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March 2023 Book Review


Happy Happy Happy BOOK DAY!

You guys, I’m so excited about this month’s book review.  I have a nice little variety including some very light and happy reads, an inspirational book, and a memoir.  I read five books this month and THREE of them came straight out of the comment section of February’s Book Review.  I know I say this all the time, but truly THANK YOU for the book recs.  I honestly do not know what I would be reading if it weren’t for you and your recommendations.  Even when I don’t love a book, I’m thankful that I read something new/different/relevant that I wouldn’t normally pick up myself.  You ladies are just always so, so good to me.  Thank you.

Bonus thing to mention today, The Bestie Breakdown has A SECOND EPISODE OUT THIS WEEK!  That’s right!  We’re now chatting more often, in more “real time” to give you even more and better podcast episodes.  Make sure you check your favorite podcast platform today for Season 4 Episode 2!

Alrighty, let’s get started with the FIVE BOOKS I READ THIS MONTH 🙂 .

Book #1 this month was…

Marlowe Banks, Redesigned by Jacqueline Firkins

Last month, I asked you all for light, cute, happy and easy to read book recs and one of you mentioned this one here.  You guys, I LOVED IT!  If you need a happy, feel good, chick-lit novel, this one is for you.  Is it a little predictable?  Yes.  Will you devour it?  ABSOLUTELY!

This book is about a costume designer on the set of a hit TV show who is trying to get her life sorted out after a bad breakup and move from NYC.  Who does she meet while on the job?  The star of the show, of course 🙂 .  This book is a tad Rated R, and you know I always like to point that out before you purchase.

Life is SO HARD right now.  It’s sad. It’s scary.  It’s all the things you fear, so if you’re looking for a nice escape to all of that reality, jump into this book with both feet.  It will be a wonderful reprieve for your mind.

Book #2 this month was…

Someone Else’s Shoes by Jojo Moyes

Okay people, this was the #1 suggested book by you guys last month, but I have a very serious question for you…who stole Jojo Moyes name and is secretly trying to pass off books like she wrote them?  Did she get a ghost writer?  Is her best friend now writing her books?  Maybe her mom?

GIRLS, THIS BOOK WAS SO DIFFERENT, AND I LOVED IT!

You know I read all of her books (they’re all reviewed on my blog here!), and I like (don’t love) most of them, but you know…the last one was about a group of women in the 1930s creating a mobile library to help the kids in Kentucky read, so forgive me, but I was SHOCKED when this one was about a group of fun and lively ladies banning together to locate a pair of shoes in present day London.  I mean to tell you, it was adorable, light and FUN!

Adorable, light and fun describing a Moyes book?

Yes, yes, yes…that’s why I’m so surprised!  This novel is clever, funny, a bit cheeky, a little cheesy and probably not very realistic, but it was oh so cute.  It honestly reads a bit like a romcom.  Two big thumbs up!

For the love, Moyes, I’m way more into this one than your heavier historical novels 😉 .

Book #3 this month was…

All My Knotted-Up Life by Beth Moore

Agh!  Okay.  I’ve been thinking about how I would review this one for weeks now.  Here’s the deal…if I had to list the top five people who have influenced my life for Christ the MOST, I would absolutely name Beth Moore.  I started regularly reading my Bible each day when I was 15 years old, but it wasn’t until I was a newly married 22 year old woman living in Dearborn, Michigan away from all of her friends and family that I truly started S-T-U-D-Y-I-N-G my Bible.  Why?  Because I joined the Detroit Lions wives group for their weekly Bible study, and over the year Andrew and I were there, we did two Beth Moore Bible studies (her study of David and her study of The Patriarchs), and they changed my life.  In a time when I felt so lost, this author and Bible study creator showed me (via her studies and little videos where she spoke) how to open God’s Word and truly learn about the Lord.  Over the last 20 years, I couldn’t even count the number of her studies I’ve done.  Probably 40?  I honestly don’t know.  I’ve done the David study now three times and The Patriarchs now four times.

She has truly changed my life.

But she is not my god.

She is human.

The Lord has used her as a tool for me to grow closer to Him, and I’ll forever be grateful for that.  Truly, she’s a TOP FIVE in my life person.

This book here is not a Bible study but her memoir.  If I’m being super honest, it was hard to read.  I loved parts of it, but parts were hard.  When you admire someone for certain reasons but don’t know them, it can create a very false narrative in your head of who they are and how they would handle certain situations.  I GET THIS.  She did nothing wrong writing her memoir.  Her experiences and feelings are 100% valid, it’s just that in my head, she’s a bit different.

As far as the actual book went, I thought the beginning of was quite long.  There were just so many metaphors and similes.  I honest to goodness thought she could have cut 80% of them out and just “spit out the story” she was trying to tell instead of making it so lyrical and dragging it out.  I also wish she would have just said certain things instead of beating around the bush.  At the very beginning of the memoir, she actually says, she had to “wait until some people were dead or too old to care to write this book as to not hurt them”, but then at the same time, she never said many names and instead “hinted”.  I don’t know?  In my opinion, if you can’t call a spade a spade, leave the spade out of the book.  I also don’t love a lot of complaining.  That’s just a personal thing of mine.  Life is hard for us all, but I think we all know a whole lot of people who life is even harder for during certain seasons, and in this book, it felt like a whole lot of complaining that life was hard (and I’m not saying it wasn’t for her!), but I also know that there are probably thousands of people reading her book who have had some terrible, terrible times, so the complaining wore on me.

Agh!

I probably shouldn’t have read the book.  Did I learn nothing from reading Kelly Ripa’s memoir last year?! 😉

Bottom line: if you don’t know who Beth Moore is, don’t pick up this book!  Instead, I strongly encourage you to try one of her Bible studies!  My favorite one for people to “start with” is her study Breaking Free.  If you do love Beth Moore, then I’d love to hear what you have to say about this book!  Please tell me that I’m not the only one who was beaten down by “her hair was as silk as a night sky on a calm February evening” sentences (I totally made that up, but just me, that’s how it read to me, ha!).

That’s a whole lot to say about one book.  I love you, Beth Moore.  You have forever changed my life.  I’m closer to God and most certainly a better wife and mother because you encouraged me to dig deep into God’s word.  Honestly?  That’s all that really matters to me.

Book #4 this month was…

The Layover by Lacie Waldo

After the heaviness of the above book, I WAS READY FOR THIS ONE!  You guys, this novel was SO CUTE!!!!!!  I loved this one so much that I didn’t want it to end.  This is a light little chick lit book about a flight attendant.  It’s adorable!  She heads out on a trip only to get an extended layover due to mechanical issues and well, of course there is a little love story.  I loved reading the details about her life as a flight attendant, I loved the bits about her relationships with the crew, with her routine, with her job.  I just thought the whole story was refreshing, easy to read and HAPPY.  The perfect beach book!

Book #5 this month was…

Chez Moi: Decorating Your Home and Living Like a Parisienne by Sarah Lavoine

I purchased this book (it’s hardback) in July but only read it this month.  It was so inspiring!  The author shares in great detail the ins and outs of living like a Parisienne.  She truly covers everything from home interiors to throwing kids birthday parties, organizing closets, packing for vacations, what to serve at dinner parties, how to shop…she covers it all and includes gorgeous photos and lists to keep the content organized.  An easy and very life-inspiring read.

And with that, we wrap up my MARCH BOOK REVIEW!

Okay, spill it please!  What should I read in April?  Maybe one thriller?  An autobiography?  Of course, I’ll take all of your chick lit recs too!  Please comment and share!

Also, don’t forget…

To see the complete list of books I read in 2015 (all 63 of them), click here.
To see the complete list of books I read in 2016 (all 62 of them), click here.
To see the complete list of books I read in 2017 (all 62 of them), click here.
To see the complete list of books I read in 2018 (all 61 of them), click here.
To see the complete list of books I read in 2019 (all 54 of them), click here.
To see the complete list of books I read in 2020 (all 54 of them), click here.
To see the complete list of books I read in 2021 (all 59 of them), click here.
To see the complete list of books I read in 2022 (all 60 of them), click here.

That wraps up Book Day!  I’ll see you all back here tomorrow! xx

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Comments

  1. Susan Jeffries says

    Good to know about the Beth Moore book. I loved her Esther study. I am adding the Jojo book to my April read list! Thanks!! I just finished The House Maid and The House Maid’s Secret – psychological thrillers and I loved both. Currently reading River Sing Me Home. Heavy but a good read. I also loved The Quarry Girls last month! Thanks for the reviews!!

  2. Kelly says

    I read Pineapple Street this month by Jenny Jackson. It was an easy, fun read about a family in NYC. I’m looking forward to reading Hello Beautiful by Ann Napolitano over spring break. Has anyone read this yet? I’ve heard it’s good!

  3. Peyton Cline says

    This is a heavier suggestion, but one of the most eye-opening and memorable books I’ve read in my life – “Mad Honey.”

      • Susan says

        Read the reviews before starting the book. I wish I had. When “the secret” was revealed, I stopped reading, and removed it from my kindle.

        • Sheri says

          Seriously?! I thought this book was a wonderful exploration of humanity and the ways we treat each other, particularly those who may live differently than we do. The issues are real-life and can’t be “banned” by removing from your kindle – or your library. Please don’t let this comment keep you from reading this book. It’s a great look at a timely situation.

          • Kathy H says

            Perfectly said. I loved the book and I certainly don’t have to read a story about people just like me. How boring! I went into Mad Honey blind as I do all books.

        • Cynthia H says

          Reading the reviews for spoilers is such a bad idea with this book. Part of the shock was that I was connected to the characters and empathized with their situations. I was moved by it. I think God put us on earth to love each other better each day, and this book helped me see where I have room for improvement in this area.

    • Katie Compton says

      100% agree… I’m a huge Jodi Picoult fan and Mad Honey was an amazing read. Definitely check it out, Shay!

    • Keisha Dawson says

      I absolutely loved this one, and I had no idea what it was about when I started it.

      • Julie says

        I didn’t know anything about the book when I read it, and I thought it was a great book. Definitely gives you a lot to think about.

    • Melissa Wiles says

      A Flicker in the Dark by Stacy Willingham is a good thriller I’ve read recently! It’s not scary, but it leaves you wanting to know more with each page. Thanks for all of your reviews! I’ve read so many of your recs and loved them!!!

  5. Laura says

    Yay book review day!! I just read Radium Girls and I definitely recommend! It is so out of my normal wheelhouse (and yours!) but I think you’d really appreciate it. It’s a true story, nonfiction, but reads like a fast paced medical or courtroom drama!

  6. Michelle says

    I too share a similar background with Beth Moore Bible studies. The Tabernacle study was my first in depth study and when all the OT – NT connections came together …. Well it wrecked me forever. Couldn’t get enough. I have done all her studies as well and followed her on TV and her podcast. But, she is just a human, not my god. I appreciate you saying that.
    I have been unable to articulate how I felt about the memoir. I’m still not sure. I’ve followed her for so many years I was honestly shocked to hear her name her father as her abuser. I’ve gone back to so many blog posts from the past- can’t help wondering why would your children be around him?? What a painful thing. She’s always done a good job of not giving too many personal details but I’m afraid that just leads to more questions.
    The metaphors……. Ugh. I am a high school English teacher and it drove me crazy. Too much. I have felt her Bible studies have been that way too the last few years.
    You are the first person I’ve read a review from that shares my thoughts too. Thank you for your honesty.
    But what I can say, is Beth Moore affected my walk with Christ and my love for Bible study and I think that’s all she’s ever wanted to do.

  7. Erika Slaughter says

    I hope you’ve got the new Sally book on your list!! Can’t wait to read that one!

    • Lisa De says

      I read an early copy of The Soulmate, and there was a plot twist EVERY CHAPTER! loved it!

  8. Anne Reid Broos says

    I found Beth Moore’s memoir to be incredibly brave—sharing stories about her husband’s mental illness and being molested by her own father with the hope that God will use her story to help others who are going through traumatic situations as well.
    Rather than criticize that she didn’t call a spade a spade enough for you, I applaud the delicacy with which she shared.
    She was sexually abused by her own dad. In my book, that gives someone a pass for any “complaining.” I’ve read your blog for a long time, but hearing you criticize a victim of incest for complaining too much is just so…hard to believe and sad.
    For a person of faith, you sound like you have very little of the kind of compassion our Savior showed to those in his midst to and to us.

    • Mix and Match Mama says

      I honestly welcome this comment because I’ve been processing her book. I should have specified that those portions (clearly) weren’t the ones I was talking about when I said she was complaining, it was kind of a downer of a book all around without much lightness between. I feel (and I could be wrong) that she raised healthy and lovely daughters, owns and operates a very successful business surrounded by people she loves and has been successful (maybe the most successful?) in her field, so I was kind of hoping she would add a bit of that in between the hard. I just didn’t see her give a lot of time to anything positive when, I’m certain just based on her IG postings, some goodness has come into her life. I don’t know? I think every time I’ve put down something she’s written over the last 20 years, I’ve seen raw honesty and joy. I put this down and felt just sad. That caught me off guard.

      • Kimbrough says

        For me, I’m not that impressed when someone who as you say has raised healthy children, runs a successful business, shares happy IG posts of her husband loves God. It’s easy when one’s life is perfect to point and say “see how the Lord I love has blessed me.” I am awed when people have had difficult lives and truly hard things in life and *still* choose to praise the Lord. That’s grit and more realistic to me. I listened to the audio book and loved it. I’ve only done a few of her studies but have enjoyed her for years. I think you just don’t like memoirs, which is the exact place people share their life difficulties which I guess to you sounds like complaining.

        • Mix and Match Mama says

          I do like memoirs, I just was really surprised by this one. I think I was expecting it to read like her other writings, and it didn’t.

      • Patti Stanford says

        Shay, you did a wonderful job on the review of Beth Moore’s book. It was YOUR review. It was a hard one to read and review I’m sure. My first thought when I read it, as wrong as this might be, TMI.

      • Meredith says

        I think the fact that she has remained so positive all these years in the midst of such chaos and pain is a testament to God’s amazing work in her. He can use a broken vessel and she, in her desperation, clung to God and His word to renew her mind. I think that is what inspired so many of us–she loves the LORD with all her heart, mind, and strength. She showed me that loving Jesus with that passion and dedication was possible.

        We all knew she was positive and loves Jesus. What we didn’t know is what she was living behind the scenes and what she had survived. It just made me love her more!

      • Lynn says

        I just finished her reading the book on Audible and your review was in my memory as I wrapped it up so I wanted to come back and comment. The emotion with which she shares her story as she reads the book- shows how personal it is, how hard it is and how even here in the midst of hard, there is goodness and faithfulness. I can imagine some of the story could read flat in the book but to hear her relay her marriage, love of her husband, staying in relationship with her dad and his new wife, even the death of her dad – oh wow. It’s such a story of grace and redemption and adds SO much depth to know how she was walking this road, this path all the while she was sharing a ministry with countless women is grace abundant. For me personally, the way she talked through a her hards was an invitation to be seen in my own hard. I appreciate how we can read and review books in the same way we can review a product or a restaurant or a trip. Yet, a memoir – and especially her memoir – is so much more than just a book. It’s a story of life and life lived in faithfulness and of a faithful God. I have separately been listening to a podcast that brought to mind the story of Job — I would no more stand in judgment of how Job would tell his story than how I would let Beth tell hers or you or a friend I know tell theirs. Tell it, Beth so that we might know you in fullness of who you are and Whose you are. And if there is any quibble to be had with the positivity she should show or didn’t show, the level of complaining or the degree of naming (refer to the end section when she does acknowledgement to know she left a lot out thanks to her editor)- again it’s hers. The fact that she can speak of any grace and tenderness after so many hard knots is testimony enough for me. I had a friend become an unexpected widow who talked about the children’s book – “The Rabbit Listened,” which reminds sometimes we just need someone -like Job’s friends sometimes did – to sit with us. It was a gift to sit with Beth as she bore witness to her story – a gift to just listen without judgement or comment or suggestions or editing for our sake.

    • Jeanie says

      My thoughts 100%. I have been involved in a few of her studies. I thought she carefully gave enough of her background without betraying her stepmother, siblings, her own children or her father’s relatives. I thought it was very sensitive. We don’t need to read every gory detail about someone’s personal abusive past to get the scope and magnitude of the issue. Too be honest, every book doesn’t need a review…especially one that deals with such sensitive matters and I don’t know that memoirs should EVER be reviewed.

    • Barb says

      100% agree – I read this book and am still processing what Beth shared. It was powerful and I know for sure she helped other abuse victims. A good memoir is real. I would hope we all can realize that not everyone has lived an easy life and books like this are a good reminder that we never really know what someone else is experiencing or has lived through. Just another reason to lead with compassion.

  9. Jamie says

    The Magnificent Lives of Marjorie Post by Allison Pataki was excellent!!! It’s historical fiction about the Post cereal (and many other companies!) heir. How she built the business, her love lives, important times in history, etc. It was really good! (If you haven’t read her other books, they’re all fantastic!!!)

    • Mix and Match Mama says

      YES!!!!!! I loved that book so much that it was in my Top Five of 2022! If I read one of her other books, which one should it be?

      • Sara says

        The Accidental Empress. SO GOOD and so much history. I’m heading back to the Austria/Hungary area this summer and can’t wait to see everything in a new light!

      • Jamie says

        The Accidental Empress, Sisi and The Traitor’s Wife were EXCELLENT!!!! The Traitor’s Wife is about Benedict Arnold and his wife- from her perspective and her servant’s perspective. I love how the author researches the women associated with men we are used to hearing about!

    • Claris Yoder says

      Dani Shapiro’s memoir is also a SUPER good book. I thought it was fascinating. It’s called Inheritance, a Memoir of Geneology, Paternity and Love.

  11. Kara says

    The layover was a fun read!! I’ll skip Beth Moore bc I too love her Bible studies! 😉

    • Michelle Bingham says

      Her book is worth the read. I think its beautifully written and she does an incredible job sharing her story. I am sure bringing the darkness to light was hard but knowing she walked through all of this while writing these incredible bible stories really shows how GOD can use anyone in any situation! It’s one of the most powerful books I have ever read.

      • Robin says

        I so agree on Beth’s memoir . To have lived a life of such horrendous abuse at the hand of her father , gives me more respect for her . That she has been able to have such a heart for Jesus and be used greatly by Him, speaks volumes ! I think her book contrasted the good, bad and really ugly in her life and how she was able to rise above . I have been a longtime fan of her Bible studies and have learned so much over many years and my faith has definitely grown. She is a teacher , not a god . I think her memoir is a story of great hope and perseverance and her own personal growth and deserving of a read .

  12. LeAnn says

    Have you tried Amy Harmon? I love her books. Not rated R. Lots of historical drama. I just finished Unknown Beloved and loved it but everything I’ve read of hers is great!

  14. Holly says

    Hi Shay – thanks for the honest reviews. I’ve been wondering about the Beth Moore book and will go ahead and skip it (at least for now). I have The Layover on my book stack, and I’ll read that one instead! This month I read The Husbands by Chandler Baker on the plane (looong weather delay) and it was great and has kept me thinking since I finished it. Next I read The Light We Lost by Jill Santopolo and it WAS AMAZING. I didn’t agree with all of the choices that the lead character made, but I still loved the book. It is fun, touching, relatable, and sad. If you liked One True Loves I think you would like this one! I am currently reading Tomorrow, and Tomorrow, and Tomorrow. I can’t put it down. It is about two friends who reunite after several years to make a video game. It will be in my top 3 for 2023 for sure. I love it, but I can definitely see how it would either be a reader’s favorite book of the year…or they wouldn’t like it at all. One of those for sure!

    Two thoughts – have you ever thought of making a closed FB group for monthly book discussions? I get most of my suggestions from readers here, and it would be nice to have that available. Second, maybe the same format for a Beth Moore study?

    • Mix and Match Mama says

      I have thought about it, but I wasn’t sure about interest. If others are interested in either, please, please let me know!! thank YOU for the recs and suggestions!!

    • Laura says

      YES to the Husbands by Chandler Baker! I finished reading it and immediately sent to several friends to read and reserved another one of her books. It is so so good!

    • Holly says

      Hey – what I meant was a FB discussion group in addition to (maybe not updated until a day or two after?) these monthly blog posts? Certainly not instead of…I love the comments too!

  15. Aparna says

    Yay Book day! Have bookmarked a couple of the suggestions shay…I had a wonderful book month too…read 6 books after a long time! Otherwise it’s been just a couple of books for me every month but since we took a mini spring break to Thailand, caught up on some books.
    I loved These silent woods…thanks for the rec. next I read Never forget you by Fiona Lucas, first one from this author and enjoyed it. Next up Love of my life by Rosie Walsh which some ladies had suggested, enjoyed that too. And then I ‘discovered’ Harlan Coben! Now I get all thy hype about him…loved his I will find you and Don’t let go. They are very fast paced thrillers and I read each in 1 go! Last I read Independence by Chitra Banerjee, she’s an awesome Indian author and love all her books, including this one, it’s based in pre independence India.
    Looking forward to next month review, take care!

    • Jess says

      Harlan Coben is my very favorite! His books keep you wanting to read “just one more chapter”. So good!

  16. Sarina says

    I’m currently reading A Court of Thorns and Roses (I’m on book 3) and while I (think) I know you well enough to know you don’t love fantasy books – figured one of your readers might enjoy this Rec 🙂 it’s amazing.

    • Marilyn Giuliano says

      I started this series because I read that Sam Heughan (Outlander) may play in the TV version of this series. I don’t usually like fantasy books but I got hooked and read through all 5 books in two weeks!

  17. Amanda Keith says

    I listened to the audio version of Beth’s book (which I have never done an audio book in my life before), and thought more than once if I was reading this in print form I would have stopped. I have done multiple studies by her and feel like I have truly learned and understood more out of the Bible from her teachings but she can drag out a point like nobody’s business haha.

    • jennibell says

      I felt the same way about Kelly Ripa’s book — I think listening to the authors read their story gives a little more “context” to what they are saying about their life.

  18. Jessica says

    Shay, you need to read The Last Bookshop in London by Madeline Martin. It’s such a great book! I’m 3/4 of the way through it and I don’t want it to end.

  19. Molly says

    I love your book reviews, thanks for doing them each month! I agree with you about the first half of Beth Moore’s book, loooong. I can only imagine how difficult it would be as a public figure to talk about sexual abuse that happened in your family while those people are still living, a courtesy she didn’t have to give. I applauded her insight into a pioneer women in leadership, and all the chaos involving the SBC, her view on politics…her honesty was a comfort to me, and I felt so frustrated for her for how many men and women viewed her leadership. Where would we be without Beth Moore Bible studies? Her courage to continue to teach while so many looked down on her because she was a women made me so mad. Anyways, I can see how it comes across as complaining, yet I feel her “canceling” in the last few years offered a platform for her to explain her stance.
    Have you read Unmissing by Minka Kent? A fast read and a thriller.

    • Mix and Match Mama says

      I have not! Looking it up on Amazon now. Thank you for your comment, Molly!!

  21. Laci says

    The Housemaid and The Housemaid’s Secret by Freida McFadden! Both are psychological thrillers and so so good!

  22. Pamela says

    I usually agree with you most of the time (Kelly Ripa book, Prince Harry book etc) but I disagree about Beth Moore book. I didn’t care for the flowery language either but I did admire her and her husbands courage in sharing. I kept thinking the whole time that I can’t believe while I am taking her Bible Studies over the years she was dealing with so much behind the scenes. I guess I just admired her faithfulness to God and her marriage more after reading her memoir. Have you read The Housemaid? Best thriller so far this year

    • Mix and Match Mama says

      I’m pretty sure that’s the one Erika keeps telling me to read! Adding to my list! Thank YOU!

      • Tina says

        I have gone down the Freida McFadden rabbit hole! All of her books have such a crazy twist that I can’t even guess who the perpetrator is anymore. They are all quick, easy reads.

  23. Jamie says

    Between Shades of Grey by Ruta Sepetys is a great historical fiction taking place in WWII – heavy but so, so good!

  24. Lauren Greci says

    I always look forward to your book reviews and love your honest reviews! So helpful and keeps my want-to-read booklist growing!

  25. Kayla Bruce says

    I’m so excited about four of these books 😉 Have you read Chanel Miller’s Know My Name? It’s intense, but it’s so worth reading. I read it for a book club, and I actually get to hear her speak tonight!

  26. Megan says

    You Were There Too by Colleen Oakley! It’s a “meatier” fiction, and truly one of the best books I’ve read in years.

  27. April Bryan says

    I have chosen not to read Beth Moore’s book (I have not heard good reviews). I’m like you I grew up going to her Monday night bible studies in Houston and doing many of her bible studies. We also have very close ties to her personally, so I just want to leave it like that.

    A few books I’ve really enjoyed this month: The Perfect Marriage, These Silent Woods, Never Lie, Dreamland

  28. Carol says

    I’ve read two of these: Beth Moore’s memoir and The Layover. Loved the light, cute Layover story.

    Beth Moore — I’m torn. She’s been a very influential teacher in my life as well. As a lifelong Southern Baptist, I also think many in our denomination did her wrong, and it was interesting to hear her take on it. I agree that there was both a whole lot of detail and not enough detail at the same time.

    At least I finished this one. I made it through half of Prince Harry’s memoir and JUST COULD NOT.

    • Mix and Match Mama says

      I actually loved the part about her leaving her church. I wanted to hug those women who hugged her that day at her new church. It’s a great reminder that sometimes, even strangers at a new job/church/school/whatever, need to feel safe even if you don’t know them.

      • Abigail Carter says

        I always look forward to SBRD (Shay’s Book Review Day!) haha I love acronyms. 🙂 Tomorrow, Tomorrow, & Tomorrow. It will be in my Top 5 of the year I am sure. Very different- but the characters will stay with you. Also, The Housemaid (Erika posted about it & I bought it), Becoming Free (Jinger Duggar…the Duggar life has always been fascinating/bizarre to me!) & The Measure- story about a bunch of people getting a box on their porch & if they open it it tells who when/how you will die & what they do with their lives from there! Happy almost April! 🌸

  29. Brittany says

    I love book review day!! I have the new Jojo Moyes book to read next.

    The Idea of You by Robinne Lee! Such a different but good story. Definitely some rated R content. Also the Viola Davis memoir, audiobook was amazing.

    Are you excited to read the new Sally Hepworth book?! Can’t wait for it to come out!

  30. Katie says

    I started Sally’s new book the Soulmate and finished it in 2 days. I couldn’t put it down. Ironically I have never read a single book by her before! The Soulmate showed up on my list to choose from for book of the month club and I’m so glad I read it!

  31. Anita says

    Shay, I thought your review of Beth’s memoir was very unfair but of course you have every right to your opinion!
    How can being sexually abused by your father at a very young age not scar your for the rest of your life? And that wasn’t the half of it!
    I loved the book and felt so much compassion for her

    • Mix and Match Mama says

      I most certainly was not addressing that part of the book. I was more addressing the second half. It reminded me a bit of Kelly Ripa not having a whole lot of nice things to say about Live. I felt like she didn’t have a whole lot of positive things to say about her career that she’s chosen. I just thought she could have added something. Even her grandkids? It just ended and felt like something was missing.

      • Ginger says

        I liked Beth Moore’s book and thought it was pretty raw and honest. At the end of her acknowledgements, she explains why she left out more info on her grandchildren, and I think she is right to do that. I’m not an author, but I applaud her decision for leaving out that information. If you didn’t read or listen to the acknowledgements, I encourage you to do that. As for Mad Honey, definitely look up info on that book. Had I known what it was about, I would not have read it. It was educational, but it was also difficult to read, and I cannot say that I’m glad I read it. The Diamond Eye by Kate Quinn was very good. And I generally don’t read Danielle Steel, but Worthy Opponents would fit your light and easy-to-read category, I think. I enjoyed it.

        • Mix and Match Mama says

          I did read the acknowledgements too. Do you follow her on IG? Over the years, she shared their pics and names and cute Bibbi stories quite openly, so I was just surprised one didn’t make it in the book. It’s totally great that she left them out, I’m just saying I guess I thought the memoir would also include those details too. It’s not wrong, just not exactly what I was expecting when I cracked it open.

          • Kathy H says

            I just finished Lessons in Chemistry today and am so sad it’s over. I loved it. I laughed out loud but also cried. It was a treasure and I miss them already.

  32. Tracy Graham says

    The Push by Ashley Audrain would be a thriller. The Measure by Nikki Erlick was also good/suspenseful.

  33. Stephanie says

    You should add The Perfect Marriage by Jeneva Rose and Things We Never Got Over by Lucy Score to your list! Both are soooo good!

    • Mix and Match Mama says

      You’re the second person today to mention Lucy Score. Why do I not know her?! I’m excited to be introduced to a new author!

      • Kara says

        Lucy Score books are quick reads and I love a few but they are very rated R! I can see past the unnecessary content bc the books are good but just a fyi!! 😊

  34. Joslyn says

    I don’t comment often but always read and get ideas from your reviews and reader comments ! I think you would enjoy The House of Eve by Sadeqa Johnson. I believe it was a Reese book club pick.

  35. Kim says

    I too am having trouble reconciling your review of Beth Moore’s “complaining” and to “skip it” with the raw topics she covered of sexual abuse, incest, mental illness and significant sexism and misogyny by the SBC (an institution that you may have a unique perspective on given your closeness to it). I was looking forward to hearing your thoughts on having to reconcile some of what she went through with your personal experience as a woman in the SBC but I understand that you may still be processing how to think about what she experienced in an institution that you are close to.

    • Mix and Match Mama says

      Honestly the church business didn’t bother me one bit as I left mine in 2021 and totally could relate/understand/was inspired by that. I think I was frustrated with the first half (all of the metaphors and how long it took for every detail to get out), so by the time I got to the second half, I was looking for some joy. I think I was just surprised because in her other books (like the Breaking Free book, not the study), she talks about her abuse, her sexual history complicated her marriage, she talks about Michael and more, but she also talks about joy and gratefulness. When my Kindle told me this book was over, I was like “really, that was just heavy”. It just surprised me based on her other writings.

      • Taylor says

        This has nothing to do with the memoir (I’m just here scrolling the comment section for book recommendations) and saw this comment about how you left your church in 2021. I’m sure you aren’t planning on sharing your reasons publicly on your blog but I may email you to share my story and hopefully get some insight or advice from you (someone I look up too). When I turned 18, I decided to leave the church I was raised in for different reasons. I have no hard feelings and my youth pastor from my childhood church even married me last year! But I still have guilt for leaving. My husband and I found a church that fits us great and we love it there, but man..the guilt can be real at times. Anyway, no point to this comment..haha…but thanks for being real and sharing that.

  36. Becky says

    I listened to the audio version of Beth Moose’s book and loved it. I felt like I was listening to a friend speak. I did not feel like she was complaining and didn’t even notice the metaphors, so maybe listening rather than reading made the difference?

    • Mix and Match Mama says

      Perhaps? I LOVE watching her teach/preach/even on Stories. I’ve never listened to an audiobook, so I didn’t even think about that for this one.

      • Jess says

        I listened as well and loved it. She doesn’t often get emotional but she sure did on the audio and I respect her so much for it. As someone who can relate to some of the ugliness in her life, it was refreshing and encouraging. Those two words aren’t strong enough to express what I mean but that will have to do for this tired mom 😉

      • Katie says

        I thought about this when I read your review…like I wish she would have listened to it. Listening to it was POWERFUL! Hearing her actually tell her (objectively) incredible story was a gift!

        • Renee says

          I completely agree. Listening to the audiobook of Beth reading her own story, in her strong southern accent, was really powerful. You could hear the the influxes in her voice to reflect the emotions of the stories. I loved her delicate balance of sharing her story and allowing others to know they are not alone in painful, unfair circumstances, but not revealing details that could be triggering or unnecessary to get the point across. The audiobook was so helpful to hear the tone in which she shared the stories as well. Some parts were just laugh out loud funny, and like another reader commented, some parts she was barely holding back tears. Power story of God sustaining her and her family through life’s many trials.

  37. Alyssa A. says

    Have you read “Things We Never Got Over” by Lucy Score?! The sequel to it, “Things We Hide From the Light” just came out and OH. my word. These books are SO GOOD. They are definitely Rated R, but it’s a bit romance/mystery/small town – a bit every thing! I devoured these books. I can’t recommend enough!

    • Mix and Match Mama says

      Okay, I’ve seen the cover of this book (I just looked it up on Amazon) a million times, but I’ve never even thought to read it. I’m adding it to my list. Amazon says it’s a series of three too!

    • ER says

      Yes! It just read those two books back to back… oh my! I hope they make them into a movie… already thinking who would be the best guys to cast for those roles 🤣

  40. Carole says

    Love your book review posts!! Have you read The Measure? I loved it. Very though provoking so would love to hear your thoughts on it!

  41. SSSmith says

    My librarian friend just recommended “A Lily in Disguise” by Jessica Scarlett as one of her favorite reads ever. I read it quickly and really enjoyed it!

  42. Jacquelyn Jenkins says

    Book Review is my favorite post of the month!
    Favorite books I’ve read so far this year: Before We Were Strangers, Woman on Fire, and Georgie, All Along
    I listened to Beth Moore’s book and was shocked to hear what all had transpired in her life. I do admire the brave face she’s shown the world over the years.

    • Sara McQ says

      Yes to Woman on Fire AND Georgie, All Along!!! I also read the Love Wager by Lynn Painter and loved it! I think she usually writes YA, but this was not. The banter and story both were so good!

  43. Kristy Moore says

    I’m reading a fantastic book right now- A Woman is No Man by Etaf Rum. Powerful book, hard to read sometimes but opens your eyes up to another culture. Highly recommend!!

    • Mix and Match Mama says

      YESSSSSSSSSS! I read that one a few years ago and still remember it in great detail. Excellent rec!

  44. Kelsey Mangan says

    The Boys in the Boat! One of the most inspiring books you’ll ever read and George Clooney is making the movie. 🙂

      • Sandi says

        For some reason I thought you had reviewed Boys in the Boat. With Smith rowing he may enjoy it too. The rowing scenes are so technically written you can see it like a movie. They do have a YA version if needed. It’s been several years and I don’t recall if it’s appropriate in all areas.

        I always come back a day or two later for book recommendations and didn’t realize all the controversy Miss Beth had caused in the comment section. You have such good blog readers!

      • Margaret says

        oh Shay now that Smith is in crew, you must read this…can’t believe I have not thought to suggest it here. I read it so long ago and LOVED it! and True story! We have two cousins who were on the mens crew teams at Syracuse and Colgate and they loved it!

  46. Maggie K says

    I read and really enjoyed The Patron Saint of Second Chances. It’s like Waking Ned Devine set in Italy. Just sweet and fun and the perfect antidote to all the heavy in the world.

  48. Bridget Duhon says

    Thank you for your book reviews! I use them often to choose my own readings. I am now reading “RESHAPE” Your Life By: Ali Landry. It is AMAZING!!!!! I highly recommend it for you to read!

  49. DeeAnn says

    I loved The Layover too! Another light, fun read is When in Rome by Sarah Adams.. highly recommend!

  50. sandi says

    Last month I entered the library with a list and walked out with Someone Else’s Shoes. It was not on my list because of my discontent with the author, but when my other choices were unavailable I decided to give it a try based off reader comments. I found myself checking the book jacket to make sure that in fact it was one of Moyes books. It was a cute and easy read! I also read Practically Perfect by Katie Fforde which was equally entertaining. Not sure if I will read the Beth Moore book, probably for the same reasons you listed.

    My youngest daughter, 14, is an avid reader. YA books are so questionable these days between language and content (she is my sensitive one and doesn’t do difficult topics well). She has gotten into Karen Kingsbury books which are clean and a good fit for her age.

    Can’t wait to visit later in the day and make a list of books to read!

  51. Kay from MA says

    I love book review day. AND! A new podcast already. BEST. DAY. EVER!

    I’m in the middle of a good twisty thriller “It’s One of Us”/Ellison. Now. I don’t think it’s the best writing. Sometimes I have to go back for a second to re-read a sentence? BUT! The story is so good. And the wife is an interior designer which is always fun to read about. A husband is approached by the police as his son is linked to a murder. But, he has NO CHILDREN.

    I also LOVED this “oldie” “Grown Ups” by Marian Keyes! It was just SO GOOD. A huge family and all their drama and also, most of the book takes place while they’re on family vacations together (Ireland, Italy!, castles, etc) so that was really fun. Highly recommend. Also, it had some gooood twists and turns!

    Beatriz Williams is coming out with a new book-you know you love you some historical fiction! ;). That’s on my list. Also, “The Paris Daughter” by Kristin Harmel! And Chandler Baker and Sally Hepworth have new ones coming out too-cannot wait. But where oh where is Liane Moriarty? I need a new one from her!

    Thanks for making this morning so happy on such an otherwise gloomy time here as a worried mom. xo

    • Mix and Match Mama says

      Where oh where is Liane Moriarty?! That is an excellent question!! Was her last novel the rehab-ish one? That was forever ago!

      • Jennifer says

        Her last one was Apples Never Fall that I know you will love! So much better than her rehab and other newish ones that went so off track!

  52. Ashley says

    Historical Fiction-Whose Waves These Are by Amanda Dykes and When the Day Comes by Gabrielle Meyer. Lighter RomCom-Authentically Izzy by Pepper Basham and Meet me in the Margins by Melissa Ferguson. NonFiction that reads like Fiction-The Immortal Life of Henrietta Lacks by Rebecca Skloot and Killers of the Flower Moon by David Grann. ☺️

  53. Chaeli Ackerman says

    I LOVE Beth Moore’s bible study’s, but I 100% AGREE that she uses way to many descriptive words and needs to get to the point quicker. I decided not to read her memoir and just stick with her bible studies.

  54. DeAnn says

    I loved Good for You by Camille Pagan! I never read her before, and it was a light chick lit Summer read kinda feeling. I am looking for a good Christian book I can read with my 15 year old daughter that is inspiring, to help her grow her faith. She’s been reading dark stuff. Lol. Any Beth Moore studies or any other suggestions out there?

    • sandi says

      DeAnn, I hope you come back and read this. I have three teenage daughters and here are some of their favorite books.
      Fiction:
      The O’Malley Series by Dee Henderson
      Anything by Karen Kingsbury is appropriate

      Non-Fiction:
      Graceful by Emily Freeman
      7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens by Covey
      Lies Young Women Believe by Nancy Leigh DeMoss
      Kisses from Katie by Kate Davis Majors
      Anything and everything ever written by Annie F Downs is appropriate

  56. Tracy says

    I highly recommend books by Jackie Kendall. She too was a victim of incest. I’ve seen her speak twice and her joy in the Lord just comes bubbling out of her. Her book on forgiveness “Free Yourself to Love” was life-changing. And “Raising a Lady in Waiting” was so instrumental in how I raised my daughter.

  57. Courtney says

    Must read books:

    The Measure by Nikki Erlick
    Shoe Dog by Phil Knight
    Surrender: 40 Songs 1 story by Bono (absolute MUST listen to this one! Read and sung by Bono)
    The Maid by Nita Prose

  59. Jane says

    I found your review of Beth Moore’s book interesting. Having some exposure to mental illness in the family as well as the trauma that is inflicted as a result of sexual abuse, I found her story riveting. I was struck by her courage and honestly, thought about it for days after reading it. I honestly never saw her as “complaining” at all and was amazed at the way she was able to bring such joy to so many people through her immense faith. She demonstrates what it is to be a Christ follower to me – despite extraordinary challenges. And I think her willingness to protect the privacy of her husband and children and grandchildren was admirable. I think is difficult to understand the full damage that abuse by a father can do. This was a “light story.” I’m not sure it was the time to talk about her “successful business.” I don’t think that is how she views her ministry.

    • Susan says

      I agree – it’s a MINISTRY, not a business. Two very different things, two very different missions and goals.

      • Mix and Match Mama says

        It is but it’s also a business too which is awesome! I’m all for people in ministry who work very, very hard being able to support themselves and their families with their work. She seems to really love her little house where they run LPM and the team that works with her. I just thought a story or two from that side of her life might have made the pages of the book. I know she can’t cover it all (maybe there will be a sequel?!), but I thought that side would be covered. She’s a minister but also a best selling author of dozens of books and sells out venues…it’s a business too and that’s totally AWESOME. She’s changed my life with this ministry of hers. I cannot even imagine the jewels in her crown.

        • jennibell says

          I felt the same way about Kelly Ripa’s book — I think listening to the authors read their story gives a little more “context” to what they are saying about their life.

  60. Tanya says

    I also loved the Jojo book – so fun! I just finished Pineapple Street, a light look at old money in Brooklyn Heights. A more serious book that I recently enjoyed was Go As a River. Thanks for all the reviews. I’d love a book Facebook group!

    • Jessica Kristiansen says

      I recently discovered Sarah Adams and the Cheat Sheet is so so cute! It was very clean too, which I appreciated. I find that’s rare in a chick lit book nowadays. I went on to read a lot of her other books and enjoyed them all as well but I think The Cheat Sheet is my favorite of hers 🙂

  62. Meg says

    I read and loved Beth Moore’s memoir. I thought it was beautifully written…almost poetic at times! I was totally floored by your comment that it was complaining. So much of her life has been so much tragedy…I read it and was blown away by how God has used her and how she is not bitter, given her childhood. To me, that’s the positive and uplifting part of it all! I was also impressed by the balance she struck in her writing- not giving graphic details of the abuse nor slinging mud at her detractors. Given the subject matter, I don’t think it’s always appropriate or wise to ‘call a spade a spade.’ There is nuance, especially within a family. I listened to Annie Downs’ recent interview of Beth and was so moved by her compassion for other victims. I think it would offer you some insight into why she shared (or didn’t share) what she did. P.S. at the very end she says she left out her grandchildren to protect them.

    • Cassie says

      Totally agree, Meg! I listened to the audiobook and thought it was one of the best memoirs I have ever read. Beautifully written.

  63. Stacy says

    I am so incredibly saddened by your review of Beth Moore’s memoir. As a survivor of childhood sexual abuse myself, it is quite disheartening that having the courage and strength to be “real” is viewed as complaining. This societal view only contributes to the shame and fear that victims of sexual assault feel when it comes to speaking out. If the world will simply think it’s complaining, why would any survivor want to speak out. Life for many isn’t all rainbows and unicorns. I have also raised two incredible children in spite of the abuse I experienced as a child. My greatest accomplishment is breaking the cycle of childhood trauma and having a “real” beautiful relationship with my 16 and 21 year old sons who are amazing student athletes. More importantly they are kind non-judgemental young men and understand we never know what others are going through. You have no idea how many people that Beth Moore’s honesty could help. If it gives one person the courage to speak out and/or seek help then it is far more than a great book..it could literally be a life saver. Silence only protects the abusers. If there are any victims/survivors reading this, please know that being real is NOT COMPLAINING.

    • Mix and Match Mama says

      I wasn’t referring to that part of the book. I wasn’t at all. Not one bit.

      • Kathy says

        I don’t know her book or her work, nor have a read the book. That said, my perception is that the book did not give you much of the joy you’ve experienced from her and you were disappointed in that fact. You just wanted a little of that joy. That’s not wrong or negating the horrific things she’s experienced. I love the differing opinions and hope you continue to give us yours.

        On another note, I suggest you read Mad Honey without reading what it’s about. What fun is that! I love reading about situations that are different than my own. Otherwise it’s boring to stay in your own bubble. 🥱

        • jennibell says

          What great encouragement here Kathy! I think the comments section needed a voice not close to BM to see this. . .because she is linked to so many people’s spiritual growth there is a “personalness” to Shay’s review and the following comments. I’m proud of Shay for her replies and pray that rather than discourage her from continuing to share her heart that she understands the learning journey she is taking through this adversary. We instinctively protect those that we love, whether it is a personal love or one that we think we have for a person/situation. There are many books that Shay reviews that I loved and she didn’t – it’s not a “right or wrong” but simply an opinion and if you know and trust the person, then you know how to take the review. Shay, THANK YOU for being your authentic self and Kathy, thank you for this perspective and insight into possibly why Shay was disappointed in the book.
          Shay, my book list today, after reading your reviews and most of the comments, is so, so long. I love this reading community you have brought together!

          • Mix and Match Mama says

            Thank you so much for your thoughtful words and contribution to our book days. xx

      • Kristen says

        Respectfully, please read your review again, Shay. And then read the comments here from other readers who say that it’s “too much” and won’t be reading for “exactly the reasons you stated.” Her story isn’t pretty, but it’s real, raw and it’s hers. It seems like for memoirs–or at least this one, you can’t separate someone’s story for your dislike of how they tell the story and the details they choose to include. That’s why you’re seeing this feedback.

        • Mix and Match Mama says

          I have read my review again and firmly believe that everyone should do her Bible studies. I think without a doubt that Jesus can and will do amazing things when we open our Bibles and study His word which is always what her Bible studies have us do. I think pointing people to her Bible studies is actually the best thing I could have done. I think it’s okay too if people you really admire, respect and put on a pedestal write a memoir and you choose not to read it in order to preserve your own impression of them. I think there’s grace in that too.

  64. E. R. says

    Shay, I always look forward to your book reviews for not only your suggestions, but also those who are kind enough to leave a review.

    I, like you, LOVE Beth Moore. L.O.V.E. I have not read her new book, but I intend to. I like another person who commented, I was a little shocked to hear you thoughts on Beth complaining. These words are yours…”Her experiences and feelings are 100% valid, it’s just that in my head, she’s a bit different….. I honest to goodness thought she could have cut 80% of them out and just “spit out the story” she was trying to tell instead of making it so lyrical and dragging it out. I also wish she would have just said certain things instead of beating around the bush. At the very beginning of the memoir, she actually says, she had to “wait until some people were dead or too old to care to write this book as to not hurt them”, but then at the same time, she never said many names and instead “hinted”. I don’t know? In my opinion, if you can’t call a spade a spade, leave the spade out of the book. I also don’t love a lot of complaining. That’s just a personal thing of mine.”

    It can be really hard to hear someone’s true story once you have painted a picture of them in your head. I feel you read this book through the lens of who you want Beth to be and who you see her as through her Bible Studies, versus Beth Moore as a person. Anyone who shares their story or testimony is opening up and being incredibly vulnerable which is admirable. The way they share their story is the way in which they feel they are able to release what has been built up for years. It is not easy to share your story especially if there is pain and trauma within it.

    I encourage you to read it again, from the lens of Beth Moore as a person. Maybe pretend it’s a story of a woman who moved in next door disconnecting the Beth Moore piece. I can speak from experience that 100% of the time we can say, if “x” happened to me I would definitely do “y” or handle it in this way. But when “x” does happen to you, you never handle it the way you think you would. I would also encourage you to look at your own life. As one of your reader’s and followers I would say I hardly see hardship in your life. Or what you view as a hardship is very different from someone else who has experienced severe trauma.

    There is someone out there who is going to read her book and immediately connect with how she is sharing her story because they have been in her shoes. I would hate for one of those people to be one of your followers and not read her book based on your review. I have worked with many young children and teens who have experienced trauma you would not believe or would vomit hearing. Slowly over time they open up and share their story with me and it was never in a way I would have expected. One needs to release what’s inside to be able to move forward using the method they choose with their own creativity and unique touch that helps them heal. We may not like their delivery, but remember in the end it’s not us who needed to heal.

    I look forward to April’s reviews!

    • Allison Mullins says

      Beautifully said. I too would hate for anyone to pass up Beth’s memoir due to this review—no matter if you know who she is or not, it is so worthy of reading. As a long time student of Beth’s teachings, I found this memoir to shout the name of Jesus the loudest of all. Oh how he loves us, pursues us, and redeems the most broken parts of our lives.

  65. Tara says

    So I am new to the “audible” books and I happened to listen to Beth Moore’s. It changed everything for me. To hear Beth read her own story – may change how you read this book. Just leaving it as a thought for others. I cried, laughed and cried and walked away from her story in awe of her EVEN more than before. To know she lives for Christ, has suffered deeply (when I hear her voice telling the story, I actually never once heard a complaint in her spirit), and still has chosen to abide in Christ and let HIM be her identity – it inspired me deeply. Touched my heart in ways I did not know I needed. Just a thought – try listening to Beth read her memoir – it may change what you HEAR. 🙂

    • Niki says

      I love that you suggested audible. I do that with all memoirs now and it sets such a different tone than when I read it on my own.

  66. Peg says

    I always enjoy your book reviews. Thanks for so many suggestions of books to read. I enjoyed Beth Moore’s book and her willingness to share her life. I lived in Houston from 1983-2001 and was able to connect with places and events she wrote about and I was privileged to attend some of her Bible classes. Many times I laughed out loud and also cried when reading her book.

    Two books I recently read and loved: Solito by Javier Zamora and The Boys from Biloxi by John Grisham.

  67. Kelli says

    I’ve read 29 this year and my very favorite so far has been Project Hail Mary by Andy Weir! So endearing and interesting, short chapters, great characters! I’d love to hear your opinion of it! Don’t let space book freak you out!! Also, thanks for These Silent Woods rec…wow!

  69. Ashley Farell says

    Have you read Jacqueline in Paris? I just finished it and it’s so cute! Historical fiction about Jackie Kennedy BEFORE she meets JFK

  70. Deena says

    My book club did The Last Flight by Julie Clark and I think you might like this if you haven’t read it because it’s not as tense as some thrillers. Speaking of book clubs, I’m checking out two recommendations from the comments to see if I want to recommend them (The last bookshop in London by Madeline Martin and The storied life of AJ Fikry by Gabrielle Zevin).

    I looked back at your review of Kelly Ripa’s book and can’t say I’m surprised. I used to like her earlier on but found she became less likable as time went on.

  72. Alexis says

    I next to never post comments (although I’ve read your blog daily for probably ten years or more! and I’m also in your Insta group for The Bible Recap this year – I do post there!) but I wanted to on this one after reading your reviews and all of the comments. I just wanted to say that I so appreciate your honesty and that you shared your candid thoughts with us. I haven’t read the Beth Moore memoir (and probably won’t simply because I don’t love memoirs), but I love that you voiced your honest thoughts and are also responding so thoughtfully to those who think differently than you (in the comments). I never once thought the complaining you referred to had anything to do with the abuse she suffered. I also would think that anyone who has read your blog long enough should “know” you and your heart well enough to know that. You and your blog are consistently a bright spot in my day and I wanted to tell you that!
    On another note – best thriller I’ve read this year is All the Dangerous Things by Stacy Willingham. I’m picky with thrillers, but I loved this one!

    • Becky says

      I appreciate this comment, Alexis. I am always so impressed by the grace in which Shay responds to some unkind words from others. These are her reviews and her opinions, and while it’s okay for others to have differing opinions, I’m surprised when, rather than just share the different opinion, people make personal attacks. Disheartening.
      Thank you Shay for the example you continue to set on how to treat others.

      On another note, just finished reading Letter to the American Church by Eric Metaxas. Excellent and definitely worth the read!

  73. Taylor K says

    Highly recommend “Under the Tulip Tree.”
    It is an amazing historical fiction novel that has Christian aspects too. I felt that while it was pretty heavy in parts, it read faster than a typical historical fiction! It’s definitely one of my favorite books of the year so far!!

  74. Michelle Gibbs says

    Hi! Love your book reviews. On FB or the bestie breakdown, could you cover when you find the time to read so much as a busy wife, mom, and boss? Thanks!

    • Mix and Match Mama says

      Yes! The short answer is that I try to read a few minutes after my quiet time each morning, while I’m waiting on things my kids are doing (for example on Wednesday, my girls both had an appointment where I sat in the waiting room for 45 minutes, so I read) and at night before bed. This month, we went on vacation, so I read the entire plane ride there and back plus, while I was sitting on the beach every day. I use my Kindle app now all the time so that I don’t have to remember to bring my Kindle with me. They are connected, so I can open my app and pick right up where my Kindle left off and vice versa. This has really helped me snag extra time.

  76. Kathy says

    Favorites
    Hester
    Take My Hand
    The Couple at Number 9
    If He Had Been with Me
    Grace
    Mad Honey
    Someone Else’s Shoes

    Really, really did not like (1/1.5 ⭐️)
    The Perfect Marriage
    The House in the Pines
    Just the Nicest Couple

  77. Mandy Bredehoft says

    I recently read The Cheat Sheet by Sarah Adams and LOVED IT! Cute story, darling characters.

  79. Sarah Williams says

    I usually line up perfectly with your opinions on books, but I have to disagree with you about Beth Moore’s. I honestly think it is my favorite memoir that I’ve ever read! I listened to it on audiobook (she reads it) and I was sobbing through most of it. I admire her so much for standing up for all that she has stood up for in recent years, and I actually felt like her leaving out names and being vague was very Christlike. Instead of just slamming people that deeply wounded her, she told her story without throwing them under the bus by name. I also felt like what she revealed about the struggles her husband has faced was so incredibly relatable and brave. To me, it is amazing that after all she has been through, she has accomplished all she has, and most of us knew nothing about it! So her memoir should be a place where she tells all she has faced, and so to me it isn’t whiny. Just another perspective!

  80. Amanda Lillis says

    I just finished listening to Benjamin Hall’s “Saved: A War Reporter’s Mission to Make It Home.” This is the Fox News reporter who was seriously insured by a bomb last year in Ukraine. He narrated it and it was really well “written” and fascinating/inspiring.

    I also listened to Viola Davis narrate her memoir “Finding Me” which was very good.

    Currently reading “How to Fake it in Hollywood” which, so far, is a cute chick lit read!

  81. Cortney Carlson says

    I can’t remember everything you have read, but a few favorites from this year:

    One of us is lying- teen yes, but good it’s like breakfast club but with murder

    The measure- very interesting and thought provoking

    Georgie all along- super cute rom com,
    Little close to R on the rating

  82. Jessica says

    My cousin just self published his memoir, To Ring the Bell, about his journey through sinus cancer.
    He had brain cancer at 21, too . He told his story in a multi genre format, which was really interesting (poetry, letters, journal entries, photos, etc.). It’s a quick read – and his bravery and faith shine through.

    • Mix and Match Mama says

      Good for him! Wow! I’m going to stop and pray for him and his journey with sinus cancer right now.

  83. Niki says

    I LOVE book review day!!! Please read The Last Bookshop in London! Such a great
    book!❤️

  84. Polly says

    Hi Shay, I always love your book review day! I will just chime in and say as a rule of thumb, I always try to listen to memoirs. It’s a much better perspective when you can hear the person tell their own story. After I read your review of Kelly Ripa’s book, I listened to it with great hesitation. However, I actually loved it and love her even more once I heard her tell her story with her humor and “schtick”. I think so much of it would have been lost in translation if I had read it. With that in mind, I plan to listen to Beth Moore’s memoir.
    Also- I can’t wait to read Jojo Moyes new one!

  85. Patti Stanford says

    Loved your review! I totally agree with the Beth Moore review. It was just too much and not necessary. She was a tool that God used to change my life as well with her Bible Studies. But it was too self-involved for me and what I expected from her.

    My April suggestions:
    You Are My Sunshine by Sean Dietrich is an autobiography of him and his wife on a long historical bike ride while waiting for her tests and reports from doctors on her cancer diagnosis. It was funny, sweet, caring, kind, Christian and had me thinking long and hard about what was important in life.

    Pineapple Street by Jenny Jackson is the funniest most thoughtful book I’ve read in a while. It was about a rich family and all that that entails for a young bride from a working-class hard scrabble family who marries into this family. It was thoughtful. I really liked it!

  86. Rene’ says

    Oh you must read River Sing Me Home by Eleanor Shearer. And I love Beth Moore, too. I have her book but moving slowly through it.

  87. Barb says

    I’ve done “Breaking Free by Beth Moore twice.
    Second time was updated version. Excellent!

    Light reading and funny series(3 books on Kindle.
    Author: Vickie McDonough

    Series:
    Anonymous Bride
    Second Chance Bride
    Finally Bride
    (About Texas brides in Lookout,Texas)

  88. Dana Klinepeter says

    Just finished the it girl by Ruth ware. Not much of a thriller person but this one was the perfect amount. Had to keep resting to find out who did it! I’m on hold for another one do hers, one by one which I’ve heard is just as good!

  89. Tiffany says

    Here are some recent faves of mine….
    Have You Seen Luis Velez?
    The Measure
    Horse

    I also saw another reader suggested Boys on the Boat- and I second that!

    Thank you for always sharing your honest reviews/thoughts on your monthly reads!

  90. Kristi says

    I LOVED Take My Hand by Dolen Perkins-Valdez. “Inspired by true events that rocked the nation, a profoundly moving novel about a Black nurse in post-segregation Alabama who blows the whistle on a terrible wrong done to her patients”

  91. Melissa Wiles says

    A Flicker in the Dark by Stacy Willingham is a good thriller I’ve read recently! It’s not scary, but it leaves you wanting to know more with each page. Thanks for all of your reviews! I’ve read so many of your recs and loved them!!!

  92. Kim Kiser says

    I’m part of a 52 week reading challenge for 2023 and I’ve read 28 books.“Where the Forest Meets the Stars” and “Fairytale “ by Stephen King are the only books o would give 5 stars. Both are excellent and I’m not a fan of Stephen King.

    • Mix and Match Mama says

      Stephen King has a book called Fairytale? Who knew that word could become scary just hearing him use it?! Ha! I haven’t read a SK book is AGES. Maybe I should? Is it scary or gory? I don’t like gory.

      • Kim Kiser says

        It’s not gory- reminds me of the Hunger Games series. There is some bad language, but it’s also a story about a boy and a dog

  93. Rebecca says

    Demon copperhead. Such an insight to struggles of rural America and our foster system.

  94. Kristen says

    Love the review! I know you like a biography like I do… I’ve heard great things about Minka Kelly’s new book “Tell me Everything” .. story of her life looks so intriguing.. I had no idea!

  95. Allison Mullins says

    I am so shocked with your review of Beth Moore’s memoir. I thought it shouted from the rooftops of the incomprehensible amount of God’s grace and mercy over her life. The vulnerability in sharing her childhood, the struggles of her marriage, the fight for her husband’s health, the devastation of a denomination’s betrayal (and still be honorable towards this group through her pain), and being one of many who were canceled for standing up for truth. YET she is still standing. Still proclaiming the goodness of God, and saying every single bit was worth it. It feels impossible that her book could be called complaining. I’m curious which parts you saw as complaining?

    i pray your option doesn’t deter others from picking up this book that could in fact draw them closer to God and offer hope with their own story . Her book screams that your story is never over. God can use the most broken of us, no matter our past or pain, for his goodness and glory.

  96. Grace says

    I am not reading Beth Moore’s memoir for all the reasons everyone has said. I don’t want to know too much.

    I had recommended to you before and do so again – City of Tranquil Light by Bo Caldwell. Fiction but beautifully written story about a man and his love relationship with God and his wife – I want to read your review of it!!!

  97. Matison Curtis says

    Oh Shea. You had such an opportunity to point your readers to a redemptive story of what it’s like to follow Jesus at all costs. Now I’m worried they won’t give Beth’s book a look.

    First I borrowed the kindle version of Beth’s book from the library and devoured it. I laughed, I cried, and was overwhelmed and in awe with the goodness of our God. After listening to 2 podcasts interviews (Jamie Ivy and Annie Downs), I had to download the audible to hear Beth fight through tears as she read her own story. THEN, I went and bought her book so I could hold it and highlight parts I never want to forget. 😂 needless to say, I loved it and have told everyone I know to read it.

    I’d encourage you to never criticize a Christ follower for sharing their story (even if was complaining in your eyes). You never know the power of how your words could turn so many away from the very story they need to hear.

    From one sister in Christ to another, I’d encourage to listen to her tell her story. You feel her pain, fight the tears, and speak the goodness of our God even in her darkest moments. You might just have a different opinion —and see her as a woman, wife, mother, fellow sister in Christ who overcame all odds to spend her life sharing Jesus to women all over the world.

  98. Kaysey says

    I am reading a new book called Georgie, All Along (Kate Clayborn) right now and I think you would love it!

  100. Crista says

    Hi! I love your book
    Reviews every month! I had 2 cents to add about the Beth Moore book. I only listened on audio and found it charming and heartfelt. Sensitive things are much better processed for me with the author’s tone and inflection and sensitivity. In her voice, the lighthearted descriptions of her childhood and all the metaphors were charming with her speaking them (i can imagine they were harder to read) And the emotions of the hard parts were shared delicately in her voice.
    Just sharing to say, if someone was really interested in reading it, I’d recommend audio all the way. 💙

  101. Kelly Wilson says

    I just finished Anxious People by Fredrik Backman and absolutely loved it. It was so unique and well written, I never knew what was going to happen next! Definitely one of the best books I’ve read.

  103. Ashleigh Scott says

    Hi Shay! LOVE your book reviews! You MUST put “Tomorrow and Tomorrow and Tomorrow” on your TO READ list. It’s SOOOOO different absolutely incredible. Would love to hear your review on it!!

  104. Laurel M says

    I just read Hopeless by Colleen Hoover. It was so well written! Some pretty meaty topics but it dovetailed in nicely with the romantic plot line. And there’s a sequel!

  105. Libby says

    I wasn’t going to read Beth’s book, but my library had an audio book available, so I checked it out. I did not love the book. I found the beginning to be boring. My interest piqued around the time she was in college. I must say, she left me with many more questions than answers. I have done a few of her studies, so I don’t know all that much about her. I think she was authentic in discussing her and her husband’s issues with mental health. Maybe I missed it, but she did not really address how they came out on the other side. Obviously, she leaned on God, but was that it? Did they go through counseling? I think if she had talked about this, then maybe someone going through something similar would feel empowered and nudged to seek therapy. IDK. I’m not sure I even liked the book.

  106. Kristen says

    Complaining?! She had ever right to but it was far from it. I loved it! Best autobiography I’ve listened to! I feel it’s comments like these that keep women from speaking up and being real. Go Beth go!!

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