Bachelor Episode 10 Recap: We go to Thailand

I’ve waited 4 months to talk about this.  The longest four months of my life!

In case you missed it last night…we went to Thailand!

Now…if you know us, you know that we like to travel.  My kids had already been to 12 countries and between the 4 adults, we’d been to over 50 countries…so, traveling is our thing.  That being said, we flew for two days to arrive in Northern Thailand and then only stayed 3 days before flying home for two days.  Even your most experienced travelers would be exhausted after that!  Four days of flying and only 3 days of actually being at your destination is hard work!  But…we were so excited to do it!

On Friday, November 9, Lovie, Papa Jay, Andrew, Kensington, Smith and I arrived at DFW Airport to take a two day trek, 23 hours in the air, 4 flight journey to Chiang Rai, Thailand.

(see the black dot at the very, very top of Thailand…that’s where we went)

Here are my little ones at the airport waiting for our first (of four) flights to Chaing Rai.
Oh yes, we have this under control…

When I see this picture, I think about how clean and fresh I look.  Two days later, after four flights with two small children, I did not look this clean and fresh!

Shhhhhh!  It’s a secret that we’re going to Thailand.  

The trip started with a two hour delay at our home base airport…but nevertheless, we were excited and ready for this adventure of a lifetime!
Praise the Lord!  We made it to Chaing Rai!
This was our resort.  Each final destination situation is different but for this season, they couldn’t fit the entire crew in one hotel.  Therefore, we stayed at this resort with a few producers and the lighting guys while everyone else stayed between two other resorts.  Sean and his producer Cassie stayed in the house where the episode was filmed.

The view from our balcony.  The Bachelor was kind enough to give me and my family of four two adjoining rooms.  It was beautiful!

Checking out Thailand

We couldn’t let the kids go to sleep because we needed them to sleep that night.  It is a 15 hour time zone difference from Dallas to Chaing Rai…Kensington couldn’t even keep her head up while we ate lunch.
So, we decided to let them swim in order to keep them alert and awake.

They had the best time!

I love these three!  Swimming in Thailand!

The next morning, we had our only free day.  At this point, it is Monday, November 12 (because we crossed the international date line, we completely missed November 10…weird, right?!).  On our free day, we went with Katy (our fabulous producer and handler sitting next to my mom) to ride elephants.  The following two days would be filming, so this was our only real day in Thailand.

This is my “what in the world are we getting ourselves into” face.

We went to an elephant habitat…and it was magnificent.  I really can’t think of another way to describe it.

Kensington dancing with our Thai driver that shuttled us around for 3 days.

Look at us crazy fools about to ride elephants with our toddlers in Thailand.

This is us looking at the elephants going, “How do you expect us to climb up there?”.

We’re all still dumbfounded.  They literally said, “Grab its ear and pull yourself up.”.  What?  Excuse me?  Grab what?  Pull wear?  I needed a ladder.  And a Xanax.

They showed us how they could get the elephants to do tricks.  I was still busy thinking about how the heck I was going to climb up there.  Little did I know…climbing up was the easy part.  Climbing down…not so much.
We’re still dumbfounded.

But by the grace of God, we made it up.  I took several pictures of us climbing up…but I’ve been threatened by my mother never to post those on this website.  They’re not the most flattering.

Papa Jay getting the swing of things.

Andrew made it up.

And I made it up too!  I kept asking what I was suppose to hold on to…and again, the answer was his ear.  Seriously people!  Couldn’t you have given me a rope or something.  Reins maybe?  Nope.  Just his ear.

They asked me if I wanted Smith.  I couldn’t yell out “heck no” fast enough.  I was just trying to stay alive up there…the last thing I needed was my two year old.  Papa Jay took Smith.  Just your average day of having your 2 year old riding on an elephant’s forehead.

They hoisted Kensington up with Andrew.

And Lovie made it up too!

Before we went off with our elephants, we fed them bananas and sugar cane.

My mom looks like a pro!  She should join the circus.

My crew about to head out!
Ok…quick pause…I don’t have pictures of this but we rode the elephants for a long time…and waaaaay off the beaten path.  At one point, Andrew and my dad took their elephants into a lake and swam with them.  I’m not joking.  The water was taller than the elephants and they just walked right on through the water to the other side (with Andrew and my dad holding on).  It was incredible!

We had lunch at a beautiful restaurant after our elephant extravaganza.  This is Kensington looking at Burma…only a few miles away.

That night, we let the kids swim some more.  And drink fruity virgin drinks.

Smith had a snack (and yes, the tattooed man in the background is my husband).
After this mom and I had  Thai massages.  It was the best massage of my life!
And then we went to dinner with some of the producers.  Smith sat just like this for over two hours.

And Kensington like this.  They were beat.
Now…I have very limited pictures of the following two days.  But I have a few…
About 10 minutes after Catherine came in to meet us, we all looked over and saw this.

And he stayed like this for over 4 hours.  While we filmed a TV show…Smith napped.  The funniest part was that the crew kept leaning down and taking pictures with him.  I bet 20 people posed with sleeping Smith.

After two full days of filming in a house with no A/C (it had A/C but the producers shut it off, so that they could keep the doors open and it look pretty without hearing the A/C run…it was HOT!), we were done filming.  Andrew, Elan and me.  Elan just makes everything more fun :).

Cassie Lambert Scalettar (Sean’s producer), Alycia Rossiter (one of the Executive Producers) and Katy Chen (our producer and caretaker for the week).  These three ladies are so sweet and I wish I could hang out with them all the time.  XO

And here we are…about to head home the next morning.  Two days later, we arrived back in Dallas.  
Our experience with the Bachelorette and Bachelor was nothing but positive.  The producers and crew really create such a happy, family-like atmosphere.  Our trip to Thailand was short but it was fabulous.  I really do think the world of everyone involved in the production of this franchise.
As for the future…I’m just doing what I always do…I’m praying for my brother and his new relationship.  I’m praying for him to always trust in the Lord with all of his heart and live a life that pleases Him. Our life in Dallas is really simple…we love the Lord and we love our family.   The day Andrew and I turned in Sean’s application for the Bachelorette was just a random Monday night.  We had no idea what would happen after that.  No idea.  This experience has been a blessing because we’ve been able to meet so many wonderful people, we’ve been able to travel the world and more importantly, we’ve been able to share our faith.  

I’ve decided not to publish any mean or angry comments today about the show.  Normally, I publish all of my comments unless they have spoilers in them but today, I will not be publishing any that are rude, mean or hateful.

I started my blog 6 years ago as a way to scrap book my life.  I’ve been scrap booking my brother since day one and will continue to do so until I stop blogging (which I hope is never!).  Six years from now, you all will have moved on with life…many of you will even forget Sean was ever a Bachelor.  He will be old news.  But…I will still reflect back on my posts as a way to look at my family’s past…and I don’t want to look back at this post years from now and see hate.  This is a place for me to document my life…and right now, the Bachelor is a big part of my life.  But I want to look back and remember this as a good experience…and I don’t need mean comments connected to this post to make me remember it in a negative way.  I would love sweet comments though!  This process wouldn’t have been nearly as much fun without YOU!  From the bottom of my heart, thank you for cheering Sean on and being so supportive during this last year of our lives.  Thank you.

As always, you can check out my foodie blog here and Sheaffer’s A Bachelorette Told Me To here.


, Bachelor Episode 10 Recap: We go to Thailand
  • Ashley D March 12, 2013 at 9:50 am


    I love your blog and I am going to miss you on tv πŸ™

    You're one amazing fashionista who has a big heart, down to earth & knows how to rock it in the kitchen!

    Also, you're an amazing sister… I wish I could adopt ya as my big sis!

    Your kids are just too precious!!

    Thank you for sharing your experiences with us daily and your faith as well as those delicious recipes–YUM!

    Sooo next I think we need to see a Shay show?! Cooking + fashion & beauty!! πŸ™‚

    So thankful I found your blog

  • CaitCoak March 12, 2013 at 10:11 am

    Loved this post!!!
    Congrats on getting a new sister in law!!!!
    And I can't see what else you and your sweet family get into in 2013!!!!!! πŸ™‚

  • Megan Andrews March 12, 2013 at 10:19 am

    First of all, that recap was a hoot! How I would love to see the elephant-embarking pictures! I love the Bachelor but we are yet to see this season in Australia so I've been getting my fix from you. Second, good for you. Your blogs are such positive places to be and I think you are wise not to let any negativity seep in. Much love. x

  • Home of a Magnolia March 12, 2013 at 10:31 am

    Wow! What a beautiful trip. I have enjoyed reading you blog before and during the show. Loved reading such an upbeat positive view of the process. Wish you continued success with both blogs. Hope to keep up as your family tries to adjust to life after the show. Your family was so sweet last night. Thanks for sharing your faith through this process.

  • Kelly March 12, 2013 at 10:43 am

    I have enjoyed reading your blog this season and wish Sean, Catherine, and your family the best. Your father made me cry last night when he told Catherine he would be his biggest fan. What a beautiful, wonderful family.

    Question: How much time did you have each day with the girls? Did your children have a favorite? Thank you!

  • Anonymous March 12, 2013 at 10:46 am

    What a great show and outcome! Loved seeing Thailand, your sweet family, and a happy ending (really a beginning) for Sean and Catherine! Thanks for sharing the insider scoop/ behind the scenes of the journey with us. I am hoping the announcement Sean will make on GMA today involves another tv show, movie reviewer, or sports broadcater, or something. Sean did a n awesome job staying true to his faith and showing that he is a real person. Wishing your entire family so much more happiness!

  • Cathy and Marshall March 12, 2013 at 10:52 am

    The love, support, and respect of your entire family toward each other was clearly evident last night. You all could inspire many! Bravo to your parents for being such caring, down-to-earth people and for raising you and your brother to be as well. I really enjoyed watching your family on the show, and I LOVED the green top you wore! Thanks for sharing your behind-the-scene memories!

  • Blue-Eyed Bride March 12, 2013 at 11:17 am

    You and your whole family are awesome. I'm impressed by your realness and your faith, your love for your brother and your ability to handle your blog explosion with grace! Thank you for sharing your side of this experience with all of us! I'm glad to have found your blog through it. I wish Sean all of the best as he gets to know Catherine and they pray about their future together. What an exciting time for him!

  • The Dose of Reality March 12, 2013 at 11:21 am

    First of all, LOVED getting to see the behind the scenes from this blog entry! So much fun! πŸ™‚
    Secondly, congratulations to Sean and Catherine…last night's finale was amazing! πŸ™‚ We loved it, as you can see! πŸ˜‰

  • Anonymous March 12, 2013 at 11:25 am

    Hi Shay,
    I have loved reading your blog posts through the Bachelor process, and getting let in on all your behind the scenes knowledge. Your brother's proposal was one of the most heartfelt and genuine moments I have ever seen on TV, and him and Catherine look very happy and very much in love. I have a quick question – when did you and your family find out that it was Catherine that he was proposing to? When he returned to Dallas or did you know before the final rose ceremony? Thanks again for being such an example of a loving, open, beautiful family. Can't wait for the wedding!

  • Lori Beth March 12, 2013 at 11:30 am

    Love your posts! I feel like I know your family so well all the way from Atlanta! So neat to hear about all the behind the scenes from the bachelor! I am so impressed on what good lil travelers your kids are! Oh, and would love to hear where your green top is from when you met Catherine! So cute! Anyways congratulations are your new future sis in law! Catherine seems like such a sweetie! Hopefully will see y'all on the tv wedding:)

  • Tara G. March 12, 2013 at 11:30 am

    We were in Egypt and rode camels in the desert near the Red Sea…with our one year old. That part of the excursion was a surprise, but fun memories now!

    Rejoicing with you over this new chapter in your family's life!

  • Anonymous March 12, 2013 at 11:33 am

    You & your family are just so precious!!! I have truly loved reading your blog & will continue to do so even though the bachelor is over! I was so drawn to you & your family because of your strong faith and love of the Lord!! It was so neat to watch y'all last night because I just felt like I knew y'all. And PS your hair looked beautiful – I was like what is she talking about that it looked bad. You looked super cute & your kids are just little dolls! Best wishes on the next chapter!!

    Pamela – Georgia

  • Aaron and Shannon March 12, 2013 at 11:36 am

    Thank you for sharing your story through your blog! Last nights finale was amazing and I wish nothing but the best for Sean and Catherine! I am so impressed with how Sean carried himself through this process and love that he speaks so openly about his relationship with God! Can't wait to see what the future has in store for them!

  • Lisa Jones March 12, 2013 at 11:36 am

    Loved this post. I have enjoyed reading your blog throughout the show. Last night you looked beautiful and your family was amazing on the show! I can't wait to keep up with everything in the years to come!

  • Anonymous March 12, 2013 at 11:41 am

    Oh Shay! I love your blog, your family, your dad, and your brother! πŸ™‚ Y'all are just precious! I'm so curious to know your thoughts on how it all played out. I also have some questions…maybe for a future q and a.
    1. How long did y'all get to visit with each girl?
    2. How soon did you find out who he chose?
    3. Have y'all been able to have contact with them as a couple since?
    4. Are you excited about planning a TV wedding?

    Thanks for being so great and sharing this experience with all of us!

  • Baby Mama Juice March 12, 2013 at 11:57 am

    Wow! What an amazing trip for you and your family! Riding elephants?! I can't imagine! You looked absolutely gorgeous last night…not a day over 21! Your mom obviously doesn't age either! Your twins are just adorable! I have a two year old baby girl. I can't imagine how she would act on an all day flying adventure. Probably not as good as your world travelers! I love your blog and am so thankful to "The Bachelor" for introducing me to it!

  • Meagan @ The Clanahan Fam March 12, 2013 at 11:57 am

    I only wish I had found your blog earlier in the season! I've loved reading your recaps – and most importantly, reading how important family and faith is to y'all. My husband and I only watch the Bachelor seasons when, and I quote "he isn't a total tool" (courtesy of my husband). This season we have watched because it's been refreshing to see a guy who carries himself with so much integrity. And your entire family does as well! Anyway, thanks for sharing all of this and I am even more grateful it led me to find your foodie blog – I've only followed for 2 weeks and have already made several recipes. My kids are close in age to yours – almost 3 – and so I figure if yours eat it, then mine will too πŸ™‚ Thanks again!

  • Megan March 12, 2013 at 12:00 pm

    Just starting following your blog, you have a beautiful family!! Where did you get those green shorts? I love them πŸ™‚

  • Melissa F March 12, 2013 at 12:04 pm

    First of all, what a testimony of faithfulness that your family has shown on television – for that opportunity alone, I would say that this was all worth it. So many people have expressed how much they loved your family – especially your dad – and I believe God will use that example for years to come. You guys will not be long forgotten.

    Thanks again for your Behind the Scenes view of the show. It has been really cool to see some of the things we wouldn't normally see as viewers… as I have said before, your brother became my favorite after Emily's season – and frankly, the only reason I watched this season was because he was the Bachelor. I loved seeing his faith and his true intentions shine through. I pray that he has found his True Love (and it seems as if he has). The viewers, especially this one, are going to miss our weekly visits with Mr Sean Lowe.

    As it stands, you have gained a fan in me – I enjoy reading your posts and look forward to seeing your family grow and move on to your new home!


  • Jessica March 12, 2013 at 12:15 pm

    All last night I kept thinking, "I can't wait to read Shay's blog tomorrow!" I am obsessed with your family. Your dad was so sincere and sweet in the episode, he must be just the best. I can't imagine a better father in law. And watching your mom's conversation with Sean, I want a relationship like that with my son. Favorite season of the bachelor ever, just because I love seeing a good Christian man who stays true to his values. Can you give us any behind the scenes details about how Sean and Catherine made it work after the show finished filming, before it was public?? XOXO

  • Cheryl March 12, 2013 at 12:21 pm

    Watching the show last night was simply amazing……getting to know your mother and father…it is clear to see why you and Sean are the great people that you are…..your father with each of the girls…in particular with Catherine…he was simply amazing!!!!……Sean and his proposal….breathtaking….and that they have that on film to watch, how wonderful!!….Sean's tears???….simply beautiful……Sean and Catherine were so happy on after the rose….so genuine…….I'm praying for this couple!!!!…..Thank you for sharing the behind the scenes with us….truly enjoyable!!!!

  • Kim M. March 12, 2013 at 12:23 pm

    Shay, I started watching the Bachelor mid-season when I was put on bed rest for severe pregnancy complications (preeclampsia). Last night watching the finale with our healthy baby boy, my husband and I talked about how Sean is the kind of man we want to raise our sons to become! May God Bless Sean and Catherine and your whole family!

  • Katie DeKoster March 12, 2013 at 12:23 pm

    Catherine was always my favorite! I hope they both woke up this morning just blissfully happy and ready for the future πŸ™‚ Thanks so much for sharing all of your behind-the-scenes insights with us. It made this "journey" just that much more fun!

  • Aubs March 12, 2013 at 12:24 pm

    so i know i emailed you all kinds of stupid late last night but of course i have to comment here too!!! SO excited for your family!!

    Love how tiny Smith & Kensington looked on the elephants! What an amazing experience!! Hate that you even have to deal with negativity but you are so full of grace and I'm praying for your whole family! Hugs!!

  • Ali G March 12, 2013 at 12:26 pm

    What an amazing trip!! Kensington & Smith were great little troopers!! Sean is my favorite bachelor of all the seasons, he handled him self with such dignity & showed so much respect to all the ladies. He is a wonderful man & I wish him all the best. You have such an amazing family, I have truly enjoyed these recaps but I love reading all your posts as well so I will continue to check in & I am looking forward to hearing about your building process & new home! Best wishes!:)

  • Sheaffer {Pinterest Told Me To} March 12, 2013 at 12:34 pm

    Okay…so all I can think about last night's episode is how well you guys were represented as a family. I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE that America got to see who you guys y'all are! πŸ™‚

  • Ashley Barnhill March 12, 2013 at 12:37 pm

    I have loved following along with all of your posts throughout this season. You come from an incredible family (your dad made me cry twice last night!) and I am so happy to see what's to come. I think Catherine and Sean and are perfect for each other and that you will have an awesome sister in law!

  • Liz March 12, 2013 at 12:39 pm

    I loved seeing our travel agent on tv last night! LOVED your Dad, he made me cry twice. I wish the best for your brother. You looked super cute and I think you should be sainted for taking that kind of a trip with two little ones. Ha!

  • Jessica March 12, 2013 at 12:45 pm

    Congratulations to your brother and your entire family for getting such a happy ending to this journey! I pray Sean and Catherine find love and happiness and that your family is now complete! Looking forward to continuing reading your blog! xo

  • Anonymous March 12, 2013 at 12:48 pm

    Thanks for sharing your life with us….Love reading about your family and your kids are so cute:) I couldn't wait to read your blog today but I am a little disappointed that you haven't shared your feelings on Sean and Catherine…they seem like such a great couple…and I really hope they will share a lifetime of happiness!! Thank you for being so open….The elephant stories were a hoot!

  • buckles10 March 12, 2013 at 12:53 pm

    From following your blog..I felt like I knew your family while watching the show last night. LOVED seeing the children ….love Smith's remark about "Emily not choosing Uncle Sean"!! I felt I was watching my grandchildren…who always bring a smile to my face. πŸ™‚

  • Kelli Harshman March 12, 2013 at 12:54 pm

    Well said! Had so much fun getting to know you and your family this past year. Congrats to everyone on this new exciting adventure! Prayers!

  • Martha Jane March 12, 2013 at 12:57 pm

    Love your blog and love your precious family! May God continue to bless all of you as you seek to glorify Him in all you do! Thanks for using this crazy journey as an opportunity to share the love of Christ!!

  • Sarah March 12, 2013 at 12:59 pm

    Shay – I became hooked on your blog when Sean was on the Bachelorette! Love your realness, your honest expression of your faith, and the love your family shares! It reminds me so much of my own! I have enjoyed watching a wholesome, family-oriented, respectable Bachelor this time around with Sean….I even let my 7 year old daughter watch with me, which I've never been able to do before! So incredibly happy for Sean and Catherine … wishing them a lifetime of love, goofiness, and happiness! Furthermore, outside of the Bachelor world, I LOOOOOOVE the foodie blog … I've made bunches of your recipes, but I made your lasagna soup last night in honor of the Bachelor finale! It was a hit with my family, but theres no surprise there!)! Love and prayers to you and your family!!

  • Alice March 12, 2013 at 1:00 pm

    I love Catherine! I think she is great for Sean and I really really really hope that they will do whatever it takes to continue to grow their relationship and their love for one another.

    My favorite part of last nights episode was when Smith said "because Emily didn't pick you!" LOL!

    Your family is seriously amazing! Your dad made me cry twice last night and I cried when your mom cried.

    Also, your husband has some amazing arms and shoulders! But I bet you already know this.

    Looking forward to hearing more about Sean and Catherine in the future!

  • Dina March 12, 2013 at 1:07 pm

    Just read the ET article!!! DWTS!!!!!! That's my favorite show!!!!! How exciting!!!

  • Jill Farmer March 12, 2013 at 1:09 pm

    I think one of the best parts of this season was discovering your blog and beautiful family! I'll be a fan for life. Thanks for sharing your journey! I loved your "before" travel photo. I travel frequently alone with my 2.5 year old and often thought it would be interesting to see side by side photos as I typically look like I've run 3 marathons in a row and been hit by a truck by the end of the trip. One of these days the airlines will start charging me for the bags under my eyes! πŸ˜€

    All the best to you and your family!

  • Amie March 12, 2013 at 1:09 pm

    I was so looking forward to reading your thoughts on Sean and Catherine but there wasn't really much about that? I hope they have a long life of happiness, they seem very real and happy together πŸ™‚ Prayers to you and all of your family, thank you for sharing your faith and family with all of us.

  • Missy McDaniel March 12, 2013 at 1:11 pm

    What a NEAT experience for you and your family!!! Wishing Sean and Catherine a lifetime of happiness!!!!!
    Oh=here they come on GMA!!!

  • Whitney March 12, 2013 at 1:17 pm

    Last night's episode was awesome! Wow, what a family you have. Your dad made me and probably the rest of America sob with his sweet comments. It was so refreshing to a see a Christian man on the show and how well he handled the season. It has been a joy to follow Sean's journey and I am glad him and Catherine have found happiness together!! I wish them the best! πŸ™‚

  • Hilary March 12, 2013 at 1:18 pm

    Well done Lowe & Shull family! I can't say that enough. The entire season of the Bachelor was impressive because of Sean, your family, and because of God. It was fun to watch…even though I have never met you. Being that I have read your blog for 3-4 years I was surprised at a few things about your family during the show….
    1. I thought you would have a much deeper southern accent πŸ™‚
    2. You never had a cup of coffee in your hand while on the show
    3. None of your posts to the Bachelor included pictures of your food πŸ™
    I will continue to hold your family in my prayers and hope that you guys can get back to "normal". Again your family should be proud of the way you represented yourselves on national tv.

  • Sharon March 12, 2013 at 1:19 pm

    What a great season. The most sincere Bachelor yet. Look forward to blog posts about Sean and Catherine as a couple off the screen.
    Now I think that Andrew and Papa Jay should be re-applying for the Amazing Race.

  • Ashley March 12, 2013 at 1:25 pm

    Every Tuesday I look forward to getting on here and reading about your thought on the Bachelor. I am so going to miss that!
    But I will still get on here to read about your food and sweet family.
    Thank you to your family for putting your faith out there. For Christians, it is so refreshing to see that! We don't see it often on TV. But I am thankful Sean and your family showed their faith. Sean was by far my favorite. It will be hard to top this season.
    Best wishes to you Mix and Match Mama!!!
    -Ashley, Alabama πŸ™‚

  • Angela Ellingson March 12, 2013 at 1:35 pm

    Incredible! What an experience. Your family is amazing. I wish I had parents half as loving as yours. How much different life would be… Would they be open to adopting me? I'm 28 so I'd be pretty low maintenance. πŸ™‚ Seriously though, you and Sean are so blessed, as I know you both already know. Happy for you. And congrats to Sean and Catherine. Sean has set the bar high as The Bachelor. Such a good man. I will continue to follow your blogs. You are an inspiration and I just love your recipes. πŸ™‚

  • KRISTIN March 12, 2013 at 1:40 pm

    It's been so fun following along with you throughout the season! I am so happy that Sean found love and I hope that it lasts forever and ever.

    Your family is so inspiring. I loved watching you all last night. It was refreshing to see a REAL loving and caring family. Your dad was the sweetest and your mom was such a great mama worrying about her son. So sweet!

    Much love to your whole family!

  • Michelle Nobbe March 12, 2013 at 1:42 pm

    I love your family, and I don't even know you! As a Christian, I am so glad that Sean and your family were able to share your faith through the show. He was the BEST Bachelor ever! I wish you and your family nothing but the best! I will definitely continue following your blogs and trying out your recipes. Thank you for sharing a part of your life with everyone! God bless you and your family!

  • Cindy F. March 12, 2013 at 1:45 pm

    So well said Shay! Thanks for sharing. Your family is so much like mine, I love seeing it. My Mom is here right now actually b/c I'm "catching my healing" and she's playing with my 3.5yo son! Blessing.

  • Alison Chitwood Peters March 12, 2013 at 1:48 pm

    I didn't watch the show very much but I followed it through your recaps and on a couple websites. The lead never seems to choose my favorite so I stopped watching; however, I am truly glad that I found your blog. I love your food recipes and I'm always, always, always looking for outfit ideas. I'm 32 and a runner so I'm about your size too. I have 3 children, ages 6 and 5 (17 months apart) and a 15 month old — yes, all the same father. πŸ™‚ I do get that question! :o) Because of my children, I enjoy looking at your pictures of your kiddos too. I love that you all are religious, just as we are and more importantly, you have so much love in your family, just as my family does. Hugs to your family as you return to some sense of normalcy and please know, you have picked up some readers that read your blog for reasons other than The Bachelor too! You have a lovely family, wonderful faith and awesome friendships – can't wait to continue reading about it all! πŸ™‚ Hugs!

  • Jodi March 12, 2013 at 1:49 pm

    SO happy for Sean and Catherine. They are so sweet and fun together. I really hope they have a long and happy live together! Sean has been my favorite Bachelor by far and I have watched every single one. Love this show!

    Looks like a great trip. Too bad you didn't get to stay longer!

  • K. Franks March 12, 2013 at 1:50 pm

    I was blown away last night at Sean talking about having a peace from God and how He knew that Catherine was who God had for him ON LIVE TV IN AMERICA!! GO SEAN, PREACH!! I hope, pray and just know that lives were impacted for God by Sean. What an example of a man of God and what pursuing and praying for a relationship should look like. I pray that God blesses their relationship and blesses Sean for taking a stand for Christ to the entire world!! I know that is one of the main reasons why y'all sent in that application that night because God knew it would lead to this and HIM being glorified! Thanks Shay for taking a stand also and letting your light shine πŸ™‚

  • Allison Boutwell March 12, 2013 at 1:51 pm

    Your family is seriously the sweetest! Congrats on your new {future} sister in law! Thank you for sharing this experience πŸ™‚

  • Shawna March 12, 2013 at 1:51 pm

    Loved this season of the Bachelor! It was so fun to watch Sean handle it all in a classy Christian way and travel along the adventure with you blogging! We had a hilarious girls night last night am that was filled with laughter, tears, and themed snacks! You've got to check out our menu on my blog!! We even made a snack for you!

  • Anonymous March 12, 2013 at 1:51 pm

    Will you be going to a taping of DWTS? Congrats to your NEW addition to the family! #LUCKYGIRL

  • Jules March 12, 2013 at 1:53 pm

    I'm so going to miss spending Monday nights with your brother! πŸ™‚ Your family is just precious! Your Dad definitely had me in tears last night! I hope Sean and Catherine have a beautiful life together!
    Your blog is one of my favorites, so ill definitely keep reading!!

  • sl March 12, 2013 at 1:54 pm

    Loved your brother. Love how your parents talked about praying for his wife since the day he was born. Loved that he talked about praying ove r the decision. What a great family!!!

  • Shawna March 12, 2013 at 1:54 pm

    We have loved watching this season! It was so much fun to see a Christian man go through this process and see him turn to God often as any of us would do! It was even fun reading your blog and learning bits and pieces and getting to know your sweet family even more! We had a hilarious girls night for the viewing party where we had themed snacks! We even made one for you! Check it out on my blog:

  • Anonymous March 12, 2013 at 1:55 pm

    You are definitely a highlight of watching the show. You have "rehumanized" this process and show for me. It is easy to sit and home and get wrapped up in the drama or t.v. part and forget that there are lives and families behind it.
    I pray the Lord's blessings and faithfulness on your family. It is so wonderful to see your devotion to your family.

    Happy for you all,

  • BrittM March 12, 2013 at 1:58 pm

    I'm so sad that this season is coming to an end and we'll not have your recaps to look forward to on Tuesday mornings:( Thanks for making us, your fans, feel like insiders for a season! I learned so much!
    And your family is AMAZING! I loved that ABC shed some quality light on Sean's faith last night, as well as your entire family's faith. Your dad was the highlight of the show last night and served an amazing example for my husband and I on how we'll one day welcome new members into our family. And although I hated to see your mom's tears, it was such a sweet and transparent moment when Sean took her for a walk to comfort her fears. You have an amazing family and it was so refreshing to see a faith based family hit primetime TV.

    Blessings to you all! Thanks for taking us on this ride with you. I'm a huge fan and can't wait to keep following your food blog. Your recipes have already become part of our meal rotation:)

  • Angela March 12, 2013 at 1:59 pm

    I love reading both of your blogs and I am so happy I found them! Your family is precious! I have a daughter and a son as well – they are 3 years apart in age but they are truly best friends! Best wishes to you and yours in the future!

  • Anonymous March 12, 2013 at 2:05 pm

    Shay…thank you for sharing through your blog. I have found it b/c of the Bachelorette – when Sean was on, but have remained a loyal reader and plan to continue. Your family is an inspiration. I was raised in a believing family and I want to pass on the love and support I received and then some. The words your parents expressed were so much the kind of parent I want to be to my three blessings. Your Dad totally makes me cry and I get emotional knowing that my hubby will hopefully be saying similar words someday. Bless you and like you said praying for Sean is the best thing! He is a Godly man and I pray that he and your family continue to be blessed.

  • Lydia March 12, 2013 at 2:07 pm

    I am truly going to miss your Tuesday blogs but I hope you will contiue during your little brother's time on DWTS. I can't get enough of the Lowe family and hope this means you will be on our TV at least a few more Monday nights and then of course for THE WEDDING!! Your father is such an amazing man, I feel he won the hearts of everyone all over again last night! You are so blessed to have such a grounded, strong & loving family. Your hair looked just fine and those kids of yours are SO adorable! Many thanks to you and Andrew for sending in that application on a random Monday night b/c your brother has been my all time favorite Bachelor and I wish him, his bride & amazing family many years of happiness! I can't wait to see blogs that include them together in real life outside of the cameras and thanks to you and your fabulous blog I will be able to! Don't let the rude comments get to you, these people have nothing better to do than write nasty stuff from the other side of the computer screen! Thanks for sharing your journey and I hope you continue to do so for many years to come!

  • Elizabeth Babicke March 12, 2013 at 2:12 pm

    Thank you so much for allowing us a personal look into your family's life.

    You are sweet wonderful people and I have so enjoyed getting to know you through the show and through your blog.

    I wish Sean and Catherine and your family all the best!

  • aprilparrish March 12, 2013 at 2:15 pm

    Shay I have so enjoyed reading your food blogs and of course about your little brother!!! So happy for Sean & Catherine! Praying for their relationship and for God to guide them and your family.
    I was super excited to hear that Sean will be joining Dancing with the Stars! How amazing- I loved watching the Bachelor and I am a dance teacher/studio owner so SEAN's GOT MY VOTE!!!!
    Also wanted to tell you that I think you and your family are amazing. I came across your Dad's website-Witnessing Made Easy and it will definitely be something that I purchase. It is so important to reach others about the Lord!!! You and your family were put in this place for a reason and y'all SHINED!!!

  • Janet March 12, 2013 at 2:15 pm

    Shay- Thank you for welcoming America (and the world) into your home, your growing family, and your life with the Lord. Praying for all of you, knowing that the world is watching-for now- and what an awesome responsibility that can be. Thank you and your family for standing up with a witness of the mighty work of God and being a witness for Him through your lives.

  • Ashlan March 12, 2013 at 2:19 pm

    WOW! What an amazing experience! I got up first thing this morning and ran to check your blog. I couldn't wait to hear your side of the story.

    Last night's episode was one of the best ever. Your family is so genuine and such a great example of Christ's love! Your dad was precious! I pray for Sean and Catherine as they start this real life relationship. May your family continue to be blessed!

    Thank you so much for sharing your life with us all. And I'm so glad I found your blog. Your recipes are amazing, my family loves them!! πŸ™‚

    God bless! I will continue to pray for your sweet brother. πŸ™‚

  • Anonymous March 12, 2013 at 2:19 pm

    Dear Shay – thank you for giving us this glimpse into your family's life! I believe that your family is completely genuine and you represented yourselves so well last night!

  • Mickie Pho March 12, 2013 at 2:19 pm

    I think after last night, your mom and dad probably have their own huge fan following. I don't even watch the Bachelor but since I live in Fort Worth, I felt compelled to watch. πŸ™‚
    I just think your parents are amazing and wished everyone's parents could be so cool and loving!

  • Ashlan March 12, 2013 at 2:20 pm

    WOW! What an amazing experience! I got up first thing this morning and ran to check your blog. I couldn't wait to hear your side of the story.

    Last night's episode was one of the best ever. Your family is so genuine and such a great example of Christ's love! Your dad was precious! I pray for Sean and Catherine as they start this real life relationship. May your family continue to be blessed!

    Thank you so much for sharing your life with us all. And I'm so glad I found your blog. Your recipes are amazing, my family loves them!! πŸ™‚

    God bless! I will continue to pray for your sweet brother. πŸ™‚

  • beccaandlee abel March 12, 2013 at 2:27 pm

    What an amazing family you all are! Watching the show last night made my heart happy to see such a close family being so supportive! I love everything about yall!

  • beccaandlee abel March 12, 2013 at 2:28 pm

    I just love your family! What an inspiring group of people, so much love and support…aww its great! You and your family remind me of lifes important things. Yall are so great!

  • Rach~ March 12, 2013 at 2:33 pm

    Hi Shay,
    Just wanted to say I have enjoyed getting to "Know" you and your family. I love your blogs and follow them.
    I love your parents …they seem so Christ like and kind!
    I wish Sean nothing but the best and, hope he and Cathrine have a happy life:)
    You have a beautiful family!and I also like all the fashion advice as well:)

  • Shana March 12, 2013 at 2:35 pm

    Hi Shay, thx for sharing your experience with us. I was so moved last night by two things (1) your dad is the warmest, kindest, most genuine man. He exudes love for his family and what he said to Catherine was incredibly touching. (2) watching Sean interact with his mom so sweetly and respectfully gives us a glimpse into his character. Your family is obviously full of love and respect for each other and it shows. I'm surprised you didn't comment on Catherine, but I hope that you love her and are happy with Sean's decision. Sean is so sincere and I hope they get married and have a happy life. Also, I've tried some of your recipes from your blog and have enjoyed them. Take care!

  • beth March 12, 2013 at 2:45 pm

    What a fun (and abnormal – in a good way) experience for your entire family? I know it will be so fun to look back at the show, your posts, and pictures in 20 years from now! Thank you for giving us a behind the scenes look at the show – so fun! And thank you for showing America that there are normal, sweet, genuine people out there that love Jesus and love their family like no other. Good stuff!

  • Michelle March 12, 2013 at 2:46 pm

    I don't remember how I stumbled across your blog a while back, but I am so glad I did. Sean's season of the bachelor has been a favorite one. I could see his sincerity throughout the entire season. I enjoyed following his story. I haven't seen the finale just yet because I wasn't home last night. I plan to catch up later today. (but I've been getting bits here and there on who he picked πŸ™‚

    I enjoyed this post of you guys in Thailand. Thank you for sharing! I'm sure it was quite difficult not to post when this happened! It seemed like such an exciting time for you and your family.

    Blessings to you and your family! Loving your blog….I'll be staying tuned! πŸ™‚

  • Annie March 12, 2013 at 2:48 pm

    Shay, Thank you so much for all that you shared during this season. I am also blessed with a very close family, and my brothers and I are more like friends than siblings. Your family is beautiful, inside and out. Catherine is a very lucky young lady to be a part of your future. My prayers are with Sean and Catherine as they being planning their wedding. It's going to be so much fun watching this all unfold. Thank you for sharing your faith, integrity, love, and humor. Enjoy this wonderful adventure. Annie.

  • Angela March 12, 2013 at 2:49 pm

    Hi Shay,
    I am relatively new to reading your blog and I just want to tell you that I enjoy reading it (and your cooking one too!) and will keep checking in! I really enjoyed The Bachelor this season! I loved that your brother talked openly about his faith in our Lord. And I have to tell you that your dad made me cry when he talked to each girl! And then Sean's proposal made me cry too! My husband even watched last night, he is not a big Bachelor fan, and said it was very sweet. Congrats to Seean & Catherine and your families! πŸ™‚

  • Dawn March 12, 2013 at 2:50 pm

    Your husband is GOREOUS!!! My friends and I were watching last nights finale and of course we think Sean is just as handsome and hunky as can be. Then we saw you walk in with your beautiful children and then they flashed to your husband and we all said "DANG!! Look at the Brother-in-law!!!!" What an absolutely stunning family you have and your Mom and Dad were so kind. What great people you seem like. Very regular. Nice to see that on tv. Hope to see sweet Catherine in some family pictures soon on your blog.

  • Lee and Anna Hogan March 12, 2013 at 2:51 pm

    What a great trip! I was watching last night and got my husband and said, "Look, that's Shay! That's the girl whose blog I read!!!" He goes, "You know you don't really know her, right?" Lol! Thanks for sharing the behind-the-scenes stuff with us. It has been really fun to read about your family and learn some new recipes. I really enjoyed seeing how genuine Sean was throughout this season. I got choked up last night seeing his reaction to your mom crying. It was such a true moment. You could just see how much your family loves one another. Looking forward to more blog posts!

  • Maureen W. (Maryland) March 12, 2013 at 2:53 pm

    Wow, I have SO many things I want to say this morning!

    1. The FIRST thing I did when I woke up this morning was read your BLOG.

    2. While watching last night, I thought to myself, "PLEASE tell me K&S got to ride ELEPHANTS after trekking all the way to THAILAND!!"

    3. I could have stopped watching after the first 30 minutes of the show because, after seeing your FAMILY, I really didn't care about the outcome anymore. I seriously wanted to climb into my TV just to hang out with you all. Fiancee or not, Sean is abundantly blessed in life.

    4. I have now added to my BUCKET LIST, right beneath "Have coffee with Shay and Lovie", "HUG PAPA JAY". You already told your readers last year, "No, he can't be your dad", but let's just say that if he were to write a book (which he totally should), I would pre-order it right now! Off to Google "Jay Lowe" to see if any of his sermons are on YouTube …

    5. Sean's going to be on DWTS! I had heard that rumor and thought you were foreshadowing it with your post a week or so ago about how K loved dancing around your family room, watching her favorite movie "White Christmas". I will look for you in the audience and hope K & S get to make another appearance as well.

    6. Speaking of K & S, their cuteness did not get nearly enough air time last night.

    7. From my previous comments, it is obvious that CATHERINE was not "my pick", but I join you in praying for your brother's happiness, as I do for all of my friends, knowing that God is all-knowing and all-powerful and His plan is far greater than the work of the producers of The Bachelor!

    8. I think it is amazing that a conservative family with traditional values garnered the best ratings and such fan support. Liberal views seem to be glamorized on TV, yet you were a beautiful testament to the contrary.

    9. I started watching The Bachelor(ette) after Brad's first season when he chose nobody and continued watching ever since because I never felt like I had "closure". Now, even though Catherine was not "my pick", I feel satisfied. I believe the show's purpose is to entertain, not to truly facilitate marriages. I was thoroughly entertained in a positive way.

    10. It still brings a smile to my face when I think of Smith wanting to see the "water firemen" rescue Tierra and then being so perplexed by her running mascara!

    11. I cried more in the first 30 minutes of the show than I did watching Lindsay get her heart broken just because the Lowe-Shulls are so beautiful, from your dad's words, to the tender way Andrew watches over your children, to the precious way Sean took your mom for a walk when she became emotional.


  • Crystal Chilek March 12, 2013 at 2:57 pm

    Hi Shay! Just curious how much time you have been able to spend with Sean and Catherine and how your relationship with her is and your thoughts on your brothers proposal. πŸ™‚

  • Laura March 12, 2013 at 3:02 pm

    I was so pleased that Sean picked Catherine in the end! I think I actually would have been happy for him either way, he seemed to have a spark with both girls, but Lindsay just seemed so very young a lot of the time… and he and Catherine just seemed so natural with each other, like they'd been together for years. They certainly seemed like best friends on the After the Final Rose.

    I totally thought they were going to announce that they were already married! Haha! Anyway great posts Shay, I will continue reading πŸ™‚

  • mercergal March 12, 2013 at 3:03 pm

    I couldn't be happier for Sean and Catherine. I think she is lovely and he is such a stand up guy. I'll miss your recaps!

  • Lauren & Eddie March 12, 2013 at 3:05 pm

    I have had so much fun reading your blog this season. I found it back during The Bachelorette but it was so much fun to get the "scoop" from you this time around. I have to admit that I read the spoilers so I thought I knew all along and I loved Catherine. They are so sweet together. Best wishes to them!

  • Anonymous March 12, 2013 at 3:06 pm

    How come we didn't get to see any alone time with you and the ladies?

  • Anonymous March 12, 2013 at 3:11 pm

    You looked so gorgeous in Thailand Shay! I hope you'll post about your adorable wardrobe! Loved everything we saw you in!

  • Farmer's March 12, 2013 at 3:14 pm

    Absolutley love you & your family! It's so refreshing to see a family/Bachelor that loves the Lord on TV!! Wish you all the best…LOVE your blogs!!

  • Laura Freeman March 12, 2013 at 3:16 pm

    You are a wonderful person with a fantastic family, you can sense the love you have for your family in your words and I don't know why anyone would want to show hate or unkind words. I've not been able to watch The Batchelor as I'm in the UK but I've been following your blog for years and I've always thought Sean comes across as a very genuine and loving guy and I hope he has a full and happy life whether it is continuing with his new relationship or not. Life is a wonderful journey and we should never hold ourselves back or settle for second best. I'm sending you all my love from across the ocean xx

  • Anonymous March 12, 2013 at 3:18 pm

    Thank you so much for posting about traveling with your little ones! I couldn't believe I read that right… 12 countries! Amazing! My husband and I have been thinking about starting our family soon but in the back of my mind I always thought that traveling with kids would be nearly impossible. I went on and read some of your other traveling posts and am so impressed! Thank you so much for giving me a new outlook!

  • Kristen March 12, 2013 at 3:19 pm

    You and your family were SO adorable! I CRIED watching your mom and Sean interact. I leaned over to my husband and said "they did such a good job with their kids – I pray that my son treats me with such respect and love when he's a grown man." Seriously! That was the sweetest scene ever!
    I LOVE your mom! Can she adopt me?? (my mom passed away 20 years ago – just saying that so it doesn't sound like I have an awful mom! πŸ˜‰

    Anyway, watching the Bach. this time around has been so much more special b/c of your commentary here as well as your brother's integrity and kindness. Blessings to you and your sweet family.

    p.s. thanks so much for the great advice on what to do about those shoes — I'm heading to Nordstrom today to see if they have any thoughts on helping them fit, or possibly returning them.

  • mel @ the larson lingo March 12, 2013 at 3:22 pm

    What an incredible season for Sean! Your family is so awesome & such a testimony of God's love and faithfulness. It is so evident you all have the love of Christ shining through you! Much love to your family!!! Fun to follow along this season.

  • Anonymous March 12, 2013 at 3:27 pm

    Sean is my favorite bachelor of all time and now I know why. He comes from the most amazing, loving and faithful family! As a fellow Dallas-area resident, thank you for representing us so well. Much love and happiness to you all!

  • klmoore23 March 12, 2013 at 3:28 pm

    I first came to your blog becuase of the link to Seah, however I am hooked not only because I love waking up to a new entry each morning, but because your love for life, Christ and family is evident each and everyday. I'm so happy for Sean and pray that God guides him in the next couple of months with his new relationship. Congratulations to your family and look forward to reading the new entries about Sean's entrance into the dance world! xoxo

  • Renee I March 12, 2013 at 3:31 pm

    What am I going to do Monday nights?! Please start a show!! Fashion+Food=Shay <3

    Thank you for always sharing your experiences with us. It was great!! and Congrats on the New Sis-In-law!

    I wanted to point out that your dad rocked it. I was worried he would take the show! I was really hoping for the Red Sox Shirt but no go?

    Nicely done Shay and Fam!! You guys are incredible!!
    Luuve you guys!!

  • Ashley (Lexington, NC) March 12, 2013 at 3:33 pm

    Loved this blog! You should do a blog on finances. It is obvious that you and your husband plan your money well or you wouldn't be able to go on so many trips! Do y'all have a plan to where you save money each month for a future trip? I want to travel to big places like Thailand but I have no idea how to save the money to go!

    Anyway, Loved your blog once again! I am so happy that this bachelor was based more on faith than any others that I have seen! Your family was truly an inspiration and positive influence for everyone to see. Thanks again.

  • Elaine~ Honey Pie Accessories March 12, 2013 at 3:38 pm

    Eek! You have so many wonderful comments; i'm not even sure how you'll read through them all! First, thank you for sharing and posting during your brother's season! It has been so wonderful getting a sneak peek and a behind the scenes glimpse into what goes into the show, and that y'all are real people! It was also amazing to see the faith that was poured out amongst Sean, and finally Catherine, and your family. I really hope that you'll continue to keep us up to date, with your family, Sean's run on Dancing With the Stars, and throughout the wedding process! I was so excited to hear them announce that they'll be getting married soon and on t.v.! Mostly, because I think it showed their faith in God and committment they made to each other. I turned off the t.v. thinking, that their relationship was real, and that they'll turn to God when any hardships come up, and not many couples do. Also, your dad was fabulous! And, I agree w/ the others- when he said that he'll be Catherine's biggest fan, it was the sweetest thing I have ever heard! I think in 6 years, i'll still read your blog, and by then, maybe Sean and Catherine will be having babies! Thanks for sharing your family with the world!

  • Christy March 12, 2013 at 3:48 pm

    Your dad brought tears to my eyes. I loved the comment that when you married Andrew, he became your dad's best friend. Thank you for sharing your experience with us. I love seeing people so open with their faith on TV.

  • A Wedding Story March 12, 2013 at 3:48 pm

    It's so refreshing to see positive people that shine God's love in their words and actions! I truly believe you guys are the real deal and so many people may have needed to see your faith and love! Very excited for Sean and Catherine and their future. What a good sister you are!

  • Angela March 12, 2013 at 3:51 pm

    Your dad seriously made me cry talking to both girls but especially Catherine! What an amazing loving guy. πŸ™‚ so happy for Sean and Catherine!! I don't think God has been mentioned on prime time tv so much…ever! Proud of Sean for staying true to his faith. I know their wedding will be such a great testimony to our faithful God whose promises always persevere, in His own timing. πŸ™‚

  • Karen Peterson March 12, 2013 at 3:56 pm

    I have to admit, I normally watch The Bachelor and The Bachelorette for the laughs. It all just seems so silly and sometimes ridiculous. Especially since the relationships are usually over before the finale even airs.

    That being said, I was so surprised last night by how caught up I was in Sean and Catherine's story. They look so genuinely happy together and it makes me think maybe good things can happen as a result of this silly show.

    I wish them all the best!

  • Jaylyn Bond March 12, 2013 at 4:02 pm

    Ahh I am so sad this is over πŸ™ Sean has been the BEST Bachelor yet! And your whole family is just amazing!!! Sean is so lucky to have you has his sister, you rock! Oh and my fave tweets last night were about how HOT Andrew is.. LOl.. girl you did good! Hehe. xoxo

  • Anonymous March 12, 2013 at 4:09 pm

    If I didn't already love and miss you guys so much, I would love and miss you guys now!! It was so cool to see you guys on TV but what was so awesome is that America got to see what y'all are really like!! Again, no fair to show me your mom & dad crying!! I couldn't stand it! I love you guys so much!!! I am so proud of and happy for all of you!! You guys rock!! BTW I saw Mr. Low-ee carrying his red sox hat in his hand when leaving Sean's house. I literally LOL!! Michelle Morphis

  • JenetFuller March 12, 2013 at 4:19 pm

    You're family was so cute on the show – loved all the comments about your hubby on twitter! I'm glad it's over because my favorite posts of yours are ones about your life and family and not so much about the Bachelor.

  • Anonymous March 12, 2013 at 4:20 pm

    Great blog!! It's nice to see a different perspective what takes place behind the scenes .Last night was the most genuine romantic proposal I have seen in Bachelor history. Praying for Sean and Catherine for a God centered relationship.They both seem grounded and down to earth.I have hopes they will survive the media circus and Bachelor curse. You are an awesome sister.BTW your kids are so darn cute:).Catherine is lucky to have you as a family.

  • Elizabeth March 12, 2013 at 4:24 pm

    You and your family have made watching this year's Bachelor so much fun. I love all the little glimpses into how the show is made. Sean is a class act and I wish he and Catherine nothing but the best. I'm also pretty sure that The Bachelor producers should hire you, your dad, and your mom to counsel all the future casts of this show. Your advice was always spot on!
    For future blog posts, would you consider telling us any secrets or hints you have for traveling with toddlers? I dread 3 hour trips to grandparents…could not even imagine flying for 23 hours with them!
    Also-what is your moms secret to looking fabulous and young?!? She's gorgeous!

  • Anonymous March 12, 2013 at 4:45 pm

    So glad you're going to keep blogging about your family. Can't wait to watch Sean, Catherine and the rest of your family grow. I'm going to pray that the world will let this couple be and that they'll be able to overcome the mud that the media will try and put them through. Blessings to your family!

  • Marissa March 12, 2013 at 4:51 pm

    Shay- I am a long time bachelor fan and once again am so sad that another season is over. I loved Sean and think he is just a plain and simple "class act". As a Christian, I thank you and your family for putting a true representation of what a Christian family should be out for America to watch.

    As a dance teacher, I am so excited that Sean is going to embark on DWTS. I am hoping that you will continue to blog about those episodes too! I work at a large Christian Dance Studio in the DFW area where we nurture an environment of innocence and morality for competitive dancers in a world where those values are not always held important. If Sean ever needs a place near home to rehearse for DWTS, let us know. We would be happy to open up our studio to him.

    Again, thank you for entertaining me all season with your posts!

    Footlights Dance Studio

  • Anonymous March 12, 2013 at 4:51 pm

    I absolutely love your blog! I'm a foodie myself and thoroughly enjoy cooking and baking for my family! Keep the delish recipes coming!
    What a testament you and your family have been of Gods love! It's nice to see someone who values their family and love for Jesus Christ the way you do! We need more of this in the world πŸ™‚
    And I must add.. Sean was such an act of class on The Bachelor! You must be so proud! Best wishes to him!
    Lots of love from Kentucky!!

  • brandonandmandycox March 12, 2013 at 11:57 am

    πŸ™‚ Love all of this!

  • Audrey March 12, 2013 at 4:58 pm

    Eek! So many thoughts on this post and last night! Can I tell you how in love with your family I am?? Your amazing dad made me cry – twice. Your mom is so beautiful and kind. Your kids are the most adorable munchkins ever. And you and your husband are such a lovely couple! Catherine is BEYOND blessed to enter into such a God-loving, warm happy family.

    Thank you so much for sharing your Thailand pictures and thoughts with us. How awesome to ride those incredible elephants!

    I'm sad the season's over, as this was my favorite "Bachelor" run yet. It was so refreshing to see a Bachelor who honors and loves the Lord on TV.

    Wishing you and your family only the best – I'll continue to visit (and love!) your blog!

  • Tabaitha March 12, 2013 at 5:00 pm

    I absolutely loved watching the Finale last night! The love is evident as you watch Sean look at Catherine. You can see why your family has such a bond. As I watched your mom and dad speak to Sean and each of the girls, especially your dad, you can tell they have led your family with faith first and your home was full of love. Thanks for blogging your journey as well.

  • Karen At Home March 12, 2013 at 5:14 pm

    Your family is so adorable Shay! How cute that everyone was taking pictures of sleeping Smith. What an amazing experience your family had.
    Thank you so much for nominating Sean as the Bachelor and sharing your beautiful family with America. Your parents are wonderful people, I was in tears last night just listening to your Dad interact with the girls. It's been such a pleasure following your blog since the Bachlorette.
    So glad to have met you!

  • Jaren March 12, 2013 at 5:21 pm

    I have really enjoyed reading all of your posts since I discovered your blog. Thank you for taking us along on this journey with you! I've been a fan of Bachelor since it began, and I have LOVED getting to know all your behind the scenes details. Let me just say this: Your brother has been the best Bachelor yet! It has been so refreshing seeing the show take on a more conservative approach and that is with the help of your brother. What a catch! Because of my love for the show, I also got to find your family blog and your foodie blog, both of which I have so enjoyed because I can so relate to your life with little ones and family. Even with the show over, I will still look forward to your great posts about anything and everything!

  • Parisian Heart March 12, 2013 at 5:27 pm

    Shay, I have so enjoyed getting to know (albeit from afar) you and your family. I enjoy reading your blogs–the Bachelor-themed ones and just the ones about your life. I watched part of the first season of The Bachelor (Alex Michel), but the show truly touched my heart when I saw Trista and Ryan fall in love during the first season of The Bachelorette. I watched the next few seasons, but at some point, my interest waned. This season, however, I watched every.single.episode. Why? Because it was Sean. I had come to know and love him on The Bachelorette when I watched most of the season with Emily. I was so excited to see the possibilities when the Bachelor was a man whose faith in God was evident. It made such a difference this season, and I believe it might even change the course of the show for seasons to come. I offer my thanks to you and your family for sharing your faith-filled lives with us. You represent Christ well as you demonstrate how wonderful a life informed by faith can be; you are kind, fun, adventurous, and beautiful inside and out.

    What fun it is to see your pictures and learn about what you and your family experienced on your trip to Thailand! Thank you for sharing these.

    I pray that God will bless Sean and Catherine with a fabulous marriage, and I hope to "keep up" with you and your family for a long time to come.

  • sam March 12, 2013 at 5:37 pm

    So glad I found your blog! Your family is great! And I love your food! My family is loving your recipes – delicious!! Thanks for sharing your brother with us. I hope he and Catherine continue on their wonderful path.

  • Heidi March 12, 2013 at 5:38 pm

    Shay!!! Where did you get your blue/grey top that you have on in the airport photos?? LOVE it & your blog!!!!!

  • Anonymous March 12, 2013 at 5:57 pm

    Good for you. Keep praying for your brother and keep sharing your faith. At the end of the day…only what you do, for Jesus Christ will last…Everything esle will fade, like the future becomes the past. Remember only what you do for CHRIST will last. Pray without ceasing girl. "Seek ye first the kingdom of God and its righteousness and all other things will be added unto you." Matt 6:33

    Keep praying for your brother and your family. I wish him and you all the best.

    P.S. he doesnt need to rush into marriage…take heedthe to his mother…sometimes I hate to admit it…but mothers know BEST.

  • Sarah March 12, 2013 at 6:09 pm

    I think this was the perfect post to end the season! I enjoyed following the Bachelor and Seans journey and I pray he and Catherine have a great relationship! You have a cute little family and we enjoy your meals in our house!! πŸ™‚

  • Anonymous March 12, 2013 at 6:09 pm

    What a great post! Thanks for sharing the behind the scene pictures and fun stories about the last episode! You have done a beautiful job documenting the journey your family has been on with your brother, and most importantly keeping your faith during the process.

  • ~Shelly~ March 12, 2013 at 6:16 pm

    I have been watching The Bachelor/Bachelorette since Season 2. Sean is by FAR the best Bachelor they have had! He seems like a great man & I loved watching how good he was with your kiddos! Bless them both, I hope they are in the percentage of Bachelors that STAY married!!! πŸ˜€

  • The Regal Pup March 12, 2013 at 6:18 pm

    I've been a Bachelor/Bachelorette fan for a long time, and this was definitely my most favorite season. I mean, good grief; my own husband teared up watching the show with me! Ha! Anyhow, y'alls family is such a testament on how I aspire my own family to be. I love that you and Sean are so close to your parents, and how they've raised you both. God bless you all!

  • Mrs. W March 12, 2013 at 6:20 pm

    From one Irving bred girl to another,y'all did a great job of representing. It's such a breath of fresh air to have a christian family be so open and honest with their faith, for the entire world to see…and on one of the most popular reality tv shows! Your brother did such a great job of staying true to his faith, I know you guys must be so proud. What a way to spread THE Word. God Bless!

  • The Akey Family March 12, 2013 at 6:23 pm

    I would like to say thank you for so openly sharing your faith. Please share with your family how absolutely refreshing it is to hear that people still pray for their children and families and are not afraid to share that on national tv. The moments that your family and your brother shared that they were praying about the decision and how God just puts things on your heart were some of my favorite moments in the show last night. I think the faith of your family is what made this Bachelor season so special. Thank you again for sharing!

  • Suz March 12, 2013 at 6:33 pm

    Shay- I have so enjoyed having your blog as a supplement to this season of the bachelor! I loved reading your posts and getting to know your family more over these last few months.

    Can I just say I freaking love your dad!? I can't wait for the wedding just to see the amazingly sweet things he will say and do! I can't imagine how he was at your wedding! Have you blogged about that? It's no wonder Sean turned out to be such a great guy! It looks like he had a wonderful example to learn from!

    Also I am so proud to have a family like yours representing Christians in the media and especially with a dating situation so tricky as this! You guys have all done a terrific job displaying Christ centered love and grace to us all!

  • Taylor March 12, 2013 at 6:37 pm

    I just wanted to say this has been my most favorite season ever! And your sweet family (all of you!) are what made it so great. It's so nice to see that there are still good, wholesome people out there. I wish Sean and Catherine nothing but the best!!

  • Kelly March 12, 2013 at 6:52 pm

    So delighted to have found your blogs and may I say that you and your entire family have been such a refreshing breath of fresh air for America? It was so wonderful to see a faith-filled family with good values and integrity on screen rather than the morally-bankrupt stuff we too often see. Way to go!

  • Mrs. SBA March 12, 2013 at 7:02 pm

    I loved watching this season (my favorite!) and hearing your recaps. Your family is precious and did a wonderful job showing a Christ centered family for the world to see. Your dad is absolutely darling and captured America's hearts. Best wishes to Sean and Catherine.

  • kristinwithani March 12, 2013 at 7:03 pm

    You and your family are so classy.

    Your love for the Lord shines through. I love your real-ness and honesty and kindness.

    A bunch of friends and I were texting the whole show last night and all commented they wanted to see more of your family. Your parents are so gracious and kind. Now, I know none of you are perfect, but Christ for sure was seen in and through you.

    And now I'm thankful to have new blogs to follow!

  • Kelly March 12, 2013 at 7:13 pm

    I SO enjoyed watching the Bachelor this season because Sean (and your whole family) have shown America so many amazing character qualities and I have loved keeping up with your blog and getting to 'know' your sweet family. Thank you so much for sharing your story from the Bachelor and I look forward to hearing more!

  • Anonymous March 12, 2013 at 7:20 pm

    What an exciting time for your family! I have a few questions that I'm hoping you'll be able to answer:

    How did you keep your kids from spoiling who Sean chose? Did you just not tell them, so they couldn't tell it to other people?

    Has your family spent time with Catherine since the show ended? How does she fit in your family?

  • Wendy March 12, 2013 at 2:40 pm

    I've been so happy over this season of the Bachelor, and I wish nothing but the best for Sean & Catherine.

  • Tanya T. March 12, 2013 at 7:44 pm

    Sean was gracious, caring, and so sweet the entire season. Good for him for sharing his faith. Your mother was so sweet last night. Loved it. What a breath of fresh air to see a family with values represented on tv.

    I have to ask one question….and by no means do I intend it mean, so I hope you do not take it as such. But…is there a naked man in one of the pictures of the children swimming? The one with your children running in the pool….there is a man in the center of the picture. It made me laugh.

  • The Preppy Puppy March 12, 2013 at 7:47 pm

    I really enjoyed following Sean's story this season and getting the behind the scenes scoop from you. He and Catherine seem genuinely happy and I pray nothing but the best for them in the future.

    Your family seems so sweet and I think that really came through last night! Do you have any single cousins or anything? Ha, kidding! Sort of πŸ˜‰

    Oh and your hair looked adorable – you had nothing to be worried about!

  • Mrs heitman March 12, 2013 at 7:52 pm

    I think your wonderful family needs your own reality show on ABC!

  • Anonymous March 12, 2013 at 8:03 pm

    I love Sean's choice…that's so sweet you have a new sister in-law. I love your blog, you and your family by the way:) Hope all goes well with them!!!

  • Anonymous March 12, 2013 at 8:05 pm

    I have loved reading your blog. Thanks for letting us in on this journey! Praying for the next chapter in all of your lives!

  • Anonymous March 12, 2013 at 8:14 pm

    Discovered your blog because of a mild obsession with the Bachelor show. I just fell in love with your family on tv and as chronicled in your blog. I don't know where you find the time to do it all but I'm glad you do! Good luck, health, wealth and happiness to all.

  • ~Shelly~ March 12, 2013 at 8:17 pm

    HA.. ok is the dude in the background of the kids swimming nekkid?!

    Beautiful pics- kudos to u for actually getting on the elephant~!!

  • Brooklyn March 12, 2013 at 8:19 pm

    Love all of the pictures! And loved watching the finale last night, you & your family all looked great!

    Wishing Sean & Catherine all the best in the future!

  • Brittany March 12, 2013 at 8:24 pm

    Your family is absolutely beautiful. I stumbled upon your blog somehow that i cant even remember now about 6 months ago or so. I definately cried when y'all got ot Thialand on last nights episode. The love your kids and Sean share is absolutely precious. They difinately missed him.

    I look forward to continue to read your blogs and follow your family as y'all as such an inspiration and I hope to raise my family as your parents have raised y'all. God Bless!

  • Mrs. Dirnberger March 12, 2013 at 8:26 pm

    You know it was a good Bachelor when your husband stays up to wach it…heheh!!
    You guys all did great…I am glad the camera's got to capture a true american family full of value, God and value!!!!
    I have been reading for a while..and fell in love with texas and all of your right away.

    Next thing is next…are you going to write about a little insite. When did you know who Sean picked?? How did you like watching it play out? Worst moments/best moments of the show? I think the readers want to know SOOOO Much and all of it.
    We are kinda like celebrity stalkers with you..we can't wait till you post again and again. We want the juicy details…as much as you can give
    I pray the public leaves Sean and Catherine alone some so they can short out their things and begin to be (somewhat)normal!
    OHH..and the wedding..tell us?

  • Angela March 12, 2013 at 8:26 pm

    You are so beautiful! Wish they would've showed you more last night! I thought Sean did a wonderful job being the Bachelor. I'm sure it's a tough position to be in, especially when people are negative. I wish him and Catherine nothing but happiness! My question to you is are you happy with his final decision?! Hope we get to see your beautiful family filmed at the wedding and can't wait to keep following both your blogs! Blessings to you!

  • Kaitlyn March 12, 2013 at 3:48 pm

    Thanks for the great blog. I look forward to following you in the future as well.

    Also, hope you continue to blog through Sean being on DWTS! It's my other favorite show πŸ™‚

  • Katriel-Maria Berbert March 12, 2013 at 9:19 pm

    Sean has by far been THEBEST bachelor yet, probably cause he's got a smart sis to back him up! Catherine seems like such a sweet, genuine, lovely lady too. Wishing them both the absolute best of everything!

  • Katriel-Maria Berbert March 12, 2013 at 9:20 pm

    God bless Catherine and Sean and the whole family!

  • Anonymous March 12, 2013 at 10:23 pm

    Shay, I really enjoyed reading your behind the scenes blogs, and I hope as time goes on we can hear more about the process. I hope you will blog bachelorette this summer and we will hear more from you. No other family member of a contestant has blogged like you have so I hope it is something others will do in the future. I especially enjoyed your Thailand recap. I do not know how you did it, taking 2 small children in such a short time on such a long trip. But it seems like they had a great time,

    It is also nice that you opened up about your fertility struggles. I hope things continue to go good for you and I know your faith, etc will keep you strong in the weeks ahead bc I know sometimes the fallout from this show is not always easy to deal with (tabloids, etc).

    Hope to see you in the audience at DWTS!!!

  • Anonymous March 12, 2013 at 11:07 pm

    For the first time ever in the history of the bachelor, I would have been happy with either of the 2 ladies. I hope Sean and Catherine have many happy years together. I also hope Lindsey finds her Prince Charming. She's a sweetheart too.

  • Ronda Petrin March 12, 2013 at 11:11 pm

    Awesome experience Shay!

    I wish you guys would have been at the ATFR last night. I am going to miss swing you guys on TV.

    I would love to see you do an interview with Catheine if you are allowed by Next Ent. She, like you, is such a natural beauty.

  • Saz March 13, 2013 at 12:01 am

    Your dad should not be allowed on TV while I have mascara on. He made me tear up way too much! haha. He seems like such a sweet guy.

    You've got a lovely family! x

  • Shoshanah March 13, 2013 at 12:06 am

    I've loved reading all your posts through the season. After so often reading that reality shows are fake, and that people are edited to look bad, it's nice to hear such a positive experience.

    And I also wanted to add, that I'm so happy that Sean picked Catherine. She just seemed so genuine, and they seemed to natural together.

    And not sure if you're answering questions from this post, but I was wondering if Catherine spent the holidays with her, and what Kensington & Smith think of her.

    And while I'll miss seeing you and your family on tv, I'm guessing we'll be seeing you all for the wedding. I can only imagine how adorable Smith & Kensington will be as a ring bearer and flower girl!

  • Anonymous March 13, 2013 at 12:34 am

    I watched this whole season knowing that I would not have to censor anything. I knew that your brother would not pull any less than tasteful stunts, and that there would not be any inappropriate behavior on his part. How refreshing!

    I hope that he gets his wish, and that this ends happily for him.

  • Anonymous March 13, 2013 at 12:57 am

    I looked forward to reading your recaps after every episode. Loved the behind the scenes photos! I read your blog every day,and your blog has led me to many others that I LOVE.. (Pintrest Told Me To)You, your kiddos and your family are adorable! Keep blogging:):)

  • Nanette Plancarte March 13, 2013 at 1:14 am

    I'm thrilled to know that beautiful families like yours exist! Your Daddy is PERFECT and he made me cry last night with his comment to Catherine. Your adventure looked so fun and as you said magnificent! Looking forward to exploring and reading more! God Bless you and yours always! Congratulations to Sean and Catherine! My prayers are with all of you!

  • Nanette Plancarte March 13, 2013 at 1:28 am

    I'm thrilled to know that beautiful families like yours are alive and well! You have most certainly blessed thousands of fans with your grace and faith! Your Daddy has touched my heart so much by his precious comments to Catherine! My daughter and I cried happy tears! He reminds of my Dad so much! Peace maker and just genuinely kind! Your travels in Thailand are precious and magnificent as you said. πŸ™‚ I'm so happy for Sean and Catherine and I will be praying for them and your lovely family. May God Bless you abundantly and guide your steps every day. Looking forward to reading more… Thank you for sharing!

  • Kim March 13, 2013 at 1:40 am

    My hubby and I watched this season (and many seasons past). I hope Sean and his fiance make it and live happily ever after. It is nice to see a man comfortable enough in his skin to show his raw emotions and even shed a tear on tv. Here's to a wonderful life!

    ~Kim in FL

  • The Cantelmo Family March 13, 2013 at 2:09 am

    Isn't it so amazing that God can use a silly show to share your faith? I love how God has a plan for our lives and part of that plan was you applying for your brother to be on the bachelorette. So cool!

  • Anonymous March 13, 2013 at 2:24 am

    Hi Shay,

    Loved your recap! Best wishes to Sean & Catherine. You mentioned US Weekly reads your blog. Take note US Weekly: Women would love to see a reality show with real women like Shay. Enough of the fake "Real Housewives" drama. Let's see a normal family that we can relate to!

    I'm telling you, I would watch! I love reality TV but it is so trashy…it would be so refreshing to see you or a women like you on TV!

    God Bless πŸ™‚

  • Katherine @ Grass Stains March 13, 2013 at 2:55 am

    Well, Shay, I totally enjoyed following along this season with you, and I thought that Sean behaved in a manner that really honored your family. I mean, he IS a red-blooded young man, so I'm cutting him some slack here πŸ˜‰ but his faith was at the forefront, and he treated all of the women with so much respect. I loved getting to see you and your beautiful family "in motion" on TV!

  • Anonymous March 13, 2013 at 3:08 am

    Thank you for sharing your family with us! It made watching that much more fun.

  • Anonymous March 13, 2013 at 3:29 am

    I am watching the show again on my DVR and was wondering if you could comment on your hair. Do you blow dry it out then curl? Or is it like that naturally? I have naturally curly hair but it just turns to frizz. If your hair is curly how do you prevent it from the frizz? How long does it take to do it like that, if not natural? Do you use curling iron?

    I am struck too how much you look like your mom!

  • The Lovely One March 13, 2013 at 3:35 am

    I wish the best of luck to your brother! He looked very happy!

  • Anonymous March 13, 2013 at 3:35 am

    I've watched all the Bachelor seasons and Sean's is by far my favorite, he really set the bar high! Your family is so adorable and so close. What would you say is the number one thing that grew your family into the family you have today?

  • Rebecca Kim March 13, 2013 at 5:19 am


    You and your family have been such an example of faithfulness and integrity on national television, in interviews, through your blog, etc. I'll still be a fan of your blog from six years πŸ™‚ I hope you know how your kindness and love have personally touched my life and encouraged me tremedously during this difficult time. Thank you for being honest and real about everything and can only see how GOd will continue to use ya'll to touch and inspire other people's lives. Thank YOU for being a blessing to others as you have been to me.

    Rebecca Kim

  • Tamara Buschel March 13, 2013 at 5:24 am

    Hi! Just found your blog! You and your family and are so cute and I can't wait to read more πŸ™‚
    xoxo, Tamara

  • Tamara Buschel March 13, 2013 at 5:24 am

    Hi! Just found your blog! You and your family and are so cute and I can't wait to read more πŸ™‚
    xoxo, Tamara

  • Anonymous March 13, 2013 at 5:46 am

    Lol! Love your blog. I bet you didn't realize it just got R-rated. Look closely at the first picture of the kids in the pool. πŸ™‚

  • Jen A @ Love, the Arthurs March 13, 2013 at 6:04 am

    I love that you all got to ride elephants! Taelie (my 4year old) was still awake so she was watching the show with me (daylight savings time is KILLING ME! :)), and she turned to me and said, "I want to ride elephants too!" When she saw Sean and Catherine on their date. I can only imagine what an amazing (and slightly terrifying…what? No ropes to hold onto??) experience that was!

  • Michaela March 13, 2013 at 7:23 am

    Sooo fun, Shay! I'm so happy your fam got to travel the world and even more happy that you were bale to share your faith. The Lord is so faithful in providing new ways to share our love for Him each day. Your family is such an excellent example of Christ's love and an example of what a wonderful family dynamic looks like. You looked adorable on the show last night. Your little kiddos are the cutest πŸ™‚

  • AuntJulie March 13, 2013 at 10:11 am

    Shay, first let me say that I've loved your blog and it's wonderful to your faith.

    I lost my father 12 years ago and my mother 20 years ago and I miss them terribly. Fortunately I have a lot of brothers and sisters (two sets of twins) and our connection has only strengthened over the years, which has been a great solace when losing your parents so young.

    I just have to say that I love your parents and everything they both said on the show just warmed my heart.

    I'm closer to their age than yours (45), but um, can they adopt me? Lol j/k.

    Seeing your family on the Bachelor was the best single episode I've ever watched. Thanks for sharing y'all's wonderful lives, faith, and spirit with the world. πŸ™‚

  • Kelly Jo March 13, 2013 at 11:29 am

    Shay, you have a beautiful family! So many things I want to say to you!
    -Loved when Smith said, "Emily didn't pick you!" What a little cutie!
    -My baby boy's name is Jay. πŸ™‚ It is a combination of my name and my hubby's! Made me smile watching your dad.
    -Can't wait to see you in/at the wedding!
    -I am excited to try your recipes!
    Happy Anniversary!!!

  • Anonymous March 13, 2013 at 12:07 pm

    We did not see alot of you in the finale talking to the girls, Would love to hear about your interaction w the final two girls. Did you have one on one time like your mom or dad did or was it just in the group?

  • Andrea March 13, 2013 at 1:28 pm

    Really liked the green top you wore…my favorite color! I live in Taiwan at the moment and am so STARVED for a good shopping trip. Where did you find it?

  • Chantelle March 13, 2013 at 2:00 pm

    Hi Shay! First, Happy Anniversary…enjoy the lovely celebration πŸ™‚

    Thank you for all these amazing photos. Kensington sipping the virgin drink has to be too cute for words. Smith is simply adorable. Your parents are just amazing. Aside from adorable as a couple (on the outside), their personalities, wow, to see how open, honest, sweet, loving, I can see why you & Sean have the most amazing values you have. I fell in love with your family in that episode. I have to say, Sean is truly my favorite Bachelor. I watched the end of Emily's Bachelorette b/c of Sean… prior to that, the only other one, Trista & Ryan. That's it. That's how much I wanted to see Sean find love. His values, his honesty, truly amazing. Getting to know you on your blog, having you share your love for food & the Red Sox (I live in Boston), it's been great & I will continue to follow your blog. I'm happy Sean found Catherine. They seem to compliment each other well. Having Sean watch back the proposal & tear up, I thought "he's a real gentleman" and that's something you get only from your environment (mom & dad). Lindsey being sent home, I felt bad, but she was graceful & although hurt, she didn't come out fighting like AshLee. You could truly see the pain in Sean's face, and the tears, it was difficult & I cried too. At the same time, to watch him make his commitment to Catherine & see her reaction was truly magical. It's a lovely ending to the season & I know I'll enjoy seeing their wedding take place. I'm honored that they've chosen to share their special day with all of us. Keep these amazing blogs coming, I love to read them, love the tips & always enjoy the pics you post. (((HUGS)))

  • Susan March 13, 2013 at 2:41 pm

    I found your blog through my daughter who has been following your blog from before she knew you were Sean's sister. She loves your recipes! I want to tell you how much I appreciate you, your family, and Sean – for being real while sharing your faith. I especially loved how he handled those overnights in the Fantasy Suite. There are honorable men still in the world – glad so many viewers got to see that. Anyway, may God bless you and your family.

  • Anonymous March 13, 2013 at 3:27 pm

    You are sooo blessed with such a beautiful, warm, loving family! It was such a treat to watch you all on the Bachelor and then to read your side of things. Many blessings to you all!

  • Lauren Stiles March 13, 2013 at 4:23 pm

    I have so much respect for everyone in your beautiful family. As a Christian woman, it is so great to read how much love all of ya'll have for the Lord. It just goes to show that HIS plan is our life plan; not our own!
    Thank you so much for sharing about your trip to Thailand! It was so great to see that ya'll were able to have great family memories outside of shooting for the show! Love your blog, your recipes, and your super sweet family!

  • Anonymous March 13, 2013 at 4:42 pm


    I love your blog and have really enjoyed seeing your family on TV. You and your family are a class act and I wish you all the best. I hope Sean and Catherine enjoy a lifetime of happiness togeter.

    Your Friend,Nicole in Manhattan, KS
    Go Wildcats πŸ™‚

  • Brandi March 13, 2013 at 5:08 pm

    You guys are too cute!! Those elephants are crazy big!!! Yeah for a safe trip!! Best wishes to Sean and Catherine!!!

  • Tara {The Silver Lining} March 13, 2013 at 5:26 pm

    What an amazing trip, Shay!! I mean I'm amazed that you did all of that traveling with two little ones too. What a whirlwind, but all so worth it! Definitely a once in a lifetime experience. The elephant story and Smith sleeping was cracking me up. It's been so fun following your re-caps. You have such a beautiful family with such strong faith and are a great example to all of us. Your parents are the best!! Congrats to Sean and Catherine. I think they are so genuine and hope nothing but the best for them. Thanks for sharing with us.

  • Candice March 13, 2013 at 6:41 pm


    Thank you for allowing us into your family over the past few months as you have been going on the bachelor journey. It has been such a treat to get to know your family as well as your brother. Your kids are adorable as well as your parents (you and your husband are too!) I want a father-in-law to tell me exactly what your dad said to Catherine monday night. It brought me to tears how sweet and genuine it was. It has been such a pleasure getting to follow your journey on this blog as well. I love reading and am so happy that I found your blog. I will continue to read even though the bachelor has come and gone. I can't wait to read more!

    A huge fan πŸ™‚

  • Emily Marie March 13, 2013 at 8:06 pm

    What an amazing experience you and your family got to go through! Your kids are so adorable and must be lil troopers to do so well traveling so far! I've watched almost every season of the bachelor and I have to say Sean has been the best by far! He seems so loving, respectful, fun & genuine just like you and the rest of your family! I wish him and catherine a life time of love and happiness!

  • Julie Kortenhoeven March 13, 2013 at 8:14 pm


    I started to watch the Bachelor again when my son was born a year ago while nursing. I knew that Sean was special when he was on dates with Emily. The only reason why I watched the season is because of him. And then I found your blog!

    Your family is amazing. It was so refreshing to hear your parents talk about their faith on national TV. So many times people push their faith down and away because they feel it will turn someone off. I loved what your father said to both Catherine and Lindsay. What an amazing Christian heart.

    Plus I love how you handled the final recap. Not hate messages!

    I wish your family the best of luck with your new sister-n-law. I will keep coming back to check on your family, your faith and of course yummy recipes!

  • MAK March 13, 2013 at 8:48 pm

    How could anyone be negative?! I just want to hug you all! Your dad was sooo sweet, I almost cried. I love that yall were able to represent Christ in such a big way on a show that has been pretty much the opposite for the most part. I could tell Sean was a great guy from Emily's season and that's the only reason I watched this season. I love how much God and prayer were mentioned on after the final rose. What a witness. You guys are awesome. Much love to you all!

  • Anonymous March 13, 2013 at 9:38 pm

    Hi Shay,

    I was so glad to see you again on the show (the finale). I really enjoyed seeing you and your family together. I can feel the love emanating from the TV! I wish Sean and Catherine all the happiness in the world as they get to know each other and figure out their lives together. I come from a similar culture as Catherine, and my husband is Caucasian (we've been married for 25 years), and I promise you that she will be the best wife/partner/soulmate ever to Sean. Our cultures are different, but we complement each other very well. As long as a relationship is based on love, honesty, respect, understanding, kindness, and patience, it will be long-lasting and beautiful. Open and frequent communication is important; in fact, my motto is "Communicate until it hurts!" This is key to my marriage, and after 25 years, I'm still very much in love with my husband and his family. I hope the same for Sean and Catherine. Cheers to all of you! Beth

  • hokiejennylynn March 14, 2013 at 1:21 am

    Shay, I have so enjoyed reading your blog over the past few months. Thanks for this insight into your family and all the behind the scenes goings on at the Bachelor.

    So…I know this is kind of random but I am dying to know if Catherine and Lindsay brought presents for your kids? They were both carrying things in but they never showed what happened to them. I am so curious about that.

    Also, did you get to have any kind of "engagement party" with Sean and Catherine after the final rose ceremony or was that not allowed?

    I hope you get to go watch some DWTS in the front row πŸ™‚


  • Todd and Courtney March 14, 2013 at 1:50 am

    Hi Shay! I know Kelly Stamps that you met recently. We went to a Beth Moore conference back in 2010. Ive enjoyed following your journey and love that you know people that I know. I'll be praying for your family and the sweet new addition. Your family is precious and Ive enjoyed seeing the love you all have for each other. So glad I found your fun blog! (My sis lives in Ft. Worth and we came super close to moving near Southlake. LOOOOOVE DFW!)

  • Claudia Boizeau March 14, 2013 at 2:46 am

    I never write to you because well, I'm shy….but I have to say …I admire you so much, I ove your beautiful family. Last night was amazing! I saw the show on line I live in the caribbean…I cried when I saw you dad…his words to Catherine were so beautiful…I caried non stop and then Sean's proposal..God, I cried like a baby! It was so beautiful….You are an angel, I'm your biggest fan…and now…I cook!!! thanks to you, now I'm in the kitchen and my hubby is quite happy..I'm sending you blessings. You and your family are on my prayers. I wish Sean and Catherine the best!
    PS, Your hair was great! You're perfect!

  • all4boys March 14, 2013 at 3:20 am

    I just came across your blog and love it! Your kids are absolutely gorgeous, and it's so refreshing to see someone who is so in the public eye who loves the Lord. I'm praying God's best for Sean and Catherine, and I know you and your hubby will be wonderful influences for them. As well as your parents, who are just about the cutest couple I've ever seen!

    I look forward to keep reading your blog. God bless!


  • Julianne March 14, 2013 at 5:03 am

    Hi Shay, I just want to say that your brother was the best lead they've ever had on this show and I've watched all of them. His faith was evident in his actions and he was kind to everyone, just like he was when he was on Emily's season. After seeing your family, on the show I can see why Sean is the wonderful man he is. Your family is the most normal and decent family and I think all of America fell in love with the entire Lowe family!! May God bless and protect you all and best wishes to Sean and Catherine!

  • Sara and Steve March 14, 2013 at 12:58 pm

    Hi Shay!

    I'm currently 26 weeks pregnant with my "miracle" baby and she is a little bachelor predictor! My husband felt her kick for the first time during Catherine's hometown date so I took that as a sign and said we'll see if she's right……well, she was! I just thought that was too cute not to share:)

  • Mrs. G March 14, 2013 at 1:43 pm

    I loved Sean on the Bachelor this season! (I didn't watch Emily's season, so this was the first time I've seen him on TV!). He was such an amazing representation of what being a Christian in today's world is all about. He's such an inspiration, as are you! So excited about stumbling upon your blog, I'll be reading it for many years to come, I am sure!

    I just wanted to comment to say how special the moment seemed to me between your mother and Sean while she spoke concerns over him proposing to either of the two women. The looks on his face was nothing short of precious, when he realized she was indeed crying. I greatly appreciated that he took her away from the cameras and kept her face away while she let her emotions show. It was the ultimate showing of respect and love for your mother. I pray that my son will one day be just as respectful to me when he ultimately ends up on the Bachelor due to prodding from his mother ( πŸ˜‰ ).

    Also, this morning on GMA the hosts were talking about Sean having a "pull like others haven't had before," and said something along the lines that people seem to be simply drawn to him. I hope he and all these people know that it is because of the light of Christ that he lets shine! It's been amazing to watch! I know I'm no one to your family, just your friendly Bachelor-loving-house-mommy, but I'm so proud for you family and have only well-wishes for all of you! Amazing family! Be blessed!

  • Anonymous March 14, 2013 at 7:03 pm

    Thanks for sharing your Thailand trip stories & pictures. Especially enjoyed the elephant ride! What a beautiful, blessed family.

  • Anonymous March 14, 2013 at 10:59 pm

    Best wishes to Sean & Catherine! I read that riding an elephant in Thailand was on Cat's bucket list. How romantic that Sean chose to do that for their date and at the end of the proposal. They seem like the real deal. Like Catherine said, she will be lucky to get your family in addition to marrying Sean. Your Dad made me cry. What a sweet soul. Wish the viewers were able to see more footage of your family. I'm sure you spoke to each girl. I would've loved to see that.

  • sjb March 15, 2013 at 3:03 am

    I just recently found your blog. Your family seems so precious. I haven't got to read all your recaps on The Bachelor but am looking forward to doing so. We are big Kansas State fans so it was so fun having a former KSU football player as The Bachelor. Sean seems like a wonderful Christian and I hope he has found the love of his life in Catherine.

  • Frances March 15, 2013 at 3:28 am

    Just wanted to let you & your family know that I will be praying for your brother & Catherine. I pray that they will grow deeper in their relationship with Christ individually first and in turn, their relationship will be centered in Him. May the things of this world do not blind them to what's important eternally. And may they keep their eyes focused only on Him. I pray for your family as well as you welcome Catherine into your family. May you all have an abundance of love, grace and patience as she transition into your family. May your love for Christ overflow into her life so she may truly know what love is. Thank you for sharing your lives and faith on tv.

  • Frances March 15, 2013 at 3:38 am

    Just wanted to stop by and let you know that I am praying for Sean and Catherine. My prayer is that they both continue to grow in their relationship with Christ individually. As they grow in Him, they will be able to love each other selflessly. May they allow Christ to be the center of their lives and relationship. I pray they don't let the things of this world crowd Jesus out of their lives. And I pray for your family as you all welcome Catherine into your lives. May you all have an abundance of love, grace and patience. May your love for Jesus overflow into her life so she may truly come to know Him and His love. Blessings to your whole household.

  • Anonymous March 19, 2013 at 3:16 am

    Congratulations on your new sister-in-law and your family's amazing adventure in Thailand! You seem like an incredibly warm and supportive sister, and your husband showed a lot of class on the show — being there to show support with no interest in grabbing the spotlight. I thought it was great you didn't put pressure on your brother to pick one person or the other. Catherine brings out the fun in Sean — I had no idea he was that funny until I saw him with her. I wish them both nothing but happiness.

    Thanks for sharing your experiences and wishing you continued blessings!

  • Sarah March 22, 2013 at 7:41 pm

    I love that you travel with your kids. We are missionaries in Peru and just took our kids to the Amazon jungle and it was our best family trip ever. You guys should add it to your list of places to visit! Anyway, I found your blog because I love watching the Bachelor and escaping our Peruvian life for a few hours. It keeps me connected to the US. πŸ™‚ It's been fun to see your behind the scenes look at it all!