rawlings is super cute!!! I hope it’s ok to add to Ellen’s comment that something with an “e” or “ly” sound at the end would fit really beautifully with PolLY and RiLEY. Something like Rawley or Rowley (perhaps too close to Riley), or Brynley, Lily, Everly, Charly (short for Charlotte), Marly, Lakely, Milly, Kinsley, Madeley;). Can’t wait to hear what you decide for your sweet girl!
Liz Thorson says
I love one of the refs—Margaret (Maggie) Rawlings McKoy. I’m a retired teacher and I think parents always should think of the potential nicknames that might come from a name. I can’t think of any cute or fun nickname that Rawlings might generate, but I do like it as a middle name.
Angel Varney says
Well I’ve got to read white fragility. Sounds exactly like something I need because I too keep thinking-where are all these racist people and how is this a thing? But I too might just need my white eyes opened…..I’ll read!
And your comment about would I end my husbands life if he had the “same time next year” mentality ?? same here Shay. Same!
Mix and Match Mama says
End. It.
Melissa says
I love Love love 28 summers. I just couldn’t understand why they could never be together. Such a waste! And I had no idea the chicken box was a real place! Ha! And agree with girls of summer. It wasn’t about girls, lol. I like it but it was a little boring….I Had to keep Pushing myself to get through it. I thought the mom was a little boring.
Mix and Match Mama says
I didn’t understand why she was so concerned about the age difference when they were both so much older?
Taylor says
Yes, Beach Read was very “ehh” for me too. I even pre-ordered it because of all the hype it was getting and then I ended up forcing myself to finish it so I could move on to my next book. I just didn’t love the main characters. I think that was the problem for me.
KimW says
So funny! I did not at all enjoy 28 Summers! I love me some Elin Hilderbrand but not this one! I did not like the “same time next year” mentality and just thought it was not realistic or believable at all. I kept thinking no woman would be ok with this… I thought it was a bit predictable with the pregnancies… I only gave it 2 out of 5 stars on GoodReads. I areed with your thoughts about Beach Read and am looking forward to reading White Fragility!
Keri Brown says
I am also in the minority here. I did not like 28 Summers for the same reasons you said. Beach Read was so cheesy I quit halfway through. Girls of Summer was so boring to me. I haven’t gotten the chance to read White Fragility yet but hope to soon. I love Elin Hilderbrand novels but this one was a big disappointment for me. I don’t know why but I was just annoyed by the whole thing. I hated that I didn’t love any of the books bc I’m not really that picky with what I read for pleasure but these three were a no for me.
Arlene says
I agree completely. I love Elin but didn’t like this book. The premise was not great to start with and the failure to ever really address the consequences of Jake and Mallory’s choices drove me crazy.
Katie Smith says
Moti on the Water is another fabulous summer read! It’s quick, light, and pure chick lit with wonderful characters and a surprisingly deep understory. I think you’d like it!
Jess C says
I only had time to read the 3 beach books. My favorite of the 3 was Beach Read. I liked how it talked about what makes Chick Lit successful. That made me smile and picture a Hallmark movie (even though this book was rated R in my mind). There were a lot of witty moments. I also thought the ending was rushed and needed more information. But of the 3 it truly was a beach read. Light, fun, romantic, easy to read.
Girls of Summer was fine but it was hard to get through the beginning. It took so much backstory, skipping along, to get the real story started. I liked it, but I kept putting it down. I also did not understand the title. Girls of Summer didn’t fit.
As I read through these reviews I see I am one of the few who did not enjoy 28 Summers. I knew what the premise was and gave it a chance because it’s fiction. But I was unprepared to read such a downer book. The characters were unhappy with their lives but yet never fixed it. Mal tried but the men she was with never measured up. So why didn’t the main characters just give it a chance? He was unhappy with his girlfriend/wife. Why didn’t he seek the joy he was looking for out of life? This one was hard for me to read. I kept waiting to see if they made changes to make their lives better but they never did. I usually love her books but this one made me sad. They lived their lives based on a fear of failure.
KimW says
I agree!! 28 Summers was a downer – was not at all a romantic love story for me!
Tamra O says
I absolutely loved 28 Summers. It definitely put me on a roller coaster of emotions because I wanted Mallory and Jake to be together. I wanted Mallory to be loved. I kept saying, just stay there! Don’t go back! It made me happy and then sad. The ending made me sob. I hate that Mallory ends up dying but happy that Jake was able to be with her.
I kind of hope for a sequel to find out what happens but at the same time, I don’t want to know what happens without Mallory.
Allison says
White Fragility was so eye opening and important. I think it’s a great primer for white people to understand racism. Thank you for recommending it. I also recommend So You Want To Talk About Race. Ijeoma Oluo gives personal anecdotes to some of the concepts I learned in White Fragility. Also, she hits on Asian racism in America. I’m excited to see that you are reading The Hate U Give. As a more of a fiction reader, I really enjoyed it. The audiobook version was fantastic. And bonus-both these books are available (audio and ebook) no wait on library apps in July!
Erin says
I LOVE Elin Hilderbrand but this book didn’t leave me feeling the same as her others. I really liked it and every chapter had me curious for the next but the end just left me wanting more. I do get why she left it like that but I just wasn’t satisfied when the last page ended. I REALLY wanted them to be together. I DID love Ursula’s line “You make him happy, you know”…that hit me right in the feels. (But I am like you…that husband would NO LONGER be my husband. ZERO chance. Done and gone.)
The first 1/2 of Beach Read was slowwwwwww but I LOVED the last half. In fact, I stayed up super late finishing that last half and then went back the next day and reread the last 3 chapters. I truly enjoyed it.
Mix and Match Mama says
YES!!!!! It redeemed her in my eyes!!!
Missy K says
I loved 28 Summers! I have read all of Elin’s books, and enjoyed them all, but some more than others. Summer People is one of her older books that I really liked, Silver Girl was another good one and my absolute favorite is the first book of hers that I read, The Blue Bistro. That said, 28 Summers is right up there with Blue Bistro for me. Of course I would not be okay with the Same Time, Next Year situation in real life, but it made for a great book. I loved the way she wrote up the highlights for each year at the beginning. It did make me sad for Mallory and wish Jake would have left Ursula at some point. It also made me so sad for Linc and Cooper to lose Mallory too, and I would love to know what happens next. Hopefully a sequel. Still, sometimes the best books are where everything doesn’t get wrapped up in a picture perfect little package at the end. While I always enjoy the Nantucket setting and details with the Nancy Thayer books, they are sometimes just too simple in their conclusion. Everything works out for everyone – the end. I thought Girls of Summer was okay (agree title did not fit), but it was not my favorite of hers. I have been reading Human (kind) by Ashlee Eiland and it’s been eye opening. I want to read White Fragility and some of the others mentioned next. I’m reading Emily Giffin’s new book now, and already read Big Summer (it was very good!).
Sarah h says
You need to read Roses
Best book ever. You will love it.
Mix and Match Mama says
Who is the author?
Julie H says
Laila Meachum
Suzannah says
If she means the Roses that is part of a series (trilogy?) by Leila Meacham, they are all excellent. I can’t remember which is first. Long, intertwined family stories spanning generations, I believe set in Texas.
Mix and Match Mama says
Thank you!!!
Kris says
I think it might be Leila Meacham.
Tanya says
I have heard similar reviews for 28 Summers. I can’t wait to read it, and think I will be able to get over the same time next year issue even though I wouldn’t be ok with it in real life (obviously!) My favorite books from last month were Feels Like Falling and A Good Marriage.
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Malorie F says
I enjoyed 28 Summers and would completely recommend it, but I did find myself a few times wondering why some of the points and story lines were included. Seemed like fluff in between (a lot of UDG’s moments), I just wanted to get back to the main two. It was also hard to read wishing and hoping they could just end up together, but knowing it wasn’t going to be that way. I just love a happy ending!
Becky says
The only book I read was 28 Summers and LOVED it. I couldn’t put it down. Loved how each year started with the recap of the year. Loved how my team, the Buffalo Bills, was mentioned in 1993. The ending when everyone was visiting Mallory made me cry. I finished the book, and kept thinking about what would happen. Will the kids end up together? Will Jake stay with Ursala?
Becky says
Also- on Elin’s Hilderbrand’s Instagram she was asking if there was a movie for 28 Summers, who would play each character? You should ask that because it would be fun to imagine who would be Mallory, Jake, Ursala, etc.
Mix and Match Mama says
That’s a great idea!! I saw who she said (spot on with Ryan and Blake!). Who would everyone else pick??? Comment under here and tell us!
Hannah Boss says
Absolutely loved 28 Summers!!!! Would never ever be ok with it in real life but for the book it was great!! A sequel would be awesome.
I also enjoyed Girls of Summer- not as much as 28 but it was still good!!
I started Beach Reads but couldn’t get into it…. should I keep going?!?!
I also read Emily Giffins new book The Lies that Bind. I literally read it in 3 hours!
Still need to read White Fragility. Looking forward to next months reads!!
Erin says
YES! KEEP GOING! The first half was difficult to get through but I LOVED the 2nd half. Went back and read that half again the next day.
Tiffany says
The Hate You Give is a great book! I just finished the author’s latest book On the Come Up and loved it too. So glad you reviewed White Fragility, as it’s been on my list. I love your monthly book reviews!
Laurie Major says
I really enjoyed the first 3/4 of 28 Summers but the last 1/4 sort of ruined it. I did not love the politics that were thrown in unnecessarily. I read fiction to try and “escape” and this unfortunately took away from that. I listened to it on audible so I was able to fast forward but it didn’t add to the story and took away from the book as a whole. It started out really good! I love the characters and descriptions of Nantucket but it was a miss at the end for me. Thanks for the monthly reviews they are always very well done!
Betsy C says
I agree! The part about Kavanaugh really got to me. I didn’t think that she needed to throw in her own politic views, it wasn’t necessary at all.
Kristin says
I loved 28 Summers too but I hated that Mallory was willing to settle for one 72 hour period every year. Jake had a whole other “love” life because he did love both women. I feel Mallory was cheated because she did not.
I also read the Nancy Thayer and actually had the very same opinion regarding the title – the title had absolutely nothing to do with the book. I thought the book was a little too cheesy, cutesy and did not really like it.
Jennifer W says
Thanks for another great review and new suggestions! This is the first time I’ve read along with your suggestions and I’m glad I did.
I also loved 28 Summers, so far one of my favourite of the year. So I agree with their pact? Nope and my marriage would probably be over if either of us did that but still such an enjoyable read. I found this to be the most serious book I’ve read from her so far. I loved the beginning where she talked about the year because it brought me back to where I was then along with many memories.
Beach Read I enjoyed to. Looking back at my review I wrote a slow burn but picks up at the end. So not so much my favourite but a good beach hit and same with Nancy Thayer one. It was everything I’ve come to expect from her books. Fun, conflict, family and love!
I would recommend for you “The Happily Ever After Playlist”. Such a great follow up from The Friend Zone and there will be a third book soon too.
I’m excited to read Jennifer Weiners new one, already read THYG and it’s eye opening. Wish you’d recommend more! I’ll also be downloading The Heir Affair next week, can’t wait for that sequel!
Jami says
I LOVED 28 Summers. I think if you get past the infidelity it’s such a good book. Plus Jake’s wife wasn’t the easiest character, although she did have some redeeming qualities.
The Hate You Give is a great book. Also, have you read any Jodi Picoult? Small Great Things is wonderful.
Mix and Match Mama says
I haven’t, but it’s on my list!!!
Suzannah says
Yes! Small Great Things is great. Jodi Picoult does this thing where you learn the plot twist early on, but somehow you are hooked seeing how it will play out.
Aparna says
I agree about Beach Read…it checked all the boxes but in the end, it was okay, not something I really loved….high light of the book was the witty repartee between the both characters. And the setting of the book…wanted to live or at least vacation in a beach house after reading it! Haha. Haven’t read 28 summers yet, will definitely read that after Girls of summer, enjoying that one.
Other books I read and enjoyed in June are The Prenup, Bookish life of Nina hill, Colleen Oakley’s You were there too And J.T geissinger‘s Midnight valentine…the last one I really loved! If you like paranormal romance, you will love it!
Allena Gurley says
Yes on The Bookish Life of Nina Hill, I loved it! Similar theme (woman who owns a bookstore) is The Printed Letter Bookshop, I loved it too!
Susanne says
I recently read both of those and loved them!
Aparna says
Will check that one out ALlena
Debbie says
I did not love Girls of Summer. I usually love books by Nancy Thayer but this one didn’t do it for me. I can’t explain why exactly. I thought the characters all talking about spending their lives together and getting married so soon was very unrealistic and kind of ridiculous. I know it is fiction but it was way too over the top in that aspect. I also think it was a little boring. It did get better as it went along but it took me a while to really want to continue and invest in it. Too bad too as I was waiting for a book of hers to come out since I usually really enjoy them. That being said, I didn’t hate it but I wouldn’t rush out to read it. (Just my opinion).
Natalie says
I loved 28 Summers- as in I read it in almost a day while sitting on a beach❤ But it annoyed me that Jake had the better end of the deal. And the whole time I just wanted them to end up together. I was mad at Jake for getting married to Ursula in the first place! It didn’t seem like he even liked her at any point….so why???
Andrea B says
I may be wrong but I think it was because she was his twin sister’s best friend. I think he had had a deep down love for her from that. Still no reason to 1. Marry her 2. Stay with her
Callie says
I read White Fragility and Girls of Summer. I really enjoyed Girls of Summer but was also really confused by the title since there was Theo’s story in there as well.
While I was waiting to check out Girls of Summer I read Nantucket Sisters because it was available. I HAD to go read your review on it from a few years ago because it had some interesting plot lines. I read your review and thought “okay prepare for a quick ending” and man I did not prepare for THAT quick of an ending.
Lauren says
I am so glad your summer book club became a thing! It has given me something to feel apart of since my state still isn’t open and I’m stuck at home!
Beach Read: I enjoyed this book while I was reading it but looking back, I was like “that was a good book” but I couldn’t tell people why! Ha
Girls of Summer: I’m with you- the title didn’t really match the story line. This was also my first Nancy book so I hope the other ones are better because this one was just okay. It kind of bothered me that the main character was so hung up on her man being 10 years younger! I wanted to yell “love is love! Get over it” in her face!
28 Summers: love love love! I was hooked from the beginning and now want to spend a summer on Nantucket and I get why you and Andrew go there so much! I loved how characters were in both sides of the story and seeing how they dodged the questions was interesting as well. I do feel sorry for Mallory because she never got her guy. 3 days a year isn’t enough and it makes me want to take life and love by the horns and enjoy every second. I do hope there is a sequel, since the ending left it open for one.
And just an FYI- I do not condone this type of relationship!
Joanne says
I really enjoyed 28 Summers too but it did remind me of another book I had read– Same Beach Next Year; while the story lines were not identical in anyway I did find myself thinking of it often. I also liked Girls of Summer but had thought it was going to be about younger women or sisters or perhaps even best friends. I thought it was a good book but did wonder what was up with the title.
Erin Lloyd says
I’m so excited to read 28 Days. Have you read The Light We Lost? I’m at the lake and read it in one day yesterday! It was one of the best I’ve read in a long time! I looked back through your books to see if you had read it but I don’t think I saw it. It’s a must read!!
Mix and Match Mama says
Erin, I feel like I’m losing my mind. Have I read that book? I just looked it up on Amazon and am like “I think so, maybe not?”. I cannot remember?! I hope someone reminds me!
Sarah Lewis says
“Would I end my husband’s life if he had a same time next year relationship? Yep.” Laughed out loud because I’m almost done with the book and have thought the same thing so many times. ? Also thought the same thing about Girls of Summer. I got to the end and thought, “well that was a dumb title.” Can’t wait to read the next set of books!
Mix and Match Mama says
I’d be writing my blog posts each day from prison 😉 .
Theresa Childs says
I am loving your summer book club. 28 Summers was the best book. I loved it ! The snippets about what happen in the year of was great. I found myself trying to recall them all and what I was doing that year. Don’t care for the infidelity in real life for sure but it can make for great reading. Didn’t want the book to end and shed some tears in the last chapters. Hoping for a sequel that gives Bess & Link the greatest love of all !!!
Kim Fleming says
28 Summers was the best out of the three ChickLit I felt. I found it so ironic that because I have been married for 34 years to a wonderful man I still found cheering them to see each other that one time a year and I didn’t want anything to get in their way! Lol. I enjoyed hearing what was going on during each of those times in our past.Be treated I honestly didn’t even finish because I listened to that audible and it just didn’t grab me! Shay, I am book lover so this day every month is a day of “sunshine and blessings” for me so thank you for the book recommendations!! Take time to breathe over the weekend and enjoy family.
Elspeth says
I love the diversity of the books, some light, some serious, and of course some summer fun. I love your book review days! Thanks for sharing!
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Ashli says
28 Summers has stuck with me. Loved the SC reference. Put on sunscreen today after the ending! Also it was a beautiful reminder to me that everyone has a struggle to overcome.
Of course as a married woman I don’t approve of the affair, but it was an interesting perspective.
I miss the characters already!
Julie says
Favorite post of the month!! Dying for you to read The Happily Ever After Playlist and The Simple Wild. Please Shay!! Put me out of my misery! lol
Mix and Match Mama says
Mine too!!!!
Sara Wilder Bryant says
I loved White Fragility… one of the most important books I have read in a long time. I am currently reading “So you want to talk about race” by ijeoma Oluo and it is also incredible. I have been listening to the audio book and it’s easy to understand and really enjoyable because she uses personal situations to explain larger concepts. I like that she breaks down different larger concepts in each chapter (so one is called “so what is this school to prison pipeline” for example) and evening gets into racism that goes beyond the black community and the model minority myth. Highly recommend!
Mix and Match Mama says
It’s on my list to read!! I’m so glad you loved White Fragility too!
Sarah Nienhuis says
I read Beach Read and I think the book would have been great with another novel attached – same story- written entirely from Gus’ point of view. I kept wishing I knew exactly what he was thinking!
Andrea B says
What a great idea! I’d read that for sure!
Carlin says
I am reading White Fragility right now. It’s life changing, but, I am interested in reading a book from a POC perspective next. White Fragility has opened up great conversations with my husband and 17 year old daughter. I highly recommend it to anyone. Racism isn’t just about thinking “I don’t like black people”. It’s so much more, but people hear the term racism and immediately dismiss it because they don’t see themselves as racist. Such an important topic! We have to work to be better. Our children and our society deserve it.
Morgan says
I loved 28 Summers! I cried towards the end, and was so sad that it ended. It left me wanting more- what were Ursula’s thoughts on the ‘same time, next year’ motto? Did she win the election? Did Jake ever leave her once Mallory passed? What’s going to happen between Link and Bess? I cant wait for our July reads!
Mix and Match Mama says
SO MANY QUESTIONS!! Ha! YES!!
Andrea says
Okay here’s my thoughts on the three books I read…
1. Beach Read, I LOVED this one. I’m not sure if it was because I hadn’t read anything good in a while or it was the book but it was my favorite out of the three. I thought it was really cleaver. I loved the part when they went to the book club & the main character had “purse wine”.
2. 28 Summers, I liked it & wanted to love it. It made me sad. I wanted so much more for Mallory. I wanted her not to be sick. I wanted her to tell Jake to leave Ursula.
They are making a movie I believe! I am excited about it.
Elin is my favorite author & this just wasn’t one of my favorite of her books. I have a high standard for her books. did like the “what we were talking about” at the start of every year.
3. Girls of summer- least favorite out of the three. I couldn’t relate at all to the characters, didn’t feel like I bonded with them. It was good, but wasn’t great!
The title wasn’t right for the book at all.
I read read two other books, I highly recommend Emily Giffin’s “The Lies that Bind Us”, it was amazing!!!! I also liked Christina Lauren “Twice in a Blue Moon”, it was super easy chick read.
Jill says
I read 28 Summers and it’s been one of my favorite books from Elin ever!!! I don’t agree with the same time, next year thing in real life but I felt like Ursula’s character was so well done that it was easy to dislike her and justify Jake’s behavior. Of course, I would never think any woman deserves that in real life, but isn’t that what reading is great for? Sometimes a break from reality. ?
Shay, your book reviews are the highlight of my month. I LOVE your suggestions. Thank you!!❤️
Caitlin Beck says
I loved 28 Summers. I started my summer with that book and I couldn’t put it down. I loved Mallory and Jake together and agree that the ending left me hanging. I hope there is a sequel. I was rooting for Mallory and Jake to get together despite Jake being married. I have recommended it to a lot of other people. I’m reading Big Summer right now. Took me awhile to get into it, but I’m almost finished.
I have read The Hate You Give. Have you read All American Boys? I really enjoyed that book. It tells about an incident from a white male prospective and a black male prospective. It was written by two authors, Jason Reynolds and Brendan Kiely. I enjoyed it far better then The Hate You Give, however it is an older book.
Mix and Match Mama says
I haven’t read American Boys, but I think (correct me if I’m wrong) that’s another good one for kids?
Maggie S says
Shoot, I wish more people had read White Fragility! I was so looking forward to really discussing in-depth in the comments. I absolutely agree with some of the other commenters that it’s problematic to be reading a book about racism written by a white woman. However, I also agree that a lot of great anecdotes from DiAngelo’s work as a diversity educator really spoke to me. One big thing I’ve taken away in particular has been re-evaluating the media I’ve been consuming for the subtle ways in which BIPOCs are harmfully portrayed. I had always loved the movie The Blind Side, but after reading DiAngelo’s commentary I can see how little agency Michael Oher’s character was given in the film.
We (white people) are learning and growing. We are going to make mistakes. But I would rather make them, and learn from the experience, than to never push myself to grow. We have got to have these difficult conversations because, truly, the lives of our BIPOC friends and neighbors depend on it.
I love that The Hate U Give is included for the July book club! It’s a wonderful read. Along with continuing to read non-fiction, anti-racist books by black authors, I’ve been purposefully trying to diversify my fiction. If I can recommend one, Americanah by Chimamanda Ngozi Aditchie is beautiful. It’s definitely meatier than the typical chick-lit (and also rated R), but at the end of the day it’s a stunning love story. I couldn’t put it down! Even better, it addresses many of the microaggressions black people face. There are also rumors Lupita Nyong’o will soon be developing/starring in a mini-series based on the book. Truly can’t recommend it enough!
Thank you, Shay! I hope you have a great long weekend with your family!
Mix and Match Mama says
Thank you, Maggie! I hope you come back later today to read more comments!! I appreciate your feedback so much!!
Allena Gurley says
I read White Fragility a while back and, at the time, found it SO eye-opening but I agree with the newer information that I’ve been presented that it’s problematic that we are reading a book about racism written by a white woman. I have read 8-10 other books that are either directly about racism or other issues where racism plays a part (I just finished American Prison which was PHENOMENAL – it’s written by an investigative journalist who goes undercover as a Corrections Officer in a private prison and he also writes about the history of the prison system in American and SO much of it was about keeping black bodies in chains). I have also started buying books to read with my children (I have 3 so my older kids who are 7 and 11, I’m reading This Book is Anti-Racist and with my 11 year old Stamped: The Remix. For my littlest, she is 3, I bought Anti-Racist Baby which is a board book and we are also buying/checking out library books with diverse characters. I also now have a black Barbie for her and will be buying more diverse dolls.)
Abby says
We have always worked to have diverse dolls in our house as well! Love that!
Sara Wilder Bryant says
Americanah is one of my favorite books of all time!!!! There are truly no words to capture its beauty and strength and sadness and joy and pain… ALL THE FEELS. The perspective of someone coming to america from an African country where race has never been a thing and now being a fellow at an Ivy League (so much smarted than me!) and having to deal with racist thoughts and tendencies of Americans who have no idea that she is studying at an ivy and only see her for her skin tone. Truly incredible. One of those books that everyone should read in their lifetime.
Cyndi W. says
I loved White Fragility and love reading everyone’s take on it here. I have a bit of a different take on why read a white lady speak about anti-racism work. I think we need white people to out each other and ourselves. We have spent entire lives listening to inappropriate jokes/statements/thoughts while saying nothing and doing nothing. No one knows better the types of racism that we are hearing because some other white person thought we were “in” based on the color of our skin. And, she states the case perfectly – we are too defensive which keeps the racist structure in place! If no one moves…. Everyone is afraid to call out racism because our friends are fragile and want to believe in the good/bad binary. This perpetuates the racist structure.
I don’t believe that we should only read white people on anti-racism work and have read Ta Nehisi Coates Between the World and Me (also loved fiction The Water Dancer) and Aditchie’s Americanah and highly recommend both. I have Kendi’s book up next on Kindle and have had The Hate you Give on audible for a while.
We need all of us in this work of anti-racism, so please stumble and fall on occasion and have the courageous conversations. I’m like your previous post-er – what really stuck with me was the man at one of her diversity workshops saying if we could talk openly with white people about their racism/about racism in general it would be revolutionary. Let’s be revolutionary.
Thank you, Shay, for your book reviews and previous posts including your beautiful thoughts about racism.
Krista Steenbergen says
Hi Shay! I read your blog almost solely for the book reviews! I do love following your sweet family though! I am a reader and read about 10 books in June, many of them are past recommendations of yours. I am driven more by the hold list on my Kindle than anything! Ha! I read Summer Read and loved it because I had read so many heavy books leading up to this month. You are right in your assessment that it was just eh compared to most, but I kept picturing some hot actor as Augustus and it was a nice escape!
I also read White Fragility and it is a good starting place. I think her assessment of our mentality many times that “we are nice people so we are not racist.” is dead on. She put into perspective many things I had not considered. I have also read So You Want to Talk About Race and you will learn from it. I have read The Hate You Give and when you finish it, you might want to have Kensington read it too. I can’t remember what kind of teenage stuff is in there and it might be too grown up, I just can’t remember. I read it originally because my 14 year old brought it to me and said, “Mom, you really need to read this.” I’m always in when that happens!
The others on your list have not been available yet, but this month I also read In Five Years (a story about friendship disguised as a love story 4/5), American Spy (still not sure how I felt about this one, but kind of enjoyed it 3/5), Love You, Love You Not (enjoyed the light heartedness of this one and the ending for sure, nothing intellectual I assure you 4/5), American Dirt (Wow 5/5), Evvie Drake Starts Over (seemed to drag, but maybe because I was listening on audiobook 3/5), and the Slightly South of Simple trilogy (absolutely loved the escape of those 5/5!)
I ALWAYS look forward to your book reviews and hope you keep them coming. Also, we almost always agree, but sometimes I go ahead and read the ones you don’t like, just to see! HA!
I hope things settle down for you and your beautiful family soon. They will be grown before you know it!
Mix and Match Mama says
You are a reader!!! I love that you read In Five Years!! I LOVED that one!!
Kelly says
Unfollowing Candace Owens would be a huge step forward in the right direction in truly understanding systemic in racism.
Mix and Match Mama says
You know, I am doing that now! She is never in my feed, but when I make the concerted effort to seek out her feed, I don’t enjoy.
Kathy H says
That’s perfect. ?
Last month I read so many books I loved. Untamed ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ And so insightful. In Five Years ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️, Beach Road ⭐️⭐️⭐️1/2, A Good Neighborhood ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️1/2, This is How it Always Is ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
I’m waiting for 28 Summers on Libby and just put White Fragility on my list.
❤️
Kelly says
❤️ thanks for hearing it ❤️
Jennifer Baker says
Hi Shay,
I love that we are doing a book club this summer. I agree with you on Beach Read. I really wanted to love it but ended up just enjoying the characters and their dialogue. I am so grateful you pushed me to read White Fragility. I have had so many discussions since reading it and I have learned so much. I hope to only educate myself further and push my family to continue to have uncomfortable conversations. I have already read The Hate U Give as a friend of mine suggested it and I loved it. Can not wait to hear what you think!
Mix and Match Mama says
So many people have suggested it for my big kids, but I definitely want to read it first!
Ellen says
You should. It is very good and very important, but I think your kids are a little young for it.
Kelly says
I’ve read The Hate U Give, and while I think it’s an extremely powerful novel and one I definitely recommend I would highly recommend waiting for your kids to read it. There is a lot of strong language, violence, sexual content, and very mature themes that would not be appropriate for elementary kids. I’m a fifth grade teacher, and this is more of a junior high/high school level book in my opinion. Excited to hear your thoughts on it next month-
Andrea says
I guess I am in the minority because I really loved Beach Read. I also read 28 Summers and I liked it alot. Elin is one of my favorite authors however I hated that Mallory settled for that kind of a relationship. If you truly love someone, you should be with them. How do you share them with someone? I wish it had ended with them finally being together. I want happy endings when I read due to the current state of life. Ha! Thanks for doing this Shay. 🙂
Shannon Leyerle says
I agree with you – I loved Beach Read and the characters and the way their relationship grew. 28 Summers just made me sad because Mallory gave up so much for someone who woudn’t be with her.
Sarah Williams says
I read all 4 books (I am getting so much done in this pandemic!) and enjoyed all 4 (some more than others!) I actually really liked Beach Read-it was just so unique that I really enjoyed the plot! I didn’t enjoy the rated R-ness, but other than that it was really great! My least favorite book was Girls of Summer. I love Nancy Thayer, but this one just seemed extra extra cheesy to me, and was hard to get into. I really enjoyed 28 summers, but did feel that it was a smidge long in certain spots (with the side characters) and then the ending was rushed! I still enjoyed it though.
White Fragility was an informative read. I do agree that it was strange to have it written by a white woman-but with that being said, I still learned a lot. For example, I think that we, as white people, get so offended that anyone dare say that we are racist, but when she explains the definition of racism, that helped me understand the concept of being racist, so much better. We typically think of being racist as blatant, hateful, horrible things, but racism is actually just the concept of the white race being privileged over other races. And this privilege is baked into the very fabric of our country. It is unavoidable to be influenced by it. And it is so very true that we, as white people, can be so incredibly fragile when someone dares to say that we need to change. If you don’t believe that, just go look at facebook right now. So many people posting all manner of “I won’t apologize for being an American!” or “I won’t apologize for being white”, instead of pausing to ponder, and ask, “why are these things about me stirring up emotion?” or “How can I learn more about racism, to help change the problem?”.
Mix and Match Mama says
Pausing to ponder. I wonder how much change would happen if people would do just that?
Liz Thorson says
Spot on post, Sarah!
Sonia says
I thought the same thing about the title of girls of summer
Leslie S says
I enjoyed all three fiction books and I also read Big Summer. I liked all of them! I typically like historical fiction and don’t read much like these – but it was so much fun to have light hearted reads! I cannot recall the last time I read FOUR books in a month!! Going back through your old book reviews to look for some more light reads.. thanks for doing this Shay! I don’t know why but it was so motivating to have book recs “ahead of time”!! Would love if you continued that format.
Would also love some fiction recs from K and S… kids home all summer. Has K read Number the Stars? In my basket but can’t decide if it’s too much for 3rd grade?
Rachael says
I’m always sad to finish a Hildebrand, I wish there were an endless supply of her beach reads to fill up the summer!
I loved 28 Summers, and I agree with so many comments. I felt sad for Mallory at some points that she was living most of her life without companionship- it just sounds so lonely. But I love the concept of finding something that is such magic that it’s worth the sacrifice. However, I’m happy she let us know in the beginning about the death, I needed to be prepared for it.
I liked Beach Read enough, it was a light, fast read. But in the end I thought “meh”, I could take it or leave it. Still waiting for my Thayer to arrive, but Big Summer is so fantastic!
Mix and Match Mama says
I’m always sad too. xx
Julie says
I’m so with you, Shay! For ‘Beach Read’ I felt very MEH. At first I liked it. Then I got kind of bored? Then I liked the end. But agree it was “just okay.”
I’m in the middle of 28 Summers and I’m OBSESSED! It is wonderful. Everything I love about EH books. My husband and I actually watched “Same Time Next Year” as we were curious-it’s kind of funny! Have you seen it? And I LOLd about what you’d do to Andrew if he had a same time next year.
I really enjoyed “The Vanishing Half” by Brit Bennett if you’re looking for a great, well-written read that addresses racial tension. I heard they’re making it into a show too. I love reading then watching books!
I was wondering which book will be the first I read that mentions COVID and it turned out to be 28 Summers! Too funny right?
Anyway, love your book reviews and enjoy the time off for 4th of July 4th with your family!
Jan Maier says
Elin was finishing up the last editing of 28 Summers when she was at St. Johns during the start of the quarantine. I guess that’s when she wrote in Covid.
Kristin says
Shay I wanted to know when you read your books? Is it at the pool? The morning? etc. I tend to read at night, but then I get sleepy and just go to bed. I need suggestions! I am a teacher, so during the school year I’m not home until 4pm. Help!
Mix and Match Mama says
Right now, I almost exclusively read at night. During the school year, I’ll read while my kids are inside at dance (and I’m waiting) or at therapies, doctors appointments, etc, but right now, I’m reading a lot at night. If Andrew and I go to the pool together, we’ll both read, but if it’s just the kids and me, I don’t.
April says
Perfect! Loved the summary! Not sure if you read any books by Liane Moriarty but she is a fabulous writer!!! Not sure if you already read these books but their really good: Love Warrior, What Alice Forgot, The Hypnotist Love story, Miss Everything, Where the Crawdads Sings, Open Book, Truly Madly Guilty
Mix and Match Mama says
Yes!! I’ve loved many of her books!!
Michelle says
I didn’t get a chance to read White Fragility, but I will. I had the exact same thoughts on the other three books that you did! Beach Read was just okay. It took me a while to get into the book but wanted to finish it. I definitely would not be okay with “same time next year” in real life but loved it in the book! I agree about the title Girls of Summer. It just didn’t go with the story, but really enjoyed the book. So hope that there is a sequel and they have a real relationship but agree with you they probably won’t.
I am so glad that you are doing this book club! I already had one of the books for July in my online library to read, and just put the other one in there. Looking forward to reading them both.
Eryn M says
Oh Elin! I loved that book…28 Summers. By far, her best novel yet. Like you said, I loved how it tied everything from years past. It was just a very well written book. Makes me want to watch the movie Same Time Next Year. It also made me a bit sad. I just didn’t understand why they couldn’t be together. Why would Jake want to be in a commitment with someone he obviously didn’t love in the right way (Ursula)? I guess that’s why it’s fiction but I almost wish it would have wrapped up a little more nice and neat. There was a lot to digest in this novel. I found it one of her more “meatier” books. I loved it!
As for Girls of Summer, I enjoyed it because of all the things you mentioned…scenery, easy, not Rated R, etc. However, I don’t think I enjoyed the characters. I found some of them to be insecure, too forward, arrogant. Totally agree about the title, no clue how that makes sense.
I also read Abby Jiminez’s The Happily Ever After Playlist. It is Sloan’s story. She was Kristen’s friend in The Friend Zone. Really enjoyed that book. Definitely Rated R.
Kayla Bruce says
LOVE your book review days! One book that I am working through is Me and White Supremacy by Layla Saad. I would HIGHLY recommend it as a next step after White Fragility in terms of both recognizing and reflecting on the role that most of us with white privilege play in racist actions, societies, and policies, often without realizing we are even doing so. It’s a deep dive, but I think it is so important!
Amy Heinl says
I read 28 Summers and loved it. I thought it was one of best. She has been doing driving tours around Nantucket of places in her stories including this one which brought extra life to the stories. She also announced that a movie studio picked up the rights to book to be made into movie for next year.
I also read Ocean Boulevard by Mary Alice Monroe. This is part of a series which I love. The first book is The Beach House which Hallmarkmade into one of their Hallmark Hall of Famemovies 2 years ago. This book did not disappoint. She is my favorite author and I finished this book in one day and couldnt put it down. Her stories are so beautifully written and the characters are so well developed. I suggest you check her out. I also read The Floating Feldmansby Elyssa Friedland. This is a good summer pool/beach read. It’s a zany drama filled book with lots of hug tugging moments coupled with a lot of funny moments that will have you laughing outloud. The lead character is a woman celebrating her 70th birthday and she books a Cruise for her entire family who have not spent 24 hours together under the same roof in over a decade. You will enjoy all the “cruise” moments.
I am on vacation for 2 weeks in July and have a lot in que to read. Many are new releases for this month but this is my July stash: A week at the shorey Barbara Delinsky, The Bookshop at Waters End by Patti Callahan, The Winemakers Wife by Kristin Hammel (lots of buzz on this one), The Lost and Found Bookshop by Susan Wiggs (another wonderful writer) and A walk along the beach by Debbie Macomber.
Thanks for a other great review…I live them. Have a great day celebrating Samuel’s birthday and enjoy your family time over the 4th
Fawn Burns says
I LOVED 28 Summers! My friends are reading it now and when they are finished we are getting together to watch the 1978 movie, “Same Time Next Year!” So good!
Fawn Burns says
And YES on the sequel!
Kate says
I read three of the books – very much agree on Beach Read – it didn’t click with me and part of the reason is because I thought the main characters were only just sort of likable. And it didn’t really scream “Beachy” to me.
I had similar thoughts with Girls of Summer – I did enjoy the story but just didn’t love Lisa and the obsession with the age difference!
I did love 28 Summers – loved many things about it but was initially put off starting off with her death. I found myself thinking during the book – well this doesn’t matter too much because we already know she dies! I wanted more for her and I was really sad with the breakup with Scott. He was amazing for her, and to throw it all away when Jake was still out there living his life?!
Loved all the characters she developed in this one. I was super happy with the promise of love between Link and Bess, how great would a sequel be! (unless it was another same time next year!)
I LOVED Big Summer!
Just finished Stranger in the Lake – quick and engaging suspense mystery! Also like The Guest List – this one was filled with twists and turns!
Now I need another beach book!
Eileen says
I too read White Fragility this past month and sometimes I had to just put it down and think about what I read. We have so much to learn about racism but this book went a long way toward helping me do that. I worked in corporate America for 20+ years and managed a large department of entry level workers. As you can imagine there was diversity in both age and race. It was so challenging for me but I had to learn quickly how different the world view is for everyone. As their manager, I often used the phrase, “I am everyone’s manager not just yours.” This was especially helpful when my white employees felt they were asking to change too much. I can highly recommend the book- I’m Still Here: Black Dignity in a World Made for Whiteness. It is truly the BEST book I’ve ever read on how it feels to be a Black woman in today’s world! You will learn so much practical information on how you can change/adapt to coexist better in today’s world. So far it is my number 1 read of the year!! Thanks for allowing us to freely express our opinions about the books we read. Have a GREAT 4th and stay safe!!
Jaren says
I could’t agree more with all your reviews!! I thought the same thing myself about the title of Girls of Summer. And I ABSOLUTELY LOVED 28 Summers! I loved the historical recap at the beginning of each chapter and the “our girl” and “our boy” references!!! Such a great story!
I also just finished 100 Summers this morning. Oh my goodness, it was a good book! I just wanted to scream at the characters in the middle of it too! I couldn’t wait for them to get their act together! Can’t wait to read more by that author too!
Tonight, I will start The Perfect Couple by Elin H. Can’t wait!!
Jaren says
Have you read “The Alice Network?” Save it for the Fall if not because it is not a beach read. But it is my favorite book ever!
Jan says
I read 28 Summers so fast and then I was sad when it ended. I’m not sure it is my favorite Hilderbrand (I’ve read them all) but it ranks way up there. I’m also hoping for a sequel. I’m still waiting on my library reserve list for the Thayer book and am reading White Fragility now. I usually buy nonfiction for future reference purposes and, I read fiction from the library. I have the July choices on my reserve list, too.
Kay says
Hi Shay – I love your book reviews. All my recent reads have been by your advice and I’ve enjoyed them all. Makes it so much easier to find a good book. Random questions about your recent J Crew fashion posts – I’ve ordered a few of the tank tops/sleeveless tops from J Crew you recommended and like them, but the armholes are so big and some have the open back. What have you been putting under them – if you could link to that? Thanks and have a wonderful 4th of July. Love your house flag!!!
Lisa says
I am super grateful for your book reviews and ratings. I’m also super sensitive to offending God and reading anything with infidelity or that is questionable in that regard, so I truly appreciate everyone’s honesty and comments! We are all different in the way our conscience is formed so I like different perspectives.
Susanne says
Me too! I’m so glad to hear what books are about before I buy them, because I don’t want to spend money on something and then realize it’s a about a subject I choose not to read about.
Andrea says
I felt the same way!!
Girls of summer – I stopped and thought mid and most way through the book, wait how does this title correlate?? But I loved the story and loved reading it!!
28 summers – I read it and was loving it and then was about 2/3 the way through and thought I usually put books about affairs down but I think the way it started or something about the start or the book hooked me and I didn’t really realize what was going on and you knew what was gonna eventually happen at the end because of the beginning soooo idk it was totally different for me. What’s that saying … it’s weird but true?! I loved it and loved reading it. Flew through it.
Beach read – I mean I’m glad I read it I guess. I had read it before your thingy for June and felt the same way you described. And I stuck with the read because I paid $$ for it on my kindle and eventually was glad I did. Looking back it was good it was slow for me.
Big summer – I read in May. I flew through it. I hope you love it as much as I did!!! ♥️♥️
Sara Wilder Bryant says
Shay, do you have a Goodreads account? You can keep track of all the books you want to read, the ones you are currently reading, and your pst books with ratings and comments… the best part is you can share it with your “friends” so people can recommend books and such… would be a fun way to keep your book club going throughout yeh year! And helpful to remember all the books you have read and what you thought of them:)
Mix and Match Mama says
I do and I used to do a great job of keeping up, but I guess I just got lazy and haven’t used it in a long time.
Amanda Peterson says
Please read the new Emily Giffin novel this summer!
Robyn Gregory says
I also LOVE Elin Hilderbrand books and I LOVED 28 Summers. I was wishing it wouldn’t end! I love all of her books because of the settings, mostly in Nantucket (which is on my bucket list).
She is very detailed about the island and I love her reference to characters from some of her other novels! I also was left thinking there might be a sequel to this book with the kids. I sure hope so!
Katie says
I was so excited for the book club. I always love book review days and it was fun to read and see how we all think alike/different. I really enjoyed 28 Summers and Girls of Summer. Beach Read was ok but not a favorite. I just wish I was sitting on the beach while I was reading them. ?
Alexis deZayas says
Read The Guest List by Lucy Foley! One of my favorite thrillers I’ve ever read!
Alexandra C says
Hey Shay! I know blog comments are important for engagement numbers, but is there any chance we could do like a MMMama Book Club FB group to make discussion easier?
Mix and Match Mama says
I’ve thought about that, but for now, I really have to work at keeping up with my other two FB groups, so I don’t think I’m ready to add on one more. Perhaps in the future though!!
Hillary B. says
I loved 28 Summers but wasn’t fond of the chapter of Jake at all! I ended up having very little sympathy for him that he was unhappy most of his adult life. He should have been with Mallory!
On another note, it’s funny how you can hear a name once and then always think of that one specific person whenever you hear it again. With Link and Bess I could only think of Link from Grey’s Anatomy and Phyllis’ daughter from the Mary Tyler. Moore Show!
Leigh says
Beach Read I wanted to LOVE, but honestly, I really just didn’t like her that much. I felt like she was lucky he fell in love with her because well, she was kind of a beyotch. I felt like he was far more likable. I just kept wanting her to put on her big girl panties and get on with it. I also thought her recollections of her time with her parents just seemed all fabulous and they just glossed over the time her parents were separated. It’s a 2 1/2 out of 5 for me.
I am saving 28 Summers for 1 more week. Every summer I wait on the EH to signal the end of Summer mama and back to Teacher lady. (I snuck and watched Same Time Next Year at some point as a teenager when it was on tv and have loved it since! Now I’m going to have to go re-watch!)
Anna says
LOVED 28 summers! I was grateful that the book started in 2020 so I didn’t get my hopes up. I keep describing the book as “tragically sweet” to everyone i recommend it to. I also enjoyed the Quinn family references she added 🙂
Mix and Match Mama says
ME TOO!!! I’m so happy she started it in 2020!!
Melanie Fielder says
I just finished Big Summer and can’t wait to hear what you think about it, especially the fiancé! ? I’m definitely going to have to download 28 Summers. Love and look forward to your monthly book reviews!
Janet says
I was so excited for Elin Hildebrand’s new book this summer and I was not disappointed. Although I couldn’t have the annual relationship nor want my husband to have one, I didn’t think much of it in the book. I enjoyed the synopsis at the beginning of each chapter and was surprised at some of the memories it invoked in me. Like so many of you, I am hoping there is a sequel to this one.
I have purchased White Fragilty on my kinde, but, have not read it yet. So many times I have told myself that I am not racist and have even really worked hard to live up to that feeling, but, I know in many ways that I am. I hope by reading this book , I can learn how to better “stand up” for blacks and try to help alleviate some of the racism we have.
Thanks Shay for starting this for the summer. I love it!
Liz Thorson says
I’ve read and highly recommend The Hate You Give and so you want to talk about race. American Marriage, a fiction, is also a powerful, eye opener.
Kimberly says
I read Girls of Summer and Beach Read. I enjoyed them both but had a hard time believing the relationships happened so fast in Girls of Summer. I also read Party of Two by Jasmine Guillory. I love her books. I think this is the fifth where the characters intersect. Emily Giffins’ new book was good too. So many great books out this summer! Love your book reviews!
Mix and Match Mama says
I was wondering that about this book (whether it was a part of the others). I really like her too!!
Tanya says
I don’t think I’ve ever contributed on here, but love your book reviews and look forward to them and new suggestions. I just finished reading What the Wind Knows by Amy Harmon. It was fantastic! I actually got the recommendation last month off your comment section of your May book review. Historical fiction that takes place in Ireland during the civil war and present day….with a little twist. I think you would love it!
Anna Was says
Shay- I always love your book reviews because I find at least a book or 2 to add to my reading list. I decided to read all three of the chic lit books and need to add White Fragility to my list now.
Beach Read- like you, I liked it and only finished it because I started it.
Girls of Summer- loved the book but agree the title didn’t work for me either.
28 Summers- I love a good Elin book and this one did not disappoint. Being happily married, I did not like the “same time next year” piece but the story line drew me in none the less. I was so taken with how on point the information was on South Bend. That is where I live, so it added a neat little twist for me, especially since I live one block away from McKinley Elementary which is still an elementary school to this day! I hope there is a sequel about Linc and Bess.
Thanks for your reviews!
Mandy says
I can’t wait to read 28 Summers! I’ve read the preview at the end of Summer of 69 (my fav). I’m so curious though because I know the characters are named Mallory & Jake but on Amazon & all of the other ordering sites it says their names are Alice and Tom! Maybe it was a last minute change by Elin Hilderbrand?
Mix and Match Mama says
What? Really? I didn’t notice that! No way?!
Celeste Ball says
I read Beach Read & really enjoyed it. It was an easy read & I finished it in a little over 24 hours. It wasn’t a book I typically read so it was nice to try something new.
Lynn says
I may be the minority here but I hated Girls of Summer! Ha! Such a let down too because I love Nantucket and all books set there. (I love it so much we rented a house there in August). Anyway, I felt like the characters and the story were so forced. I am not sure if there wasn’t a conversation I didn’t roll my eyes for. No one talks like that, behaves like that, or thinks like that. Ugh I was so bummed. I liked Beach Read more and 28 Summers the best. 🙂
Add “How to be an Antiracist” by Ibram X. Kendi to your list too. It’s great.
Abby says
LOVED 28 Summers. Not something i’d be ok with in my own life, but in escaping in a book ——it was excellent. I grew to love Mallory and Jake SO MUCH.
You realllllly need to read Beatriz Williams new book, Her Last Flight. it was EXCELLENT.
Laura says
I think you will really like Big Summer. I read The Hate You Give a while ago but am going to re-read it for book club discussion next month 🙂 Have you read Passion on Park Avenue? It’s the first of a three part series set in New York – cute quick reads. I liked the first book better than the second and i’m going to read the third book this month. They were a nice easy read after reading Catch and Kill. That was an eye opening book about Harvey Weinstein and how he was able to get away with harming woman for years 🙁 Book review day is my favoritre!!
Elizabeth says
I love the book club and am following along!
Here’s the thing that bugged me about 28 Summers. I liked it overall, especially the recaps of each year. However. If Elin is going to list real (or close to real) stuff in the recaps, then why did she write the Kavendish part at the end like it was fiction?? That ruined the balance of real events/pop culture with fiction for me, and I didn’t care that much about Ursula’s rise to glory anyway.
April Lin says
Hi Shay –
A few book recommendations: Love Warrior, The Woman in the Window, Silent Patient, All the Missing Girls, The Perfect Stranger, She Comes Undone
Jennifer Baker says
I finally received my copy of 28 Summers and I read it in two days! Wow, Elin I feel like this was her best one yet. I loved the characters, the setting Nantucket as always but I love her food. I always finish her books encouraged to get in the kitchen and try some new recipes, and I feel hungry, ha!. I thought this one was great.
Laura Malley says
It is really exciting to see so many people reading and talking about White Fragility. (Thank you for encouraging us, Shay!)
A good friend told me to think about speaking to people about their racist comments or attitudes as an act of love – that you love that person enough to believe that they don’t want to stay in ignorance or hurtfulness.
That framing has helped me when it is difficult for me to confront racist words and actions in the moment.
For readers who are concerned about White Fragility being written by a white woman, DiAngelo addresses this in her reader’s guide. She writes:
“This book and its arguments build on antiracism scholarship and activism that people of color have written for generations. That scholarship has been fundamental to the ability of the author to explicate white fragility. Use this text as the starting point – rather than the ending point – to educate yourself on racism. There are many suggestions for engaging with the work of people of color in the Resources for Continuing Education section of the book.
The primary goal for white people working to understand racism is not to learn how racism impacts people of color. The primary goal is to recognize how the system of racism shapes our lives, how we uphold that system, and how we might interrupt it.”
I agree that it is imperative that we read and learn from people of color, but it is also valuable to learn from a white perspective the ways we encounter and uphold racism each day. Only when we see it through our own eyes and actions (or inactions) can we begin to work to dismantle it.
Hayden T. says
The Gospel can change a heart. Even a racist heart. If we are taught to reject sinners (“they’re evil and they can’t be changed!”) how can we call ourselves Christians? Jesus didn’t come for the healthy but for the sick!
Dana says
Was finally able to finish 28 Summers and I’m going against the popular vote but I was disappointed with this book…I am a HUGE Elin fan and love and look forward to her books, but I just didn’t care for this one!! I wanted so much more for Mallory and I felt Jake was weak for staying with Ursula who clearly did not love him! I felt the reason of the connection to his sister with Ursula wasn’t strong enough to give up his happiness and stay in a loveless marriage when he and Mallory could’ve been together! And I REALLY did not like the insertion of what felt like her personal political views especially the thinly veiled digs at the Kavanaugh confirmation (even though she slightly changed the name ?) was totally unnecessary and added nothing to the story line! I want a total escape from politics in my beach read!! I will always read Elin books because she is one of my very fave authors but this was not my fave ?
Stacey says
I think White Fragility is a good place to start..but I have found that I learn more from others that have experienced racism personally. I’m reading Be The Bridge by Latasha Morrison right now and I like that it is coming from a Christian Black woman’s perspective. Highly recommend..she recommends as a starting place to understand the truth of history. This has really helped me so much and I’ve learned a lot from reading fiction by diverse authors. Many of my faves have been mentioned but here’s a few that were not only beautifully written but are from my perspective..heart changing as well.
Home going-Yaa Gyasi, An American Marriage-Tayari Jones, Americanah-Adichie, Between the World and Me-Ta-Nehisi Coates, and Sing, Unburied, Sing-loved this on audio- Jesmyn Ward. I’ve challenged myself to read at least one book a month from a non white author and this has really broadened my horizons so much. Thanks so much Shay for all your great recommendations!
Daw says
I read three of the four so far (I’m still waiting on White Fragility and may read it with my church small group). I agree with you on most of your opinions. I wanted to like Beach Read but just wanted it to be over-I wanted to know more about the minor characters than the two main ones. I loved 28 Summers-I cried with them, felt sad and frustrated for them but at the same time felt their love. Girls of Summer-I liked the book but hated the title! It didn’t make sense to me. Happy Reading!
Colleen T says
Read White Fragility and it was a great topic and information. However, I felt it was a bit long for a book. I thought the examples were redundant and it would have been a great long essay. A completely different but eye opening book that I found much more interesting as a book is Just Mercy by Bryan Stevenson. Must read if you haven’t. It gives facts and true life but also is a great read that keeps your interest. Highly highly recommend it.
I followed up with 28 Summers because needed a light book and really appreciated your disclaimer about just letting the “same time next year” go on and not think too much about it (judgement wise). Loved the book. The characters were interesting and loved everything you said about it, the different scenery, the updates about their lives from a narrator at time or their first hand view. Loved the side characters giving their little updates. I’m a little confused though because you want a sequel but one of the main characters at the end had a pretty final situation going on. Did you mean a sequel for the children? Love Elin Hilderbrand books and have YOU to thank for introducing me to her. Thank you!
Mix and Match Mama says
Yes!! For the kids! I would love a book about their two kids.