First of all, thank you all so much for the sweet comments and messages on Monday. You guys…even though I don’t know all of you, I truly do think of you as friends. I was so blessed by your words. One more day until I get my stitches out (woohoo!), so I’m going to enjoy this lazy day before I go back to the real world…and by real world, I mean eating solid meals and drinking coffee (praise the Lord!!!!).
In the meantime, I’ve caught up on my reading (just you wait for that book review next week!), binged a whole bunch of Madam Secretary, cleaned out all of the kids’ closets (because seriously, at some point, I had to get up and do something!) and removed four bags of stuff from the playroom. I celebrated all of that cleaning with a yogurt. Ha! #livingthegoodlife
Okay, so here’s what’s on tap for today’s post…I’m going to discuss lessons learned, packing tips, things I’m glad I did, things I wish I would have done from our family’s first snowboarding trip earlier this month. Please, please, please chime in at the bottom and share your ideas too!! Let’s get started…
If you missed it, right after Christmas, we took our four kiddos and headed to Colorado for our first ever family snowboarding trip. You can catch up on those posts here…
Now, we’re not rookie travelers with kids. We’ve taken these guys pretty much everywhere, and I’ve done many posts on what to pack for certain trips here…
…but we’ve never taken them skiing or snowboarding, so that required a whole new ball game.
First up, MY PACKING METHOD works no matter where you’re going:
Hi, my name is Shay and I think my packing method is the best 🙂 . If you haven’t seen it before, here it is…we pack our suitcases by days.
Allow me to explain once again:
Let’s say you’re going to be gone a week with your family of four and you decide to take three suitcases for the seven nights. I would pack a third of everyone’s stuff in one suitcase and then repeat with the other two suitcases. So, in this scenario, when we arrive, I would immediately put away suitcases two and three (probably under the bed to get them out of sight) and only unpack or open suitcase number one which has everything everyone needs for the first two days. Then after two days, I put all of the dirty clothes back in suitcase number one and shove that under the bed while at the same time removing suitcase number two and opening it for days three and four. And then I repeat with the last suitcase for days 5, 6 and 7. Make sense?
I love this method for several reasons:
1. If your luggage gets lost, at least all of you have one suitcase with half of your things in it. (Speaking as a travel agent, let me assure you, suitcases do get lost.)
2. You’re not cross-contaminating dirty clothes with clean clothes.
3. People aren’t rifling through all of the suitcases, getting everything out and creating a lot of chaos/lost items/big mess where you’re staying.
This packing method always comes in handy for us but was especially helpful when we went to Colorado…
…because the airline lost half of our luggage. Sigh. We recovered it at 2:30 AM that night, but at least we had packed so that not one person was missing everything. So, Tip #1: use my packing method. It’s proven to work everywhere 😉 .
Tip #2: buy and rent accordingly
Because Andrew snowboards several times a year, he owns his own gear, but for the rest of us, this was a first, so we had to figure out gear. For Christmas, Smith asked for his own snowboard, helmet, boots and goggles…so, Santa brought him that instead of us renting. We made sure that Santa brought black stuff so that his younger sisters could use them in years to come. For Kensington and me, we came with goggles and I had a helmet, but we rented our boards and boots in town the day we arrived (she rented her helmet). It was really easy to rent and return. We decided to rent in town verses on the mountain because it was less crowded. As far as undergarments, coats and snowboarding pants go, we bought all of that in September when the prices were greatly reduced. Everything we bought was discounted and considered “last season”. I think planning ahead like that saved us a ton!
Tip #3: Private lessons
We had originally signed our kids up for snowboarding school, but after the first day, we switched them to a private lesson (the two of them with one instructor). They learned so much more doing it this way! I think at first, they thought snowboarding school would be more fun because other kids would be with them, but it did not take them long to tell us they would prefer the one on one attention over the socializing. For the money (they were both about the same), it made so much more sense to have them in a private lesson where they had the instructor’s undivided attention. Smith even did a third private lesson by himself later in the week…and I attribute that to him picking it up quickly.
Tip #4: Special needs classes are available!
While we were there this trip, we learned all about how these ski resort places have skiing lessons for adults and kids alike with special needs. How cool is that?! I never knew that! So this means that next year, this sweet girl can take ski lessons too! I was told that these lessons are available at most ski spots, so check. This made my mama heart so happy!
Tip #5: Bring cozy socks instead of slippers
Have I ever shared this tip with you before? You know how I love my slippers and wear them 24/7 when I’m at home. Well, instead of traveling with them, I travel with these socks instead. I typically bring a pair for every day (unless there is a washer/dryer) and use them in lieu of slippers in the morning and at night. I toss them in the dirty clothes at the end of the day and move on to the next pair. For all of you “slipper” people like me out there, I really love using these on trips!
Tip #6: Buy base layers for everyone (even the babies!)
Okay, I did this last year and it has paid off so many times. We bought Ashby and Madeley both ski suits to wear on trips for not only snow but rain and cold weather. Just look below…
They’re not cold in D.C. (they’re cozy and warm!) because they have their ski suits over their clothes. And…
…here they are in NYC wearing the same ones! This keeps them warm and dry (it really helps with rain too!) when we travel. So, we brought along their trusty ski suits (it’s really just the overall-looking thing with their normal coats on top). We can keep them in the car/bottom of the stroller and if they get cold or it starts to rain, we slide them over their clothes.
Tip #7: Carry an empty bag for winter accessories
I don’t know about you…but as a mom, a total win for me is everyone having all of their gloves, scarves and hats at the end of the day. #amen I feel like half the battle with a cold vacation is just keeping up with all of that winter gear. It’s freezing cold outside, but the minute you go in, it’s warm and everyone starts shedding their winter accessories. And then, you lose a glove. Sigh. It’s a vicious cycle! So, I decided a few years ago to bring an extra tote for just winter accessories and we keep it with us (usually on the stroller). This tote isn’t for anything BUT winter accessories. When we walk into a store/restaurant/etc, everyone piles all of their stuff in the tote and then as we exit, I pass it back out. The reason this bag is only for this stuff is so that it’s easy to see/identify/find what we’re looking for and it keeps kids from grabbing their hat only to knock my wallet out and on to the street to be forgotten.
So, none of my tips are earth-shattering, but they’re solid 😉 . While we were away this time, we used Airbnb for our condo and it worked well. We toggle back and forth between hotels and Airbnb these days depending on where we’re going, pricing and availability. Because we had a lot of gear (snow boots, snowboarding stuff, snowboards, coats, etc), it was nice to have a larger space for this trip to return to each night. We also always rely on good old opentable.com for dinner reservations in cities where we’re traveling. I like using them because of the reviews, the “other suggestions” part and if we find somewhere else we’d rather eat once we’re there, it’s easy to move/cancel/change our reservations.
So, things we’ll do differently next time:
- The kids will all take private lessons right from the start instead of classes.
- The kids will take a whole day lesson instead of a half day. I think one or two good all day lessons will really help more than several half day lessons.
- Everyone needs a second pair of gloves (because they get wet and cold and really don’t have time to dry out).
- Everyone needs at least three pairs of base layers. We can double them up if it’s really cold and/or it gives them more time to dry in-between days.
- We need to bring cards, games, dominoes! My kids love this stuff, but we didn’t pack any this trip.
- I need to bring my Yeti. As silly as that sounds, there were so many times when I thought “gee, I wish I had my Yeti with me”.
I’m sure there are other things, but that’s what comes to mind right now. So, your turn! I would love to hear your best tips and tricks for skiing/snowboarding trips with your family! Please, please, please comment and share!
Charmaine Ng | Architecture & Lifestyle Blog says
Packing a suitcase by days is a new one I’ve heard. I guess it makes sense in your case, though, and there are many advantages to it! 🙂 I think it’s amazing how special needs classes are available too! 😀
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Sara says
LOVE these tips!! Hope you’re feeling better today:) And, enjoying more yogurt! Almost coffee time, woohoo! I feel so silly asking, but, what is a Yeti? 🙂
Mix and Match Mama says
Sara! The most perfect insulated cup EVER! You must check them out STAT!!
jamie says
i work at our church and at our staff christmas party we each received a personalized yeti! would you have carried yours around on vacation? i am a huge water bottle girl {i have two i carry with me wherever i am} so i need to try to incorporate my yeti into my day. i need to purchase the straw lid! i hope your mouth is healing well. that procedure sounds like all kinds of unfun!
Rebecca says
Which Yeti do you recommend? 🙂
Mix and Match Mama says
I don’t know??? I just have I guess the standard coffee cup size and love it!
Kelly says
My husband bought me a new Yeti for Christmas. The lid has a sliding tab instead of just being open like my previous one. I like it much better. There are two small holes hidden under the tab that make it easier to drink from (because you don’t have to suck as hard) and I love the option of closing the lid.
Marie says
Hey Shay i was wondering what the special need classes look like? I dont know how you handle Ashbys “problems” but dont you think it would be hard for Ashby to be with “real” special need kids? Will she feel different? Will she be sad because she cant take the class with her siblings? Just wondering 🙂 You Trip looks like so much fun!!
Mix and Match Mama says
I don’t know what a “real” special needs kid is. I think a kiddo with special needs is any kid that needs accommodations or assistance and cannot participate in the typical ski school (like sweet Ashby). From what I understand, these classes are private with more than one instructor when needed. For instance, Ashby would most likely have two instructors to help her so that she didn’t fall. (Ashby cannot fall.) And the alternative, unfortunately, is that Ashby can’t ski or snowboard, so trust me, she would rather get out there with some special friends helping than grow up being the only Shull not on the mountain.
Amy Justice says
THANK YOU for your answer! Yes! Yes! Yes!
Signed, A “real” special needs mom
Julia says
My guess is she simply meant mental disabilities, not physical. Perhaps she thought Ashby might feel out of place when her cognitive ability is higher than her classmates in a special needs class. “Real” was probably just a word stumble. 🙂
ALLISON M THOMPSON says
That is a beautiful response to an ugly comment. Thanks for sticking up for all people with special needs! Anybody can do anything with effort determination and sometimes accommodations.
Victoria says
I don’t think it was ugly. I’d also question whether a very young child with a physical limitation (using that word in a non-perjorative way) would cope well in a group with many children with mental disabilities for example. Not saying I wouldn’t do it, but it is worth thinking about. Also, as a person with a usually invisible disability, I sometimes find it hard feeling like I’m not ill enough and don’t deserve the same attention as someone with a more severe and/or more visible disability. I guess that would be my advice, to make sure that your child, regardless of need, feels like they can ask for help. So they don’t feel like they’re not ‘ill enough’ to warrant the extra attention. It sounds like the classes that Shay was looking at would give the level of attention to make each child feel supported.
Some people just truly don’t know how to address disabilities and Shay answered well without jumping to conclusions as to intent.
Meg says
These classes and instructors are AMAZING!! I see them on the mountain all the time with all different special needs accommodations…the kids/adults always look so happy and the instructors do an awesome job of keeping them safe while having a blast ?
Kelly says
Our adaptive sports center on our mountain works with many different adults and children. From individuals in the Wounded Warriors Program to burn victims of all ages to our local kindergarten kiddos that have extra needs in the classroom. Ashby would have a fantastic time in any adaptive ski program!! They are wonderful!!!!
Kelli says
I agree! The adaptive ski teams allow so many to enjoy a sport they may not be able to on their own. Pretty cool!!! I think the confusion with the original question was just that the commenter hasn’t seen this in action. I assume they are thinking like a whole separate class with various needs all together. In reality it will closely resemble your kids private lesson! Her team will even allow her to ski with her siblings! She will love it!!!
Laurie says
What great ideas you have for skiing with your family! I agree with the base layers for sure-we love the ones from Land’s End in our family. Your packing method is going to be the way we pack for vacations now in my family. I am curious though how you would handle it if the vacation is longer-say 10-12 days? Curious to see if you have any packing trips for Yellowstone 🙂
Mix and Match Mama says
I would still do my packing method but with more suitcases or more days in each suitcase (so maybe four days in three bags or two days in six bags?). For Yellowstone, I would pack lots of layers (for changes in weather), rain boots, rain covers if you’re bringing a stroller (just the cheap plastic ones off of Amazon) and good walking shoes.
Laurie says
Thanks for the response! I was thinking of doing more suitcases as well. Your packing advice is going to come in so handy.
Haley says
Laurie I just got back from Yellowstone!!!! It was fabulous!! Definitely pack layers….we did the snow coach tour and the bus is heated but you get off and on at different stops to look around. I wore jeans with fleece leggings underneath and a shirt with a sweater and my long down jacket. I also wore 2 pairs of socks and snow boots…honestly my feet still felt a little cold at times. Bring a really warm hat and gloves. Also a backup phone charger bc we took lots of pics and I feel like our batteries died fast but may have been bc of the cold!
Kristine says
Good morning Shay! I am curious with winter traveling, how do you keep your bags under the airline weight limit? We have not flown anywhere yet with winter gear but I noticed you had several different coats and shoes with you on this trip and my first thought was isn’t all the stuff heavy?
Mix and Match Mama says
That’s a hard one! We had to take four suitcases (which seems like a lot), but that kept the suitcases all within the weight limits. We also wore our heavy boots and coats on the plane instead of weighing down the bags with them.
Erika Slaughter says
It sounds like the 2:1 ratio was great with the private instructor. When we got a private instructor, it was 6:1 which is why it didn’t work out well. My tip would be if you’re doing an instructor versus ski school keep the ratio low. We should have gotten two or three. Otherwise it’ll be not so helpful and you’ll still pizza down the mountain at 34. 😉
Andrea says
The overall looking things=snow pants. Haha that totally cracked me up. We live twenty min outside of Boston so those are basically our life through January and February!
Erica E says
Yes I laughed at that too! I’ve never it heard it called ski suit before, we call them snow pants! ` Mama from WI
Sara says
I giggled at “ski suits” too. We’re in Michigan and snow pants and snow gear are normal life this time of year.
Elspeth Mizner says
All great tips! My family and i have taken several ski trips before and you are with so many of the tips. A few things I’ve learbed is to bring snacks for your hotel or condo and staple foods that way if people are hungry you don’t have to go out for a full meal and maybe even bring enough food to cook for a night if you have had a long day on the Hill. My second tip is bring a first aid kit. We have been on ski trips when someone got hurt (minor injuries) but needed their ankle wrapped it was good to have a first aid kit with us. Other wise you got all the tips! Loved hearing about your trip. Get well soon!
Meghan says
A few other ski tips – buy a boot/glove dryer. They make smaller travel ones. That way, you know your gear is dry in the morning. I’d also recommend all of your outerwear (coats, gloves, pants), be waterproof. You never know when there will be a wet snow or the chair will be wet. I also can’t say enough about private ski lessons, however, a whole day lesson for kids is a lot. You want them to have time to have fun and not always be “working”.
Lesley McFarland says
These are all fabulous and pretty straight on. We go skiing every spring break. Our daughter has to buy everything in black as well except her jacket. So she can pass it down to her brother. I hate keeping up with gloves, hats and alllll the other extras…drives me nuts!!
Ilena Varner says
This would only work if you are driving to ski, but this year I packed all of our ski gear in Rubbermaid containers instead of suitcases. It was so much easier to pack all the helmets, snow boots, and puffy snow clothes in them rather than in suitcases. When we came in each day from skiing it was easy to keep it all organized in the Rubbermaid containers. And we drove a truck so we didn’t have to worry about our luggage getting wet if it snowed or rained on the trip!
SS says
We do the same thing. But we use the VACUUM bags for our coats and snow pants. We brought them on our way to Florida this year. We just asked room service to borrow their vacuum. It worked well! We have done this on many trip. I also use the roll bags to but gloves, hats & scarfs in. It fit into on of our bags. Also if there is a pool those roll bags are packed with our swimsuits so if they are damp the rest of our clothes don’t get damp!!!
I also want to say if you can find the snow pants that are pants and not bibs they are easier to pack because they aren’t as bulky.
Narci says
These are such great tips!! I can’t wait for our family ski trip! And, your packing method is the best!
Andrea says
My advice is to get a backpack style boot bag. Airlines count a boot bag plus a ski/snowboard bag/case as one item! The boot bag has a space on each side for a boot and a large center compartment for clothes and other gear. Saves space in your suitcase and won’t count as an additional piece of luggage! I recommended the High Sierra brand on amazon.
Sheaffer Sims says
I’m really gong to need you to do a HOW YOU PACK FOR THE RANCH trip. Because even when I’m going there, i need help. 🙂
Jill says
Really great tips, love the suitcase one! I love how you have to explain the snow pants and you are just finding out the troubles on mittens and hats. We live in New Brunswick, Canada and we have to deal with all of that stuff on a daily basis from about November until April! The bag is a good idea especially with little kids. Another tip for you once your kids get a little older. Everyone puts their gloves in their hats and their hats in their sleeves! Because some day down the road you won’t have that magical stroller that holds all the extras!!! (I still miss the stroller and my youngest is almost 8!!) Extra gloves/mittens are always a great idea.
Allison says
All great tips! I’ve been skiing for 20+ years and I prefer mittens over gloves. They keep hands so much warmer!! It was a game changer for me growing up to not have cold hands. I also like putting deodorant on my feet. Haha. It gets warm waking around with all the gear, so feet can get sweaty, which can make you cold once you get up the mountain!
We also pack lunches if we’re all spending the day on the mountain. One guy skis with a little backpack with sandwiches, granola bars, and little mini candy bars. When we’re ready for lunch, we can get soups too if we want, and we save a lot of money this way. We just make sure we eat at a place that’s not a sit down restaurant with waitstaff. (There’s usually several walkup and order places on mountains.)
Megan says
May I ask where Ashby and Madeley were while everyone else was skiing? But unsure how to occupy the Little’s minus bringing a sitter along from home.
Mix and Match Mama says
We took turns. Andrew was with them while I was on the mountain and vice versa 🙂 .
Heather says
When my kids were very young, we would use the day care at the ski facility. They were always highly rated! They usually take them out to the snow to practice skiing and/or play in the snow (if toddler age).
Nikki Merritt says
We’re going to Glacier National Park this summer and I’m going to try your packing method for the first time. Do you use packing cubes to keep everyone’s things together within each suitcase?
We have been going to Vail for the last 7 or 8 years. We’re fortunate to be going to visit a friend’s parents so we’re able to have our own family ski bin where we leave most of our gear. The only thing I would change about your gear is buying each skier/snowboarder his/her own helmet. We ended up with lice one year after renting and decided the expense of replacing an outgrown helmet was worth NOT sharing helmets!
Mix and Match Mama says
I have never used cubes…but I probably should!
Tonra Riehl says
Ebags has a great selection, we all have our own color cubes and we separate by day, night (pjs) and under garments. But you could totally separate by day too, they have a bunch of different sizes. I’m thrilled Ashby will get a chance to try skiing next year! Adaptive programs and staff are amazing! Our little guy Shea (?) exceeded our expectations by a long shot!! Come ski in Vermont! We have great family mountains and the “day care” for the wee ones is brand new! #skismuggs
Lizzie @ This Happy Life says
Awesome tips Shay! We are really wanting to take a winter ski/snowboarding vaca next Feb with our young kiddos so I’m saving this post!
Alexis deZayas says
Love the winter accessories tote idea!! My biggest tip would be to bring a few snacks on the mountain with you! When you’re starving and it’s not time for lunch yet, pulling a protein bar out of your pocket on the ski lift is so nice!!
Katie says
Glad you had a great first snowboarding trip! As a lifelong skier, a few tips!
– You can throw all the mittens, hats, neck gators, ski clothes into the drier at the end of the day. Also, if you hang everything or lay it out, particularly near a heat source, they usually dry by the next morning. We’ve never had two sets of anything.
– Usually, if you wear long johns and snowpants, you should be warm enough on the bottom. Maybe an extra pair of fleece pants or PJs. No need to layer snowpants. Top layering should be long john top/under armour, fleece, coat. If you’re using gear meant for cold and athletic activity, it should wick to keep you dry and not require a ton of layers b/c it’s made from wool or insulating materials. NO COTTON!!!!!
– Just a quick ski nerd term FYI: Base layers are long johns or whatever you wear closest to your body…snow pants/coats or outerwear are what you’re showing in all the pics 🙂
Heather says
Agree with this. Also, depends on what time of year you ski as well! Packing for a winter ski trip is much different than a spring break ski trip. We always just dry out stuff near the fire or use the dryer. We always stay in places with a washer & dryer.
Robin says
Hi Shay! So first I want to say I’ve totally used your packing method as far as splitting everyone’s clothes up between suitcases for the last several trips we’ve taken on a plane. Such a great idea. But this method usually falls apart for me once we get where we’re going. I’m great at laying out four suitcases and everyone has a couple of outfits in each, but then once we get where we’re going everyone has different opinions on what we want to wear and we have to open every suitcase once we get there. Especially on longer trips its sometimes hard to know what you want to wear on day 5 because the weather might change. Or activities might change or maybe someone just has a strong opinion that on the second day they want to wear the yellow outfit that is in the bag for later in the week. How do you handle only opening one bag at a time? Also how do you handle/divide things like toiletries/sunscreen/etc….things you don’t need 4 versions of.
Mix and Match Mama says
I guess, I’m more mean than you 😉 . I just tell them they’re wearing what’s in suitcase #1 (obviously, I don’t tell Andrew that, but he decides what he puts in each suitcase) and that’s it. My kids really don’t care. Maybe it’s their ages or they just know they better pack accordingly. We put coats, winter accessories, sunscreen and such in the first bag. In a beach vacation, we would need multiple bottles of sunscreen, so I would spread that out between multiple suitcases. Same with multiple toiletries. If not, toiletries go in bag #1.
Robin says
Thanks for answering….part of it may be the age (I do have a teenager), but I swear even my four year old has strong opinions on clothes 🙂 Sometimes it just feels like a “pink dress” kind of day I guess 🙂
So, one follow up, if you put all your toiletries/cold weather accessories/etc. in bag one, what happens if bag one is the one that gets lost. Is there a backup plan or like do you double some of that stuff between two bags just in case? I don’t have a good system for these things and they currently end up being chucked in where they fit! 🙂
Mix and Match Mama says
I always carry on my makeup (because that stuff is too fragile/expensive to lose) and then I buy minis of everything else and spread that out between bags. I get the gallon sized baggies and add some mini toothpaste, shampoo, body wash, etc in each one and then pack them up!
Angelique says
Great ideas! I also pack my Yeti for every trip now. It’s funny how quickly it becomes an essential item!
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Andrea says
Ski trip tips:
1) Don’t forget sunscreen! You’re not at the beach but the sun is still fierce on the mountain.
2). Take a snack or two in one of your coat pockets while skiing. You never know when someone is going to need a granola bar.
3). Rent a locker at the base for the entire trip. You can stash ski gear in it overnight that doesn’t need to come back to the condo with you. After a long day on the mountain no one in my crew wants to carry anything extra! It’s also fabulous if you find yourself too warm on the mountain one day. You can ski down to the base, shed a layer into your locker and be back on the slopes in no time.
Kate says
I love this packing idea – would never think to do this! Question – how do you pack toiletries and shoes? Put some in each suitcase or put those in suitcase 1 and hope it’s not the one that possibly gets lost? ?
Mix and Match Mama says
Or I really try and spread out shoes (because I don’t need to wear them all on days 1 & 2). 🙂
Jennifer says
Hi! What stroller do you use for traveling? Does Smith ever want to ride in one? My 5yo always wants to sit in the stroller, but I think it’s mostly because his sisters (3.5, 22mo) get to ride. We are going to start doing more traveling (not just to the beach) and I’m not sure if I should buy yet another stroller!
By the way, Aspen is absolutely my favorite snowboarding spot! I’ve spent a couple of Christmases there and it’s the picture perfect Christmas town! I hope to bring our kids there one day, but I’d never even thought about renting a condo/house (the St. Regis is a dream!), which will make it more affordable!
Mix and Match Mama says
We just use a basic umbrella stroller and only Madeley rides. Ashby thinks she’s too big 🙂 .
Rachel says
Not sure if you know this or not…..but I would highly suggest getting the EPIC Pass from Vail Resorts. It is completely the way to go if you plan to ski more than 4 days. As a teacher in Colorado it is the only way I can get in more than 10days of skiing and still feed my child on a regular basis. There are different ones to buy. I get the one that includes 10days at Vail and no blackout dates, because as a teacher holidays and long weekends are when I can ski. The pass is unlimited skiing at Breckinridge, A-Basin, and Keystone with 10days at Vail. A HUGE money saver. Kids passes are cheaper than adults. Maybe a great Christmas or birthday present for the hubby! Would love to meet and ski with you (moms ski days are the best).
Mix and Match Mama says
Yes!!! Andrew has one!! They are worth their weight in gold. Good tip!!
Erin Port says
We have had such great luck in the investment of private lessons. My son puked and got sick the first day since he was so nervous and they refunded our money which was not necessary and so kind. I also take my yeti on every vacation because #hotcoffee. Love your tip about a bag for all the accessories, that’s genius! xoxo ERIN
Suz says
Awesome tips! What’s a yeti? I assume it’s not the furry mythical creature ?
Mix and Match Mama says
The best insulated cup EVER!
Erin says
So glad you’re feeling better. Great tips!
Wendy Walker says
I am so sorry someone posted what they did about a “real” special needs child. That was very insensitive and I praise you for responding the way you did. Very classy. I don’t know how you handle people like that but it can’t be easy <3
sydnee says
I guess I’m usually the ‘bag’ person because my family throws everything at me, their hats, their gloves, their sunglasses, and I try to fit what I can in my coat pockets but it’d be nice to have a bigger bag to contain all that. Great idea about the accessories bag!
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Angela says
I’m so glad you loved your first ski trip!! We ski all of the time with kids. That being said I truly think that it isn’t necessary for more than 2-(maybe even 1!) base later or multiple ski gloves for kids. Those things are pricey and they wash up beautifully. We almost stay in ski in/our condos and as the kids get ready for bed every night, I throw all of the base layers in to our washing machine and wash/dry them. Good gloves are a necessity, so we dont buy cheap. They dry well if you put them in the dryer on delicate and then we put them by our fireplace in the condo to dry the rest of the way. You can make sure with less and it’s no big deal!
Kara says
I’m 23 and getting married this September, no kids yet but I still studied the heck out of these tips cause they’re kind of brilliant. Every memory of my family of 5 on vacation involves 5 suitcases scattered on the floor with dirty clothes and clean clothes all mixed together and a disaster. Your packing tip is so simple but I never would have thought of it! I’m even going to start doing that now for our honeymoon, cause let’s get real- if someone’s luggage will get lost- it’ll be the girl’s who will be miserable if she can’t wear her new rompers and swimsuits! Thanks for sharing!
Eryn McNearney says
We ski a lot, and our game changer this year was getting the kids their own boot bags. Easier at the mountain and to travel. We are able to make sure each person has their boots, helmet, gloves, mask, etc and still have room for books, games, etc. they are a backpack so very easy to carry and use as a carry on.
Amy at Suburban Soiree says
Ok so this is just a fun tip… I live in CO and when we ski as a family a zip a fun size Snickers in everyone’s jacket pockets. It’s a great treat when you need a little something and keeps everyone happy until we stop to eat. 🙂
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Melissa @ HOUSEography says
For ski trips we almost always rent a condo or house (if we’re with a group) with a washer & dryer because that saves so much packing and the dryer always comes in handy for gloves and pants that won’t dry. We can also pack a lot less which is great for travel. My kids are old enough to carry on their own bags so they can just handle themselves. They got suitcases for Christmas could not have been happier!! Games and cards are always a good thing to bring along on nearly any trip! Adaptive skiing has become really widespread now. Last weekend we watched in awe as several amputee skiers flew by us on the mountain. Watching them get on the lift was also amazing. So great that Ashby will be able to enjoy winter sports like her siblings!
Marcy says
Glad to hear you are feeling better .. thank you for the packing tip, we will definitely be using it as we head to Europe this year. I completely agree with private lessons over camp/classes, my son learned so much and had so much fun with his instructor. Burton snowboarding gloves with removable liners for easier drying were our off season sales find ..
tina says
Not sure if it applies to Yeti, but Keurig makes an insulated cup with spill proof lid–great for coffee drinkers. We took ours on our Alaskan Cruise. Came in handy on the ship – would keep water cold and coffee hot and didn’t have to worry about spills.
Nadine says
I know you said you and Andrew took turns with the little girls while the other was on the mountain, but what did the little girls do for fun? It looks like the couldn’t participate in the “meat” of this vacation, which makes me sad. Also, I used to live in the DC area, and kids really don’t wear snowsuits unless they are actually playing in the snow. So to see your girls in front of the Smithsonian is snowsuits is very unusual.
Mix and Match Mama says
So, the two mornings that Andrew had the girls, they had coco, they made a snowman and they went for a walk in the snow. They LOVED it! Since Madeley is only three (and super small), we decided that she wasn’t old enough just yet, and because Ashby does have limitations and restrictions that she personally has to be cognitive of, then we thought one more year would really help her maturity. So, it was only two half days. And let’s be real, our world pretty much revolves around those two 😉 . They don’t lack for any sort of attention/special treatment in our family. As for DC, better warm than freezing cold when walking around, right?! 😉
Abigail says
I live in va and my kids wear their ski pants all the time. I also buy all black everything. Boots and pants so they can be passed down kid to kid. Football games at night in the fall are also great for snow pants! Better warm and cozy than freezing!
Kira says
I *currently* live in the DC area (Northern VA – and have all my life) and on a freezing cold day like we often get in the winter, the only reason I would look twice at someone’s kids in snowsuits (if it wasn’t snowing) when they were obviously going sightseeing is because I would think it was freaking genius. And Shay, you are doing a great job of exposing your kids to so many different experiences, cultures and activities. I love that you found different ways for everyone to enjoy the vacation and everyone looked like they had a great time. What a thrill it must have been for them to see and play in so much snow since you really don’t get much where you live. Seriously, some of the comments on this post are making me feel very sorry for the people posting them. Kudos to you for continuing to share your experiences and your family, and for being as gracious as you are.
Brandi says
Great tips!! I grew up skiing and now taking our kids 8,3,&3. I know it’s financially smart with the black gear, but when they get older like our 8 year old they get ahead and it’s sure hard to find! It’s like where is waldo!! I would recommend bright colored gear just so it’s easy to spot each child quickly and to avoid that moment of panic! Also, we can take a break in the lodge and still see the bunny slope and know our kids are still just fine since he is easy to spot with his bright gear! The 8 year old, he doesn’t need as many breaks, so he will play on bunny slope till we are ready to go back up.
Katy says
My Dad is an ski nut (my parents live in Denver) and he has always said that if you have a good quality base layer (like one good pair of long johns and one good pair of ski socks) you will stay warm all day with just your bib or pants on top. He is a super cheap money-saver in all areas except when buying long johns, socks, and gloves for skiing. 😉 I’m always amazed at how right he is when I go skiing!
I LOVE the way you pack! I will have to try that on our next trip–it might prevent me from my extreme problem with overpacking for each person as well! 🙂
Casey says
What a great idea about packing suitcases by days!! I’m definitely going to use that. I am always SO nervous about losing someone’s bag, so that’s so smart of you! I’m not sure what you use your Yeti for (cold/hot), but when I travel, I always take my Swell bottle with me. I mostly use mine just for water, but they’re insulated like the Yeti’s, come in lots of sizes, and have a lid that screws on tight and seals. What I like about that is that I can let it roll around my purse, bottom of the stroller, back-pack, etc. and I don’t have to worry about it spilling.
Amanda Bacon says
Love your packing tips! Would love some suggestions about how you pack when traveling by yourself. If you only have one luggage..how do you do the divide up method…what happens if they lose your one piece of luggage?
Thanks!
Mix and Match Mama says
I really try and carry on when it’s just me…or else, put some essentials and at least a change of clothes in your carry on.
Karen says
Love the packing tips! I’m single – and going on a 12 day cruise next month. How do you pack if it is just you going on a trip?
Mix and Match Mama says
With a prayer that my stuff arrives 😉 . I try to carry on if it’s just me, but sometimes, that’s not possible.
Laci says
You always give THE BEST advice and tips! I have learned so much from you!! Thank you for always sharing your life with us! Get well soon and yay to no more stitches and COFFEE!! 🙂
Kayla B says
After your suggestion, we brought our Yetis on the cruise with us, and we loved them! Also, I second the packing cubes. I don’t know how much difference they make space wise but organization wise, they are HUGE! They make it SO much easier to find things, repack them, and plan for day by day traveling. I’ll probably never take a big trip without them again!
Meg says
When skiing, I always put a few granola bars, tissue, chapstick w/ sunscreen, a sunscreen stick for faces/hands and hair ties in my coat pockets for the family. My hubby or I wear a camelback too so we can all takes quick sips of water easily (we have a small cold weather one where the water won’t freeze) ?
Alice H says
I have never been to Colorado or taken my kids to Colorado and that is what my son wants next year for his senior trip!! So the plan is for us to do it as a Christmas/Senior trip vacation for a week. My kids will be a 19 year old girl, 18 year old boy and 8 year old boy when we go. I am looking forward to going. Was December a good time to go? Should we rent our snow gear/etc beforehand? Thank you for all of these tips.
Mix and Match Mama says
We loved going in December! And we walked right in and rented when we arrived.
Stephanie says
I love all of your travel tips!!! Thanks so much for sharing!!! I’m planning on flying/traveling for the first time with a 2-yr old and 1 year old and wanted to ask what type of stroller you recommend bringing? Double umbrella stroller? Two separate umbrella? A tandem? Ahhhh overwhelmed by the possibilities.
And only if u have time, what travel car seat do you recommend for these ages?
Thanks SO much!!!
Mix and Match Mama says
My tip has always been two umbrella strollers. This way, you can divide and conquer, they’re not touching each other, you can take out only one at a time if you like and they’re easier to manipulate in crowded spaces.
Sara says
I see a couple others wrote it, but I want to echo it. When you don’t have the stroller, mittens/gloves in hats, hat in sleeve. Keeps everything together. And Cuddle Duds are the very best long johns for a base layer under your snow pants. So soft, cozy, and warm!
Kathy Shirk says
We are a family of spring break skiers, and we learned in the first year to take it slow getting to the mountain. My son has severe altitude sickness, so we always plan a night at half the altitude of our final destination. The next morning we explore the town before we head to our hotel. It tacks on an extra day for the trip, or takes away from one day of skiing, but it’s so worth not having a sick one. Or seeing your name on the board at the lifts – that was scary!!
When our baby was too young to ski we loved the daycare center! They took the little ones out to play in the snow and at age 2 she got her first ski lesson.
MIriam says
I live in Park City, and we have a place called the National Ability Center and it is AMAZING!! You have to check it out, they are such a great organization!
Anna Henderson says
Awesome tips! I’m not athletic AT ALL but my husband is – I’d love for us to go ski sometime and I’d absolutely need lessons so I don’t break my neck! ha! I’m going to try your packing system for our cruise in May!
Michelle says
Do you prefer to check most of your stuff? or utilize carry on’s as much as possible? It just seems to get to be a hassle trying to lug all the carry ons around and keep track of them. What is your standard carry on packing list?
Mix and Match Mama says
I love to be able to carry on when we can…but that doesn’t happen as often as I like it. So, if we’re going to check, then I like our hands as free as possible in the airport/on the plane.
Angela Ellingson says
Yay for no more stitches soon! Dividing everyone’s stuff between all the suitcases is brilliant! As is having a bag just for winter accessories! Love that Ashby will be able to take lessons that ensure she doesn’t fall. That’s wonderful! And I love these posts. So great to refer back to and to pass on to friends when taking a similar trip.
Brea says
WHAt are some tips to getting everything back in your suitcases? I feel like we pack them well getting there but they never pack well coming home. Also, any tips on when to get home how to “clean” luggage? For instance, the insides get grungy from dirty sometimes, any tips on how to clean or with what, etc. same with strollers too? I wasn’t sure if you had any tips that’s would be easier than what currently do. We didn’t travel much as kids so now traveling with mine a challenging and making things up as I go. Love reading your tips and figuring out what works for us. Thank you for putting in the time you do to help people like me! I appreciate it!
Amanda @ That Inspired Chick says
I think we should make all the guys use this packing method for guys trips. 😉 Think they’d go for it? That Inspired Chick
carly says
Several things not mentioned with traveling and skiing/snowboarding is sunscreen on everyone, Colorado UV index is very high no matter the cold temp and you will burn. Also altitude sickness needs to be addressed. If you are getting off a plane and driving directly to Breck, Vail, Copper, etc you are going to be at 10,000 ft and you will get into trouble quickly when you body does not have time to adjust. Some people take a day after getting off plane and stay in Denver at 5280 ft. to let there bodies adjust at lower altitude. Read info to protect yourself and watch the kiddos. Altitude sickness is not something to be taken lightly and if you do get real serious side effects the ski areas have urgent care/ER areas and can treat you.
Emily says
Yes, yes, yes about the altitude sickness! My family is really into skiing, especially my brother, and he always talks about how people don’t take altitude sickness seriously enough when he goes on 2-4 trips each year out west.
Caroline says
Hi. If you love your yeti cup you should look at the corksickle water bottles! Just like a yeti but with a screw on lid and they come in cute colors. I love my corksickle because I can throw it in my purse and not worry about it spilling. Also, last year my family went to steamboat to ski! Steamboat is super family friendly and a lot of fun for first timers (me, ha). We stayed at a ski in, ski out condo and it was great. You can look out the window and see everyone ski and it was also a short walk to a ton of restaurants and shops. I️ definitely would recommend steam boat and ski in, ski out. We literally just walked outside and got on the lift!
Darcy says
We live on a small cattle ranch in Oregon, and our two year old wears a snow suit almost every time we go out to do chores or feed….even when there isn’t snow. 🙂 They’re just so easy to throw on over what they’re already wearing, like you said – and keep their little bodies warm! And I love how easily they wash.
Your tips are great! I had to laugh though – when you said you were going to pack your Yeti next time, I was like “Why would she need a huge cooler?” and then I realized you were talking about the Yeti cup and not the Yeti cooler. 🙂 Hope you have a good day relaxing!
Christine says
Texas is all about the Yeti but Oregon is Hydroflask country…..so much better suited for the outdoors. 🙂
Melissa says
I have never once commented on a blog, however I felt compelled to do so today. I look forward to reading your blog daily. I also have four kids, so I enjoy reading about your life with a large family. You are such a kind person to take the time to address even the negative comments. Have a good day!
Lindsey says
Yeti cups = the best invention ever 😉 I use mine ALL the time! In fact, my husband and I own 5 of them, lol!
Lynne Thomas says
Hey Shay: Glad you had a great holiday and that you are on the mend. Just have a questions for you. What is aYeti? that you want to bring next time? I may be out of the loop with gadgets. Sorry if this is an annoying question just curious. Thanks in advance!!!!!! Happy Stitches removal day!!!!
Mix and Match Mama says
It’s like the best insulated mug EVER! I must make it a favorite soon!!
Liz says
Shay, you are such a beautiful person, inside and out, answering some of the kind of snarky, passive-aggressive coments/questions some people made, with the most direct, taking -the-high-road, gracious voice. You and Andrew so clearly adore your family and your focus is always to enjoy safe, fun, happy times as much together as possible. I admire, respect and enjoy you sharing so much of your busy, full, happy family’s life! I wish I’d had your blog to read when we were raising our sons–now almost 29 and 33! I hope your healing is going smoothly and know you will adore that first cup of coffee!❤️☕️❤️
Kelly says
I couldn’t have said it better:). Shay, you are a treasure!
Shelly says
I absolutely love this post!!
Great info, especially the packing part.
I have followed your blog for a while and I adore you and your family.
My son is 12 and has Autism,so finding out the ski resort has special needs classes is awesome.
Thank you again for sharing your life with us ?
Heather says
You should get some Snoozies! They’re slipper socks and my favorite to travel with. Plus they have the cutest designs and patterns – and are available on Amazon – hellooooo free two day shipping!
Heather S says
What is with all the meanies out there today? I’d have lost it at the “real” disability comment. Love the way you were able to rise above it! You keep doing you, Shay!
Becky Reid says
We need a link to your Yeti 😉
Katie Hernandez says
Hey Shay! So glad you are feeling better. Great packing tips, I actually can’t wait to go on trips to try these tips haha. You and Andrew go above and beyond to make sure your kids are never left out and I admire that about both of you. I also admire that you always have a backup plan. I am 27 and just got married two months ago and my husband and I bring up the kids talk all of the time. I have followed your blog for 2.5 years and literally soak up everything you say because you make me want to be a mom. You are simply amazing!
Patty says
A quick suggestion…If you’re coming from a lower altitude for a high altitude vacation, please don’t try to be too active right away. Give yourself some time to acclimate…drink lots of water (less caffeine) and don’t over-exert on the first day especially. Altitude sickness is REAL and can ruin a vacation quickly. Also, we used to rub vaseline on the kids faces before skiing…it kept their faces from getting chapped. Carry a lip balm. You can get ones that clip to your jacket or are on a lanyard. Both are great when your lips dry out in the drier climate. Quality baselayers (Smartwool or Patagonia) are worth their weight in gold! And don’t wear too many heavy layers or you’ll quickly overheat once you’re active on the mountain.
You always have awesome tips, Shay! I’ve learned a LOT about packing/travels from your experiences, so thanks!
Susie says
Shay, can you please share the brand of luggage you use/recommend and where to purchase? Thank you for sharing these tips!
Mix and Match Mama says
Oh gosh, it’s your basic Samonsite type stuff. I like to buy it at Kohl’s because they have the best deals.
Kristi says
Great tips!! Random, but back when you made your 2018 resolution/goals you wanted to have better lunches. Well, any great lunch ideas you can share?? 😉 #needhelp
Mix and Match Mama says
Well, my lunches this past week have been very boring, but hopefully, next week, I can jazz them up a bit!
Kimberly says
HI Shay! First of all, glad to hear that your recovery is going well, and productive!
Second, what I did with our family when we went to D.C. A few years ago (kids were 9 and 4) was took gallon sized zip locks and packed a whole outfit (undies, socks, even hair pretties) in each bag for each kid. With the exception of one or 2 occasions, they could then pick out what outfit they wanted for the day and I didn’t have to worry about not having enough of one thing or the other. It worked great! And sadly, I should’ve done this with my husband as well. His outfits were really something by day 8. I love your packing tip and now with 2 more kids, when we go on vacation I will definitely be combining them.
The other tip I’ve heard of and failed to remember to do before is: if it’s a multiple city vacation, pack the separate cities in different suitcases (which is similar to your tip). For example, when we went to Colonial Williamsburg, I should have packed pjs, swim suits, and changes of clothes in a separate bag and then we wouldn’t have needed to bring all of the other bags into the hotel. ? Sadly I did not do this. Oh well! Live and learn, right?!
Leanne says
Awesome tips! Not skiing/ snowboarding related but can you do a blog post on tips for training a new puppy with already having a older dog at home. We’re having a hard time training her because she thinks going outside is play time with the older dog. Do you let your dogs out separately and how do you keep the puppy from bothering the older dog ? Ours constantly jumps and bites our older dogs ears . Thanks ! Any advice on what has worked for you would be appreciated !
Aulani Morris says
My hubs was a volunteer ski instructor for kids with special needs (autism) and he loved it. Also, your packing method is genius. I might have applied some of your ideas in my travels. Keep them coming.
Christine says
Great tips!! Good to know that you got deals on winter gear in Sept? Does this include ski gear too? We just moved close to a ski resort/area and this year we are renting our stuff but next year we may buy so I will start looking for deals on Aug/Sept.
Mix and Match Mama says
Yes! We have a local ski shop and when they opened back in September (they’re only opened seasonally), they had all of last season’s items heavily discounted.
Amy says
I buy my kids stuff for the upcoming year once the sales start, my fave is Lands End for solid quality and not crazy prices. New ski pants jackets and boots every year or two for both of my boys
skimama says
We’ve taken our kids skiing annually for 7 years. I echo the comments about putting a snack in your child’s skipants pocket. Our kids each have the camelback water-backpack thingy so they stay hydrated and avoid altitude sickness. We keep stick sunscreen, lip sunscreen, hand warmers, cash and our name and phone number in the zipper part of it. I did learn not to give our youngest one the camelback until she was 5 or 6 because she wet her pants a couple of times at ski school. eek. (And now we bring 2 pairs of skipants just in case.) Always 2 pairs of gloves per person and a boot dryer to dry gloves and ski boots at night. We drive so we just put the plastic tubs of helmets and ski wear from the storage area straight to the car for our trips…no thinking or packing required.
Copper Mountain has a 4pack of lift tickets for $150 during March? and April for the next season. It’s a really good deal.
We bought the boys crazy helmet covers so we can always see them on the mountain if we happen to be near them. I don’t know why we haven’t bought one for our daughter…third kid I guess. lol
I also have a giant Marshalls shopping bag that I bring along for carrying the kids’ ski boots and helmets at the end of the day. Usually the kids are hungry and worn-out (grouchy) so it’s easier to thrown them in the bag and carry it all myself then to try to make them tough it out to the car or condo. 🙂
Kelly says
I live in Crested Butte, Colorado, and The Adaptive Sports Center at CBMR is fantastic! I worked there for many years and cannot speak more highly of the whole organization!
Crystal McDonald says
Oh goodness I love the “slipper” idea!!! Last year I got ugg slippers for Christmas and then forgot them at the Ft Worth Omni hotel. They “couldn’t find them” and I was sooooo sad!! Never traveling with them again but this is the best way ever to stay cozy!
Question! Are you still using Tula face cream? I’m almost out and trying to decide what skincare product to invest in next.
Hope you’re healing great!
Mix and Match Mama says
Yes! I just love that stuff!!!
Lisa says
Love this, looks like a great time. Do you have any info on the on-mountain childcare at Snowmass? Did you look into it? Would love any info besides what is provided online! Thanks!
Mix and Match Mama says
We didn’t look into it.
Kaysey Flanagan says
Where did you get Ashby’s snow boots from? Love them, and would love to get my daughter a pair!
Mix and Match Mama says
Nordstrom! They’re Sorel 🙂 .
Carrie Burke says
All of these sound great but heck yes to #6. We use ‘rtic cups and recently took them with us to Iceland. Best decision we made. I made us each hot tea in the hotel lobby and it lasted all morning. We’d do our freezing cold sightseeing jump back in the warm bus and have our tea waiting for us. I brought tea bags in my back pack and would make a new cup wherever we were for lunch. It was so very cold there that this really helped us stay warm.
Patti says
Buy Smartwool socks. I bought the thicker wool kind because they were cheaper, then spent a very frustrating 20 minutes trying to stuff my 8 year old’s foot into her ski boot. I ended up having to go into the base ski shop and dropping $24 on a pair of Smartwool socks. They are thin, but really warm. I have since found some at Marshalls for $12.
Karen says
Love your idea of the bag just for gloves and hats! I live on the east coast but every spring break we take our kids out west to ski. Some of my favorite tips are 1) good base layers, gloves and socks 2) we try to stay where there is a washer and dryer 3) invest in ski lessons! it’s made a huge difference and my kids are wonderful skiers/snowboarders now. we started them out with ski lessons every day and then moved to lessons for the first few days and then skiing with us the last few until finally they didn’t need lessons anymore. But ski lessons made them super comfortable on any slope 4) bright ski coats or pants to find your child on the mountain easily when skiing together 5) skiing with other families is really fun and so nice for lift riding and swimming in the pool after 6) we try and stay in condos with a hot tub and heated pool
Brittney says
Hi Shay! What are your car seat tips for traveling to various places? Obviously, if you drive it’s easy, and even if you rent a car, but in places, such as big cities or abroad, what do y’all do? Do you bring your own seats when you use taxis? Thanks!
Mix and Match Mama says
We almost always use a car service and in advance, ask them to bring a car seat/booster or we rent a car and rent those as well.
Kimberly says
Hi Shay! I’m going to Nashville in a couple months for a long weekend with some friends. I was wondering if you have any recommendations on places to eat or visit while we are there. I remember hearing you were there last year but didn’t know how much extra you were able to do. Thanks a bunch!
Mix and Match Mama says
I didn’t get to do much last year, but a few years ago I went and fell in love with Franklin, TN. It has the cutest little Main Street!