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Fear not.


If you’ve been following along this year, every week I am trying to memorize a new verse.  This week’s verse is Matthew 19:26.  Even though I already have the following verse memorized, I thought it would be a good one for next week…

Isaiah 41:10

Isaiah 41:10 has always been my dad’s favorite verse.  For years, he wore it on a chain around his neck.  I’ve always loved this verse, but never has it meant so much to me than over the last three years.  This is the verse I pray over Ashby with each procedure…and today is procedure number eleven in 18 months.

By the time you read this post, we’ll be all checked in at the hospital.  She’s nervous.  I’m nervous.  We’re all nervous.  Sometimes, when your kiddo goes through so much, you become a little numb to the severity of the situation.  Or maybe that’s just me?  She is so tough, so brave and such a trooper, that sometimes, it’s easy to forget what a struggle this whole thing is for our sweet girl.  Procedure #10 did not go well.  It was very hard for her physically and emotionally…so, we have the ghost of that following us around today.

Today, I’m asking for you guys to pray for Ashby.  Pray first and foremost for safety and health during the procedure, pray for her recovery, pray for healing and pray for little heart.  She has a whole lot of emotions about the reality of her situation.  I wish you all could get to know Ashby in person.  She is ALWAYS full of this joy.  She is sweet, she is kind, she is brave and she is INDEPENDENT!  I bet she says the phrase “Let me do it myself” at least 20 times a day.  From getting in and out of the car to opening something, carrying things, and more…she doesn’t want your help, she wants to learn to do it herself.  That’s our girl 🙂 .

If you missed my last update on Ashby’s overall health, you can read it HERE.  In the meantime, we appreciate the prayers.  See you tomorrow. xo

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  1. Erika Slaughter says

    We are praying big for your girl! Last night before bed, Nixon prayed and we’d talked about Ashby’s procedure and her being nervous and Shay-if you could have heard him praying for her (he thinks of her as a little sister) you would have been sobbing!! I was choking back the tears. We love that girl and we’ll be lifting her up continuously!

    • Sheaffer Sims says

      Prayed this morning for your sweet girl, for the doctors, and for you and Andrew. Erika, just reading your comment gave me a lump in my throat.

  2. Charmaine Ng | Architecture & Lifestyle Blog says

    Good luck to Ashby and your family! She is a brave girl. 🙂 Will definitely keep her in my prayers ❤️
    –
    Charmaine Ng | Architecture & Lifestyle Blog
    http://charmainenyw.com

    • jamie says

      hey there, charmaine! how did you get your photo to appear in that little circle? i’ve never been able to figure it out…

  6. jamie says

    prayers for that darling little girl today. and your brave heart. i praise god that he sent ashby to you so that she has the medical superbness surrounding her that she needs. looking forward to an update. be still.

  10. Debbie Hibbert says

    I just prayed for your precious Ashby. That sweet girl, who I don’t even personally know, has my heart.

  12. Lynn says

    I’m praying right now for little Ashby and you all. She’s a little warrior Deuteronomy 31 6-7 x

  15. Rachel says

    Lifting up your sweet girl today, Shay!! He has her in His mighty hand and is already doing BIG things with her little life.

  17. Elizabeth Feldpausch says

    Sending lots of prayers up for her, you, Andrew and her team of doctors and nurses! Hug her tight today!

  19. Merideth says

    Here is one of my favorite verses for you and Ashby: Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid. For the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.
    You, your sweet girl and family are in my prayers this morning!

  28. Tabitha Passwaters says

    Praying for sweet Ashby today and the coming days! I love reading about her…she is one brave soul!❤️

  31. Amy Heinl says

    Lifting sweet Ashby in prayer during her procedure today. May she feel God’s protective and loving arms around her. I prayed for the doctors who will be treating her today. I prayed for you Shay…for strength and peace during this scary time. I know our Lord has Ashby safely in His healing arms.

  33. Amy says

    Praying for that sweet Ashby today. God made her a fighter for a reason and he will use her for so much good!

  35. Brianne says

    Just prayed for your sweet girl. I can’t even imagine having to go through so much as a parent but as a young child. We could all learn so much from Ashby and we have never met! I hope all goes smoothly today. God has big plans for her!

  36. Karlene says

    Praying for sweet Ashby. It’s so hard to see our children have to go through challenges. We have 4 kids and our one son seems to have all the challenges – epilepsy, learning disability and not quite as gifted athletically as our other kids. But he really has the best attitude about it – doesn’t complain about why things are the way they are. It sounds a lot like your Ashby is strong and doesn’t complain about things either. Many thoughts and prayers for Ashby and your family. I really enjoy reading your blog and learning about you all even though I live thousands of miles away.

  37. Laura says

    Praying for Ashby, all who love her, and all who care for her medical needs— courage, wisdom, and wonderful results. God bless.

  40. Marcy says

    Praying for sweet Ashby, her family, her friends and her medical team as she undergoes #11, praying for a successful outcome and easy recovery.

  42. Jeannie Clary says

    Prayers for Precious Ashby!! I have been following your blog for about 2 years now!! And this little wonder amazing me!!

  44. Sandra says

    Praying for Ashby in the precious name of Jesus. And also the rest of you guys as you care for her and make decisions for her. Fear not!!

  46. Rene' Pingel says

    Shay, I am praying BIG for Ashby and your whole family as well.
    For God did not give us a spirit of timidity, but a spirit of POWER, of LOVE, and of self-discipline. 1 Timothy 1:7
    In the same way, the Spirit helps us in our weakness. Romans 8:26a
    Love your sweet family!
    Aunt Rene’
    (Erika’s)

  50. Dawn Engle says

    Praying for her always! What an amazing little girl. God knew what he was doing when he placed her with you! Please keep us updated. XO

  52. Sandra Olden says

    Luke 1-37
    For nothing is impossible with God.
    This was my Bible verse this morning. Praying it over Ashby.

  54. Courtney says

    Praying for sweet Ashby – thanks for sharing her story and just how BRAVE she is!
    XO
    Courtney

  55. B.Y.S. says

    I love this verse, I have it on a chain and I have used with one of my photos and on as the bulletin cover photo and scripture that I do for our church. -Amy

    Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be terrified; do not be discouraged, for the LORD your God will be with you wherever you go. Joshua 1:9 (NIV)

  60. Wilma says

    Father, I hold Ashby up to you today asking you to cover her with your healing hand. Father comfort her, calm her anxious thoughts and let your peace rule in her heart. Guide the hands of all involved in her care. Give her family and all who love her comfort, peace and wisdom in caring for her. We ask you to take care of their greatest needs and let them know it comes from You. We ask all in Jesus’ name Amen

  62. Francesca says

    Praying for sweet Ashby – may the lord bless you and keep you. Thank you for reflecting god’s light in my life!

  63. Lori says

    Tell Ashby someone in Snellville, Georgia is praying hard for her. I’ve followed your blog for years and Ashby’s story. May God lay his hands on the surgeons and your sweet Ashby. She sounds like a fighter and a true inspiration to others around her. May God keep you and your entire family in his loving arms throughout the following days. Go Ashby – you got this girl! (insert Southern drawl) LOL

  69. Maria says

    Sweet Ashby! I am thinking of you. You are one brave little girl and you are such a an inspiration to all of us (adults!)!!!!

    Shay thank you for tkeeping us updated. It is the worst for parents to see the littles suffering…
    I am not sure if it is too private but do you know until when you have to do the procedures and if the KTS can get worse and harm other areas of her little body?

  70. Mel says

    Praying for Ashby and thinking of her while listening to a beautiful worship song by Kristine Dimarco “Fear not.” We listen to it full blast!

  71. Kristin says

    Father be with the doctors and nurses today while they work on sweet Ashby. Guide them and give them patience and knowledge Lord.
    Father be with Shay and Andrew during her procedure, give them peace Lord. Guide them in helping Ashby heal. May you overwhelm them with your presence Lord, when they are anxious, scared or frustrated, send your Heavenly Angels to surround them with your love, Lord.
    Heal that precious child of yours, Lord and guard her heart against insecurities and against fear.
    May her struggles be a testimony of your amazing love and grace Lord. Amen.

  72. Lori Ann says

    Am always at the ready to pray when asked. Beautiful Ashley is with her Father-Mother (God) all day today. God will never leave her side and will support her as she heals too. And let’s remember that those dedicated doctors are being led and supported by God too as they do their work.
    “Thou keepest him in perfect peace, who’s mind is stayed on Thee.”

  73. Kelly says

    Praying for the best possible outcome today; for Ashby, you and Andrew and the medical team. God knows the desires of your heart for your sweet, brave girl.

  74. Jan Fisher says

    Praying for Ashby, her doctors and you and Andrew from Illinois this morning. Such a tough thing but Ashby sounds like one tough cookie!

  75. Jill says

    Praying for Ashby today! Also praying for you, as it’s never easy to watch your child going through such hard things. Our 20 month old daughter has CLOVES syndrome, and receives sclerotherapy on her vascular malformation- and my heart breaks for her each and every time. These kiddos are so tough, and so strong, and will be an inspiration to everyone around them. They were hand chosen by God to carry this burden, and we were hand chosen to care for them, and encourage them to be the best they can be!

  76. Kim Francis says

    Praying for sweet Ashby….but also praying for you as her mom! I hate seeing my kids sick with strep throat or a stomach bug I cant imagine the anguish you got thru each time she has a procedure!!!! I know the Lord will place his hands on the doctors, nurses, Ashby and your family during this rough spot in the road!

  78. Mary Johnson says

    Praying for sweet Ashby today, along with the entire Shull famly. Just remember: God’s got this!

  79. Sarah says

    Covering sweet Ashby in prayers and the days to come as she recovers after surgery! I drive by Scottish Rite every day on my way to and from work and had never been inside until last week when I volunteered with a few of my colleagues. The courage and strength of the children I was able to meet was truly inspiring and the staff was absolutely incredible!

  80. Angie says

    Prayers for Ashby and your whole family, and thank you for sharing this Bible verse. It really spoke to me with some things going on in my life. Thanks for sharing the good word!

  81. Julie says

    I’m so sorry for all she has to endure and know it must be incredibly difficult for all of you! What a brave girl. I will lift up prayers for you all. Hoping this procedure goes much more smoothly!

  82. Julie says

    Sending endless good vibes to Ashby today! And also to you, Shay! It can’t be easy at all to watch your daughter tough this all out. I hope all goes well and that you have a restful weekend. She seems like such a wonderful little girl.

  83. Ariadna says

    Prayed for Ashby and your whole family. Like somebody else mentioned above, that little girl, and your whole family really, have my heart and we haven’t even met. Your family is an inspiration to all of us, thank you for sharing it with us and please keep us posted.

  84. Kathy L says

    Praying for beautiful Ashby and the entire Shull family today. I hope and pray that today’s surgery and recovery is easier on that sweet girl. I have really enjoyed reading about Ashby from the very beginning of her adoption on your blog. She really seems like such a brave girl, who is so positive and full of life! We could all learn a few things from Ashby! 😉

  85. Rachel says

    Praying for Ashby’s physical and emotional health and for you and your family to have peace and strength during these difficult times.

  88. Karen Ward says

    This is my life verse! I started praying this verse when my husband was diagnosed with cancer. Lifting sweet Ashby and your family up in prayer this morning!

  90. Kathy says

    Sending prayers for Ashby and your family. What a brave, beautiful girl I pray all goes well. 🙂

  91. WhittyWife says

    Oh Shay, ever since you mentioned that you were dreading her next procedure, I added her to my prayer app and have been praying! Thank you for updating us that Ashby is having it today, so we can better pray. I’m praying for you all! <3

  92. Aly says

    Praying for Ashby, right now. We believe in a God that works miracles, heals, and loves. May she find peace in heart today.

  96. Amy T says

    Praying for Ashby and you today! Lots of Love. God is going to use this incredible little girl for great things!

  99. Barb says

    Praying for you sweet Ashby.
    God will help you get through this.
    Like your mother’s verse for the week–Is. 41:13 is our family verse in trials–“For I the Lord Thy God am holding your right hand, saying, Fear not, I will help thee.
    You are special to God–He will carry you through.

  102. Keisha Dawson says

    Prayers for Ashby and the rest of you. May the Ultimate Healer and Surgeon have full control over her procedure and may the peace which surpasses all understanding fall over your family!

  104. Kathi Mackintosh says

    Just prayed for your sweet little Ashby: for her fears and her heart and for as little pain as possible. Also for her mama, who waits and just wants to make everything better for her little girl. I’m so thankful that God is always faithful.

  105. Stephanie Snyder says

    Praying for sweet Ashby and your entire family. She is so strong and brave, and her beautiful smile and happiness are testaments to the amazing family to whom she belongs! Prayers for y’all!

  106. Lindsay @ Lindsay's Sweet World says

    So many prayers for your sweet girl, today, Shay. She is indeed a trooper. <3

  108. Kathy says

    Just prayed for sweet little Ashby and for you both as you await for the procedure to be done. Praying the procedure will be successful and Ashby will be in less pain as she recovers.

  109. SS says

    Praying for Ashby during surgery and recovery. I also pray for you & Andrew…so hard to have it out of your hands! Prayers for her sisters and brother as they have to “go” through this with her. It is tough on them as well to watch their sister go through this!!! Hugs!!!!

  110. Nanette R says

    This is a verse that the Lord has given me to remind me that I’m not alone and I needed to see it today. I am praying for your sweet girl and for the doctors and nurses and for your family today.

  112. Nikki says

    Praying for sweet Ashby and also for your mother’s heart. I’ve always loved that verse. It’s so true. Something I heard recently that I constantly repeat is:

    “God is good. God is good to me. God is good at being God.” – Lysa Terkheurst

  113. Jordan says

    You’re in my prayers! Here’s another verse that has been my lifeline through several seasons of life. Hope it’s encouraging to you! xo

    “Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.” Joshua 1:9

  115. Jackie says

    Hi Shay! Praying for your sweet Ashby today and hoping for a speedy recovery for her. Reading Erika’s comment about her son brought tears to my eyes, what a special bond your families have!

  116. Michelle says

    Praying for sweet Ashby ! Her little face always looks so full of joy that it’s hard to believe that she faces such struggles. What a testament to us all !

  120. Liz THORSON says

    I am holding sweet Ashby close to my heart today and for the weeks of healing she will endure. You have conveyed what a precious, dear, joyful little girl she is and I am so sorry she has KTS, but so grateful she is the daughter of you and Andrew and is loved by so many. Erika’s post touched my heart. Peace and calm strength to you, Shay. We mamas love our children so much and forever wish we can take away their pain and suffering.❤️❤️

  121. Kathy says

    Praying for your sweet girl. That’s my favorite verse, too! I put Isaiah 41:10 on the Stella and Dot engravable bracelet and wear it when I need reminding. 🙂

    God is good all the time and He’s got a plan for sweet Ashby!

  122. Corbie says

    Been praying for you all day sweet Ashby! Will continue to do so. Looking forward to a very positive update!

  124. Karen K Ivy says

    Shay, Oh my! The one day I didn’t start my day with 1. my devotional 2. my hot tea 3. Mix and Match Mama blog read! I’m praying now that things went well and she’s recovering well tonight! I’ll be checking Instagram to see if there are some updates!! Lord, please comfort Ashby and help her experience peace beyond our understanding!! Amen!

  125. jamie says

    11:05pm michigan time. thinking of you all. praying for a night filled with peaceful restful dreams. minimal pain for ashby as she sleeps {and wakes}. you are loved.

  126. Lauren says

    I’m thinking about this little girl that has certainly been dealt a rough set
    Of cards but is so lucky to have ended up in your family! All the blessings!!

  128. Jaren says

    Prayers for your sweet and precious girl! Praying for wisdom for the doctors and a quick recovery!

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