It’s Sunday morning when I’m typing this and, as I do on every Sunday morning, I’m listening to the Christian radio station here in town as I work…the song that just came on was Death Was Arrested which is one of my FAVES! I love all of the lyrics to this song and if you haven’t heard it, you should listen. Your grace so free washes over me. Dang, that’s so good. It’s your endless love pouring down on us. Yes. You should really listen to the whole song.
Anyway…as we all know, 2020 has not been a banner year. I know we all have a long list of reasons why, a few of mine would include (but are not limited to) Ashby has now missed two surgeries and two MRIs which help us locate and remove clots and aneurysms which if not found can in fact be deadly. She has one (finally!) this Friday, but my mama heart has struggled over the last six months worrying about the unseen. My grandfather’s brother passed away in March and like so many of you with your loved ones, I had to watch the funeral on Facebook Live because no more than 10 could gather to remember the life of a man who should have so many more present. I didn’t get to hug his wife and tell her how sorry I am about her loss either, which makes me sad. And my travel agency? Well, geez. You pour your life into a business every single day for 8 years and now, it’s completely upside down. There aren’t enough words to describe my thoughts on the travel industry right now. I mean, my year has not looked worse than any of yours, it’s just been a really bad year for EVERYONE…so when my house flooded on Friday night, let’s just say, I wasn’t surprised because #2020. Sigh.
Around 8:00 PM on Friday night, due to a storm and the construction going on at my house, my first floor flooded until 6:00 AM. When I say flooded, I mean FLOODED. We had neighbors over, the Slaughters were over, we used over 200 towels, buckets, a water removal company showed up at 1:30, the construction crew was all there…there were so many people trying to remove the water, but it literally rained inside my house. It POURED. My living room, breakfast nook, patio, guest bathroom, master bedroom, master bath and my closet are all being gutted now (all the way back to the studs), and they’re deciding today for how long my house will be uninhabitable. I mean…of course it is. Guys, it could be SO MUCH WORSE! I even thought “maybe I won’t share this with my peeps online because I know so many of you have had fires and floods, so this really isn’t a big deal”, but the fact that I was posting a lot of pics from home home and yard and now, zip, would probably tip you guys off. I like to be transparent, so here it goes.
It sucks.
My house is a disaster.
But it’s really going to be okay.
It’s just a house. It’s just things. Seriously, we’re fine.
In fact, I never one time cried, NOT ONCE, until I sat down to type this to you guys! Geez. I’m such a baby. I’m listening to Christian music and telling my internet friends and that’s when I cry. Now, I’m laughing at how insane I am. 😉
Do you know what this has taught me? How freaking amazing people are. Friends, neighbors, family, were at my house removing buckets of water all through the night and then the next morning, they were back at my house cleaning up, removing towels, washing and drying things and bring them back. I mean to tell you, amazing.
So, that’s where we are, I’m sitting at my bar right now (we’re still nailing down where we’re going…hopefully today, we’ll know!), typing this with 42 fans blowing. 42. BUT it will be fixed! We’ll maybe live somewhere else a bit and call it an adventure or vacation, but we’re fine. I just wanted to tell you guys. I’m going to still try and blog this week because clearly, I need the outlet (I mean, you guys made me cry this morning!). We’re fine. I’m fine. It’s all fine. It’s messy, but it’s fine. All of those years being married to a State Farm agent finally paid off 😉 . He’s about ready to transfer me and my questions to another team member in his office though. Ha! I’m the one client he has that he literally cannot get away from.
That’s all. You stink, 2020. I think we can all agree that it’s time to move on to 2021.
Love you ladies. I will see you TOMORROW!! xoxo Shay
Christi says
Sending you many hugs. If I lived close enough, I’d deliver a hot coffee not because it’d make this all okay…it does suck… but just to give you a hug in a cup. Good luck with all the technical stuff that will be going on this week.
I woke up with great plans in 2020 of taking care of me (for a change), travel and fun and getting things put back together after several trying years. And then within 10 days the year flipped upside down. I look forward to 2021 however I’m still hopeful that 2020 still has some good moments left.
Karen Bosley says
Sending love and prayers to you and your sweet family!
Prudence says
Oh, no! I am so sorry you and your family are dealing with this. 2020 has not been kind. The one good part of this year is the kindness and generosity of so many people towards others.
Keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
Heidi Hoogeveen says
Oh no!!! I’m so sorry Shay! I agree 2020 really stinks. It’s time for it to move along now. We just found out a few weeks ago that my father has cancer. I’m with you and so over 2020. I hope everything goes okay with your house! Ugh, just crazy that happened!
Cate says
My inlaws house flooded when they were in Italy on vacation a few years ago. Six days into their trip, their oldest son went to check the mail and walked in to standing water. The water Inlet into one of the toilets on the top floor had come apart sending pressurized water pouring into their house for several days. It was something like 6 gallons a minute. Needless to say, their house was ruined from top floor to basement! Prayers for you and your family during this difficult time, but you’re right in that it can all be fixed and everyone is safe. (My in-laws had a time with their insurance company because theirs was a total loss, but it finally worked out and their happy in their new home ;))
Stacy Johnson says
It’s just.one.more.thing!!! Praying for all of y’all!
Lilia says
Love and prayers! Sorry this happened. You’re house will be restored soon. Stay strong! Glad you have the love of listening to good music and is lifted up by each words. Praying for you and your
family.
That happened to our house in Houston during the hurricane Harvey almost 3 years ago. We didn’t have flood insurance then and only have a few $$.
Like you, we were so grateful for family, friends, neighbors and strangers who came to rebuild our home.
Lots of hugs and prayers.
Leigh Scarito says
Oh that is so toughhhhh! Gonna share a fave Russ Taff song;
I cry and you’re the one who hears me calling
I fall so easily but you’re there to catch me
Say the words that heal me
I’m safe when I’m with you
You touch my eyes, I can see
Praying Jesus keeps
Touching you to see the good things. You are doing great!
angela ware says
thinking about you and your family ♥️ 2020 is rough but i know you will get through this surrounded by all those who love you guys.
Erika Slaughter says
You’ve been such a trooper! Seriously, the way you’ve handled this has been amazing! And YES!! It’ll be such the adventure! Love you!!
Ashley Goode says
I am so so so sorry! My parents’ house flooded earlier this year, so I have some idea of what you are going through. It is just so sad. Yes, of course, there are worse things in the world, but let yourself feel what you are feeling. You will get through it though. You have great people around you supporting you! Prayers for you and your sweet family.
Mary says
I’m so sorry!! Praying for you and your family!!
Krista says
Sending you lots of good vibes. We had a major flood in 2018. I mean major. We were so devestated we didn’t know what to do. Thank goodness for insurance. But my word. It was terrible. But you will get through it and have an almost new house to show for it. One day at a time. :).
Carly says
Shay, I’m so sorry. My moms house burned last month. And like you (and everyone else) there have been some major other tragedies happen to people I loved this year. 2020 sucks. But be in your feelings. Yes people have it worse but process this and rely on the people God has put in your life. I’ll be praying for you all
Mix and Match Mama says
I’m so sorry for your mom!! I cannot even imagine what she’s going through. I am stopping right now and praying for her, Carly.
Carly says
Thank you Shay. Many things were able to be be saved most importantly, lives. Praying for your whole family, your home and a super easy surgery on Friday.
Francesca says
Praying for you Shay! Like you said it’s just stuff – and it’s okay to cry about it. ❤️ It’s stressful but God has this in his pocket and he has big plans for you!
Kristen says
Sending you love and prayers as you navigate through this! God has got this! You are building character and he will use this for something good. Keep your chin up. XO!
Kristen Thompson says
Oh my goodness! Not that there is ever a “good time” but what a horrible time to have something like that happen! I’m so sorry! I truly appreciate your positive outlook. Good luck with everything!
Jessica says
Oh my word. Shay, I’m so sorry dear one. I’d drive from WV right now if I could to bring you a warm cup of joe and hugs. I believe even in the storm it’s not battering you and God is going to use this hiccup to show up and show off inside you and with your family! Even in the chaos your heart is being steadied in him and what a fine example that is to all of us dealing with #2020
You are loved and being prayed for friend. All 6 of you! ?☺️??????
Amy Heinl says
Oh my gosh Shay…this had me in tears as well. I am so very sorry for the major flooding you experienced. Your right in that it can and will all be repaired and/or replaced but that doesnt make it any easier of a pill to swallow. 2020 has been such a hard year and our homes have literally been our refuge from the pandemic storm making it extra hard. I will be lifting you in prayer. May you feel the live of Gods love lift and support you in the days ahead
MJ says
So sorry – sending good thoughts your way.
Caroline S says
Hi Shay, as someone who used to stuff her feelings and try to call everything fine for the sake of those watching, I am proud of you for trusting us with your feelings. I want you to know that they are valid. In my own journey, I’ve found that my own hardships can’t be compared to those of others as it only minimizes them. They are hard and they suck as they are. I hope you know, that you are no less courageous for crying over tough stuff. In fact, it is only natural. This is your truth right now. I know I felt like I had to be strong for everyone else even though I just wanted to cry. I encourage you, if you can, to be vulnerable with some safe people, and share your truth with them and with yourself. Allow yourself to grieve. It will heal in it’s own time. It is perfectly ok and perfectly natural to feel frustrated, sad, angry, grateful, all of those things. It just means you are human. Sending you hugs and courage. <3
Kricket says
I’m so sorry you are going through this. It sounds absolutely awful. If it were my house, I’d be very upset and crying. You and your family are in my prayers. I told my husband that nothing at all surprises me in 2020 – it sure has been a year!
Sheila Kini says
I am so so sorry to hear this but you WILL get through this!
Kim Hayes says
Dear Shay
It’s healthy to cry-in fact you’re words made me cry for you as I was reading about your beautiful home being gutted and all the love and help that poured in from your family and friends.
During my quiet time I was reminded of how David always turned to the Lord first during his trials to seek wisdom. (Seek Ye first…) Saul did things his way and it never ended well. I’ve been through three ground water floods and one major raw sewage flood in our “money pit” so I understand all the shock, deliriousness, and sadness mixed with big chunks of gratitude and thanksgiving. It’s a strange blend of thoughts and emotions for sure. As you process everything and are asked to make many decisions in the coming days and weeks continue to Seek Him first and His wisdom will surpass any fear and second guesses you may have. I hope you can find your “flood house” soon and embrace this remodeling project with all the energy, grace and good humor you always do! Know we are praying for you and looking forward to watching the project unfold. Who knows-this could be a great way to make your home even better than it was with the biggest virtual decorating and design team anyone has ever had! Ha Ha! We’re here to help!?
ps. Tell Andrew we’re praying for him double time!??
Shannon says
Oh, I’m so sorry to hear this, Shay! I know – as you said – that things could be much worse, but it still stinks!! Hoping your transition to wherever you’re going for now goes well. Thinking of all of you and praying for you and your family… and sending extra prayers for Ashby that you can get back to her appointments, too.
Kathleen says
I am so sorry. Our houses are the safe place for us all during this quarantine. I am sorry yours is taken away for a little while. Hope you find a soft spot to land and your house gets fixed up soon.
Melissa Wilkinson says
Shay- I’m so sorry!! Remember, as my grandma always used to say:”Anything made by man can be fixed by man.” Hang in there and I hope you find the most amazing place to take the kids and “adventure” while your house is repaired!
Blessings!
Melissa
Mix and Match Mama says
Love this.
Kate says
Shay, just because others have also experienced floods, fires, and other hard times doesn’t make your circumstances any less difficult. Thank you for sharing. I am so sorry to hear of the trials you have been facing. One of my prayers for 2020 is that God would tangibly overwhelm those in hard times with his love and comfort. I am praising Him for doing that for you in the form of all those who came to help. Continued prayers sent your way, along with virtual hugs!
Paula McKaughan says
Shay, can I just say “I love you Sister!!?” I wish I could come squeeze your neck. I’m just a few counties away and I’ve loved your entire family BIG since you threw Sean into the Bachelorette frying pan lol. Sending lots of hugs and prayers for you and your sweet family!!! ???
Love,
Your Sister in Christ; Paula
Mt. Pleasant, TX
Deena says
Oh my gosh! I wasn’t expecting that when you started talking about this year. That’s just so much to deal with so don’t compare what’s happened to what others are going through. It’s okay to be upset or stressed or whatever you’re feeling. My former work, Frisco Eye Associates, had a flood over a long weekend one year. It was only a few inches of water but it caused so much damage and we were working with dehumidifiers going everywhere.
Will say a prayer that everything is fine with Ashby, who’s been in my prayers ever since I knew about her condition. She’s such a strong girl and has such a great attitude. Good luck with everything!
Karen Krieger says
Oh Shay! How awful for you and your family. I hope that it is all remedied as soon as humanly possible. I know how much you love your house especially during the summer. I pray that you are back to normal soon. Praying for you and yours!
Kelly K says
I am SO sorry!
Cher Rezac says
i am so sorry
Susan says
Thank you for being transparent; that’s one if my favorite things about your blog! With that being said, I am so sad this happened to you and your family. Praying y’all find somewhere to live quickly and for your house to be restored because we all know memories are made there everyday! Praying for Ashby right now!
Margaret says
First of all I’m glad you are all safe! This sounds tough but somehow I picture you smiling! You seem to be able to see the positive in all. Just remember it is ok to cry! Sending prays & hugs.
Savannah says
It’s okay to be sad for what is going on and to live in that moment and feel what you are feeling. It’s doesn’t mean that you are not a positive person or that you are taking away from or minimizing other’s tragedies. I’ve had to share these words a few times with my daughter who is a high school senior this year and didn’t want to cry or admit she was sad or mad over the things she was missing out on because “ people are dying “ . You’ve brightened our days so many times with your posts and willingness to share ( even those of us who have never commented like me ) so now let others do that for you !
Mix and Match Mama says
Thank you, Savannah. xx
Kelly Franks says
YES!!! I was going to send you the same thing. There ARE worse things that are happening but that doesn’t mean you can’t grieve and think it sucks bc it does. It’s just how you react that’ll set you a part. There couldn’t be a better time to be married to a State Farm agent! Sending virtual hugs and prayers for you and your family and all of your “group” that is helping you through this. Also prayers and hugs for sweet Ashby!
Carrie says
Goodness! When my friend’s youngest 2 were 2 and 1, they had a fire that destroyed their house. Her kids were staying with grandparents for the night, a miracle because her 2 year old’s room was literally torched. They stayed in a hotel for awhile but then decided to buy a house and because all of the baby stuff was destroyed to pursue adoption ( There was more then that but my friend said it was what gave her the prompt to discuss it with her husband). They now have 3 adopted kiddos from China, all have physical needs and one many needs.
So different things can come out of it however having been there with not water but sewage flooding our finished basement not 1x but 3x… I understand it is so frustrating and so hard ( our first renovation in our house was new sewer pipes). Hang in there!!
Mix and Match Mama says
Thank you for sharing this story, Carrie!!
Tammy M. says
I’m so sorry for what you have been going thru. I don’t post comments often but please know I read all your posts. I literally cried reading this because I feel as if I know you and your family. This blog has been my happy place especially this year. I lost my Mom in April due to Covid. She lived out of state so I never got a chance to be with her or say good bye. I share this because I want to give you strength. During hard times we realize how connected we all are and how much we need each other. Life is so fragile and we should be grateful for each day we are alive. Having the love and support of family and friends is what truly matters . Sending hugs and prayers your way. God is good and he will take care of you.♥️?
Julie C. says
I am so sorry Shay!!!! Even tho other people may have it worse, you’re still allowed to have your own feelings & moments of sadness. Go ahead and process your feelings, then continue to pray for others when you’re done 🙂 I can’t even imagine everything that needs replaced & everything you guys have been thru. I will be thinking about & praying for your family.
Taylor says
Shay, I am so sorry that happened to you. Last night I was reading the book of Job and this reminded me of that. I know you know the story but he lost all of his earthly possessions and so much more but never once turned from God. In the end God blessed him with 10x more than what he had before. I am believing that you are going to see some MAJOR blessings in your life soon. The first 6 months of 2020 have been terrible for a lot of us but I’m believing that the last 6 months are going to be be filled with amazing things. XOXO
Susan Jeffries says
Oh I am beyond sorry!! I pray that your home dries quickly and that your Ashby’s appointment goes well! This has been a year of trial and tribulation for sure. Both my dad and my father in law passed away over the past 2 months as well. We still have not had a funeral for dad. Its been just awful. I keep reading my Bible and focusing on God. There is no other way to survive right now. Be blessed. Your blog is such a welcome blessing!
Mix and Match Mama says
Oh Susan! I am so sorry! I am absolutely so sorry for your family.
Cristin Miller says
I’m so sorry you guys are going through this. I agree 2020 has completely sucked! Jan 31st my niece delivered her 3rd child and within 1 hr she died (we knew this was going to happen). But then on March 1st my dad had a massive heart attack sitting in the back seat of my car. No funeral for my dad yet either. Then two weeks after that, we were told at work to pack up our desks and head home because we would now be working from home due to Covid-19 for an undetermined amount of time due to Covid-19.
Tracey Brown says
2020 is a rough year!! Saying Prayers for your family. I think 2020 is the year of reaching out to others!! That’s what I’ll take away from it. Your blog has been a blessing to Me during dark times.. Now it’s time to be there for you. Many prayers and positive thoughts as you navigate through this❤️?
Leticia says
Tracey, I love that – the year of Reaching Out to Others.
Shay – keeping you and your family in prayer <3
Sonja says
My goodness! Thinking of you and your family! I hope your pet family is OK and will enjoy the adventure, too! Keep your positive attitude during this trying season! You’ve got this!
CampDallas says
Oh Shay!! I am so, so sorry!!!! I am glad you shared with us, so we can pray for your family the same way you so often pray for all of us. Yes, things can be replaced, but that doesn’t make this any less stressful and devastating. You are surrounded with such wonderful people that will hold you up during such an uncertain time. Thinking of you and the entire Shull crew. And your State Farm agent comment made me giggle…keep finding laughter amongst the chaos. Much love to you!
Jennifer Hampton says
Oh sweet shay. You know what comes to my mind…
“Lord bless you and keep you. May his face shine upon you and be gracious to you. Lord turn his face towards you, and give you peace!”
I dont comment often, though I’ve read every day for 10 years. But I wanted to say, I know the Lord is faithful. He is good, and just, and merciful. And he WILL turn this mess into a beautiful message, if not for anyone but your kids. “Will you still praise the goodness of God when life strips all the “stuff” away, and all you have left is the studs…” – there ya go!
Sending prayers up for you. Lots of love!
Mix and Match Mama says
Thank you, Jennifer! Our pastor prays that over us every single Sunday. That’s exactly what I needed to hear this morning.
Kathryn says
Shay,
I just wanted to echo everything Jennifer said here. I read your blog daily, and have for many years since college.
When I was younger, we had a tornado damage quite a bit of our barns, shed, farm equipment, pool, and part of the house. I was struck by the kindness and generosity of neighbors, friends, and even strangers who came to help immediately. What also left an even bigger impression on me was my parents gathering my siblings and I to pray together that night after a full day of clean up. My Dad and Mom were praying in thanksgiving to God for all that He provides in His sovereignty. I learned from them in that moment to praise God even when things seem bad. He is faithful and good. God may be using this trial to help others learn that we love God for who He is and what He has done for us through Christ. ‘Because your love is better than life, my lips will glorify you.’
I can’t help but think that you have such a platform here, and your acknowledgment of God’s faithfulness amidst life’s trials is such a witness to your readers. Your love for Him shines through in the good and hard times.
May God bless you and protect you and let you find rest in the shadow of His wing. He will carry you through until we reach our eternal home where nothing can destroy or harm His people.
Sending you love and praying for your family,
Kathryn
Tami says
Amen. Shay, yes you are fine but this hurts and I am thankful that you know God’s got this for you. Tears and prayers for you this morning!
Lauren says
Ugh I am SO sorry. 2020 truly is the absolute worst – for you, for me, for everyone. Stopping to pray for your sweet family now.
In Acts 17:26, God’s word says “And he made from one man every nation of mankind to live on all the face of the earth, having determined allotted periods and the boundaries of their dwelling place…” The Lord isn’t surprised by this and He will take care of you, even provide a dwelling place for your family during this time. Rest in that, and know that you have a huge community of supporters here in this space who care about you. <3
Charmaine Ng | Architecture & Lifestyle Blog says
Shay, you’re super brave and setting a great example, dealing with this in such a mature way! Don’t forget you deserve to feel too! Major hugs. 2020 sucks for sure!
Charmaine Ng | Architecture & Lifestyle Blog
http://charmainenyw.com
Lindsey says
Oh shay I’m so sorry. You don’t have to say how much worse it could be or that it’s ok since y’all are all fine. It SUCKS. and you can scream It from the rooftops if you want to. All my love and prayers for y’all.
Kathy says
Oh my gosh, Shay! I’m so terribly sorry for all that you’re going through right now. I know that when we worry about our children’s health it is the worst feeling ever. A close friend from college could not attend her grandfather’s funeral either, and both her parents were already deceased. I think it makes the grief of losing a loved one that much harder. Our homes have literally been our safe places for the past several months. All of this REALLY stinks. Your positive attitude will go a long way into making the transition for you and the whole family so much better. I am praying for all of you to THRIVE during this extremely trying time.
Angel Varney says
Shay I have read your blog for years and you’ve inspired me to have another baby, get up early, travel more and get myself a little more organized.
Now today I wish I could do something for you and I don’t know-gather up some messes and help you move or watch your kids while you figure all of this out! Goodness, what a year. I think the whole world is scratching their heads right now.
It reminds me of that verse in Romans 8 about all creation groaning in eager expectation for the Holy Spirit to come….all of creation is groaning right now. Our world is in a mess and we were made for heaven so we groan and wait and rightfully so.
Sending a virtual hug your way. Xoxo
Jamie says
Shay, I am so sorry. We had a flood in our house as a kid and it was devastating . I am praying for you and your family- that God gives you strength , patience, and comfort during this time.
kathy says
Oh no! I’m so sorry! I wish I could help you out somehow!! If we lived nearby, we would provide a meal or something! I was just shocked to read this. Praying for you all!
Amy Wolff says
Oh my Shay…. no one would ever expect you to be writing that! ?
My mom used to say when a door closes a window opens- something positive will come from this!
Prayers to you guys.
Kathy says
Father, I bless the Shull family and ask that this would be rectified quickly. I pray that the outcome would be an amazing one. I bless their home with peace that could only come from you.
Marcie says
Shay! I’m so sorry! I’m praying for you and your family. Praying Ashby’s surgery goes well on Friday! Thank you for sharing the song!
grace says
Dear Shay,
I’m so sorry to hear all that is going on for you right now. You never have to say, well other people have it worse. There is no hierarchy of pain. Your feelings are completely valid. Be mad. Be sad. Be worried. Feel all the feelings. Cry. And know you and your family are being held right now. Sending lots and lots of prayers and love your way!
“Let everything happen to you.
Beauty and terror.
Just keep going.
No feeling is final.”
“Have courage for the great sorrows of life and patience for the small ones; and when you have laboriously accomplished your daily task, go to sleep in peace. God is awake.”
Lisa D says
Yes, everything that Grace wrote! All will be well… it’s the “in-between time” to get to the “better time” that is hard. Sending prayer your way from Colorado.
Ahna @ Hammers N Hugs says
Oh Shay! Crap. I mean. Crap! *Pardon my French.* Ugh, I’m so sorryl! That’s hard. Girl, cry all you want to. I’m throwing you another box of cyber tissues myself. This year has been one of those hard stops in global history, but also in many of our lives individually.
Isaiah 55:8-12 has come to my mind countless times this last year. “For my thoughts are not your thoughts,’ declares the Lord…As the rain and snow come down from heaven…so is my Word . . . It will not return to me empty, but will accomplish what I desire and achieve the purpose for which I sent it.”
The Lord reminding me that despite my limited understanding He is working and will accomplish what He desires. But isn’t it just like the God we serve to finish that thought with this last verse? That despite lack of understanding –
“You will go out in JOY and be led forth in PEACE; the mountains and the hills will burst into song before you, and all the tress of the field will clap their hands.” Ahhh, it’s one of my very favorites.
Praying over all of us today that there would be supernatural JOY and PEACE despite the unknown so that when we look at our circumstances through His lens all we can see is a perfectly orchestrated dance for His glory. And remind your State Farm Agent that this too shall pass. Eventually. 😉 XO
Kara says
Praying for you and your family right now! When I was 18, we lost our house to a flood and as devastating as it was, we survived and were better for it. It’s amazing how resilient we truly are! I always tell myself.. if he brings you to it, he’ll get you through it! ??
Becky says
Oh my. I am SO sorry. Two years ago we had massive flooding and the water came up, literally from the floor, in our basement. It was such a mess. So blessed with people from church that came over and helped us bail, loaned us more equipment, etc. THEN we find out it happens in our neighborhood every 10 years. Ugh. I will be thinking about your family.
grace says
Also, thank you so much for sharing that song. It’s beautiful.
Have you ever done a post on your favorite Christian songs? I’d love to hear what yours are and then we can all chime in and share ours too with you! Music can be so healing in the midst of trial.
Thank you again Shay for showing up here, being real, being you.
xoxo
Anneka says
Ugh, I’m so sorry. I am glad to hear Ashby is going to get the medical care she needs. As a pediatric medical professional I’ve really struggled with what was considered elective and not necessary due to Covid. Many prayers for all your adjustments.
Mary says
We were staying at my in laws’ house about 2 hours south of Dallas and my family lives in Houston and we were all talking about how bad that rain was that night! Praying for you guys. I can’t imagine. I’m so sorry!! Thank you for your positivity in the midst of this. You are a joy.
Christine R. says
Omgosh Shay! I read this with my hand over my mouth – gasping! I’m so very sorry for your beautiful home – but as you said, it can be fixed. Maybe you can head to Nantucket for the next month (or two?!). We’re here for you – hang in there. And it’s okay to cry – glad that you feel comfortable enough with your virtual family to cry. 🙂
Carlin says
Oh Shay! My prayers are with you! This happened to us a few years back and it just plain stinks. I am so sorry!
Kerri says
Praying for you!! So sorry this happened but your outlook on it is so encouraging! Thank you for sharing about your faith as well! God has big plans for you all! Stay strong!!
Karlene says
Oh wow! I’m so sorry! What a pain for you all. I’m praying for you all! Praying that something works out for your temporary housing. I had to laugh when you said your insurance agent can’t get away from you. Praying that things go as smoothly as they can. Sending you all the prayers and wishing you all the best! 🙂
Tabitha Passwaters says
Oh Shay, I’m so sorry! Thinking of you and your family. Anywhere you go will be “Home” because that’s what you guys do!!
Lori says
Oh Shay I’m so sorry. I live in the Houston area and you know we are all familiar with floods. It’s awful so go ahead and have a good cry. You deserve it and it’s good for the soul. Praying for it all to work out quickly for you and your family. If I were nearby I’d offer my services any way you need. Keep focusing on 2021. It’s got to be better!
Katherine Darlington says
So sorry. You pour your heart and soul into a building to make it a home for your family and then you have this happen yet your’e still able to say it’s just a house, it’s just things and that’s because YOU LOOK UP when things happen. That’s inspiring. I was moved to tears reading this and I heard gratitude and exhaustion and fear for your daughter, I didn’t hear despair. You’re inspiring.
Beth Knecht says
Oh my goodness, Shay!! I am so so sorry to read this. I am praying for you and your family. So sorry that the craziness continues for your family. Thanks for being so transparent. I hope we as your community can help you like you always help us!
Sarah says
I went through a house flooding when my husband was deployed! It was so hard! We rented a condo on the beach and ended up having the most memorable summer. I am SO sorry to hear it has happened to you and hope you can find a nice place to enjoy the summer still. Thinking of you and your family!
Mix and Match Mama says
I love hearing this, Sarah.
Mary says
Ugh, that’s ROUGH, Shay. I am so sorry…y’all are in my my thoughts.
Lauren says
All the prayers to your and your family! I’m so sorry but you seem to be handling it with grace. Bravo! Best of luck as you work through the latest challenge of 2020. I’m with you, let’s move on to 2021!
Ashley says
Oh bless your heart! A flood is never good but it’s definitely not good in this time and I’m sure trying to decide where to go is an en heavier decision right now. So sorry! Life doesn’t pause during a pandemic (although it kind of feels like it has in some ways) so I’m so sorry for the losses and worries for Ashby. She is such an amazing girl and I’ll pray for her appointment this week.
Laura says
I’m SO very sorry! Your SO blessed with SO many people who care about you and your family. In the end it will be more beautiful, if that’s even possible?! Your house is a dream. Where you able to save the furniture? Just remember to take one day at a time. Give yourself grace. ❤️
Meggie says
Bless y’all. So, so sorry. Prayers for everything to go smoothly moving forward. Thank you for sharing.
Kate says
I know there are no words that can fix this but I’m praying greatly for you + your sweet family through this tough time. ♥️ And extra prayers for Ashby and your mama heart this week!
Amy Broughton says
Oh goodness, what an ordeal! So sorry. Last year my husband was in alaska on a fishing trip and right as I was finishing up putting my kids to bed my daughter yelled out and I knew something was wrong. Well our newly adopted fish tank had completely drained down through our floors. Empty. Worse yet- I have little kids… had to save the fish! Haha. So I called and one of my dear friends who randomly has fish came and rescued them all. I had that same moment of thankfulness for friends. Also- insurance. It was a huge headache and we did have a little glitch with our construction team but at the end… all new carpet upstairs!!! Woo hooooo. So maybe you’ll get to enjoy whatever new thing you choose 😉 I am sure you probably thought of that too since your husband works in the industry. So sorry for the disruption it causes for now. Can’t wait to see the final product. I know you’ll be thrilled.
Dana says
Oh, Shay. I am so very sorry to hear this. We will pray that God will provide a nice substitute for while you wait for your house to be cleaned up. Being in the middle of an international move ourselves, I’m overwhelmed just thinking of all the details that you will need to manage and the amount of decisions to be made. But I can give you one little piece of advice that has helped me tremendously through this. Take each day one at a time and God will give you the grace to get through it. Matthew 6:34- Don’t worry about tomorrow. It will take care of itself. You have enough to worry about today. (Contemporary English Version) And we’ve found as well that these kinds of things really bring out the kindness of friends, family, and the Body of Christ. Be sure and write down the many answered prayers and special blessings God sends through this time because it’s pretty incredible to look back and see His hand through it all. And if I were you, I would just let Andrew take the ball and run with it. He would be the best person for that job and then you don’t have to deal with all that added stress. 🙂
Sayra Harris says
That really really sucks! I’m praying for you and your family! Your corner of the world brightens so many lives if we could only brighten yours for a short period of time. You are an inspiration and God is using you in a mighty way! Keep your head up better days are ahead.
Lindsey Stromberg says
I’m so sorry Shull family! Praying for patience, good news and a smooth transition.
Detroit Duchess says
I’m so sorry this happened to you! Back in 2014, we had massive flooding which led to a lot of sewage backups. Our basement flooded (with sewage) and it was disgusting! Thank goodness it was just our rental house and we didn’t have to worry about the cleanup (we moved into our house a few months later). But we lost a ton of my husbands personal items and keepsakes which was hard. My parents were such rockstars though and helped us get everything out of the basement. We had to toss anything that was porous and so many people on our street had to do the same. It smelled awful for weeks because everyone had their trash out at the curb. Now that we are through it and it happened so long ago, I am just so thankful for all the help we received. I hope you can get the house back to normal soon!
Tracy says
Heavenly Father, Please be with Shay and her family. I ask that you would give them the guidance, strength, courage and good health to get through this challenging time. In Jesus name, Amen.
Charon says
Well now I’m crying just reading this. Bless your heart….the first song that came to my mind was “Praise You In This Storm” (literally)…I hope everything gets better for your precious family!
Kristal Strong says
What a mess! I’m so sorry that happened!! I’m believing this nightmare is just making way for some bigger, richer blessings from the Lord. ❤️Praying with you that this get fixed quickly.
Heather Stanton says
These are my favorite quotes…that become my mantra in difficult times.
“When you get to the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on”. Elenor Roosevelt
and
“Keep your face to the sun and you cannot see a shadow”. Helen Keller
Hang on friend and find your sunshine when you get overwhelmed.
Praying for your whole family. Go Ashby…rock that surgery!
Mix and Match Mama says
Thank you, Heather! I love those!
Debbie says
Praying for you and your family. This will be so difficult, but the way that you are handling it is already being an encouragement and testimony!
Brooke says
If anything this year has shown me just how important prayer is and how much it can get you through. Sending prayers to you right now.
jamie says
YIKES ? i have zero words. except jesus. and i’m praying for all things shull family.
Carley Ensing says
Praying for you.
Nicole Silva says
I am so sorry to hear this. Just because it isn’t the end of the world doesn’t mean it isn’t a huge disruption in your world. It’s ok to feel down and it will get better. Prayers for your sweet family.
Kyla Fisher says
Every situation could probably be worse if we think about it. It’s ok to NOT be ok! So sorry you guys are going through this, I pray it gets fixed quickly. 2020 has been a beast and just like everything else in “2020” it was totally unexpected!! I’m praying for Ashby and all of you. Thank you for sharing and being so real in a world that feels really upside down. Blessings-Kyla
Nayeon says
Sending lots of prayers your way — very thankful that your entire family stayed safe through this. I’m a stealthy reader and I’ve only commented once, but I hope you know that there are so many of us praying for and thinking of y’all through this fiasco. Small silver lining, but maybe you have the opportunity to re-decorate some of your living spaces?!
Leslie S says
Lifting you and your family in prayer.
Sara says
Shay I am so sorry to hear this, as someone who has experienced flooding, I know how awful it is. Sending you a virtual hug and will be praying for you and your family.
Mary Glenn says
Gosh that’s so awful, I am so sorry. I think you are amazing and how you seem to be handling it is so inspirational. I know the next project will be a long tough one but you will come out on the other end with something even more beautiful. Thanking of you guys!!!!!!
Janay says
Tears…I am so sorry. I know it’s a lot at one time…but yes…those things are replaceable and everyone is fine. Hang in there!! Hugs and prayers!!!
Becky Martinez says
Shay, FIrst, I’m sorry for the delays in Ashby’s treatments but am so thankful for God’s protection over her. Secondly, I marvel at His providence. He allowed this to happen at a time when we were not in ‘shelter in place,’ therefore; you had the sweet army to help with dry up and clean up. I’ve not suffered loss but have endured major medical issues with my husband yet like you, it’s okay. God gives such peace that passes all understanding and I treasure that. I do agree 100% let’s get 2020 outta here and move on. 🙂
Emily says
Oh my gosh Shay. That all just sounds like a disaster and through it all you’re pointing out the positives, that’s admirable! Sending positive thoughts your family’s way. Hugs!
Gianna says
Shay, I am so sorry to hear about this news! I can’t wait for you all to look back and see the silver lining in this situation! Maybe that will look like you guys spending time in a place you ALL LOVE and where it feels like home (Nantucket!). I am praying for you all. I know if anyone can get through this gracefully, it will be you and Andrew! XO
Lori says
God bless you Shay. I feel you. My kitchen, master bedroom closets, master bedroom and some of my dining room flooded back in October of last year. My husband (who is a contractor) and I have been living in the construction site to this very day. During the construction we have conquered mold remediation crews, husband with the flu, me surviving bronchitis, pneumonia and all the symptoms of Covid 19 for 1 1/2 months, sick leave from work which led to working remotely from home due to Covid 19 and my husband doing 90% of the work by himself. We are still under construction. To say it’s been stressful is such an understatement, but we will survive this. I have my eyes on the big guy upstairs and I know he’ll see us through this “storm”. I have been watching Natalie Grant and her husband Bernie’s daily godly lessons through their music. They are a godsend. And of course looking forward to your daily updates and messages of love and hope. You will get through this. Love from Georgia.
Tracy Doubts says
I am so very sorry Shay. Sending love and prayers to you all from North Carolina!
Kim says
I’m so sorry! My home flooded in hurricane Harvey and I would not wish it on anyone. It will be a marathon not a sprint I’m sorry to say. I clung to this verse – the rain came down, the floods came and the wind blew and beat against that house but it did not fall because it had its foundation on the rock. I know from reading that your family has its foundation on rock so you will make it through this marathon!
Ralinn says
I am so sorry to hear about this. What a mess that must’ve been. I’m glad you have great friends to rally around and help. 2020 has been a hard year for so far for so many people. There’s still a chance that this year can get better. Hugs, prayers, and blessings.
Meredith Lundy says
I am so, so sorry about this! We’ve had water damage on a smaller scale but it is a draining, emotional process. Lifting your family up in prayer.
Corrine says
Sending you lots of love this morning! You are the most positive person and always inspire. I am so sorry for what you are going through. That’s awful. I will say a prayer for your sweet Ashby as well. We are thinking of you! 🙂
Dana Murphy says
I am so sorry that this happened, but like you said it’s just things and it will be ok. I’m thankful that you and your sweet family are all ok. Things will get better! Sending love and hugs to you in hopes that it helps you a little, like you always brighten our days, and help and support all of us!!!
Joanne says
Ugh you really have had a bad run – I can only imagine how worried you have been about Ashby (I am so glad she is ok and back on track for treatments). I also totally relate to your uncertainty / worries about the company – I run our family hotel and we had to close our doors because of the pandemic in March and we are still shut. I think it is not just the worry about the here and now but how things are going to be economically in the future and how confident people feel to travel – lets hope this horrible virus starts abating and things go back to normal soon. I am so sorry to hear about your house – but it is lovely to hear you have such wonderful neighbours – best of luck with the clean up. We too lost someone during the pandemic – I am so sorry to hear about your Great-Uncle. We lost an Uncle too, and a cousin. I am glad to hear blogging to us has provided an outlet – I love your blog and your writing and your honesty is a great source of support for many others. The rest of 2020 WILL be better – I’ve had years like this and the good thing is they don’t come around too often. Good luck is on its way to you! ALL the best wishes, Joanne (GB).
Elspeth says
Oh shay!!! I’m so so sorry! I can’t imagine the decisions you will have to make about all this. I always say, this too shall pass. I know there is a light coming soon. I know these next few months will be challenging for sure but I know you will come out better and stronger. Please keep us updated. Wish we could do more for you. Sending you prayers and good thoughts!
http://www.elspethsdaybyday.com
Kelly says
The same thing happened to me except ours was a tree through the kitchen doors/wall during a huge rainstorm. Complete with a tarp put up in the middle of the night followed by fans and a construction zone. 2020 sucks.
Raquel Whatley says
Shay, I got tears in my eyes just reading this. I’m so sorry that Ashby hasn’t had the care she needs and your house flooded. Cry, vent, it’s okay. You deserve to be angry and upset and emotional. You know we will listen and cry with you. That’s what sisters in Christ do, we support each other. God bless you.. We don’t know His plan but He is in control always and everyday.
Susan McKain says
I am so very, very sorry to hear this. It brought a tear to my eye. It’s absolutely awful! My heart goes out to you six. I’ll be thinking good thoughts for all of you – and especially on Friday for Ashby.
Katie says
Prayers and air hugs. I am so sorry about all of this. Yes, it does suck. Like you said it will be ok, but it does suck. Hugs.
Aimee says
Thank you so much for sharing this. I am so very sorry this happenned to you all. It was hard to read because you just shared your beautuful kitchen. I have no clue as to why 2020 has been this way. It really sucks. It is a sucky, crappy, exhausting year. BUT, I truly believe we are being called to strip away what doesn’t matter, and fucus on the core of what does. I feel like we will all emerge from this (eventually) and we will be in a better place. Hang in there. It will all be OK!
ERICA POLLAK says
Sorry for this bump in your road. Your attitude is fine. It’s just a bump in the road. Everybody is healthy and your house can be fixed. Good luck finding a house to rent or what ever option you choose. Our support is always her for you girly!
Elizabeth says
So so sorry!! We came home from vacation in 2011 to a flooded home. What. A. Mess. My kids were 11 & younger at the time, and we lived with my mother for 6+ months while things were put back together. My kids loved it but it was tough. Sending love & prayers to you & your family!!
Jill says
That just sucks, no other way to put it. Yes other people are going through things but it’s important to put into perspective it’s ok to know that your journey (which sometimes sucks) is yours, it’s different than others but it’s still rough.
Prayer for you all. It seems you guys love an adventure, so this is just a new one close to home. Hopefully it will all be done quickly (as quickly as the inside complete reno of a first floor can be) and you get to make any changes you had wanted to do!
Lisa says
I am SO SO sorry for you. Your strength is admirable! Yes, 2020 has been one for the BOOKS…and not in a good way! This too shall pass, and will (one day) be a very interesting story for your family and friends to reminisce and maybe even laugh about. You will be in my thoughts in the days ahead! YOU GOT THIS!
Jenny Langer says
Oh no!! So sorry to hear this! Glad you are all safe!
Daniele says
I am sorry. I am thankful that you and your family are safe.
I was once given advice that has stuck with me and I’ll share it with you too: “Keep breathing.” and “Don’t cry over something that can’t cry over you.” Admittedly, this is easier said than done, but it helps me put things into perspective. Be well. The very best wishes are being sent your way!
Debbie Hibbert says
Oh my goodness, Shay! You are right, there will always be someone out there who has it worse, but this is still terrible! Thank you for sharing, here is a virtual {{HUG}}, and KNOW that you’ve got my prayers♥️ 2020 … GO AWAY!!?
Kimberly H. says
Oh Shay! I have been right where you are this year. Our front load washing machine door popped open during a rinse cycle about 3 months ago and flooded the entire 2nd floor of our house and a good portion of the first floor. We just got our repairs completed a week and a half ago. It sucks, but the bright side of things is that your house will be exactly what you want when it is completed. Sending you hugs and prayers that the repairs will go smoothly and quickly.
Lauren says
Oh Shay! I’m so sorry!!!!! That’s awful. I’m praying for you. Praying for Ashby, too. You are a bright light in this world, and I pray God gives you grace and strength in the midst of all of this!!!
Serena W. says
Oh, Shay!! I am SO sorry!!!!!!!! If I lived close I’d come help and bring you coffee and a hug. You’re right, it will all be okay BUT in the meantime it does suck and it’s okay to cry. I know you all with get through this and yet another adventure awaits. Covering you all in prayer during this season and praying for Ashby this Friday!
Kimberly Palmer Yee says
Sending you love and prayers.
Lexi R says
Well that just stinks!! I am so so sorry and will be praying for you and your family. Our washing machine flooded our entire first floor with 3ft of standing water 2 years ago while we were out of town. I cannot even fathom how I would feel if that happened in the middle of a global pandemic. I know it is so so hard to look on the bright side, but you know how to do it for sure. Look at it as a chance for a new shopping spree! Virtual hugs xo
Jen Cole says
I’m so sorry!! Lifting up a huge prayer to you and your family right now!
Misty says
Praying for you all!! Yes, we are ALL over 2020 for sure. I keep coming back to the post you made on your story last week about finding your TRIBE. Those people or your TRIBE showed up for you, and that is exactly what we need from each other. Hopefully you will find a great adventure in all of this!
Erin Hill says
Oh I am so sorry! Sending you lots of virtual hugs (from a stranger. Let’s go with it.. not weird at all. ha) and lots of prayers. So glad you’re surrounded by an amazing circle of people!
Laura Toler says
Shay I truly understand your current situation. My home was built in 1911and years ago the hot and cold water pipers were exposed in the master bathroom. My youngest son at age 1 liked to stand on the plastic pipes near the sink. On a Saturday evening we left for dinner and arrived home an hour later. As I approached our front door, I remarked to my husband that I heard something. Well to my dismay water was running under the front door. Upon entering my house water was everywhere and the foyer ceiling looked like a car wash. We have plastered walls and ceilings and my basement is all dirt. Like you neighbors and my family came over to help. Luckily, my father who was my State Farm Insurance Agent knew wo to call. We had fans in the basement and throughout the house. During the night we could hear plaster from the ceilings falling. Two weeks later my mother in law had a massive stroke. All in all it took 3 months to get my house back in order. Dealing with subcontractors tested my patience and faith. In the end it all worked out. Several months later the exposed pipes in my house were replaced and now are in my walls. Wish you and your family the best in days ahead.
Bev says
So sorry to hear this Shay. As always, your attitude is beautiful and Christ honoring. Hang in there!
Caitlin says
Shay – just because there are terrible events going around the world every day does not make this any less of horrible occurrence. Thank you for sharing and I know that must have been hard. Keep strong and know that all your online peeps so sorry about your house flooding and I will pray for a fast rebuild.
Anna Jones says
Oh my gosh, I am SO SORRY!! The thought of your beautiful home being gutted just kills me! I’m thankful you have a positive outlook and that it isn’t any worse and everyone is okay and safe! Praying for Ashby and the results from her MRI this week. Much love!
Natalie says
I am so sorry! I would have cried a thousand times over by now. It is “just” a house but also your home! It matters. Prayers to you all!
Elizabeth says
I am so sorry- that sounds awful! It’s okay to sit in the “this sucks” for a minute too… give yourself some grace and keep putting one foot in front of the other. 🙂
Michalina Peterson says
Oh no! This is awful. I’m so sorry. Prayers that things get cleaned up and back to normal soon & that your family can find adventure amid the chaos right now. ❤️
Lindsay @ Lindsay's Sweet World says
Oh Shay, my goodness, I’m so sorry to hear this. Your family has been in my prayers for so long with all that you’ve had going on, and I promise to keep you there until you get through it all. XO
Megan says
Praying for your family as you figure out this latest hurdle. I often feel guilty when I am worried about something as I remind myself that many have it worse. While that is almost always true, that doesn’t make your issues any less worthy. I pray that this situation is rectified as quickly as it can be and your family is able to handle it as best it can.
Shelby says
So sorry! That really does just SUCK!! Will be praying for you and your family! Hang in there:)
KK says
Shay, praying for you and your family!! This is just unreal, but I’m praying and believing that there will good that comes from this somehow. As others have said, your openness is so amazing, and I’m glad we know and can pray over your home, your extended family, and Ashby’s surgery as well. I saw a comment about adventuring in Nantucket… Now, that would be a silver lining for you, and I’m kind of hoping it’s a possibility for y’all! 🙂
Teresa Flahaut says
So sorry Shay! Prayers and hugs as you work through all of this! Prayers for Ashby this week!
Victoria says
I am so sorry, Shay. Yes..2020 sucks and while I know everything will be okay, it is still hard and messy and challenging.
Sending you some peace and grace at a time that is pushing you ???
Shirley says
The news of the flood at your house is so heartbreaking, Shay! I share the sentiments of all of your readers here when I, too, say how sorry I am to hear this! We had a house fire in 2009 that destroyed our house, so I know how all of a sudden you go from everything is okay to everything is NOT!! You have a great attitude and are correct that it can all be fixed, but the reality of how much it stinks and uproots your family may creep in from time to time. It’s okay to cry and feel mad, sad, defeated….those feelings will pass too. When our devastation happened, I focused on the fact that my family was safe (our oldest son could have been burned badly or possibly even died in the fire) and we took it one day at a time. Sometimes if you try to look at the big picture, it gets overwhelming, so just do the best you can each day and It will all come together in the end. I’m keeping your family in our prayers.
Diana says
Sorry about your house, that sounds so very stressful! The important thing is you all are safe and healthy! Keep the positive attitude! Sounds like you have such a great support system of friends and family to help you! ❤️
Morgan Wedewer says
Oh Shay… I am SO sorry. That SUCKS! You have the right to tell your readers and not feel guilty because that just SUCKS! I am praying for you guys and I hope the process goes smoothly for redoing your house. Ugh, my heart hurts for you.
Joann Orphanos Pappas says
Hello, just wanted to give you words of encouragement! My family went through this ordeal a few years ago when a kitchen pipe spewed water all over the first floor of the house, while my husband and I were at work. What a surprise to open the door and have water run out of the house ?. It was horrible, but we faced everything head on like I know you are doing. It is a mess, but u have an opportunity to fix little things and if it weren’t for the flood, u may have never done it. Even living in a hotel for a month was an adventure- one day at a time, it will all come together and you will be back to normal.
Wishing you well and know you are not alone.
Take care. Joann
Jennifer Goodwin says
I am so sorry, Shay. I cannot imagine how hard it is and how it must feel. And though what you said is right, about how it could be worse, right now this is your “worst”. I am glad you’re a believer and that you can cling to Jesus like I know you will. May I encourage you through God’s word?
“You will keep the mind that is dependent on you in perfect peace, for it is trusting in you. Trust in the LORD forever, because in the LORD, the LORD himself, is an everlasting rock!”
Isaiah 26:3 CSB version.
Praying for you and your family and for His perfect peace to surround you all at all times.
Carly says
Oh, Shay! I am so sorry! Praying for you and your sweet family. Your faith is so strong that I know it will get you through this storm, but I also know how difficult this must be. So glad you have a strong support group to help you through this.
Kim says
Oh Shay, uggh this sucks!! Take a deep breath and repeat after me……”Screw you 2020!!!”
Hang in there Shulls! This virtual community loves you and is praying for you big time!! ❤
Molly says
I am so sorry! What a stressful time for you. Praying for you and your family and that things can get put back together quickly!!!
Robin Thompson says
Oh Shay, I am so sorry. I wish I lived closer so that I could help you. My home has flooded 3 times due to hurricanes/tropical storms so I know what you are going thru. However, I think it would be much harder with small children. I hope that your transition to temporary housing goes well and that your repairs are done quickly. My heart goes out to and your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Sending you huge hugs!
Ruby Rutledge Huling says
After a wonderful Christmas vacation in FL, we returned home to a house with a burst pipe in our attic and water still pouring through our dining room ceiling which ended up over 50,000 gallons of water!!! Resulted in a 3-month stay in a motel! Romans 8:28 was my scripture in all of the chaos…..so sorry for your family’s inconvenience and like my experience, everything is going to be better than before!!!
JENNIFER CURTIS says
I’m so incredibly sorry that your sweet family has to deal with this. I cannot imagine! Praying God gives you and Andrew wisdom in your next steps and peace that only comes from him. Bless your hearts!
April Bryan says
Oh Shay!!!
Praying for your sweet family. This is just a season and a moment in time – it will get better. I’m typing this as I know I would be reacting the same just like anyone else, but God is in control and having peace with that is amazing.
Tiffany says
I’m so sorry about your home being flooded! I live in Iowa and our basement flooded in 2018 when we received over 9 inches of rain in one night; our sump pump failed and couldn’t keep up with all the water. Like you, luckily we had a great insurance agent, as well as friends and family help and our basement was back to normal in 4 months. Take care!
Kelly says
WOW! This TERRIBLE news! I’m really so sorry to hear this horrible news
Joan W says
How perfectly horrid! I’m so sorry for your family and you. Give yourself a break about crying and feeling miserable. You will always find many who have it worse than you, and better than you too. You are allowed to feel your pain. The important thing is to live the best life you can make for yourself while being the best person you can be and work on it always. You do a magnificent job with that! Such a good mother and so openhearted to everyone. I wish you better days very soon. Fingers crossed that all will be well with Ashby and nothing will have been missed.
Margaret says
I am so sorry to hear this! Other than both my children marrying wonderful people this year, 2020 can just go on it’s way!
Sara Y says
I am so sorry Shay! Thank you for sharing, no matter each of our situations- we can all pray for each other. I pray that you and the family are able to find a great place to stay that offers comfort, rest but also adventure;) My family and I drove through McKinney Saturday on the way from a family road trip and I thought about you and your sweet family.
Carolyn says
Worst. Year. Ever. I am so sorry to hear about your house. I don’t even have words. Every month it’s just something else for horrible us, so I understand your pain and frustration. Hug those kids and remember that they will learn about how to handle adversity from watching you and Andrew deal with this. I know you will do great. I will pray for your family. xoxo
Patricia says
It is gonna be ok. How do I know? Because God so loved the world.
Julie says
Oh, my heart is breaking for you Shay! How very, very sad. Your beautiful home and after all the little updates you poured into it over the past few months! You are someone who does not take things for granted. You would routinely say how much enjoyment you got from your home, your yard, your patio, etc and I’m so sorry this happened to you. Let it out! You are so strong and optimistic but it’s okay to talk about how difficult this is even though others are facing hard times too. There is no prize for “saddest 2020” we can all be sad and we can all share what’s hurting us and be there for each other. I’m glad you mentioned this because I will keep you all in my thoughts and send out good vibes to you all! If there’s one thing I’ve learned about you from reading your blog, you could make a cardboard box feel like a cozy and loving home for your children! So wherever you end up temporarily, I know you will still have a loving home for your family, and that is all kids really need in the end right? Hang in there and see us posted. We are all pulling for you and the Shulls!
Jeanne Cobianchi says
Ughhh! Oh 2020. You have not been kind. Sorry to read this. Sending prayers!!!
Sarah says
Shay!!! Reading this is absolutely surreal, I cannot imagine LIVING THROUGH IT. Of course others are living through tragedies but girl, this one is pretty major. I am so so so so sorry!
Melanie M says
I am so sorry this has happened to you. I will be praying for your comfort and for complete restoration of your house.
Isaiah 43:1-2 (NIV) – But now, this is what the LORD says– He who created you, O Jacob, He who formed you, O Israel: “Fear not, for I have redeemed you; I have summoned you by name; you are mine.
When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and when you pass through the rivers, they will not sweep over you. When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned; the flames will not set you ablaze.
May these verses bless you.
Peggy says
I heard a slight bang and then the flood gates opened two weeks ago. I was devastated by the water damage. I really feel for you. Also, I have had blood clots since I was a young child. If I can ever be of any help to you, please feel free to contact me.
Vicky says
I’m so sorry to read this. Take care of yourself – as others have said above, other people are having tough times, but it doesn’t mean your situation isn’t hard too. I’m glad you have a good group of people around to support you. Make sure you take a bit of time for yourself where you can.
Susy Watts says
“And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.”
Donna mason says
Shay my heart is literally crying for you. I know you and your beautiful family will all be OK– but I also realize this is a major event in your lives and extremely disrupting to say the very least. I am keeping all of you in my prayers.
Randi says
I am so sorry to read this! Love and prayers to your family!
Debbie says
Oh Shay, I’m so sorry! 2020 SUCKS! I live in California and we are still not open yet! Sick of it all and so sorry about your flooded home. There is nothing worse! A good cry will do you good. Hang in there, no where to go but up as you have now hit rock bottom! ❤️
Dawn D says
I’m so sorry Shay!! 2029 really is the worst ever. Praying for your family and for everything to get fixed fast and correctly.
Dawn D says
I mean 2020…see I can’t even type
Emma says
Oh no, that must be hard, thinking of your whole family. Hopefully you will be able to look back and find some good in it once it is all said and done. ❤️
Dawn Scheurich says
I’m SOO sorry!! I know it’s just things, but what A MESS! I know because I have lived it, having gone through the 2011 tornado in Joplin, MO. I still think 2020 is way worse than that! The good news is I know you know Jesus is with you and He cares! The other good news is redecorating! Praying for you and sending hugs!
Helen says
I am so sorry. You, your family, and especially sweet Ashby will all be in my prayers.
Dawn K says
I’m so sorry – you and your sweet family are such a ray of sunshine. I’m sending love and prayers your way <3
Jackie says
Oh Shay, I’m so very sorry and I’ll be praying for you and your family. Sending you strength to get through this. XO
Ronnie says
Sending lots of love your way! I used to live in a house that flooded in the basement every time it rained more than a sprinkle. It was such a helpless feeling to stand there as water was pouring down the walls. I’m so glad that you have people to show up for you, but that doesn’t mean it doesn’t totally suck.
I hope you all get situated somewhere soon!!
Let’s hope the second half of your year is full of blessings!
Michelle says
I am so sorry this happened!!! We lost our home to flooding Easter night due to a construction build next door. It was the height of quarantine, but our families banded together to make sure we survived! It really does take a village! We are in temporary housing until December, but -as you say-it could have been SO MUCH WORSE!!! My 1 year old daughter and I are safe and that is what matters! Although, I feel your pain! Cleaning up wet, dirty water and drying out furniture and everything else… not fun!!! Prayers!!
Keisha Dawson says
Oh man! This just stinks for you guys, but I love your outlook, and I’m so thankful that you have so many amazing people in your life to rally around you! Prayers for you guys!
Julie says
Oh my gracious! I am so sorry to see this. I am praying for you and your family and hope that everything will be back to normal soon for all of you. Thank you for constantly being a light in the internet and being an encouragement to so many! Life in 2020 has definitely been the craziest!
Shari says
I pray for your family Shay! What. A. Year! Thanks for always being transparent with your community. I know that you and your family will make the best of your situation wherever you land!
Stacey Mahon says
Shay, I’m so sorry to hear about your house. I”ll be thinking of you guys and hoping things get fixed up soon. Hugs to you all. Stacey
erin rich says
Oh, Shay, I am so sorry. I will be praying for you and your family. I know its just a house. But it is your home. It is where your babies all play. It is their safe place. Praying for you.
Nicole says
Praying for you & your family!❤
Lizzie says
So sorry to hear this, Shay. Praying for peace, comfort and strength for you and your family.
Janie Reinert says
Shay I’m so sorry to hear this . I agree 2020 has been hard for me to, flood and health. Amazing God , Family & friends got me thru it. Sending you the biggest HUG and praying for all of you; especially Sweet Ashby !
Stephanie says
I’m so sorry! Our house burned two years ago and we lost everything we had. We had to relocate for over a year while we rebuilt. I understand what you’re going through. Prayers for your family during this time. There is light at the end of the tunnel!
Meredith says
Oh No! I’m so sorry! I feel selfish that I was popping on to see what to make for dinner this week! This certainly puts things into perspective! Prayers and lots of luck to all things ahead! So glad everyone is safe and healthy.
Yvonne C says
Oh my gosh! I am so sorry you and your family are going through all this! Maybe you should call Jake from State Farm with any further questions! LOL! Hang in there!
Paula says
Oh my! I am so very sorry. Your perspective and attitude are wonderful and ministering. Praying you can fix the damage and resume normal quickly as possible!
Libby says
OH MY GRAVY!!! I’m SO sorry! It can only go up from here, right? Prayers for you all and especially for sweet Ashby that her health is not greatly impacted by her delay in her care. On the bight side, you will have plenty of home renovation material for your blog in the future. 😉 A huge hug to you from Richmond, TX!
Amy says
Shay,
I’m also so very sorry to read this post today. What happened sounds like a nightmare. And so destructive and disruptive. Ugh. I read through a lot of the comments and I agree with everyone —and lift you up in prayer. Aside from all the wonderful prayers, scripture verses, inspirational quotes, and kind words, a few other things come to my mind which I hope will help you, too. The first is to give thanks in all circumstances, for that is Christ’s will for you. I know it is hard/ even difficult, but if not this, maybe it would have been something else. This you can handle. This can be fixed. As my daughter would say, some people are in hospitals, some people are dying or have lost loved ones. When I remember to give thanks in all situations and circumstances, it helps me to focus on God, Jesus and not the problem. God should be enough for each of us. He is to be number one. The second thing is something my husband taught me. I was getting ready for our daughter’s Birthday party, running around the house and all nervous wanting everything to be perfect, and then again running around the house on another morning trying to get her ready for a school something and he said, “Amy you really need to be strong for her”. Which really “stuck” because it hit me then that my children are watching me. And I want to best handle this and that with grace and positivity in part so that they can handle this and that in their life with good, easy feelings, too. Stress is not healthy or good for anyone. The third teaching I have learned in my life and that I draw from was something my mom and grandma told me when they visited me and our two young children. I moved to Seattle to marry and start a life with my husband, though all of my family lived in Chicago. It was so fun when family came to visit! Our children are like K and S; they are 14 months apart. It was busy when they were both babies. I was alone. Gary, my husband was a great helper and wonderful father, but he worked most of the day so it was just me / no extended family around to help. I hadn’t realized that I had sometimes gotten bogged down focused on the work and keeping the house clean, etc, But when my mom and grandma visited and told me to “Smile, Amy… smile as often as you can… children want a happy momma” when they did; that really stuck with me. They also told me to let the house go and just play with and focus on the children. That changed the trajectory of my child-rearing because I was always preoccupied with the next thing to do, chore to complete, etc. instead of focusing on what was most important and that was my family. My grandma always said, “Your family is your primary ministry”. So just take care of each other right now. And try to keep smiling throughout this time. Last, when Jesus was dying on the cross and he said, My God, My God, why have you foresaken me? Even Jesus questioned God and/or circumstances in life. I have watched some of the greatest people of faith – like my grandmas and mom and brother in law-pass through terrible diagnosis and also question, Why? I think so many of us turn to you because your life seriously seems so perfect and ideal — for me, something I would love and am so happy and share your joy that you have. But not all of us have that. My husband was diagnosed with MDS in 2012. Our children were 15 and 16 and our world came crashing down. We thought he was having a stroke or heart attack on that Father’s Day and we found out he had dangerously low blood counts, which led to follow up appointments with doctors old and new and his diagnosis, which is like a dark cloud hanging over the family- and has been for eight years. The only possible cure for his condition is a bone marrow transplant. Some people say “just have the bone marrow transplant” but it is not that easy. Success rates at the best hospitals are 60-65%…and they haven’t improved since 2012. Gary is a miracle. His doctors gave him a prognosis of 2.9 years of life without the bone marrow transplant in 2012. We are so, so thankful that he has fought this condition as best he can and is still with us! For me, especially this year, with the pandemic and his compromised immune system, every day is Thanksgiving. All the bad, all the tough stuff…I’m just so thankful each day when we wake up together and he is still alive. Our children recently graduated from college and their culminations/ graduations brought so much joy! It was something Gary really wanted for them. And he was here for it! I could cry just giving thanks for that Blessing! Gary doesn’t want to die. He also doesn’t want to have a bone marrow transplant; it’s scary. He works like crazy trying to fight this diagnosis, I believe. But he is starting to be sick/ not feel well every day. Most people with his condition can’t get out of bed. His condition has been deteriorating in the last year and it’s scary/sad/awful. I pray a lot. I pray in the morning, during the day, at night, in the middle of the night when I wake up and can’t fall back asleep. When I’m in prayer, I feel so thankful for so many Blessings —and I feel so hopeful and safe. I want to keep praying and stay in that place focused on God and Jesus healing Gary, like in the Bible. With God, all things are possible. My grandma used to say, “With a twinkle of his eye, He can change anything”. Blessings to you and your family today and always. Thank you for sharing your joy- and your struggles, too. Each of us who follow you love you and support you in this time. Sometimes, when I can’t sleep, and it’s 1:50 AM or 2:10 AM, I think about your blog about to post and wait for it…because your joy, optimism, and love of family and friends comforts me in my sorrow. Again, I am so sorry that this happened to you and your family. I love your beautiful home and KNOW it will be beautiful again. Keep your chin up, God loves you, Jesus loves you. We can do all things in Christ, who strengthens us! I have one more life theme song and it’s, “Better than before”. If anyone can do it, it’s you and Andrew. Be strong. Each of us have so much to be thankful for. God has been good to us- and we rejoice in Him, our Father in Heaven. If Gary decides to go through with the bone marrow transplant, I pray that he will be better than before, too. We have to have hope. And faith. And you do!
Sarah Benson says
Praying for you, Shay and your whole family. When I was in 5th grade, our house caught fire when we were gone during the day. We were displaced for 4 months in a furnished apartment with next to none of our possessions. It was crazy. It wasn’t home, but we made the best of it. We rebuilt our home and it was better than before (silver lining). People stepped up to help our family with rides/ child care/ prayers/ etc. I remember that most of all. Your kids will think of this crazy time when they are older and remember the adventure not the sadness. I still (40 years later) leave my house as neat as I can in the morning because you never know when you will have a team of people coming through your house to clear it out after a disaster! Many prayers to you and for sweet, strong, amazing Ashby.
Gail J Prowant says
So sorry to hear this. You are in my thoughts and prayers!
DonnaS says
So very sorry that happened to you! I am praying for you and your family.
Taylor says
Wow, Shay! I am so sorry to hear this. Like many have said tangible “things” can be replaced, but when your home is your comfort and happy place, you certainly can mourn the destruction happening to it. Praise to God that you are all safe! Prayers for an easy transition to your temporary home- I’m sure you’ll make the most of it and your kids will love an adventure! ?
Maddie says
Oh Shay, I am so sorry!!! This is not fun at all. You are dealing with this beautifully! Our brand new house flooded the day we moved in last year, it wasn’t nearly as bad as yours, we just had to have the wood floors ripped out, dry everything out and put in new floors but I did not deal with it well! There were LOTS of tears!!! So you are dealing with this so well! I’ll be thinking and praying for y’all!! Enjoy your adventure in the meantime!! You will get past this!
Megan Johnson says
I can’t even imagine, I’m so sorry to hear you are going through this!! 2020 has been a year for the books, no doubt….even with all it’s brought though I think having the positive outlook you are keeping so important. We can slink back, hate this year and do no more…or we can rise up, learn, grow and come out better somehow on the other end ;-). Sending lots of love, prayers and positive thoughts your way…for you, your family, your home and cute Ashby 🙂
Susan Matthews says
If Andrew doesn’t answer your questions, you should call Jake. 🙂
Being displaced is never fun. I can’t imagine doing it with four kids and three dogs. But you always seem to handle things with grace.
Maryann says
Oh my goodness, Shay. I was so very sad to read this today! I have been a faithful reader of your blog for what seems like forever. It is a bright spot in my routine and a daily read. My heart hurts for you and your family! On a smaller scale, and in our basement, we have dealt with flooding issues a couple of times, and it’s really heartbreaking. Sending love, and praying for you and your family and your beautiful home.
Carol says
I am so very sorry to hear this! 2020 has indeed been the worst. For me, it is has been the COVID crisis plus cancer (though I just got the great news that I am NED–chemo did what it was supposed to do!).
I know you must be just devastated over your beautiful home. I liked the idea someone had about a condo at the beach for the next month or two! I am praying for you that JOY HAS COME IN THE MORNING. Many blessings.
Cathy says
I’m so sorry this has happened to you and your family. I do love your sense of humor about your State Farm agent not being able to get away from you! I think of my grandmother every day now, saying “This too shall pass.”
Kelly Bonner says
Oh Shay I’m sorry! My thoughts & prayers are with your family! ?????????
sandi says
In 2009, a few weeks before our 10th anniversary trip, our house flooded. The kids had been farmed out to grandparents, a cruise to Bermuda planned, (we honeymooned there and said we would return on our tenth) and then a second floor washing machine flooded the first floor. And I mean flooded… light fixtures rusted, the ceiling fell and standing water was everywhere. We gave the house keys to trusted friends who were contractors, contacted the insurance company and went on that cruise. Of course, the house was only partially put together when we returned but we had a very nice time while construction got started. No lives were lost, things could have been so much worse. Praying for your family during this rebuilding and reconstruction time. It’s not easy but your people are still okay.
2020 has been bad for everyone. Our church (we live in an urban area) along with about 90 others, participated in a peaceful prayer walk two Sundays ago. That was probably the highlight of my families last few months. Black, brown and white walking and singing worship songs to Jesus… it was a wonderful few hours. The police were there, many with raised hands worshiping along with us. Pastors, Bishops, church leaders spoke and we sang and prayed some more. A small ray of light in the darkness that has been around this year.
Laura Fuller says
2020 began with such promise. It has been a disappointment in so many ways. I am so sorry this crisis has happened to your beautiful home. Your place of refuge & peace. Remember that in the Scriptures, beautiful things always came after heavy rains. Hopefully, it’ll dry out quickly and be restored even better than before.
Alisha says
Shay – I’m so sorry!! I can’t imagine! My dad’s house flooded (main floor and basement) from a frozen pipe when he was out of town last year – it ended up being a huge blessing!! His insurance company was amazing (as i’m sure yours will be 😉 ) and he was able to get a bunch of new upgrades in his house that he had been wanting to do for years. I hope you feel all the feelings, but so thankful that it wasn’t as bad as it could have been! I pray Ashby gets good news Friday when she finally gets an MRI. Thinking of y’all – and would LOVE to hear about the journey you go through getting everything put back together and any changes you guys make. I’ve loved seeing all the home blogs lately!
Staci Hays says
May this touch your heart today in the midst of the storm…… It’s “The Blessing” by Kari Jobe, I believe the 1st time they sang it for Elevation Church. Have a kleenex handy. Praying for you and yours.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zp6aygmvzM4
Stephanie S. says
Oh no! I’m so so sorry to hear this. You are so fortunate to have friends, family and neighbors to assist during this difficult time. Your strength and resilience is commendable. Prayers to you during this difficult time.
Danna says
I could not believe the words I was reading…your house flooded. Virtual hugs and prayers to you and your family. How upsetting it has to be for everyone. Shay, you have every right to be emotional whether sad, mad, or ? I too try to be the strongest in the house when things go wrong. What a season of life you are having. Again, prayers for you all.
I did chuckle out loud when you said your husband is ready to transfer you and your questions to anther team member! LOL! See you are finding the humor in it already! Sounds like you have great friends…lean on them.
Diane says
And to think you were replying to my prayer request as your house is flooded only proves what an amazing Christian heart you have! Now it is my turn to to life your family in prayer for Ashby and the restoration of your home! 2020 is the gift that just keeps on giving. Hugs from Waco!
Karah Stracener says
Oh my goodness I am so so so sorry. I am praying for yall and praying for a smooth transition. 2020 has definitely been a tough year for everyone. Ugh!!! Giving you a big virtual hug!!!!!
Rebecca Purdie says
Shay,
Bless your heart!
But know, this too shall pass.
I am praying for your family.
Tiff says
Oh Shay, I am so sorry! Will be praying for you all. I found myself dealing with some anxiety over things I can’t control and the Lord reminded me that His mercies are new every morning and He will give you the grace each day as you navigate this unexpected time.
Lori says
I am so sorry to hear this & living on the Gulf Coast of Texas flooding is so scary. We came about an inch during Harvey from having water in our house – I want to rip out carpet but that certainly would not have how I would have wanted to do it. We were blessed then.
I am sending prayers & hugs for your family while you make the ‘move’ & hope it goes fast!
Janet says
Oh goodness Shay, what a night and day for you guys. 25 years ago today as we were moving to a new city with a 3 month old, our new residence flooded from heavy rains. We had the movers unload all of the boxes to the basement so we could sort from there. They all ended up floating in 2 feet of water. But we were all ok. Praying for you guys as you recover and renovate. Praying for Ashby’s procedure this week.
Julia Beckley says
Oh Shay, this is so heartbreaking! Prayers for Ashby’s upcoming surgery, for your travel agency (I will most definitely cruise with you again! You were so fantastic to work with!), and for your HOME, including that new travel agency office! God has a plan and we just don’t know it yet, but there’s so much I’ve already learned through the trials of 2020!
Brandye says
Shay, I’m so sorry. It’s just things, but still. You are heard. Your frustration is real. (I had to laugh that you’re the client Andrew can’t escape! ?) That song is my go to!! My eyes well up every time I sing it. It’ll get you through a lot because it focuses on Jesus’ unfailing grace. My world started collapsing in 2017, when aging parents started having health problems all at once. Thus began a sh*& show, that is now nearing the end…only my mother remains, sort of. She has dementia, which is really another word for a v e r y long goodbye. (My mother-in-law, then my father, already passed.) But in this time, we gained TWO grand babies, and a soon-to-be son-in-law! Even in tribulations, there are joys. Like you, friends and family have been a blessing. Travel will eventually resume. Your house will be repaired. Sweet Ashby will see her doctors, and with God’s hand, receive her procedures and healing. Speaking truth in His name and praying for you, Brandye
Rachel says
Oh Shay. I am so sorry. I do not have answers or solitions just prayers as you go through each step of this process.
Kim says
Oh my goodness, I am so sorry to hear this. I hate that you’re dealing with such added stress in the middle of an already stressful year. And, if I remember, 2019 wasn’t that great for you guys either with health issues/surgeries/etc. You are definitely due for a break! I am praying that you find a wonderful temporary housing situation, that your home is restored better than ever and quickly, that Ashby’s appointment goes well, and that your whole family will experience God’s peace even in the midst of such a tumultuous time. Thank you for sharing with us, so we can pray for you.
Stephanie Snyder says
I am so so sorry to hear about this. “When it rains, it pours” seems appropriate now, but how absolutely awful on top of all the already awful things you have had to face this year. And yes, some have had it worse, some better, but this is your loss, and with kiddos and all the changes that COVID has already created, your home should be your sanctuary or at least the safe place you are able to shelter with your family from all the outside forces. I am so sorry, and I just hope and pray that they are able to repair/rebuilt quickly, that you are left better than before, and that all of your people, and you, stay safe and healthy during this time. Praying for you and your people.
WENDY OKUMURA says
You deserve a little cry after this ordeal! Don’t under estimate how much this sucks. It will
Be fine but for now but it’s a loss. I can tell from your blog how much your cozy home means to you. And I love your humor about being married to a State Farm agent!! Insurance may not be glamorous but it’s sure does come in handy in times like this. Hang in there.
Lori H says
Shay-I’m so sorry! Praying for you and your family because I’m sure it’s a whole range of emotions For you, Andrew and the kiddos. I have read your blog for years and have found comfort “escaping” from my reality (my husband died a few years ago) with you and your family. Please know you have so many of us thinking of you and sending our love. If I lived closer, I would be there for a social distance hug, some coffee and ready to help. ? ❤️
lisa says
I am SO sorry. Flooding is horrible. My workplace (a school) flooded one year and I just cried and cried over all the work lost. It’s awful. Love to you and yours.
Laura says
Shay, sounds like you guys are having a really rough week/weekend to say the least. 2020 has been so hard for all of us like you said- for national reasons and personal reasons. Lately I have been trying to look for tiny things to have hope in and I know that’s totally your style too. ANYWAY I’m sorry this situation SUCKS but I am grateful that you guys are safe and that you are married to an insurance agent!! After reading for 7+ years I feel like I know you and wish I could come help!!!
LIz says
Oh, man! This totally sucks. I know you will all be okay, but it still sucks. Sending hugs your way. 🙁
Katie Stuen says
Shay! Sending so many hugs to you& your family right now! Gosh, Your perspective is so inspiring! I look up to you so much.
Jess Wade says
I usually read your blog before I see IG, but I was just checking IG, saw your stories and so came here to see what was going on. I’m oh, SO sorry for what you’re going through. I know you keep saying it’s okay and we’re fine and acknowledging there are worse things. And there are. BUT….you have a right to be upset, mad, whatever, due to what your family is going through right now. It sucks, it’s inconvenient, it’s not how anyone wants to spend their summer. I am putting you all in my prayers as someone would really need to be praying for me to have patience if I was facing that. 🙂 It’s just disrupting to an already disrupted few months, year, whatever. I also want to say thank you for being vulnerable in your IG stories and being honest with us and showing it’s okay to cry…because it is! I know the house will be even more amazing once it’s all cleaned up and re-done, so that’s a silver lining…maybe??? Anyway, have all the emotions because what you’re facing is not insignificant. But I also love your good attitude that it could always be worse. I tell myself that a lot to put things into perspective.
Kristi says
Shay,
I wish I could come through the internet and give you a huge hug right now. Your blog has always been an inspiration to me. Especially recently sharing your hysterectomy posts with my MIL who is about to go through it herself. It gave her so much relief to have some questions answered. Just yesterday we were looking through old home posts loving all the beautiful things you had done. You will overcome this just as you have things in the past and I’m willing to bet you’ll love it even more. You and your family are our families prayers. Xo
Kristen says
Praying for you and your family! It’s totally okay to cry— sometimes it helps!!! ????
Rachel Dean says
I am so sorry to hear this! Thank you for sharing with us and you are 100% allowed to cry and feel any emotions that you have! Yes, things could be worse, but it’s totally valid to feel upset, frustrated etc. I would feel the same way. Praying for you all right now. xo
Dawn Earwood says
Oh, Shay….no!!! I’m like you in that I think, “well, there are people in third world countries who don’t have nearly the things we do or the means to fix issues, so I should rejoice”. Well, rejoicing can be HARD!!!! I’m sorry for all that’s going on and the mental challenges that it brings. ALL the feelings!! Right after I send this I am going to ask God to give you extra fortitude, peace and JOY as He irons it all out for you. Love to you!
Jessica says
Oh Shay! Prayers for you and your family! Thank you for sharing it all with us. You are always so encouraging even in the hard times. I know you will make the most rod this “adventure” for your sweet family. Prayers during this crazy time for peace and joy and a fast reno! And extra prayers for your sweet Ashby as her surgeries her back on track. Hugs to you today!
Erin Harding says
I LOVE your attitude!! That just plain stinks but it isn’t have as bad with a good attitude!! Thanks for your positive outlook, I appreciate it so much! Prayers for you and your sweet family.
Rebecca Carney says
I’m SO sorry you and your family are going through this Shay!! Praying for your continued strength and positivity. I’m sure your poor kiddo’s are hurting also. Thinking of you all. 2020 has been a really difficult year for myself and family as well. hugs from Pennsylvania!!
Erin Smith says
My heart just sank reading this. I’m so sorry. Praying now for peace and wisdom. Ugh 2020 what is your problem?!!
Gail says
It’s in these crazy, unpredictable times that your faith holds you up. HE sends family and friends to be your Aaron and Joshua (just like Moses)-to hold your arms up when you are too tired or overwhelmed. I think I say “I’m fine” or “we are good” over and over to convince myself as much as anybody else. Just remember the thus-fars-God has been faithful thus far and HE will continue to be faithful. You love to write so journal as you go, HE is giving you a great testimony of HIS provision and faithfulness in the mess. Someone will need to hear it. His word promises that thing is wasted.
Praying for Ashby’s appointment.
Kelli says
Shay! I am so sorry! I cannot imagine the stress!
I want to say THANK YOU for being vulnerable and sharing with us. I know you try so hard to be a positive outlet (and you ARE!!), but I think it’s so important to show that we all have trials. Sometimes I read blogs and look at social media and think everyone has such perfect lives why am I the only one with trials?
Plus, If you didn’t share you would be robbing your sweet family of SO MANY PRAYERS! We are here for you! We love you! Thank you again for sharing.
Christen Faith says
Oh my goodness Shay! What a year, what a weekend for you and your sweet family. Thinking of and praying for you all, thankful it wasn’t more and that you are all safe and sound. I pray for comfort as you settle in on your new adventure – which is a great way to think of it – and hope your home can be repaired without complication. Hugs from Georgia! ?
Katherine says
I’m so sorry – thinking of your family. Our physical homes are our sanctuaries but thankfully home is also where our families and heart are located. I’m glad you are all together and safe and will make a new temporary home while your physical home is repaired.
Michelle says
Oh Shay, I am so sorry to hear about your house! Prayers and hugs to your and your family!
Amanda says
No words…only prayers.
Peyton Cline says
Prayers for you and your precious family! I am so thankful none of you were hurt, but what a sucky situation. I am sending you a virtual hug. I have always admired your optimism and positivity, and today’s post certainly reflects both of those qualities.
Amie says
Wow this is so hard, I am so sorry Shay. Flooding is no fun at all, and I speak from just having gone through it less than a year ago, BUT just looking at the positives helps!! Looking at the positives keeps you from focusing on the negatives for sure!! It’s a total pain in the rear now but if you had any thoughts of changing things in your house up, here is your chance!! That’s how I had to look at it. As you said also, I kept reminding myself that there were people in such a worse situation and we would be fine. Prayers for you and your family during this time.
Taylor Shill says
Praying for you and your family, Shay! Reading your blog is always a bright spot in my day and I hope I can return the favor by sending all the love your way as you manage this unfortunate situation. Your positive outlook is truly inspiring xo
Kristin Hammen says
Oh no…2020 is certainly testing us. You’ve got this though. It’s the love of your family that makes a house your home. I’m sure yours will end up bigger, better, and more beautiful than before. ?
Jessica Mokan says
Oh my goodness, this post made me cry too! You’re right, everyone is safe, your material things can be replaced, other people are suffering through their own 2020, and it will be fine. But I hope you know it is ok to shake your fist at this! Putting things in perspective is great and humbling, but it doesn’t change the headache you’re dealing with. Thank goodness for wonderful friends and family. You will walk through this time and get to the other side! Praying for your peace!
Kate says
Oh, Shay! I am so so sorry. I can imagine keeping an eternal perspective is key, but I can(t) also imagine the stress, sadness and worry that would bring 🙁 Praying for your heart now! Your blog and videos have always been the primary reason I venture onto instagram but I respect you even more now! Way to be a light in a dark world, especially when yours is upside down. Sending a big hug!
Alison T. says
Ohh no! I’m sorry this is happening. You’re so right… 2020 is leaving its mark and not in the best ways, either. Your silver lining perspective is on par, though. Married to an insurance agent and the fact that everyone in your family is safe. Our things and property are still personal, so it’s okay to grieve those losses, but they can be replaced and restored. Hang in there! Get yourself some Starbucks and squeeze your friends and family. They will get you through this! God will ultimately bless your mess. 🙂
Celeste Frazier says
Oh Shay!!! Please do not apologize for feeling devastated! The Lord hears your heart & cries and He will meet you there! Do not compare your trials to others, yes it is true that someone could be in a worse situation but that does not negate the fact that you are hurting. It’s not just your “things”… it is the security of knowing how & where you will care for your family! I am praying for you girl…. allow yourself to feel all the feels! Phil 4:6&7 ❤️??❤️
Katie Wilson says
I’m so very sorry to hear what has happened to your house! I actually started crying reading your post about it. I know you like to always stay positive, but just know it’s okay to take a moment and just say “this sucks”. I know you won’t stay in that moment too long because of who you are, but if you need to, take a moment and cry big. I can’t imagine how stressful all of this is, but I can already see how you are trying to see the silver lining in all of it. I will be praying for you!
Kris says
Oh my goodness! I am so sorry. What a disaster. You always have the best attitude. I hope and pray you can find somewhere to stay and your house is quickly fixed. ❤️
Traci Burnett says
Bless your heart sweet Shay. I am so so sorry! I’m sure it’s a horrible mess and it doesn’t matter if it’s just a little one, you have every right to be upset! You have an amazing circle that love you and your wonderful family so of course that are going to show up for you – you would do the exact same for you!! Know that you are loved out in this cyber world and thought so highly of. Lifting you and your family up in prayer for grace, patience, thankfulness and gratitude! You are so loved!
Debbie says
I am just seeing this now. Keep that positive spirit. I hope 2020 gets better for you. Gets better for all of us. And I pray Ashby gets the medical attention she needs ASAP. Hugs to you!
Katie Allred says
Wow, I am so sorry about your house! You’re right, it’s just a house and you guys are all fine but you know what, it’s still hard to deal with! We’ve had a big flood (not as big as this) in our house and while we were all fine as well, it’s not fun to go through. In fact it just plain sucks and that’s ok! My heart goes out to you and all the crap you’re dealing with! Those fans too, 42 of them?!? That’s A LOT of noise! I’ll be thinking of you guys today!
Anna says
I’m SO sorry to hear this! We had an electrical fire in our house in 2016 and while I would not CHOOSE to go through that situation, ever, some beautiful things came from it. Seeing our friends and family show up for us, working together as a team to get our house restored, and learning to hold lightly to things. I pray you land in a great temporary place that can feel like a fun retreat while your house is restored. Sending you ALL the virtual hugs and lots of prayers.
Also, i know it is frivolous and so silly, but picking out all new furniture when my house was ready was really fun, I hope you find the same 😉
Dawn says
Oh Shay…….I am so very sorry!! Our downstairs flooded 3 days before Christmas and it is a mess still. One thing led to another: a 25 foot hole had to be dug under our home, a gas leak occurred which I just knew would cause us to blow up our entire neighborhood, an upstairs toilet backing up sewage into a shower…….I thought if one more thing happened I was going to run away! It is OK to break down. Yes it is just stuff, but who wants their stuff soaking wet. I made so many trips to the laundry mat it was hilarious, made some new friends there too! haha! At least you don’t have to “fight” with your insurance agent, that part has not been fun at all. Lifting you guys up in prayers.
Julie says
I’m so sorry this has happened, Shay. Sending love, positive thoughts and prayers for your family.
Kristin says
I am so sorry. Sending hugs and prayers.
Laura says
May the Good of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in Him so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit -Romans 15:13
Been praying this for my family the past few months, praying it over yours too. Thank you for sharing what you did today. Hopefully you feel blessed by it. Opening up and getting real can feel so scary and uncomfortable, but it looks like a lot of us are crying and praying with you! We will get through this! ??
Laura says
Haha clearly that’s supposed to be God of hope…??♀️
Kelly Brick says
I’m so, so very sorry. It’s overwhelming, it’s sad and it adds insult to injury with how 2020 is going. You have worked so hard to make your home beautiful, cozy and a safe place; it sucks and it’s ok to feel like it does. I hope once the dust settles and you guys have a plan and a timeline (things that calm type A’s) it won’t be so overwhelming. I hope it can be a fun time to get fresh and new things in the home and your temporary living will be an adventure for you all, a break from life to just be and take a breath. Praying Friday also helps settle your mom brain and you get great results from Ashby’s appt. It will all be ok.
Amanda says
I’m so sorry this happened to you. I see you are trying hard to be sensitive to all things going on in other people’s lives, but sometimes it’s ok to feel bad for yourself for a minute and say “THIS sucks”. Wish you a speedy return to your home.
Eileen says
How awful! I’m so sorry to hear what your family is going through. Sending prayers
Gracie says
Oh Shay! I am so sorry! This sucks for sure and you do not need to feel bad about feeling and about it. I’m saying a prayer for your family today, may you feel His peace and provision!
Also, cracking up about what you said about being Andrew not being able to get away form you. That’s exactly how my husband would be! ?
Sharon Simmers says
Oh honey! I am so, so sorry! I feel as though you are one of my “kids” since I “met” you through one of my “kids”, Erika. I’m shedding a few tears for you because I truly understand how badly 2020 stinks! Yes, you will get through this, mostly because you have a strong family network, including your friends, but MAINLY because you have such a strong faith in God. He will see you through! Love you kiddo, and if I can help from Missouri, just let me know!
Kat says
Oh man! I’m am so sorry to hear this! I would probably be at my breaking point if something like that happened right now! Sending lots of prayers your way! You are one strong mama!
Janice Dobbe says
Shay prayers for all of you. I’m so sorry this happened. You have always said your friends are the best and I think this flood proved they are.
Alicia M says
Shay, I am so sorry to hear this. Your blog is such a source of joy in my life and I appreciate how much you share your life and your family with us. Thinking of and praying for you all during this time! xoxo
Kirsten J says
Oh my HEART!! Ok. You got this. It IS gonna be an adventure. Maybe not the one you’d choose, but listen- the kids are resilient – and they still have their “stuff”, which is most important to kids. You can’t be Polly Positive 24/7, go ahead and let the *real* show for now. You’ve lifted us up and shared your sweet family for so long, let some Debbie Downer moments come on through and let US lift YOUR spirits for a change! Gonna be a headache for sure….but my neighbor lost her house to a Christmas Tree fire and she had Statefarm, and the best care and experience with getting it all out back together. You’re in DOUBLE good hands! {{{hugs}}}
AND extra prayers for Ashby this week ??
Robyn Beers says
Thinking about you and your family. 2020 has certainly been so different than any of us planned. You are correct ~ it is “just” things, but they were your things and they meant something. Come on 2021!
Terry says
Shay, I am old enough to be your mom and have followed your blog for over 7years. Life comes hard sometimes but you always handle it with such grace and positivity. Your beautiful cosy home has been violated by nature. It is perfectly okay to be mad, sad and down. Have those moments and know that you and your entire family are loved. I cried during your story because you were struggling to put on a positive face, but again it is okay to have those feelings. Really let it all out and come back swinging?
Jenny says
Oh, no!!!! I’m so very sorry. My parents flooded during Harvey and, yes, it’s just stuff but it’s your stuff. It’s ok to be sad and mourn the mess. In fact, it’s probably a good idea to mourn now so you can move on. Again, I’m so sorry!!
Laura says
So much love and good thoughts for Ashby. I get no elective procedures, but it seems so unfair to me that something potentially life saving (especially for a child!!) would have to be put on hold because of the virus. But that is another soap box in and of itself…….
I’m also very sorry to hear about your house. I’m sure you are in great hands insurance wise but still a major inconvenience at the worst possible time.
Sandy M says
I am so, so sorry. 2020 has been absolutely horrible year for us all. It looks like it may move on in 2021 but that is about too much to contemplate. But for everyone who has added more disasters to an already awful, alarming (communist revolution) year it feels like too much. We too added the death of my mom, cancer for my husband (thankfully surgery which was just prior to everything shutting down was the cure), and terrible financial hardship still unresolved with no end in sight. There is some comfort in knowing suffering is a shared experience and it is a reminder that how the heck does anyone survive without a biblical perspective?! You are blessed to have such a network of friends.
Laci says
Shay I am so sorry!!! Definitely let yourself have these feelings, it’s OK!!! My parents house burned a few years ago and I know being displaced and watching all your things be ruined or salvaged is gut wrenching. Praying for you and your family-you will come out strong like you already are but that does not mean it doesn’t completely stink in the waiting.
Beth says
Shay! I’m so sorry to hear that! You definitely have the hearts of all of your blog readers – I know everyone wants to help and make it better in some way! Praying this will truly turn out to be a great adventure for your family. Sending love and hugs!
Emily says
I’m so terribly sorry to hear about this!! Blessings to you and your family.
Jenn says
Oh, Shay! I’m so very sorry! You are right, you are all fine and that’s the bright side of a horrible event. And the other bright side is being married to an insurance agent! Sending you tons of love and strength friend! I am sure you are surrounded by all of your amazing friends and family and they will lift you up with support and love. I am praying for your family.
Julie says
Oh Shay! I am so incredibly sorry!!! This year has been awful but I know the Lord has a plan and I am praying for him to unveil it to us all. I know that your situation could be worse but its also very ok and normal to feel such deep devastation and disappointment. You and Andrew have done so much to build this home and its your sanctuary and safe haven. A place to build your dreams and grow your family and that makes it more than a house its your home. I am so sorry for this hurt and praying this is the end of the horror 2020 brings us all. Sending love and prayers your way!!
Paige M. says
I’m glad you shared this but so sorry you and your family are going through this. Praying for you & your family. Hoping 2020 turns around for everyone.
Toni :0) says
Ugh, well that sure sucks! So sorry to hear! That happened to us once where it was raining (broken pipe) in my basement for over an hour. We were out of our home for six weeks with a newborn as we had about $30,000 in damage. Praying for your family during this time as I know how challenging it can be. Thank goodness for insurance but I think your contractor sounds like he might be liable for some of that damage too for not buttoning up your home better to prepare for a storm with the work they’ve been doing. Best of luck to Ashby with her upcoming surgery. She’s such a trooper. Prayers all goes smoothly.
Joanna says
I am so sorry. What a stressful situation! Stress like that completely warrants tears. Praying for as smooth a move/fix as possible. Thank you for being real and sharing your family with us.
Jennifer Baker says
I am so sorry Shay, you are amazing and I know that your faith will just GROW from this season. Praying for your family and sweet Ashby’s surgery Friday. Thank you for always bringing us along on your journey. PS I thought it was weird you weren’t on insta a lot this weekend now I know why ~ I can’t believe I noticed that just shows how important you are to this online community!!!
Sarah says
Don’t forget, you are allowed to ‘feel’! In no way does that make other situations in the world feel less. You have every right to cry and mourn your home and things. And when you are done crying, you can pick yourself back up and be excited for the next door God is opening for you and your family!
Morgan Godbold says
Sending prayers your way! Thank you for your transparency, so we can pray for you, as you always pray for us!
I know it’s just stuff, but it’s also safety, security, routine that can be shaken. Stand firm in your relationship with Jesus, he is there with you! Isaiah 26:3 “You keep in perfect peace all who trust in you, all whose thoughts are fixed on you!”
Life is seasons, and 2020 is shaking us all! I love Hillsong’s Desert Song, “All of my life, in every season, you are still God, I have a reason to sing, I have a reason to worship”!
Angela says
I’m so sorry, Shay! I feel so bad for y’all! Praying for you and hoping better days are yet to come this year! You are so strong and positive and I appreciate your transparency!
Corrie Freeman says
Praying for your family!
Erika Mills says
Oh Shay, I am so sorry. We had something happen three years ago when our washing machine pump broke and it continued to pump gallons and gallons of water (over the course of HOURS) all throughout our home. Since we live in a ranch the water just went wall to wall with nothing spared. The week before school started. I cried so much. It was so stressful with so much being ruined and us out of our home for 3 months. BUT the renovations we were able to do and improvements our home received because of that was SUCH a blessing looking back. I’m praying you find small blessings along the way and that you have wonderful contractos who show up when they’re supposed to 😉 However, it’s okay to cry and be so upset/annoyed/enter angry emotion because it’s just so inconvenient.
Tricia says
Oh Shay, I am so terribly sorry to hear this! My heart breaks for you and your family right now! I know from all of your posts that you have an amazing “village” to help you get through this! I love your positive attitude too, one of the many things I love about you! Bless your heart! Praying for you and your family! Sending hugs too!
Cynthia says
I’ve had a flood. People would tell me how lucky I was to get State Farm to update my house! I did not feel lucky. I had terrible anxiety and had to see a counselor. It really wasn’t the stuff. It was just SO SUDDEN! And when it’s just the last in a series of unexpected things, sometimes it’s just one thing too many. I’m so sorry. I will pray for your precious family!
Staci says
Ugh! I’m sorry! So stressful! Praying you guys find a place to stay quickly and it’s exactly what you need!
Sheila says
I’m so sorry for what you are going through. 2020 has been a terrible year. The goodness in people is what helps us all survive. Hugs and love to you and your beautiful family.?
Kim C says
Oh Shay — my heart breaks for you! Even though it is just “stuff” it still sucks because there are memories tied to it all, otherwise you probably wouldn’t have kept it. My husband told me yesterday he saw someone from Texas post that they had got 6″ of rain and my thoughts instantly went to you, Erika, Sheaffer, & Cassie. You girls are my favorites and a bright light during my day. So, so, so many prayers for the days ahead
Meleah Thomas says
So very sorry for you all!! This year will definitely NOT go down as one of the best for anyone not matter your circumstances!! Thank you for always sharing your life…you introduced me to Dr. Riegel who I am seeing virtually from SC! You will have many praying for you! Keep your positivity and faith and this will be a memory before you know it. God had great plans even when we cannot see them!!
Andrea says
I am so sorry for what you all are going through. Watching your stories made me sad thinking we should never feel we have to apologize for what we are experiencing. Everyone’s trials and tribulations should never be compared or judged. I know you and your family will get through this with your unconditional faith.
Kristen Smith says
My goodnes!!! I am so sorry! Especially after all of the beautiful updates, painting, light fixtures, etc. We have all been enjoying following along on your house progress and now to read this is really shocking. I know it is just stuff but it still hurts. I am soo very sorry that happened. Praying for peace, patience, strength, and more for all of you. I know this is hard on your sweet kiddos too. The Lord has already equipped you with what you need to face this trial and come through still glorifying Him! Praying for your precious Ashby and her upcoming procedure as well. She is such a testimony!
Megan says
I hope you know it’s okay to not be “fine.” Yes, physically you are fine, but mentally and emotionally? Probably not. And that’s okay! One day you will be better than fine! I’m sending you all the hugs in the mean time.
Michaelann Seiders says
Praying for you and your family, a good cry and a word from God can do so very much healing someday’s! Thank you for continuing to be a bright spot in this crazy world!
Southern Mom says
Dear Shay, I’ve been reading your blog since shortly after you started it…. I don’t have fancy words for you… but know that you and your sweet family are in my thoughts and prayers. And cling to the promise that God will never leave you or forsake you, and His grace is sufficient for our EVERY need!! Sending my love.
Christa Liso says
I am so sorry Shay! We had minor flooding a few years back due to a flying squirrel incident (yes, flying squirrels invaded my attic and chewed through some pipes.) It was not a fun time but now we look back and laugh. I hope the same will be true for you. I’ll be praying for a speedy clean up/restoration process and for peace in the waiting. ♥️
Tarryn says
oh my goodness. I have been there and I’m so sorry that this is piled onto your 2020! 2 Years ago we bought our first home and moved in on Dec 1. We unpacked for a couple of weeks and then left to visit family for the holidays. We were out of town longer than expected because my husband got pneumonia. When we got home 3 weeks later we found that our heat was out – it was 16 outside (record breaking cold for NC) and 30 inside! When we tried the faucets we heard the ice crunch! We didn’t even know where the water shutoff was. When we found it we realized it was also broken so as the house warmed the pipes exploded. And since we had never mowed the lawn it took us hours to find the one outside. So, like you, it rained inside our house for hours and hours. My best friend reminded me the other day how I sat in her playroom crying to our State Farm agent. It was a hard hard hard season and a terrible introduction to owning a home. But I am able to look back now and remember the friends who stepped up to help us, the contractors who worked their tail off to get us home in time to celebrate my daughter’s birthday, and I can enjoy the new floors that I otherwise wouldn’t have had 🙂 And I never stay anywhere without knowing where the water shutoff is!! Praying for you – It will pass and will make a great story one day 🙂
Genevieve says
Shay, I am so sorry to hear about this- you are an amazingly strong woman to be able to put a positive spin on this after all you went through. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers while you go through the process of rebuilding your home.
Beth c says
It’s okay to not be okay. Your experience is awful and VALID. Prayers for you and your family.
Kathi Mackintosh says
Oh Shay, I so appreciate your vulnerability. Sending prayers!!
Laura Nailor says
I’m so sorry, Shay!! Hugs and prayers for your family!! Xx
Debbie Lei says
Thank you thank you, Shay, for pointing back to Christ even (especially) in the toughest of times. I know your blessings and rewards will be 50x as great as the heartache of terrible, tough things (travel agency, house, etc).
Mary merrill says
I don’t know you but have followed your blog for years! I want to just give you a hug and bring you over a few cocktails! You deserve it after this year. Hugs and prayers that everything will work out!
Jill Kline says
Oh Sheesh Shay!! That’s awful!! My house flooded 2 years ago this month while we were on a family vacation. It was awful but my motto soon became “no one was hurt, it could be worse and most everything can be repaired or replaced”.
I truly feel your pain and I’m sorry sorry this happened to you and your sweet family.
Mary says
Oh my goodness!! I am so sorry to hear that and yes its ok to take a few minutes to let those feelings come out – yes there are worse things but this is what you are dealing with and thats a big order to come up with a new place to live for awhile, people and pets and all the things!! Keeping you in prayers and thought and i bet this will turn into a huge fun adventure!!!
Lana says
Oh, Shay. I’m so sorry. It’s overwhelming to deal with so much, and even though they are material things and other people are dealing with different, hard things, please know that you still have the right to feel all the feels about this, and to grieve changes and shock you weren’t expecting. You are such a light to so many, and now people get to reflect God’s light and love back to you. Sending up a special prayer for you and your family through all this, and for Ashby and the medical appointments this week. He’s got this – you’re in good hands to sustain you, friend!
Lori L. says
I’m so, so sorry to hear this! I know that there are a lot of things worse BUT, this really sucks for you and your beautiful family! My heart goes out to you all. Sending you hugs and prayers!
Leah says
Wishing you and yours peace and comfort. Praying for you and your family.
Shevonne Latter says
Shay, I am So Sorry What an awful time and after you were just getting so excited about the additions and the beautiful Kitchen Upgrades… but as you say all Can and Will be fixed and replace ed etc but it still stinks 2020 has been a challenge for so many and yes as you say many more with far greater tragedies it’s still your beautiful families home and place of refuge and safety s o it’s equally as traumatic
Sending you so much Grace in this time and as your song so aptly sang!
Thinking of You all and extra prayers for your sweet brave Ashby on Friday ????
Jaren says
Oh Shay! I’m so sorry this has happened! Please know that we will be praying for you all! It’s okay to cry. You are still one of the strongest people I “know.” You speak words of wisdom to us everyday on here. Please know that so many are praying for y’all now!
Annie Lieberman says
It’s a big deal – let yourself cry. ❤️
Michelle Marshall says
Oh my goodness. I so appreciate how sensitive you are to other people’s struggles, but let’s face it. This just plain sucks!!! I’m so sorry. It’s okay to not be fine for a bit. Grieve what you lost and then move forward. I’m praying for you and your family as you walk through this!
Lindsay B says
I have followed your blog for years. You are always such an inspiration to me as a mother and a Christian. I am just so sorry this has happened to your family. Of course you all
Will get through it but it doesn’t mean that is doesn’t totally suck. Just know that you have people all over the country and probably world thinking and praying for your family right. Is!
Shelley says
Love the song Death was Arrested…another’s good one is Goodness of God. So uplifting! Check it out if you haven’t heard it.
So sorry about your house. I can’t imagine. I will be praying for you.
Alison says
Oh my goodness!! I’m soooo sorry! Sending lots of love, hugs, and prayers your way!
Debbie says
Oh my gosh!! I am so so sorry you and your family are dealing with this horrible blow. You are right, it could be worse, but you know what, it’s also ok to say it’s BAD and it SUCKS, cuz it SOO does. Wow. Prayers sent for you and your family. Praising God that everyone is ok.
Nikki says
sending you nothing but a tremendous amount of prayers and love. i think we can all agree that we appreciate your willingness to share this with us, we all want to be here to support you. this year has been so flat out crappy. looking on the bright side, 2021 has go to be better than this year in comparison right? i was laid off from my job due to covid 19 & while i was absolutely devastated (i truly loved my job) it’s honestly the best thing that could’ve happened to me. i got to stay home with my 3 year old son and keep us and our family safe and sound while also getting to spend so much more time with my son than i have in a long time. “this too shall pass” and jeremiah 29:11 have gotten me through a lot of hard times. sending all of our love from mississippi xoxo
Kristin says
I’m so terribly sorry you are having to go through this, but always remember God will get you through this!!! I agree with you that 2020 just needs to get on outta here!!! I lost my precious momma on May 8th!!! My best friend and my everything from cancer!!! She was only 58!!! So yes I’m over 2020!!! Big hugs and lots of prayers!!!
Connie says
Oh my, how awful! Praying for you. This year has been the worst! My son graduated high school and missed out on so much. It sucks! We’ve had to purchase a new fridge, car, printer, ceiling fan and now need a new roof. As we have a leak near the big front window. Ugh, I’m so done with 2020. Take care and know things will be better soon Shay. We will all get through these hard times. Praying big time.
Morgan says
2020 is literally THE WORST. I’m sorry this happened. As you said, it’s just stuff…but stuff holds memories, too, and that’s hard. Hopefully they are able to fix things and get you back into your home quickly.
Lisa Klein says
I am so, so sorry. Sending prayers of support and loads of love to you and your family!!
shawnna Griffin says
hey girl- I am so sorry about your house. Keep trusting in God. You know he is in control of everything that happens to us. He will work out everything. love y’all and I will be praying.
Stefenie Garcia says
I’m so sorry Shay! Sending you hugs! Your so blessed to have so many friends and family memebers in your life to help you. I will be praying for you and your family.
Lisa says
You are such a blessing and a shinning example of faith to us all – I am praying for you!! I read your blog for many reasons, but the one that ties them all together is your great faith in our GREAT GOD. It means all the world to me!
T says
Oh, Shay! I am so sorry your family is going through this. Praying for Ashby first and foremost, your family in their loss, and this house situation. My parents had 2 rooms flood in their home 5 yrs ago. They were 71&77 at the time, and I learned perseverance & Grace & strength through seeing them weather that and so much more over the years. Your kids are gaining resilience & a number of other “Jesus-emulating traits” as they go through these things with you. My mom entered the hospital on April 22nd during lockdown…no hospital visits allowed. She had surgery to clear a blockage that turned out to be stage IV pancreatic cancer 5 days later , again not allowed to be with her. She entered hospice care on May 18th where we could finally be with her. She passed away on May 27th, 4 days before my parents’ 51st wedding anniversary. We have not been able to have a memorial for her yet. Jesus gives peace in the storms. The storms still rage at times and hurt, but He gives peace. I am praying peace for you through my tears as I type. Just know you are not alone in the hardships nor in your holding on to hope and the only One that matters. Thanks for letting me share.
Jenna says
I am so sorry! Our house was uninhabitable for most of 2019 because of black mold we found while replacing a wall and the floors. Our insurance tried to fight us on everything. It took from New Years until June to get any work done! Finally moved back in in October, and then moved with the military to Germany January 2020. Just in time for covid! I am praying for you!!!
Sandy Blitch says
Prayers for you and your family in the coming weeks and months! Your outlook is incredible, and your children will feed off that! It is very disruptive and unsettling I am sure. Just lean on God, as I know you are and this will all be okay! But hang in there in the meanwhile!
Elizabeth S says
Oh my heart. So many people have had such struggles this year. It doesn’t matter the scope, when it’s happening to you, it’s a big deal! Tears are totally allowed. Just praying life will begin looking up. I love Even If by Mercy Ne and Still by Hillary Scott when I need some peace.
Mary Sharp says
I am so sorry. That has to be so hard. Yes, you will be fine but you deserve to feel your feelings. 2020 has been hard and I feel like yours started in 2019 with Kensington being sick and all the surgeries. It’s all been a lot!
Liz Thorson says
Shay, my heart hurts for you and your dear family. I will carry a load of positivity going forward for you all, especially for Ashby and her procedure this Friday. You have a village of family and friends and blog supporters who adore you. It’s your turn to lean on all of them and us. On a happy, positive note, you will still be able to enjoy your pool and yard, even if you are visitors to your own home! Hugs!
Kate Andersen says
Sending you a BIG hug! It must be absolutely devastating. Glad you’ve got a great support network to get you through this.
Ashlee says
I’m so so sorry. I don’t have anything to add that hasn’t already been said so I just want you to know I’m praying for y’all.
Elaine says
I’m so, so sorry you are dealing with this. Get behind us 2020! Praying for you and your sweet family as you transition and settle into a temporary place. Hopefully the repairs will go quickly and smoothly!
Paula says
Yes it still could be a lot worse, but you know what? You still get to be angry and upset about it – doesn’t matter that other people have had fires and floods, this has happened to you and your family and it completely sucks. So you are allowed to feel sorry for yourself and your family – and then walk through this time with the love and support of those around you. Sending you virtual hugs all the way from Scotland
Monica says
I love your genuine heart and reading your blog. This post was a wowzer, I am so very sorry for the water damage. Stay positive, there are many worse scenarios as you know. Thinking of Ashby and how scary missing those appointments would have been. 2020 has sucked!
Claudia Russo says
Really sorry you had to go through this.
Sarah says
Sending all my prayers and love to you as you navigate this madness.
Anna says
Thinking of you and your family. Praying everything will be fixed quickly
Lisa Fagin says
Total bummer! I’m so very sorry this is happening with everything else going on in the world. Praying for your sweet family.
Lindsey says
Agreed – 2020 has been absolutely horrible for so many reasons and I can’t wait for it to be over. So hard for everyone right now.
Tina says
Shay,
I’m so sorry what’s happened to your home. If you feel like I do about your home it’s your refuge in all things. I agree with others it’s OK to be so sad, stressed and maybe you’ve just had it. 🙂 You’ve had A LOT since Covid-19 hit. Aren’t you thankful that His Grace is free!? I can’t imagine my life without His Grace & Salvation. I will be praying and thinking of you & yours.
Kate says
I’m so sorry for you and your family. One of my favorite lines from Steel Magnolias is when Helen asks, “Do the storms ever stop?” And Maddie says, “No, but neither do the rainbows.” Seems so appropriate for all that is going on now. Praying for a better end of the year ?
Kristen Wood says
Oh Shay! I am so sorry! I was literally just telling my husband this morning about how bad 2020 has been…for us…we were supposed to go pick up our daughter from China in Feb—yet here we are still waiting…I’m so ready to travel to begin again, so I totally get your concern for the travel industry. Sending lots of hugs and big prayers!!
Kelly Otwell says
Oh Shay!! I am SO, SO sorry!!! That absolutely sucks!!! Sending you many virtual hugs and much love and many prayers!
Christine says
Girl…thanks for sharing, and know you can cry (or not) as much as you want! Saw this as a meme and thought of you – you deserve a good laugh.
“2020 feels a little like getting stuck halfway through putting on a sports bra after not fully flirting off from a shower, and now I’m just waiting for Jesus to come and cut me out of this thing. “
Dana says
Oh gosh I am just SOOOOOOO SORRY!!! I haven’t been on social media this weekend much so I didn’t know until I just saw your story! I wish I lived near you to bring you a meal, give you a hug and pray with you! You are allowed to cry and be upset this is a traumatic thing to happen!! Know you are loved, thought of and prayed for! Again I’m so so sorry!! Sending you a virtual hug!!
Lindsay D. says
I’m so very sorry!! You and your family will be in my prayers!! ?
DJ says
I’d sorry for this stressful experience you’re going through. It wouldn’t be easy for anyone. You and your family will be in my prayers.
Mary says
Oh Shay! My heart goes out to you! Sending you all the love!
Jill E says
Shay I’m just shedding tears for you. You’ve been such an encouragement to me and I want to help. I’m going to set my phone alarm for 9,3 & 6 and pray for you and your family and this situation until I see a blog post that shows all is done!
Much Love, Jill E
Lisa says
Sweet Shay, I’m so sorry! You and your family are in my prayers! I can say I DO KNOW HOW YOU FEEL!!! We had a house fire a few years back and though we didn’t lose everything we lost enough and were out of our house for 3 months. The fire was burning for 6 hours and we were spared! God tests us periodically to keep us in check and make sure that we are fully trusting in Him! Things can be so much worse and yet He aline gives us the graces to persevere. Hugs XO
Michelle says
Leaving my virtual hugs with the hundreds of others here. Gosh, I was crying reading your post. And I know your tears didn’t come from losing “things” but it’s just so overwhelming, isn’t it? We had minor flooding in our kitchen after first moving in and it’s stressful. I wish there was something I could do to help virtually, but I’ll say a prayer for the Shulls and I know you got this! And yes! 2020…BOO TO YOU!!!!
Cheryl L Cramer says
Hugs and prayers for all of you. Yes try to think of it as an adventure. God has all of you and He knows what is going to happen next. He is prepared for it even if we aren’t. I am keeping sweet Ashby in my prayers. She has been in God’s hands and He has protected her all these years He is not going to stop now. It will all be alright!!!
Meredith says
Oh water damage is the worst. My parents had a bathroom pipe break a few years back upstairs and when they woke up the next am the kitchen ceiling had already caved in and had standing water in most of the downstairs. I am so sorry it’s just stuff but it’s your stuff and it’s so hard to see your home/safe space.turned upside down.
Mimi says
So sorry to hear this. Best of luck and may God bless all of you. Praying for Ashby too.
Becky Carl says
Oh my Shay. Well, I had to scroll a long time to get down here to comment so one thing you can be assured of is you are loved and prayed for. So everything will be alright girl! Sending prayers and hugs to you and your sweet family???
Laura JeanS. says
As this girl from Houston knows, flooding SUCKS!!!!! I”m just SO sorry to hear about this! I follow you all the time, and you bring lots of light and sunshine to your readers! I’m hoping we can offer you some support while you go through this ordeal. Praying for your entire family… fur babies too!!
Tracey says
Shay! I’m so sorry! As a mama, all we want to do is be settled in our nest. And when our nest is torn up, it is hardest on us moms! My heart goes out to you. We did a major house project at our home in CA and ended up living in a motorhome for an entire year… in our driveway. 2 adults, 3 kids, and a puppy. It was definitely an adventure. One of the hardest years for me (the kids loved it though), but a year of great growth. Praying that God gives you His strength… I know He will hold you steadfast in His arms. Sending love and hugs your way! Thank you for being so transparent with your internet friends… it makes you even that much more endearing to us!
Kristin says
Shay I am so so sorry to hear about your flooding. Obviously you make your home your sanctuary for you and your family. It’s ok to shed tears! These trying times just plain stink. If I lived there I would totally help in any way I could. And yes, it is a GREAT thing you are married to a State Farm guy LOL Many prayers as you figure out what to do next, and prayers for your doctor check up on Friday. xoxo
Darby says
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers!
Sheaffer Sims says
If this is my 2nd comment, please disregard. I read your post at the ranch this morning before leaving, and now I can’t remember if I commented or not….and there’s wayyyyyy too many comments to read through! I’m just so proud of you and how you’re handling this. Give yourself grace, this is tough! Love you so much!
Loren says
I was crying reading this and then laughed out loud at the state farm customer comment! LOL, you always do shine with positivity. God will guide you. Love to all the Shulls!
Sonya says
I’m so sorry. You have every right to be upset. Almost 3 months after I moved to our apartment in FL, they were roofing, we had a summer rainstorm, they didn’t secure the roof and we had water flooding into 2/3 of our apartment from the ceiling and the windows. It was a mess. It took a couple of months and us buying a house to get out of there. The management company was no help. It’s hard when it disrupts your safe place.
Kimberly says
Thinking and praying for you and your family and Ashby ❤️❤️❤️
Tisha says
I LOVE that song!! Praying that your house will be back to normal in no time. So thankful that you choose to share your life with all of us!!BIG HUGS!!
Anne Farrar says
I have read tour blog for 6 years. 6 years and never left one comment. Why? I guess I’m shy? But your post today: the way you were so real yet light. It means the world. Being real honest, yet gut wrenching, is why you are such a good spirit to show others a great example. Thank you for leading the way and God’s message to us all. What feels like your BFF, Anne
Julie says
Well I was just so sorry to hear this news! Awful! You are dealing with so much right now. You guys will get through it, I have no doubt, but it’s ok to feel how you do. It’s rough!
We went through a flooding experience (dishwasher) in our kitchen a few years ago and I was surprised how much havoc it wreaked on our lives. It was actually kind of traumatic (was not handled well by remediation co./mold concerns) and took a while to get past the whole thing. I pray everything goes as smoothly as possible for you all in the coming weeks. I know it’s going to be ok! Hang in and God Bless!
carol says
Omg I LOATHE and fear water damage.
So sorry to hear this yet glad you shared.
Just think….you can get a new closet!
Lori Booty says
It’s okay that you’re sad. Don’t try to stuff those feelings because you “really should be happy”. That’s when our emotions become dangerous. Allow yourself to grieve. Our home flooded in Hurricane Harvey and we evacuated on a boat. I felt so lucky to have everyone safe and to have wonderful friends surrounding me. But, it does suck. It is hard. Sending you hugs and prayers. ?
WhittyWife says
So much love to you, Shay! I’m so sorry this happened. Praying for you and your sweet family, for the cleanup and renovation, for God’s perfect guidance on your living space during construction, for Ashby’s upcoming procedure, and for your heart in general. You’ve had a rough past year. However, please know that God is using it, and your life is a testimony and inspiration. Truly. Love you, girl. Continued prayers being sent to you!! ❤❤
Debbie says
My heart is breaking for you and your family. What a mess! I have no doubt that you are trying to be strong for your children, It’s ok that they see you are hurting. You are strong and your children are fortunate to have you to guide them around this unexpected roadblock. Your prayer warriors are working overtime. ?
Grace says
Nooo not your closet!! Did you
Manage to save any of your beautiful clothes? Bags? Sending prayers and love.
Kristy Beissel says
Shay, I am so sorry about your home. It does totally suck, and you are allowed to cry and be devastated. It is your home! And you are right, it will all be fine, because we all know that what matters the most is that your family is together, and safe.
I hope that y’all find a great place to stay, progress on your house will be fast, and that you will actually enjoy getting to redesign everything. You have such fabulous taste in decor and I can not wait to see the “comeback.” I know it is going to be gorgeous!
Kris says
I’m so sorry Shay!
I want to thank you for sharing your life with us- the highs and the lows. You are inspiring and have made me strive to be a better person in many areas of my life.
Praying for you and your family!
Angela Ellingson says
Oh Shay! I’m so very sorry. It’s been a nonstop day over here, but I just saw your Instagram story and read what you guys have been dealing with the past few days. That SUCKS! There’s just no sugar coating it. Prayers of peace over your mind as you deal with it all.
Yley Allen says
I’m so sorry to hear this! Prayers for Ashby and prayets for a solution to your living situation while your home gets repaired. I have no doubt you’ll turn this whole ordeal into a fun and memorable time for your family. Plus you’ll get brand new floors! Gotta find the silver linings, right?
Jenny says
Oh, Shay! That’s awful! So sorry y’all have to go through this. Your readers are here for you and love you and your sweet family. Continuing to pray for Ashby and all of you.
Maggie says
Shay and family- I’m so so sorry that this happened to you all! I’m so glad that your faith is strong and that you have Him to lean on right now. Your family WILL get through this! I wish I could hug you and do something to help you, friend! 2020 has been rough! Praying for you all! ❤️
Lisa says
Oh no! I’m so sorry that happened. Hang in there mama! Hugs!!
Helena says
So sorry to hear the bad news :(. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Praying Romans 8:28 for you guys.
Renee says
I am so sorry you and your family are having to go through this. Praying for your precious family.
Julie says
You all will be in my prayers as you walk through this unplanned adventure. Prayers for Ashby’s procedure and for all those wonderful friends, families, and neighbors who are lending a hand. So sorry. 2020 has been a real bummer.
Susan Swiggart says
I am so sorry you are going through this. I completely understand your “insane” emotions. Ha! We had a house fire in October and our home was taken down to the studs and foundation only. It was surreal seeing your home or 21 years like that. Watching all of our belongings either thrown out or packed by strangers was strange. I cried a lot. Every day. I would say, “it’s just stuff. We are FINE” so many times a day. I did truly mean that, but it was still so hard. You will get through it, but it’s okay to feel the loss and let yourself cry because it is hard. I can remember the day I stopped saying, “But _____ has it so much worse.” My daughter said, “Mom, it isn’t the pain Olympics. Your feelings are valid. Stop comparing and minimizing your struggles.” Wow! Praying the process goes smoothly for your family. Good insurance is a huge blessing!
Manda says
Prayers it will all be sorted out soon! We’ve had something similar when a frozen water pipe burst one winter after we’d moved into a new house for only 6 months. Things are just things…and we learned that quickly. The people we love matter more than any possession. But still… it does just suck when you’re in the middle of a mess. Know that love, hugs, and prayers will be continued until this mess is all over!
Angela says
Oh Shay!! I am so sorry!! I wish we lived close so I could bring over a Starbucks coffee and breakfast burrito for you, then dig in, ready to work and help out. That’s what my bestie did when our basement flooded. She knew just what I needed. And even better, God knows just what we need. So, I will be fervently praying for you guys…for strength, wisdom, direction, joy, and protection. Praying the Holy Spirit washes over you guys with peace and hope in this hard, hard time. You are loved and you are always here for us, so know that we, this beautiful community on your blog, are here for you.❤️
Also, praying for Ashby and her upcoming surgery!
Big hugs and lots of love! xo
Lauren says
What a bummer! So sorry to hear this! Glad you have encouraging songs to get you through though! I actually go to North Point Community Church here in Georgia which is who wrote “Death Was Arrested.” It is awesome!!
Crystal says
Sending prayers your way! Your perspective is incredible & a great reminder…in this crazy year especially!
Will be sending extra prayers on Friday for Ashby!
Tracy says
Oh, how horrible. I’m just catching up on things and am so sorry to hear this. Prayers as you get things repaired and for your sweet family and your “summer adventure”.
Laura says
Prayers girl! “Even If” by MercyMe with his testimony.. listen to it! I love it and just like he says sometimes “life just sucks.” And it’s okay to say that!!
Jill L Myers says
Sorry seems so inadequate! You have had far too much to contend with! On the positive side, so glad that you have such a great support system of friends & family to come along side you. I will be praying for your family, but especially for Ashby’s appointment to go great on Friday. Blessings to you!
grace luo says
As a devoted follower of your blog for some time (reading your entries always makes me feel cozy somehow, ha!), I am so sorry to hear about this happening in the midst of everything else. I admire your positive spirit and for not breaking down as I know I would have multiple times had I been in this situation. Hoping you and your family find someplace to go for the time-being and sending you all much love, prayers, and positive vibrations.
patty says
Oh my gosh. I am so so sorry. Praying for your family.
Patty
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Christina says
Totally sucks…but you are right, thankfully just things…stay positive and keep us in the loop.
You got this!
Jeanie says
I am so sorry! What a horrendous thing to happen. Peace and blessings for you and your family.
Susan Emmons says
So very, very sorry your family is going through this disaster, especially with everything else happening around us. Your family and faith will help you all get through it. Believe it!
I hope, for your sake, State Farm is ‘a good neighbor’ as they advertise to be. We are in the midst of a tug-of-war as we have a “signed award” for a new roof, but ‘SF powers that be’ have other ideas…that being NOT to pay the award. I know your dad and hubby are both SF agents…so you probably won’t have any issues. Good luck just the same!
Norita K Drake says
Oh, no!!! I am so sorry! WHY must we compare ourselves to others! YOU HAD A BAD THING HAPPEN. Yes , it could have been much worse, but seriously, you’re uprooted from most everything in your daily life! It’s OK to be sad, to cry, to scream. BUT as you said, could have been much worse. Every one in your family is alive, breathing, beside you and safe. As you know, that’s the most important thing. You said it: It’s just things.
I shall pray for you and fam. May your sanity return soon. 🙂
Leslie Susan Clingan says
Darling you, it is okay if you cry. In fact, it is more than okay for you to cry. And for your babies to see you cry and know that it is okay for them to cry, too. Your home is your safe haven. Sure it is filled with things. Just things. But things that represent the love and life you have built. And home is supposed to be the place where you can escape all the crazy in the world, all the #2020.
I am so sorry that you have this mess to contend with but thank goodness for your personal State Farm agent and having insurance, and friends and family and the means to put things back together. You are so very strong but you don’t have to be every single moment.
Sending you love and sending up prayers that this catastrophe is quickly and (relatively) easily remedied.
Holly says
Oh Shay ?!! Dang it! This has been a rotten year so far. I’m so sorry about the flooding of your home. Keep your chin up, the Lord’s got your precious family in the palm of his hand and you will get through this and be all the more resilient. Praying for Ashby!!!???