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Happy Friday, friends!

I took yesterday off to decorate my house for Christmas, and I must say, I’m totally in the spirit over here now!  If you’re needing a little Christmas cheer, you should stop by 🙂 .

Before we begin today, I’d like to ask for some prayers.  This morning, our sweet Ashby is having her 10th procedure in 15 months…and emotionally, this one has been the hardest.  I don’t know if it’s because there has been a gap between procedures this time (to allow for her veins to recover) or if it’s because she’s 5½ now and just gets it…but today is going to be hard.  Ashby has been talking about today and fretting and worrying about it all week long.  Please pray for our sweet girl this morning as she undergoes her procedure and for the days ahead as she recovers.  This sucks, guys.  That’s all I can say.  It sucks.  I wish it were different for her.  Please pray for her to have peace.

On a lighter note, just like every Friday, I’m linking up with three of my besties, Andrea, Erika and Narci and sharing my favorite things from this week (and I have a TON!).   I hope you all have a blessed weekend! xo

Want to hear something super fun????  Simmers is going to be sold at Sam’s Clubs around the nation!  Isn’t that fun?  Want to hear something else fun?  This Sunday, from 1-3, I will be signing books at a Sam’s right here in our area.  If you’re local, please come and see me at the Sam’s location in Plano at 8621 Ohio Drive this Sunday!  Here’s the deal…if you come, I promise you a big hug and to sign a book for you…if you don’t come, I will eat samples and start my Christmas shopping 😉 .  Either way, it sounds like a fun way to spend the day, right?!

Probably THE most popular question this week…WHERE DID YOU GET YOUR POPSOCKET?!  Ha!  You are my kind of people 🙂 .  The case is HERE and the popsocket is HERE.

And there is another favorite in this picture from last Friday…

 

My new clutch!  I told you last Friday that I love my new Coach clutch for the holidays and so far this week, I’ve carried it twice.  It’s big enough to hold everything but small enough to just add with an outfit and go.  I promise you that I’ll be using it on repeat this holiday season (also, wouldn’t it be a great gift to give???).  I used it on this night with those red heels I love so much (and a dress from like two years ago) and then…

 

…I used it for my girls dinner this week.  Here is another view…

Love!

You can scroll and click other cute Coach clutches below…


I posted this little find on Facebook this week.  My favorite scarf from last Christmas is back this season in three different colors!  Last year, they sold out before Thanksgiving.

My favorite scarf with my favorite girls.

I posted this on Wednesday but thought it bear repeating as a favorite…

Ann Voskamp’s Christmas Advent Book to do with your family…

…it’s so beautiful!  I cannot wait to start this with my kids.

 

Okay, look at this cute gift Narci gave me for my birthday…

…isn’t that so cute?!  She had it all packaged up together!!  I thought it was so creative and something you might want to do this holiday season too.  That is, of course, one of my friend Amanda’s fabulous signs.  And speaking of Amanda, look what else she is making right now…

I mean…so cute, right?!  You can see her Etsy shop HERE.

I know, I know, I know…I talk about pajamas a lot this year, but friends, THEY’RE MY FAVORITE THING TO GIFT!!!  Who doesn’t love cozy pjs as a gift?!  Look at this cute little gift set I created…

So stinkin’ cute, right?!?!  These pajamas and socks are both so flipping soft too!  I mean…like puppy soft 🙂 .  They come in 7 different patterns, but I loved the Santas 🙂 .  The socks are made out of the same material and are so festive for your feet!  They would also make great stocking stuffers.

Cute, right?!  The little sleep mask comes with the pajamas.  I am excited to gift these this year!!

And wrapping up today…

Thanksgiving Everything

…it’s my Thanksgiving Everything!  From sides to sweets, I have your Turkey Day covered!  Click HERE to see the yummy recipes!

Thank you in advance for your prayers today.  The Lord has BIG plans for our Ashby London.  In my heart, I just know He does.  Wishing you all a wonderful weekend. xo

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  2. Jen says

    Love the gift from Narci! It would be super cute for your coffee station! Can’t wait to see all your decor! Praying for Ashby!!

  5. Linda Z says

    I continue to keep sweet, sweet Ashby in my daily prayers. Praying for an abundance of peace, comfort and strength today. ♡♡♡♡

  9. Lauren G says

    Prayers for Ashby. ??She’s one tough little girl! I love those pjs and socks – great gift idea! Those mugs are super cute – do you happen to know where Marci got them?

  10. Karah Stracener says

    Just said a prayer for sweet Ashby. She is one tough cookie for sure. I love those cozy pjs, I need to order some for myself asap!!! I am so glad we aren’t the only ones who love to decorate early. We always start decorating our house for Christmas the day after Halloween. My husband loves Christmas so we go all out. I hope y’all have a great weekend and if I lived closer I would totally be at Sams to give you a big hug.

  13. Erica Gammon says

    Prayers for peace for your sweet girl today & for a a speedy recovery.

    My hubby and I are planning to build soon ….. could you do a tour of your master closet? I love what I can see of your closet in some of the outfit pics that you take. I haven’t really found a closet layout that I absolutely love yet.

    Thanks!

  15. Anonymous says

    I live in CA and I randomly woke up a little after 3am for a glass of water. Thought I’d read your blog real quick before I go back to sleep. So unlike me to not just want to sleep and I totally think it’s cus I needed to read about Ashby and PRAY. So, I’ll be praying as soon as I put my phone down.

  16. Marsha says

    I’ve been following your blog for many years. I think of and pray for your family often. I will definitely be praying for sweet Ashby today!

  18. Hanna says

    Prayers for Ashby!!! I can’t imagine how hard it is for y’all but I know God is right there with y’all!

  22. Nicole says

    Praying for you and your sweet girl!! When do you start dressing your kids in Christmad clothes? Wondering when early is too early? 😉 Thanks!

  23. Amy Heinl says

    Lifting sweet Ashby in prayer today. May peace and calmness fill her beautiful little heart as she goes through this procedure this morning. May she find comfort and feel the love of our sweet Jesus who has His healing arms wrapped tightly around her.

  26. Erika Slaughter says

    I saw those pajamas in your bag and they were cute and soft then but they’re so much cuter on!! Praying for Ashby Girl this morning!

  27. Cherry says

    Prayers for your sweet Ashby today and in the days to come! May you all feel God’s loving care around & enfolding you!!!

  28. Michelle says

    Do you happen to have a favorite Christmas Story story book for littles? I would love something that is more tailored to our 3 year old, but I haven’t found anything I love yet!

  29. Megan Butler says

    Sweet Ashby. Prayers for a good day. That poor girl has had to endure so much. It’s just not fair. I ordered the advent calendar this week after you posted it. It is amazing. It’s huge! And great quality. My kids are going to flip!! And I am loving those Santa pjs!!!

  35. Sarah Berry says

    Prayers being said now for sweet Ashby London. May the Lord Jesus watch over Ashby and give her peace as she undergoes this procedure. May He give her quick healing and strength in her arm/hand in the coming days.

  38. Brooke Richardson says

    Lifting sweet Ashby up, she is heavy on my heart. And you had me at puppy soft. I’m sold. Going to purchase those right now!

  41. Amy D. says

    Sending lots of love and prayers to sweet Ashby, you, and your family. I hope this day goes quickly for her and that her recovery is swift and painless.

  45. Amy says

    Praying for your baby girl, and for you. It’s so hard standing by and watching your child go through painful things. It’s for her good, but that doesn’t make it easy. Hugs from one mom to another.

  46. Kelly says

    Oh poor Ashby and your poor mama heart! Praying for your dear baby!
    How cool that your book will be in sams club!!!! I wish you’d be coming for a book signing near me!! ?

  51. Angelique Dale says

    I’ll keep Ashby in my prayers all day today! She’s a lucky girl to have all of these prayer warriors thinking of her. Those Santa PJs are adorable – I need some Christmas PJs and will be checking those out asap. I think you need a road trip to Austin to sign some books too. 😉

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  54. Angela Ellingson says

    Girl, I’m sure there will be a line out the door at Sam’s! I know I’d be there if it wasn’t a 12 hour drive, lol! I love every little thing you post about Christmas. Continued prayers for sweet Ashby. Hopping over to check out that Thanksgiving post now. 🙂

  55. Sandy says

    Praying for peace for sweet Ashby. Praying that the Lord guides the surgeons hands so that the outcome is just what is needed. She is brave and beautiful. What a privilege to get to know her through this blog.

  56. Ella says

    Random Question?
    The cover of simmers shows you slicing some sort of bread. I’m just curious why and what that has to do with simmers?

  57. Marsha J Baker says

    Praying for your sweet girl now. Bless her sweet heart. Love your pretties…how nice you’ve already decorated for the holidays. Enjoy that Sam’s signing…how fun!!!!

  60. Amanda says

    Prayers for sweet Ashby. I’m wishing her no pain and a speedy recovery!
    Those pyjamas are so cute. I can’t wait to see your holiday decor!

  61. Jennifer says

    I would like to come see you Sunday, but we don’t have a Sam’s membership. Is there anyway I can get in?

  62. Deb Weber says

    Prayers to you, your family, Ashby and the doctors, nurses caring for her. Your post had great ideas for gifts. I’ll be ordering today and crossing off on my list. Thank you!! Hope everything goes well today.

  63. Kelly says

    Praying for Ashby and you too! It’s hard on a mama to watch her babies go through difficult things. Love those pj’s! I think I’ve ordered every set of pajama’s that you have recommended and they are my favorite things. Probably should start giving them for gifts instead now:). Hope the Sam’s Club gig goes well and all of Texas comes to see you!

  64. Taylor Shil says

    First, sending all the prayers and love to Ashby today <3 Second, you should do a book signing the next time you are in NYC!

  66. Liz Thorson says

    I will be holding positive thoughts for a successful procedure for Ashby today and for strength and courage for her while she endures the recovery. It breaks my heart that your sweet girl has had to undergo so many painful procedures and I understand how difficult it must be for you and Andrew to watch her suffer. I am so hopeful that her condition will continue to improve with time. I have noticed the gained mobility and rejoiced for her.??

  69. T says

    Prayers for beautiful Ashby! Would you ever feel comfortable going into more detail about her health situation? I hate to think of what would have happen to her health had the Lord not placed her in your family. I know that you have said that in the past only children with health problems were able to be adopted outside of China. Do the orphanages have sufficient healthcare for the orphans that aren’t adopted out? Breaks my heart to think about that. I know this is probably a personal question and I don’t mean to intrude at all or expect a response. Prayers prayers prayers for Ashby girl today and for you too, mama! You are a rockstar too.

  72. Emily says

    I teared up at your Instagram post about Ashby this morning. She’s lucky to have a wonderful family and team around her. Wishing her all the strength and peace right now!

  74. Jen B says

    Prayers will continue going up for your sweet baby girl & extras for you & Andrew. Seeing your child have to endure any pain is so hard on the parents! She has the sweetest spirit that has never diminished one bit throughout all her procedures! Hope for an easy recovery & a blessed weekend!

  77. Jaren says

    Prayers always for sweet Ashby!! Wishing her a quick recovery!
    And if I lived a little closer, I’d so be there at Sam’s! Have fun! I’m sure that line will be long!!

  81. Laura says

    I just added four of the pop sockets you recomended to my Amazon cart for stocking gifts this year for my husband and teenage daughters! Also, I will be praying for Ashby’s recovery and for your mama heart! Will this be her last procedure before Christmas?

  82. Rhonda Stanton says

    Shay, I left you a PM a few days ago. Will you please check your private messages on Facebook ?

    • Mix and Match Mama says

      I check my Mix and Match Mama PM every single day, but I do not check my private FB private messages if I’m not a friend with the person. Can you email me? Or PM my MMM FB page?

  84. bri says

    Ashby is so tough… hope she is doing well!

    You should come back to D.C… I want a hug & a signature too! ?

  85. Erin Port says

    Praying for your sweet girl and I love those Christmas PJS and slightly jealous you are decked out for Christmas. We are hosting a Friends-giving tomorrow and then all bets are off 😉 xoxo ERIN