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Fifty Two Shades of Shay: Daily Quiet Time


I get asked a lot, what does a “quiet time” look like?  As Christians, “quiet time” is a phrase that has been coined to mean that time in our day when we sit down to pray and read the Bible.  This is totally a Shade of Shay since I do start each and every day with my quiet time.
Here’s how I got started…
When I was 15 years old, I had a fabulous youth minister named Todd tell me (and the other students) over and over again that the only way to deepen and strengthen our faith was to make sure we were spending quiet time with Jesus every day.  I’m constantly talking to God.  Constantly.  But every morning when I get up, I set aside a few precious minutes to really sit in the quiet and pray, read my Bible, read some other devotional books and thoughtfully and purposely prepare for my day ahead while chattin’ with the Lord (and chatting with the Lord is just praying).
And this morning quiet time is one of the best moments in my day.
Listen, some mornings, I just have 2 minutes…some morning, I have more like 20.  There isn’t a wrong or right amount of time.  It’s just a conscious effort to make sure I have my priorities straight and my heart in the right direction before I set out for my day.  This is also such a valuable time to read the Bible and really hear what God says about you and your life.  Reading the Bible will change your life more than anything else in this world.
Here is what I personally do (and again, this is just me…since this is my shade)…
1. I read my Bible.
Right now, I’m reading through the New Testament along with reading one Proverb a day.  I read and think about how the verses can apply to my own life.  I also take notes in a little notebook of scripture or phrases that really stick out to me personally.  
2. I pray.
I’m of the faith that prayer does not have to be perfect.  Prayer does not have to be uniform.  Prayer is just me pouring out my heart to the Lord, praying for others in need, praying for myself and my family, repenting from all of the crappy choices I make in life, thanking God for everything he does for me (even the hard days when I know my life is being strengthened through adverse circumstances) and just sitting in the stillness and reflecting.  
I’ve learned that praying is not hard…it’s setting aside the time that usually is.  I really encourage you to pray.
3. I read books by Christian authors.
Reading a book does not in any way, shape or form take away from me reading my Bible.  The Bible is the way, the truth and the light…a book by a great Christian author about a specific topic is just a nice little addition but it’s not a supplement.  That being said, I always enjoy reading a little at the end of my quiet time about certain topics.  Lately, my books have all been around parenting.  I’ll read a chapter or so for motivation and encouragement…or just to learn or maybe laugh.  This kind of reading just rounds out those quiet minutes in my morning.
Here are some of the books I’ve read so far this year during my quiet times…
Not a Fan by Kyle Idleman
The Insanity of God by Nik Ripken
The Antelope in the Living Room by Melanie Shankle
Bringing up Girls by Dr. James Dobson
Bringing up Boys by Dr. James Dobson
God is Able by Priscilla Shirer
Raising a Princess by John Croyle
All of these books either motivated my faith, encouraged my faith, strengthened my faith, or maybe just gave me the kind of laugh I needed to start my crazy day.  I love them all for different reasons.
So there you have it…if you ever wonder why I wake up so stinkin’ early, one reason is to set aside a few minutes for my quiet time.  If you don’t think you could ever be a morning person, you should read this Shade of Shay here :).  You can be.  You will love how peaceful your days can begin with just a few extra minutes.
I highly, highly, highly recommend doing a quiet time at the beginning of the day instead of at the end of the day.  Start your day with Jesus.  Start your day on the right track…don’t wait until the end of the day to do clean-up work…begin your day in the quiet.  I promise you…you will find so much peace throughout your day if you start it off this way.
And yes…I drink coffee during my quiet time…it just makes it even that much better :).
This is my quiet time every morning…at my desk with my coffee, my Bible, my book, my notebook and my pen.
Two weeks ago, I mentioned on my blog how I was reading John Croyle’s Raising a Princess and the nice people at his publishing house, reached out to me and said they would love to give away three copies of the book to my readers.  A very nice and unexpected surprise for you and me!
Today only, I’ll be giving away three copies…just enter the Rafflecopter below and the winners will be announced tomorrow!  
On the foodie blog today…
…my simple Hawaiian BBQ Chicken Burritos.  Yum!
And then winner of our Mother’s Day Giveaway is…
Congratulations Amy!
Happy Tuesday everyone!
a Rafflecopter giveaway

The winners of the Raising a Princess book giveaway are…

Shirley (email address has the numbers 1215 in it)
Rachel Dunn-Rankin
Carol Marshall

Congratulations ladies!!  I have emailed all three of you about receiving your prize!  Please email me back within 5 days to receive your book.

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Comments

  2. Jenn says

    This looks like a great read! Shay-I LOVE your blog! I look forward to reading it each weekday morning.
    Jenn

  3. Jennifer Cannon says

    We teach the teens sunday school class and we always always always encourage them to find their quiet space and talk with God. Your day really is that much better.

    Loved this post!

    Xoxo
    Jennifer

  4. Gucci Girl says

    Thanks for your insight on this today. You and your blog have inspired me to wake up earlier lately and this time alone in the morning has cleared my head and improved my daily life in a way that nothing else can. It is always encouraging to hear that other women out there are praying and reading, too! Looking forward to reading comments from more women who do the same. Thanks again!

  5. Deanna Wlliams says

    My perfect morning is waking up to go walk with 3 other ladies, come home and have my quiet time with God, and then wake up my daughter for school.

  6. Anonymous says

    I love this! I always say I'm having my coffee time with Jesus every day. We sit in the dining room and chat over a cup of coffee:)

  12. Sheaffer {Pinterest Told Me To} says

    Awesome encouragement today on quiet time! I needed to hear all of this!

  17. Kim Pintar says

    Your blog is a part of my quiet time….I just love that you love our Lord. Happy Tuesday!!!

  20. Coreline Mayfield says

    Great blog spot this morning, I have gotten lax in my morning quiet time. Trying to squeeze it in elsewhere, but it's just not the same. This was a good reminder to re-prioritize. Thanks 🙂

  22. lisamcmil says

    I have loved becoming a morning person. It's so nice having that time before the real day starts.

  28. Jennifer Kensey says

    Great way to start your morning! I have identical 3 year old princesses and that book could come in handy!

  29. Jennifer Kensey says

    Great way to start your day! I have identical 3 year old twin princesses and that book could come in handy!

  30. Natalie says

    Thanks for the encouragement! I just started Proverbs and have really been enjoying it.

  34. Once Upon A Time The Story Goes... says

    As the mom of a toddler girl, we are now approaching the discipline stage. I'm finding that biblical parenting/disciplining books are really helping my husband and I prepare how to raise/discipline our daughter. I would love to have a copy of this book!

  36. Misty Flynt says

    What an encouragement the post it. I am a morning person yet I don't find myself starting the day off with Jesus like I should. Thanks for the post and the motivation.

  37. Jessie says

    I've recently started getting up an hour earlier, but I'm having trouble organizing my time! Thanks for the encouragement!

  39. Hello Fabulous says

    Great post! This is a 'shade' I struggle with right now having a two month old daughter, however reading this made me realize I don't have to wait until she is sleeping more consistently to have quiet time, there are plenty of opportunities when someone naps as well 🙂 thank you!

  40. Susan says

    I have a friend who is having a baby and it's a girl. I'd love to give her a copy of the book.

  42. Susan says

    I have a friend who is having a baby and it's a girl. I'd love to give her a copy of the book.

  45. Hello Fabulous says

    Great post! I often find myself struggling with this 'shade' lately while tending to my two month old daughter. However reading this made me realize I don't have to wait until she sleeps more consistently, I can find some quiet time when she naps as well 🙂 thank you!

  47. Jean Newfield says

    Thanks for giving practical tips to help women make time for Jesus each day!

  50. Dancing Through The Storms says

    Trying again to leave a comment. Thank you for sharing how you do quiet time. 🙂 Also thanks for sharing a list of books you read. I never thought about do a Proverb a day. What a great idea. What a huge bless the publishing company gave you. 🙂
    Christene
    christene.amy.rowland@gmail.com

  52. Dancing Through The Storms says

    Trying again to leave a comment. Thank you for sharing how you do quiet time. 🙂 Also thanks for sharing a list of books you read. I never thought about do a Proverb a day. What a great idea. What a huge bless the publishing company gave you.
    Christene
    christene.amy.rowland@gmail.com

  55. Andrea says

    I love this! I have been doing this for a while, and it's the best time. At night I was just so tired, I couldn't concentrate. In the afternoon I felt rushed to hurry and do things before Ethan woke up from his nap. The morning allows me to spend time with Jesus without any distractions!

  59. Ashley Miller says

    Thank you for posting the books you've read! Been looking for good, Christian books lately. Can't wait to check them out!!!! Love this Shade of Shay! 🙂

  63. Miranda Clawson says

    I love all the inspiration you give all the ladies that follow you! You always give great insight on everyday situations and this couldn't have came at a better time for me 🙂

  65. Erin A says

    I started reading your blog every morning while I enjoy my cup of coffee. It is something I look forward to. I have a 2 year old daughter and this sounds like a great book to read!

  66. Anonymous says

    Look forward to your posts every morning:) Still working on getting up before the kids- which is early:)Would love to read this book!

    Thanks,

    Steph Paul

  70. Christy says

    Sometimes my quiet time is when I'm alone, driving down the road. I know people probably look over at me and think I'm crazy. LOL, but that's okay. Thanks for the book recommendations.

  71. Hilary Jose says

    Thanks for sharing. I would LOVE to win this book, as a mom of an almost 2 year old princess! I do the same, but I find I personally focus better at night after my daughter is in bed. In the mornings my time gets cut short because the day has to get started. At night-time I can stay up late for the Lord & I just try to keep the thoughts for the next morning 🙂

  75. Erica Laramee says

    I've been doing quiet times since I was 15 also! I drink tea, not coffee, but it doesn't matter, does it! 🙂
    Looks like a great book. Thanks for the give-away.

  76. Alisha says

    Need this book! I have a 2 year old daughter that I hope to point to Jesus everyday.

  78. The Boutelle Family says

    I love this! Always helpful to hear what other people do during their quiet times. I would love to win a copy of that book for guidance as I raise my two little girls! Thanks for your blog – I always really enjoy it!

  79. Jennifer says

    I admire your ability to set that time aside in the morning- I am so not a morning person, but am trying all the time to change that! Thanks for sharing!!!

  80. Ashlea Gunn says

    I usually have my quiet time at night, but this post really makes me want to try and start my day where my heart belongs 🙂

  81. Ashlea Gunn says

    I usually have my quiet time at night, but this post really makes me want to try and start my day where my heart belongs 🙂

  85. Heather McCaskill says

    Would love to have this book as guidance in raising my two princesses. Love your blog.

  86. Laura says

    No daughters yet for me.. But I'd love a copy of that book to teach my someday baby girl. 🙂

  87. A. Tran says

    I'm raising a beautiful, sweet baby girl and would love this book for inspiration.

  90. Anonymous says

    Thanks for sharing your faith and some of the books that help you along in your walk with Him. LOVED this post!!!
    ~K. Cramer

  92. Tiffany says

    I would love to start reading some books on raising girls since I have two of them!

  93. Karen says

    Thanks for sharing your morning routine!! I have 2 princesses and would love to read this book!

  94. Elizabeth Conner says

    I've heard such great things about this book! Would love to add it to my morning quit time!

  96. The Donley's says

    We are hitting a tough twos patch and I would love a book to encourage me and my princess!!

    My quiet time is much like yours!!

  97. MommyWilcox says

    Blessed to experience the best of both worlds and have the chance and challenge to raise one princess and two little princes.

  98. Katrina Goodman says

    I bought the book after I saw your post. I have a friend who is having a girl and I would give it to her!

  100. Kristal {The Strong Family} says

    I, too, wake up early to specifically set aside time to spend with The Lord. It's a complete game changer for my day & something I look forward to every morning.

  101. Anonymous says

    Thanks for sharing your wisdom and insight as a mama and a believer. And for sharing the books 🙂

  102. Anonymous says

    I love your blogs for so many reasons, but knowing that you are shining your light for Jesus is at the top. I am praying for you and your family right now!!
    Erin

  106. Amy says

    Thanks for sharing, I love to read a book along with my devotion each morning. Another great one right now is Hands Free Mama!! So good!

  108. Katie L says

    I am definitely raising a princess and would love some Godly wisdom about how to do it.

  112. Michelle Nobbe says

    I use to do my quiet time in the evening and switch to the mornings. It is so nice starting the day with Jesus!

  113. HTfamily says

    I have one daughter along with 4 wonderful boys. I'd love to learn more about raising my daughter in a Godly way.

  114. Katy says

    I do the same thing. I enjoy getting up early for my quiet time before my day starts.

  117. stacey jones says

    Good Christian books are always a must! My baby girl is 8 months and I fear about her growing up in this crazy world everyday

  118. meg says

    Fun! I have been wanting to get one of the parenting books you have recommended, so this would be awesome!

  119. Angela Ellingson says

    Just another reason why you inspire me. Thanks for the encouragement and reminder.

  126. Jessica Bridges says

    Thank you for your encouragement! I read your blog daily and always enjoy your perspective. Blessings in the weeks ahead as you transition to your new home!

  128. Cathy and Marshall says

    Love waking up early and having time to focus on what's ahead and what's in my heart. Thanks for the book suggestions!

  129. Cathy F says

    Hi Shay
    Having my quiet time in the morning is something I struggle with, but really want to be consistant. Thanks for the encouragement.
    Cathy F

  130. Kim says

    Love your blog. This is such good advice on the blog today.. Would love the win the book..

  132. Stevie says

    Raising two little princesses of my own, I'm sure this book could offer insight and inspiration into the lives of my girls.

  133. Linda says

    I agree. It helps to start the day with a quiet time. Would love to read this book.

  135. Kimberly says

    Thank you for this shade!! I'm learning quiet time in morning is so beneficial!! Love your blog!

  137. Karen Schmitt says

    Love this! I'm a morning person, but this inspires me to be more purposeful with my quiet time. And, I'm raising two princesses–I'd love to read this book!

  138. Meghan Glidden says

    Really want this book, I've heard GREAT things 🙂 You are inspiring and make me want to be more consistent with my quiet time!

  143. Erica Ladwig says

    Thank you for including this as a "Shade of Shay" on your blog. It is a great encouragement to many of us, and the book looks great! 🙂

  144. Tanya says

    Oh so sweet of you! I would love to be entered! I think I would give it to my daugther who is raising my Princess Granddaughter! :0)

  145. Tanya says

    Oh so sweet of you! I would love to be entered! I think I would give it to my daugther who is raising my Princess Granddaughter! :0)

  150. Kathy Olson says

    Hi! Thanks so much for the giveaway! I would give this as a gift to a new mom.

  154. Abatha Boyle says

    Thanks for sharing about your quiet time – helps me to realize it doesn't have to be perfect every day.

  155. Tara Long says

    I enjoy reading your blog and my daughter is 10, I'm sure I could learn from reading this book.
    Thanks!

  157. Lisa Iwasyk says

    If I don't win this book, I will be purchasing 3 copies! One for me, on for my sister, who just had her 3rd little girl, one for m brother, who has 2 of his own! Thank you shay! Your blog is wonderful, I start each day reading them! After m heart to heart with The Lord!

  159. Grace Beacham says

    Aww I love this! I start each day the exact same. I cup of coffee and some time with Jesus. This is perfect.

  160. Dana says

    Fabulous post, Shay! I have three little princesses and have been wanting to buy this book. Will get have to get both Raising a Princesses and Bringing Up Girls!

  161. Christy @ The Swafford Spot says

    Hi Shay! This is such an encouraging post and one that everyone should read. Thanks for sharing!

  162. Sarah H. says

    Loved the post today! I agree that starting your day with Jesus gets you in the right mindset to tackle the rest of the day. I would love to win the book!

  166. Becky Bullock says

    I was just looking for a new Christian book to read – copied down this link. Thank you!

  168. Jaclyn N says

    Thanks for reminding me I need to get back on track with my quiet time. With 3 young girls in my house, I think I really need to read this book!

  169. Lindsay Llambes says

    Thanks for sharing! I have to leave the house at 6 for work so I haven't ever gotten up earlier than absolutely necessary. I may have to try after reading this!

  170. Anonymous says

    Thank you for sharing this Shade of Shay – this is something that I continuously resolve to initiate in a more consistent way and continuously fail to keep up with. I have a 4 and 1 year old at home and one on the way so mornings can be crazy – this is good motivation to just get up a few minutes before those kiddos to start my day off with God right!

  173. The Mommy says

    We are reading through Sheila Walsh's manners book for girls about being God's little princess. It has been such a nice addition to our Gigi books, so this looks like a great book for me!

  175. Heather Miller says

    I love reading your blog and the monday meal planning! This is such a great way to reach out to others especially mama's raising princesses. Thank you!
    Heather

  178. Rachel Brown says

    Great Shade of Shay! Thank you for sharing the books you've been reading, I will have to pick one up 🙂 have a blessed day.

  180. Hillary says

    Loving the blog and my family has been loving the recipes! I would love to read Dr. Dobson's books on raising boys and girls – thanks for the suggestions!

  182. heather.m.herron@gmail.com says

    Would love to read this book!! Thanks for sharing your heart!!

  184. heather.m.herron@gmail.com says

    I would love to read this book!! Thanks for sharing your heart!!

  186. Sa-Rawr! says

    Happy Tuesday!! I think I'm going to need to visit your post on being a morning person!

  192. Sarah Guedry says

    Shay- I love this post. Acutally, I love them all but this one is really good. You make me want to be a better person.

  193. Lana S says

    This book sounds very interesting. I have three daughters so I'm constantly reading books and learning how to raise them well.

  195. Jessica Olds says

    Would love love love to win this book! Love reading your blog every day! – Jessica

  199. Miss T says

    Quiet time always makes my day better. Thanks for telling us how you do yours. This would be great book to have!

  200. Miss T says

    Quiet time always makes my day better. Thanks for telling us how you do yours. This would be great book to have!

  201. Miss T says

    Quiet time always makes my day better. Thanks for telling us how you do yours. This would be great book to have!

  204. Sharon S says

    Jesus Calling by Sarah Young is another great way to start the day. Its so relevant and each days passage comes with a scripture to read that goes with it. Extra good for those of us who just don't know where to randomly read in our bible to make it relevant to what else we are reading. Highly recommend.

  207. Laurie S says

    Shay – love this post. I am floundering in my quiet time with our Lord. Thank you for your inspiring and encouraging words. Bless you!!

  209. Anonymous says

    Thank you for sharing such a great idea! I love reading your blog each day. This book looks perfect for me and my two year old daughter.

  211. dresselfamily.blogspot.com says

    I love that you do this. I am LDS and I love to read my scriptures and pray daily too, it just starts the day out right! Thanks for sharing this Shay!

  212. Laura Day says

    I go through times where I'm really good at this, but I need it to be a lifelong commitment! Right now, I haven't been setting the time aside & I can feel it the entire day. My days feel chaotic, crazy & disorganized.

  214. Amy S says

    Thanks for the book suggestions, I am always on the look out for great devo books. I would love to read the raising princesses book…two daughters!

  215. Kim Fleming says

    After three boys, and then a girl. They are definitely different molds of wonder! I read James Dobson and truly loved it and would love to read this book also, even though my daughter says, "Mom, I don't want people to think I act like a princess!" Love that!

  218. Anonymous says

    I find myself reading weeks of devotional just to catch up…not how it was intended. Need to get better at making time every day.

  219. Taylor Moehl says

    Looks like it would be a great read! I read I have really enjoyed reading your blog each day! You are such an encouragement! Thanks for sharing your life and thoughts!

  222. Kathryn Michols says

    Thanks for sharing! I just had a daughter 7 weeks ago, and I would love to read the book!

  224. Kathryn Michols says

    Thanks for sharing. I just had a daughter 7 weeks ago, and I would love to read the book!

  225. Allison Snoderly says

    I am so glad I found your Blog a few months ago. Love love love the daily posts!

    Allison

  228. Leiah says

    Hi Shay, thanks so much for always showing a glimpse into your life. It's so nice to be encouraged in new ways. I have been spending my quiet time with Jesus in the evenings, but I am going to try and wake up a little earlier and start my days off right with Him 🙂

  233. Anonymous says

    I've always wanted to get up and have my quiet time in the morning, but I am not a morning person…you have just inspired me!
    Great post!!
    Leah B.

  236. Allison Mcgaha says

    Great quiet time tips! I have a basket full of my Bibles books and journals that I keep by my favorite reading chair!

  240. ambermarie says

    Sounds like a good read, since I certainly have a little princess on my hands! 🙂

  241. Anonymous says

    Great post! I have started to wake up a little earlier to devote some quiet time and what a difference! I just feel better when my first conversation of the day is with Jesus!

  242. Amanda & Jerrod Carpenter says

    I love that you use your blog to encourage people in Christ, because I know so many girls that read your blog who aren't believers. Thanks for your openness. I would love to give this book to my sister who has a little girl!

  243. Tricia Stucky says

    Thanks so much for sharing! I have 3 little princesses so I would love to read this book!!

  244. Daphne W says

    Reading your blog is a highlight of my morning routine! Love that you always are upbeat and encouraging.

  246. Tricia Stucky says

    Thanks so much for sharing. I have 3 princesses and would love to read this book!

  249. Danielle (Life with the Hewitt Family) says

    This book is on my reading list! I have been wanting to focus on making sure I have quiet time each morning and your post has given me more motivation!

  250. E Truitt says

    There are several books on the list you blogged about that I can't wait to read! Good post. I needed this encouragement to make time for quiet.

  252. Jacqueline Lehnertz says

    I am just becoming a morning person, and some days I struggle with it. Thank you for your post! This is a great way to start your day.

  256. Hannah Gist says

    Especially in today's society, it is so important that we as parents and Christians raise our daughters to be a light for Him! I haven't read this book, but am excited to!

  257. Allie S says

    Love the early morning quiet time! With my husband deployed, a busy day at work, and an energetic 2 year old, this is the greatest way to start the day! Looking forward to reading some of these books! Thanks for the ideas!

  258. Eileen B. says

    I really enjoy reading your blog and love how you are so devoted to your family.
    -Eileen B.

  259. Jennifer Stilts says

    I would love to win this! It's on my wish list of books to read this summer. 🙂

  263. Kristin Marak says

    Thanks for sharing this shade…I usually wait till the end of the day and like the idea of starting the day out with prayers instead. Going to have to change up my routine a bit.

  269. Dana says

    Thank you for such an inspirational post! You are so generous to be giving away copies of the book. Thank you.

  271. Kristen says

    Hi Shay! I have never read the book you're giving away today. It sounds like a great one to read and pass around to friends and family. Love your blog(s)!

  272. Beth says

    I am really going to have to try this – I always think I'll have time after the kids are in bed, but then I'm too tired. I already get up between 5:15 and 5:30, but maybe I should try getting up at 5? I would love to check this book out, too!

  273. Kristin McGeeney says

    Thank you for the chance. Thanks for sharing about your quiet time! Much appreciated!

  274. Katie Dacus says

    Good morning, Shay! Thanks for sharing the Christian authors that you read! 🙂

  275. Heather says

    Hi Shay!! Thank you for this post. Day time with Jesus is so important! Love you and your family! Keep running the race sweet sister!

  276. Brianna says

    I love this so much. Thank you so much for a look inside such a precious time of your day and relationship with the Lord! I pray that I can get accustomed to some quiet time every morning.

  277. Kyle & Mekelle says

    Love your blog! I live in Alabama and am very familiar with John Croyle and Big Oak Ranch. Great book, great people.

  279. Dawn says

    Oh, please pick me! I have a princess who is trying to rule her kingdom with an iron fist.

  280. Lyndsey Harms says

    Hi Shay! I'd love a copy of this book, I have a fantastic 2 year old that this will apply to!

    Thanks again!

  287. Ansleighsmom says

    would love this as I am raising a 5 year old little girl as well! hope u are having a wonderful week!

  288. Anonymous says

    Thank you for this post! I needed to be motivated to have quiet time in the mornings!

  294. Shelly says

    Totally agree with your comment that praying isn't hard but setting aside time is….once I make this a conscious choice my day is always so much better

  295. Jason&Michele says

    This sounds like a perfect book for the stage if life my oldest girl is in! 🙂

  297. LivingLifeLarson says

    I am just back into the blogging world and this is the first post I have read in probably a year. What an incredible one to start off with. I love this. And I love the idea of starting the day off with him. A reminder to start your day off on the right foot! Thanks for sharing.

  302. Lauren Chudzik says

    Hi – would love to read that book. I have a newly minted 4 year old daughter and still lots to learn!

  303. Tiffany R says

    Love this shade of shay! Would love to win the book! I'm raising a little 3 year old princess!

  304. Morgan Thrasher says

    With having our little girl in March, I am loving your blog- I have been trying some of the recipes and they have been great. Love the blog!

  305. Amanda says

    Great Shade of Shay! Definitely looking at getting this book, if I don't win it, after finishing the 4 books I'm in the middle of now. 🙂 Thanks for sharing this morning!

  307. amy says

    I'm determined to become a morning person even though it might kill me. Looks like a great book. Can't wait to read it.

  308. Sarah E @ theteacherswife.com says

    Thanks for posting about this topic b/c it's so important! I won't have much to give if I don't let God fill me up, but it's been a struggle with my little ones. I would love to do it first thing in the morning, but it's been during nap times (or whenever else I can manage it) lately. Great post!

  309. Lacie says

    Thanks for the encouragement…really trying to be a morning person but my comfy bed keeps getting in the way of that!

  310. Elizabeth Andrews says

    You are such an inspiration! I would love to have a copy of that book!

  312. Sarah says

    I've found my day goes so much more smoothly when I refuse to check instagram, blogs or facebook until I've done my devotions. First things first!

  313. Karen says

    Hi Shay
    Thanks for the giveaway. Love reading your blog and love that you are not afraid to share your faith!

  314. Journey With Me says

    Thank you for sharing! I have one daughter who'll be starting Kindergarten in the fall and another baby girl on the way! Would love to read this book…I can use all the help I can get!

  315. knmkendall says

    Thank you for this giveaway! And thank you for sharing your faith, glorifying God through your blog! This book looks so good and I would love to read it for inspiration in raising my 4 daughters.

  316. Laura says

    I've had this book on my wishlist since you posted about it the other day. We have 3 princesses 7yrs, 5yrs, and almost 2…and I'd love to get my hands on a copy! Thanks!!

  318. Anonymous says

    I would love to win this book! I hope to have my own little princess to raise very soon!

    -Monica

  319. Val @ It's Always Sunny in Somerville says

    I'd love to read this book as I am at the start of raising a young lady. Thank you for hosting!

  323. Katie Waldron says

    I have two little girls 20 months apart & would love to read this book! Thanks Shay!

  325. Anonymous says

    Looking forward to ordering a few of these books!!! Thank you for being a great example and light of Jesus to others : )

    Mariah

  327. Mara Kreiling says

    I was just thinking I need to start reading some books on raising girls AND raising boys for my 15 month old twins! I will be checking out the books by Dr. James Dobson and Raising a Princess.

  328. Alison @ Get Your Pretty On says

    This is beautiful and exactly how I start every single day. I've also added in a 2:00 p.m. devotion time on the patio just before the kids get home from school. My two favorite times of the day!

  329. clatk says

    I know I need to be better at this– so hard to wake up, though!! Thanks for the book offer!

  330. Suzie says

    I do not have any children, but I have six nieces of which each and every one is a princess in their own way. Would love to win one of these to read and then give to my sisters.

  331. Bethany Halpern says

    Shay- I don't know if you read all your comments but I am telling you, you should really really read Karen Kingsbury. She is the best Christian author I have found. The series you should look for is the redemption series. Start there and you'll be hooked! Have a blessed day! Xo

  335. Elaine Welte says

    I need this book with three girls of my own! Thank you for pointing out that your quiet time may be only 2 minutes or 20!

  336. Jessica says

    Love your outlook on this… Thanks for taking the "it must be perfect" pressure off!

  337. Carley says

    Love this, Shay! 🙂 My days are much better when I start with a quiet time! Thanks for being so open and honest!

  338. Emily R. says

    PS- do you have any recommendations for newlywed Christian books? I'm getting married in December & would love to start reading ahead of time on how to better my (future) marriage by making Jesus the center of our relationship.

  341. Manhappiness Mama says

    Wow, I really needed this post today! I've been struggling with the need to set aside (and schedule!) some "quiet"time! I'm dying to read the book while raising my currently 3 year old princess, too!

  342. Unknown says

    I am pregnant with my first girl! I need this book, I have two boys… Katie Allred

  345. Stephanie Williams says

    I would love a chance to read this book since I have two little girls 🙂

  350. Anonymous says

    Such a great encouragement for me to get up even earlier in the morning and start my day with Jesus! I would love to receive the book as I am a single mother of a precious pre-teen girl. Thank you and blessings to you and your family.
    Lochie A.

  353. Katie Stoneham says

    I would love to read this book since I am raising 2 princesses of my own!

  354. mkresin says

    Love your blog and today's sweet post about quiet time. Thanks for being so bold with your faith. It is an encouragement to me!

  356. Elizabeth Behnfeldt says

    You are an inspiration. Putting your great words and advice to work and soon!

  360. Claudia says

    Shay, I love this post. You have already inspired me to seek a church that brings me closer to God and you continue to inspire me with these posts. Thank you so much.

  363. Claudia says

    Shay, thank you so much for this post. You have already inspired me to seek a church that brings me closer to God and you continue to inspire me with posts like this. God bless you and Thank you.

  367. Kaylee Steiner says

    Sounds like a great book! And I agree that this kind of quiet time with God really helps you prioritize and guide your day and choices you make! Thanks for sharing!!

  368. Nicola Lodes says

    I'd love to read this book. My three year old daughter loves her child Bible. I'd like to learn more about teaching her about Christianity and faith.

  369. Abby says

    What a great shade! We are fixing to go on different summer trips, so I will be checking a few of these books out!

  370. Jessica says

    God is good…All the time! Thanks for your post today and for the giveaway!

  371. Anonymous says

    I love this shade of you! Also, thank you for "teaching" those of us who don't know Jesus very well the ways we can become closer with Him.
    MelanieL

  372. Stacey Claassen says

    Hi! I would love to read the book. Our first daughter is turning one in a week.

  373. Lizzie Simantz says

    Now that I will have 2 daughters, I'm sure I could use this book 🙂

  374. Lizzie Simantz says

    Now that I will have 2 daughters, I'm sure I could use this book 🙂

  376. Mrs. Mommy says

    I have a 3 year old daughter and would absolutely LOVE this book! I am looking for a good devotional too so I can start my new quiet time routine.

  377. Abramyan Avenue says

    I love that you posted this. We have been hearing and being taught so strongly lately the importance of daily Bible reading. That's how we draw close to him. Then we're able to use the Bible as a mirror and make necessary adjustments.

  388. Shesabigstar says

    I absolutely love this shade of Shay… and I love even more how open you are about your faith, it is SO helpful and inspiring!

  393. Jen Petersen says

    Love all your Shades of Shay, especially this one. Thanks for sharing your faith and encouraging others!

  394. Kelly says

    I would love to win a copy of that book. I have my own 2 year old princess and I'm always interested in biblically based guidance on how to raise her.

  398. Amy says

    I would love to read this for guidance on raising my daughter! And, I love your other book suggestions! As the mom of a girl and boy, I will be reading both of Dr. James Dobson's books! Thanks!

  400. Gideon P says

    I read your post the other day about the Princess book. I have three boys and now have an adopted daughter. I can't wait to get into it. I would love to give this book to my sister who has a daughter too!!

  404. Melissa says

    I love your "all i need…" print-so true!!!

    Thanks for sharing and for the giveaway : )

  406. priscilla says

    You are such an inspiration, and a great role model for so many. THANK YOU.

  407. Cathy's World says

    My daughter has that saying…"All I need today is a little coffee and a whole lot of Jesus in her kitchen." I love it. It is so true. Starting my day with Jesus sets the tone of the rest of my day.

  408. The Patrick family says

    I read your post about the Princess book and bought it. Since I have three boys and one adopted daughter, this was a must have! However, I would love to give my sister a copy to read.

  413. Angelica Longoria says

    Reading your blogs each morning is part of my "quiet time." You are so encouraging and motivating!! I was looking for this book at B&N this past Sunday, but only found Bringing up Girls.. Would love to have this one too!

  416. Nicole B. says

    Coffee and quiet time is my favorite way to start the day. It totally gets me in the Godly mindset and feeling capable of taking on whatever heads my way.Thanks for the great giveaway!

  418. Lisa F. says

    Love this! I always love hearing how others do their quiet time. I've also been really wanting to read Raising a Princess!!

  420. Jaclyn Johnson says

    Hi Shay! Another great giveaway! I would love to receive a copy of this book as I'm sure it would help me in raising my 3 yr old daughter 🙂 Have a good day and thanks for another great post!

  429. Laurie says

    I love your blog and I would love to win a copy of this book. I am reading Wild Things (raising sons) right now and would love one to read about daughters

  431. Anonymous says

    I love my quiet time with Jesus. I always feel so refreshed when I start my day with Him.

  432. Nichole says

    I'm so bad about being consistent in this…maybe because my kids wake up before 6 and I have a hard time getting that alone time in the morning, but on the days that I do succeed my day goes so much better!

  435. sarah kelly hurst says

    thanks for sharing what your quiet times look like. its always good to be reminded of the importance of having them and at best, in the morning! i'd love to win a copy of that book! we've got a pretty cute little princess! 🙂

  439. Jenn says

    Hi! This is one of my favorite shades! My daughter is the same age as yours so if I don't win this book, I'm going to buy it.

  442. Tina says

    Great post! I am raising a prince and a princess 😉 and need all the support I can get! Would love to win the book!

  443. katie elizabeth says

    Thanks for sharing, Shay. What an incredible platform you have to encourage and strengthen women 🙂

  444. Jamie says

    I loved reading your thoughts on this. I couldn't agree more with the statement you made about how the hard part isn't reading your Bible but making time to do it is. That is so true! Here is to making a better effort. 🙂

  446. Haley @ Cupcakes and Sunshine says

    Love this post so much!!! Days without quiet time just are not the same. It is so great to spend time with the Lord each morning. Oatmeal+the Word+ coffee= the perfect start to the day!

  447. Jill says

    Such great advice! I agree that every day should start with Jesus…even if it's just a few minutes. 🙂

  448. Trisha Bunten says

    I love following you every day! I would love to read this book as I have a 4 year old daughter!

  449. mustbmegan says

    I'm currently working on making my quiet time work the best for me. Thanks for the tips!

  450. Amber Sanders says

    LOVE this Shade of Shay. Thanks for sharing and encouraging each of us to make the time for God in each day. I really loved hearing about this book and would LOVE a copy!!

  453. Sarah G. says

    Love this post, I so need to get more consistent with this. Also, saw the Andrew Shull mobile out today, what a fun car!!! 🙂

  456. Leslie Tucker says

    Thank you for sharing about the importance of your quiet time! You are right…my day is so much better when it is started in the presence of my Savior! Thank you for the book recommendations! I look forward to reading!! Your blog is a blessing!!

  457. Anna H. says

    Thanks for a great reminder and the grace that it doesn't have to be 20-30 minutes; that two minutes is better than none. 🙂 I heard John Croyle speak at dotMom and he was great! What a wonderful opportunity to win one of his books!

  458. Karen I. :) says

    What a wonderful post!! I am sure that's the reason for so many people writing in.
    I joined the raffle this time, being that I have two precious nieces! I entered their mom's name and my email. If we win, she will be the recipient for sure, which is why I want her to get the shout out (if we are lucky)! I think she would LOVE IT! If not, it's a great thing for me to put on a list of potential gifts for her! Thanks, Shay!!!

  459. Kristin says

    Hi! I enjoy reading your blog daily. This was was especially uplifting. And raising a princess sounds like a book I should read with two princesses our house.

  460. Ny says

    Hi Shay!
    I am raising two princesses( and a prince too) and would love to read this book.
    Have a blessed day!

  461. The Seidel Family says

    I would love to read this book! And I love the way in which you live your life. I hope one day I can be as consistent as you are with the way you attack every thing you do. You are a great inspiration!

  465. Lauren says

    We were so blessed with Todd and Keith as our youth ministers weren't we? Such great and life changing memories!

  466. Andrea Kay says

    HI! I love this post. I think we can all use a little quiet time for reflection each day 🙂

  467. Michele Hutchison says

    I love that your share so much of your life with your readers. Thanks for sharing what your prayer time looks like. Sometimes I feel like my time in the evening when I talk to Jesus isn't "good enough" because I may get rushed. What I should be remembering is Jesus isn't rating my time on a rubric… thanks for the reminder.

  468. Kara says

    thanks for encouraging early morning reading and quiet time. It's not when I typically do this, but it would be good to try it!

  470. Keisha Dawson says

    Thank you for showing others how simple it is to spend a little bit of time with Jesus! Love this!

  476. Sarah Leech says

    I'd love to win this book. I had my first child, a little girl on January 1 of this year!!

  477. Heather says

    It's great to get ideas on how others approach their relationship with our Lord. I like the notebook idea.

  479. JenJen says

    I have started getting up early to work out and am going to try starting to add this to my morning routine. I read a devotional at lunch but sometimes I do think my mind is already so boggged down and tired to really "get it". Wouldlove to use this book at my quiet time.

  480. Slightly Askew Designs says

    LOVE this shade of Shay and hoping to add this book to my stack of "boy mom" books 🙂

  481. Amanda says

    Daily quiet time w/ God is essential and something I need to be more consistent with!

  484. Elisabeth says

    I live in a house full of little princesses, I would love to win that book!

  493. Heather says

    I'm going to reread the post on becoming a morning person!! I have 3 little girls 6,4 & 2 I would love to read this book. Thanks for the giveaway!!

  494. Monica Carpenter says

    Love that you have your quiet time with God every morning. This is definitely something I need to try. Too often I find myself rushing about through life without realizing what I truly need to prioritize. Thanks for the post.

  496. Kendall Johnson says

    I would love to read this book to help me raise my 9 month old princess!

  499. Bliss and Blunders of a Newlywed says

    Love this! It really inspires me to make more time for Jesus and to set aside specific moments to pray and read. Thanks for the inspiration!

  502. Brittany F. says

    I agree, I need a little bit of coffee and a whole lot of Jesus ever single day.

  503. Brittany F. says

    I agree, I need a little bit of coffee and a whole lot of Jesus ever single day.

  505. Mary Conner says

    I would love to read this book! Thank you for your insights today. I really enjoy reading your blog.

  508. Anonymous says

    I am a young mother raising a little princess on my own! I would love to read this. Thanks for sharing it!

  509. WOOD says

    This would be a great book with a four year old little girl and another due next month! Thanks!

  510. Alisha Wilson says

    Hi Shay! I looked into reading this book when you mentioned it on your blog last week. I would love to read it since I have 2 precious girls! Thanks for suggesting it.

  512. Anonymous says

    I love your blog and would love to win a copy of this book since I have a 5yr old little girl. Thank you! 🙂
    Staci

  514. Julie and Richard says

    I agree! My day is so much better when I start it with some quiet time with The Lord. Thanks for sharing!

  516. Sarah says

    I would love to read this book. Such a scary world raising girls (and boys) right now.

  517. Sarah says

    Would love to read this book. Such a scary world to raise girls (and boys) in these days.

  519. Allison Travis says

    Great post! I would love to read some of these books! As a Mom to an almost 6 year old girl and 3 year old boy, I am always looking for guidance in raising them right!

  524. Stephanie says

    Would LOVE to have this book as I can tell my 28 month old is already a princess. 🙂

  528. Steph and Zack says

    I LOVE this Shade of Shay! Such great advice to have quiet time at the START of the day… It's too easy to get caught up in life and forget at the end and/or try to play clean-up at the end!

  529. Steph and Zack says

    I LOVE this Shade of Shay! Such wonderful advice to have quiet time at the START of the day!

  531. Shannon says

    Thanks for sharing about your intimate time with Jesus. It's very encouraging to hear how others incorporate their quiet time into a busy day and make it the #1 priority. I'm trying to be better at this and this is great encouragement. I also love details and you so kindly give every detail to your "shades" and this is awesome! And lastly, the quote "All I need today is a little bit of coffee and a whole lot of Jesus" is going up in my house stat. 😉

  532. Shannon says

    Thanks for sharing about your intimate time with Jesus. It's very encouraging to hear how others incorporate quiet time into their busy day and make it the #1 priority. I'm trying to be better at this and this was great encouragement. I love details and you so kindly give all the details to your "shades" and I just love that. Lastly, that quote "all I need today is a little bit of coffee and a whole lot of Jesus" is going up in my house stat! 😉

  536. Darcy says

    I'm an early morning person (we get up at 4:50 am) but I don't carve out time for reading….probably something I need to start doing!

  537. Lacey Salmon says

    Loved this post! I've really come into my quiet time zone since having my daughter and really look forward to it in the morning.

  538. Joy says

    I look forward to all your shades of Shay. Some I apply to my life and some aren't for me. I like this one though. And i do agree it is better to start with your quiet time in the morning than at the end of the day.

  542. Melody Lietzau says

    I love That you start your day with Jesus and recognize that he should be your priority. This book looks great.

  543. Michelle Ragsdale says

    thank you for sharing! your blog is inspiring and encouraging for women (esp moms) it's like you know what I need to hear…

  549. The Fair Melissa says

    I have the exact same method to my Bible time .. and I need some new books to read! I would love to read this one!

  552. Wendy Correa says

    I look forward to reading your blog every day! Thank you for the encouragement!

  553. Kylie says

    Hi Shay! What a great post. I couldn't agree more about the importance of quiet time to start your day; it makes all the difference! We've been talking a lot about quiet time in my church lately, and just this last Saturday we hosted a women's tea where we had an author/speaker come and speak; she talked about many things, but one of her major topics was quiet time! 😉 Her name is Debbi Bryson and she actually wrote a devotional called "Wisdom for Women: 365 Devotions through Proverbs." I just started it, and thought you might enjoy it too, since you mentioned you were reading a Proverb a day! 🙂 You can find it on Amazon. Anyhoo, thanks again for sharing such a great shade of Shay!

  555. Allison says

    Great shade! I am trying to set aside more time in the morning for a quiet time.

  557. Lindsey says

    Great post – as usual! You come across so authentic, I keep coming back for more!
    Lindsey

  559. Rachel -Doug Betts says

    I love this blog post, Shay! We all need encouragement to meet with Jesus every day.

  560. Rachel -Doug Betts says

    I love this blog post, Shay! We all need encouragement to meet with Jesus every day.

  561. Amy Lawrence says

    Thank you for posting the Mother's Day giveaway! Can't believe I won. It's been surreal. I would have never seen it, had you not participated! Thanks so much!

  565. Amanda says

    Thanks for sharing, I plan to check out some of those books for my quiet time too!!

  566. Lauren W says

    I don't have children yet, but I have already started worrying about bringing them up knowing Jesus. Reading material would be great!

  568. Anonymous says

    I love starting my day this way! Also would love to read that book as I attempt to raise my little princess 🙂
    Eunice

  576. Allison says

    I would love to read this book. I have a five month old baby girl who is my heart and soul.

  581. Whitney Plunkett says

    My mornings are very similar! Get up at 5:30 before the gym to spend some time with Jesus. Then, I read your blog after the gym! Love this post Shay – probably one of my favorites! Xo

  591. Melanie Hogue says

    Thanks for sharing your heart. I have two princesses of my own and this would be a great read!

  592. Kel says

    You continue to inspire me to be a better mama and a better daughter to our king x

  594. Christina says

    Almost bought this book the other day. Would love to read it! Love your blog, by the way!

  595. Tara C. says

    I love this; what a great post and insight! Definitely working on becoming a morning person, and I just found out today we are adding a little girl to our family (due in Oct!).

  599. Ruthie Hoving says

    I would love to read this – I am expecting my first baby girl next month! And I am certain raising her will be different than raising her big brothers…

  602. Anonymous says

    I just love reading your blog. I love how you pray daily, it inspires me to take time out of my day and do the same. I look forward to your posts every morning. Keep up the good work Shay. I adore you and your little family!

  603. Meredith Hoskins says

    Raising my precious 2 year-old daughter and this book would probably be a great read for me. Thanks!

  604. Kerri GirlWithALatte says

    Awe Shay, I've never commented before, but have followed your blog for awhile. Thank you so much for showing your faith on your blog, unashamedly and honestly. I love your list of books, as many are familiar to me as well. So glad there are other women out there who value a relationship with God! "He that honors Me, I will honor." 🙂 Hugs!

  606. Shelby Carter says

    I read your blog daily and would love a copy of the book! I have 2 sweet kiddos one of which is definitely a Princess who turned 2 today 🙂

  609. Cortney McCurry says

    I've added a few of those books to my to read list. thanks for the great info.

  610. {That Ruby Girl} says

    Love that you shared this! Quiet time is essential in listening to God.

  611. Anonymous says

    You can be a good person without being a Christian. You can raise great kids without being a Christian. Letting your kids chose their faith rather than impressing it upon them is another good thing. Just saying.

  613. Whitney Thornton says

    Excited to read this book! I needed this reminder today. I wake up rushing, my goal is to slow down!

  617. Hayley Chandler says

    Thanks for this!!! I often have wondered what this looks like for you. This is something I really need to do. It's the getting up early part that sounds hard. Thanks for always inspiring me to want to do better.

  620. The Binder Mom says

    Love this post! I can tell a huge difference in the days I start with Jesus and the days I don't.

  621. Erica says

    Love this post! I'm going to try to get up a bit earlier to have my quiet time rather than after the kids get up and it's…not so quiet. 😉

  622. BackandForth says

    I love this. It really inspired me to add this to my day to grow to be stronger in my faith. Thank you!!

  627. Emily R says

    My oldest is almost 3…I need to get reading some parenting books. I never considered making it part of quiet time before!

  631. Jaren says

    I ordered Bringing up Girls and Raising a Princess when you last blogged about them. I can't wait to dive into reading them this summer!

  632. Angela Patterson says

    Shay, thank you so much for sharing about your quiet time! I love your blog! I want to thank you because you have been an inspiration to me and this week…I finally followed this crazy little dream of mine. I have a blog! Angela Banae — is my blog about life, family, and faith. So, thank you for inspiring me and I continue to look forward to ALL of your posts! I hope to be a blessing to others, just like you! Hugs from Iowa!!!

  634. Anonymous says

    Hi Shay,

    I have recently started reading your blog and look forward to each new post every morning! I find peace in a lot of what you have to offer to enjoying the simple things in life. Like you, I love a good cup of coffee and lots of family time. I have always considered myself a religious person but through college, grad school, and now life- I don't attend as frequently as I did with my parents growing up.

    Long story short, your faith is contagious and has sparked the interest I have to make more time for God. Your quiet time post stuck with me and I feel is my answer to some of life's daily stressors. Do you have any additional recommendations (more general, as I am not a mom or married yet)?

    Thank you!

    Sincerely,
    Alicia

  635. Jaclyn says

    I just started reading your blog and already you have been such an inspiration to meas a mommy and with your love of Jesus. I myself met my now fiancé when we were 19 and got engaged at 21. Now two years later we have a beautiful one and a half year old daughter, Mackenzie and planning a wedding in September. I have always believed in God but i admire the work you out towards your faith and wonder what advice you have for me to start becoming and walking with god? I feel like that is one thing I am really missing in my life. Once again, you are such an inspiration to me and you are one amazing person!

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