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I'm Shay! I’m a cookbook author, lifestyle blogger, travel agency owner, wife and mama who loves making every day special for my family.

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Girlfriend Chat with Jay! (a.k.a. my dad!)


It’s my second Girlfriend Chat!  And oddly enough, I’m interviewing someone who is neither a girl nor friend…I’m chatting with my dad 🙂 .

This is Jay.

He’s my dad.

There are many reasons why I’m interviewing him today:
1: He was WIDELY requested by you guys!
2: He is the most artistic/energetic/charismatic person I know.
3: He’s so darn funny.
4: He is so wise.
5: IT’S HIS BIRTHDAY TODAY!!!

Yup!  Happy birthday to my sweet dad!!

In today’s chat, we discuss everything from his favorite child (not me) to the Red Sox, marriage, fatherhood, being on the Bachelor, Jesus and more.  It’s a very well-rounded conversation to say the least.  Please note, the connection was not fantastic and at one point, I ask him to change rooms…I’m apologizing in advance because I know it’s probably a little annoying 😉 .

Ready?  This recording was SO MUCH FUN!!  Click below to listen…

http://www.tapeacall.com/gxmvneke6y

And don’t forget, if you missed my first chat with my sister-in-law, Catherine, you can hear that HERE.

Happy Birthday Dad!!  I love you so much!!

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Comments

    • Dana Murphy says

      OMG – I loved your chat with your dad! It made me laugh and cry!!! You are so amazing with all you do! You are a blessing! But in listening to your dad, I see where u get it! Today touched me so much! I pray I am at least a little like you guys to my children. They are my greatest blessings! Thank you for sharing you and your family with us!

  2. Erika Slaughter says

    What a FUN way to celebrate your dad over on the blog! I can’t wait to listen!!

  4. Jennifer Hampton says

    I listened and it made me late to get ready for my day but it was worth every second! Such a precious man, he brings a smile to my face! And I’m sure thousands of others! Happy birthday!

  5. Sheaffer Sims says

    So I’ve already listened. And your sweet dad was just as sweet and precious AND FUNNY as ever. But I’m very concerned over his hatred of sour cream. That’s not normal. 😉

    • Mix and Match Mama says

      It’s not. My mother will try and sneak it in…but he finds it. #weirdo

  6. Elspeth Mizner says

    I love your girlfriend chat series!!! And learning abou your dad is even better! Great post

  7. Marcy says

    First off Happy Birthday Papa Jay!! This was such a fun listen, thank you for sharing and I look forward to more phone chats

  10. Kristen says

    I loved this! My dad and I have a very similar relationship and it’s SO special! We sure are blessed.

  13. Amy Heinl says

    First of all…Happy Birthday Mr. LOWE..HOPE YOUR DAY IS A BLESSED ONE. WHAT A GREAT INTERVIEW WITH YOUR DAD..HE JUST RADIATES JOY

  15. LeeAnn says

    That was the sweetest interview I’ve ever heard. “Life is an adventure”… your dad sounds like he’s full of so much love and wisdom. You’re a lucky woman Shay to have such an amazing father.

  16. Tracy says

    Can’t wait to listen. What a blessing to have such a close relationship with your dad. So many aren’t that lucky.

  19. Natalie says

    Awww Shay.. I just listened I LOVED THIS.. Your dad is so cute. Thanks for sharing … who’s next? I love this that you interview people. How about Andrew? Have a great day…

  20. Laci says

    Let me just say I LOVE PAPA JAY!!!! Can he get his own blog or tv show or something?? LOL The world needs more of him!! Happy Birthday to your Dad!!

  21. Amanda Wilson says

    I loved listening to that!! Happy Birthday to JAY!! That man just makes me want to be a better person!! He is just so darn lovable!! I love his love for the Lord and that he gives thanks to him always for his blessings! You are blessed Shay!!

  22. Sarah M. says

    The format for listening doesn’t seem to be the same as the one you did with Catherine. It says “live” and I can’t pause or fast forward. And then it keeps resetting to the beginning. I can’t seem to get past 5 minutes. I’ll try again later! Love it so far!

      • Sarah M. says

        It worked on my computer at home, so it must have been an issue with my phone. I loved hearing how your dad really appreciates the Lord in his life and gives thanks to Him on a regular basis.

  23. Laurie S says

    Happy Birthday Papa Jay! Looking forward to listening later, today, when life quiets down.

  24. Ashley says

    Just listened. Love the little tidbit about officiating the wedding and the travels sure sound adventurous! Love your wholesome family!!!!

  27. Michelle P says

    Shay! I loved this interview with your dad! Happy birthday Mr. Lowe, He is so sweet. I love how you share your love for the Red Sox especially being from Texas. I grew up in Boston so it normal to be a huge Sox fan and share my love of the Sox with my dad, and I work in Kenmore Square so I see the Citgo sign and Fenway everyday. You have no idea how much it warms my heart to see your love for the Sox from Texas and to see your share this passion with your dad is soo special! Thank you so much for sharing this.

  28. Doreen says

    Happy Birthday Jay! Love the interview. Hope I run into you when you are in Boston. Go Sox!!

  29. Anonymous says

    This was wonderful! My daddy was my best friend… but he passed away when I was 11. This reminded me soo much of him. Treasure your blessing…. of your dad…who obviously loves you so much !! We need more Christian Dads and leaders like him! Happy birthday Mr Lowe !!

  31. Nikki says

    This may be one of my favorite posts you’ve ever had. Your dad is so sweet. What I love most about your family is how honest and authentic you are with your relationship with the Lord. Your dad has a serious gift at sharing his faith!

  33. Tanya says

    I loved listening to this! Your dad is amazing, and I think the family attitude about travel is wonderful

  35. Susann says

    Your dad!! He is just the sweetest!! You are so so blessed to have a dad like that and what an awesome relationship y’all have. Happy Birthday to him!

  36. Rebecca says

    Love, love this!! I almost didn’t listen because I thought that’s kinda weird to listen … like eavesdropping! Then I though ok it’s more like a podcast and I was ok with listening. I’m soooooo glad I did – so encouraging. How great for him to give all glory to God. What a blessing he is! Happy Birthday to your Dad- hope he has a wonderful, blessed year!!

  37. Amanda @ That Inspired Chick says

    Your dad reminds me of mine so much!! Even down to their names (Barry Jay is my dad) and their hatred for sour cream. 😉 Happy Birthday to him!! That Inspired Chick

  38. Ronnie Dean says

    I LOVED this!! Happy Birthday to your dad! I loved hearing his advice and I loved hearing the sweet relationship you have with him. If there were more ‘Papa Jays’ in the world, it would be a much sweeter place!!

  40. Erica says

    hahaha! You aren’t lying, your dad is so funny. 🙂 And I know that no one is perfect, but I must say I’m a little jealous of your childhood.

  41. Angela Ellingson says

    Happy birthday Jay! I know you know this, but you are just so blessed…

  42. Ashley says

    I think Papa Jay needs to be a monthly guest blogger. Love his wisdom! And love your idea with thse guest chats. So fun!!

  44. Rhonda Stanton says

    We have always had such admiration for your dad…for many reasons. We loved watching him perform Sean’s wedding, his storm chasing stories, his musical talents, his personality etc,
    And, I loved this interview…your dad’s interaction with you was priceless…so cute and funny !
    My husband, your dad and your husband work for the same company. So, we have mutual experiences, friends and interest.
    I love living vicariously though your blogs ‼️

  45. Mary says

    Shay, I enjoyed listening to this chat with your father. He sounds like a fun, wise man. However, I listened to it twice, and both times it stopped after he started talking about his kiddos. It went back to the beginning both times. Any ideas as to how to play the complete recording?

  46. Kristen says

    This just made me smile this morning! Your daddy is precious! Happy birthday Papa Jay!

  47. Kimberly says

    I think you should just have weekly chats with your dad. I loved listening to him! Happy birthday!

  48. Cathy says

    ” it was a God thing.” The wedding! Love it! What a sweet and Godly man. Happy Birthday to your dad. May he be blessed with many more.

  49. Jodie Kingsbury says

    That call was so sweet. You two just radiate love and happiness. Happy Birthday to your Dad.

  52. Myra says

    Love love love your dad! Especially because he seems to have a deep love for the Lord! You’re so blessed to have him, Shay!

  53. Melissa says

    Listened and enjoyed it all, in spite of the static! LOL What a sweet dad you have and a sweet relationship. 🙂

  54. Mary says

    I’ve tried one more time, this time on the computer instead of my phone. It worked!!!! Thanks for sharing this conversation.?

  57. Liz THORSON says

    What a sweet, precious, wise, loving, funny man you have in your dad, Shay! Thanks for sharing him with us. I miss my dear father, gone now almost 19 years.??

  58. kim says

    Happy Birthday to your Dad, he has a great sense of humor, this interview made me smile.

  59. Rebecca Carney says

    Happy Birthday Papa Jay!!! This blog post/interview gave me So Much JOY to my Heart today!!! I needed to hear this so badly. Going through many deep valleys and trials currently in my life. I know that I need more of Jesus in my life, I need Jesus to be #1 in my life. Thank you! You have helped me out of a slump today.

    • Jay Lowe says

      Rebecca, Thank you for your very kind words and please know that I have been lifting you up in prayer. In my valleys I always ask God to please quickly bring a Caribbean sunny day to my storm. That has been my prayer for you! I hope this day is blessed beyond measure. Jay

  60. Jes says

    I love that his answer to “who would you trade places with for a day if you could”… was YOU! I think we all would love to know how you get so many things done in a single day. ?

  62. Michelle B. says

    I loved this so much. I can tell your dad is the nicest man ever. He reminds me of my dad. Thanks so much for sharing.❤️

  63. Chelsey says

    This was such a great chat with your sweet dad! I was smiling and giggling the WHOLE time. Love this new series on your blog!

  64. Lydia says

    Happy Birthday to your sweet dad! I enjoyed listening to the chat . So precious! ❤❤❤
    I think your dad needs to start a blog. I would love to read more about his wisdom, advice and his love for the Lord. I would be his loyal reader ???

  65. Carrie @ Curly Crafty Mom says

    I just truly enjoyed listening to this… your dad is so inspirational, what a blessing!

    Carrie
    curlycraftymom.com

  66. Lauren says

    Hi Shay! I would love to read a post about how your parents raised you/techniques they used that you now use for your kids? (besides traveling!) Thanks!

  67. Julie says

    Love, love, love this!! Your dad is a precious person so it is no wonder he has such a precious daughter! I miss seeing pictures of your extended family during the holidays and your sweet dad’s birthday!! Please continue to post those.

  68. maria ortiz says

    what a blessed man, your dad! Sooo humble and sooo funny! i loooved listening to him

  69. Cassidy says

    Well he’s officially the cutest person in the world. Thanks for sharing your dad and your life with us!!

  70. Sascha says

    What a great interview. An amazing heritage of marriage longevity in your family <3

  71. Kim says

    Oh my goodness I finally got a chance to listen to this and it’s the cutest thing I ever heard!! I just love your Dad! Thank you for sharing!!

  72. Nicole says

    Your dad is just precious! What a blessing to have a family full of love and so much Jesus! Love his heart for sharing Christ! Loved this!!

  73. Maria says

    Adorable! When you asked what the secret to his marriage was and he answered, “Jesus,” without hesitation, I almost lost it. I’m so blessed to have a similar relationship – God is so good 🙂

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