
Happy happy Thursday!
Believe it or not, it’s ANOTHER Thursday + Friday football weekend!
When Erika and I saw both Lovejoy and Boyd’s football schedules and realized they weirdly and wildly had so many weeks when they didn’t play at the same time, you better believe we were giving thanks to the Lord. They absolutely could have had schedules that lined up single every week…so the fact that we’ve had the first FOUR WEEKS of the season on alternating nights is nothing short of a Texas high school football miracle 😉 .
Needless to say, Happy Thursday Night Lights, friends!
Today here in blog world, it’s 10 RANDOM THINGS: SEPTEMBER EDITION!
You know the drill, I have a few random categories and am sharing random tidbits about each one
Here are 10 RANDOM {SEPTEMBER} THINGS …
10 Random Things My Kids Steal From Me
#1: MY PHONE CHARGER
I don’t understand what black hole my kids’ phone/MacBook/airpod chargers fall into, but it’s this dark vortex that clearly sucks them up daily because FOR THE LOVE they never know where theirs are and always take mine. And when I ask them “did you take my charger”, they always give me this blank look like “what is she asking me?”.
#2: MY STANLEYS
It doesn’t matter how many Stanleys or cute water bottles I buy my girls, they always walk out the door with mine. Did I take a Stanley-type cup to yoga today that has Frenchie’s face all over it because I couldn’t find mine? Yes. Yes, I did.
#3: MY LANEIGE
My girls love Laneige lip moisturizer as much as I do. You don’t know how many times I get cozy into bed at night with my Kindle and lean over to grab my lip balm only to find it’s missing.
#4: MY FLIP FLOPS
Last summer, Kensington discovered my Tkees on Nantucket and wore them every single day. This summer, I bought a second pair to take to Nantucket…and they became Ashby’s favorite shoe. In August, I saw them in the garage here in McKinney and asked Ashby what they were doing here (they live on Nantucket), she said, “they’re my favorite, so I brought them back”. I guess this next summer, I’m going to need to buy myself a third pair so that Mades can take those from me too.
#5: MY COZY BLANKETS
We love a cozy blanket around here. It doesn’t matter how many I buy, all my kiddos seem to gravitate towards the one I’m currently loving and/or bought for my office chair. One minute, it’s in my office…the next, it’s on their bed.
#6: MY PENS
I could buy my kids a thousand Flair pens, but for some reason, they always want the ones on my desk.
#7: HAIR TIES
It’s a wonder I ever have my hair in a ponytail. Any time I open the drawer with all of my hair stuff, there is nary a rubber band.
#8: MY PROTEIN BARS
Me: Buys a box of protein bars on a Tuesday afternoon that I am excited to try that week.
Also me: Goes to get a protein bar on Wednesday morning only to find the empty box.
#9: MY SWEATSHIRTS
Who knew I had the best collection of cozy sweatshirts? My girls knew. That’s why they’re currently wearing one to school right now.
#10: MY SHAMPOO
Is there anything more defeating than standing in the shower with wet hair when you reach over to get some shampoo only to realize the bottle is missing?
10 Bible Studies I Love
I shared on Saturday that I am currently working through…

#1: ESTHER by Kelly Minter
A sweet blog reader asked if I could share my favorite studies. This is certainly, certainly not a complete list, but should you want to dive into a Bible study this fall, here are some that stand out as my faves 🙂 .

#2: NEHEMIAH by Kelly Minter

#3: NO OTHER GODS (yup also by) Kelly Minter

#4: ADVENT by She Reads Truth
This is a great study leading up to Christmas!
#5: THE PATRIARCHS by Beth Moore
For the life of me, I cannot find mine to take a picture and share with you…AND IT’S MY FAVORITE! I have done this study three times over the last 20 years. I love it so much that I have placed my copy somewhere so special that I cannot find it. Sigh. It’s so good, y’all!

#6: DAVID by Beth Moore
This study here was the very first actual Bible study I did. This one changed my life. I have also completed it three times over the last 22 years. I did this study with a group of wives whose husbands also played for the Detroit Lions. We met every week during football season to work through this study, and it absolutely changed me, grew me, stretched me, and more than anything, gave me such a deep desire to study God’s word each day.

#7: BECOMING MOM STRONG by Heidi St. John

#8: A WOMAN’S HEART by Beth Moore

#9: NEVER ALONE BY Jeannie Cunnion

#10: MOM SET FREE by Jeannie Cunnion
10 THINGS I LOVE ABOUT SEPTEMBER

Well, I just happen to have a super cute graphic for this one 🙂 .
Yes, yes, and YES!
10 Top Travel Spots for 2027
I went in to see the most popular places my clients seem to be booking for 2027, and these seem to be ten of the most popular Mix and Match Travel Agency destinations (not necessarily in order)…

#1: WALT DISNEY WORLD

#2: JAPAN

#3: ALASKAN CRUISES

#4: ITALY

#5: LONDON & PARIS COMBO

#6: IRELAND

#7: COSTA RICA

#8: HAWAII

#9: CROATIA & GREECE COMBO

#10: CARIBBEAN CRUISES
10 TV Shows I Watched Growing Up
These are also in no particular order. I just typed up the first 10 that came to mind (and honestly, it’s an eclectic mix!).

#1: Cheers
What small child in the ’80s wasn’t watching Cheers?

#2: Saved By The Bell
Because I was going to grow up and become Mrs. Zach Morris.

#3: The Cosby Show
Has there ever been a better TV mom than Clair Huxtable?

#4: I Love Lucy
My grandparents had the complete set on VHS tapes…and I watched them allllllll on repeat.

#5: The Young and the Restless
Remember back in the ’80s and ’90s when we all watched soap operas? Every single day. Wild times.

#6: Family Matters
TGIF, baby! I loved this show!

#7: The Wonder Years
I wanted to grow up and name my daughter Winnie.

#8: Married with Children
My mom didn’t love this show, but my dad did…and we watched it every week together 🙂 .

#9: Roseanne
Were you even a child of the 80s/90s if you didn’t watch Roseanne?

#10: Home Improvement
Because Jonathan Taylor Thomas was my backup plan if I didn’t marry Mark Paul Gosselaar.
10 Fall Tops You Might Love
Just a little reminder that I’m loving these…



#3: THIS SWEATER

#4: THIS SWEATER

#5: THIS SWEATER

#6: THIS SWEATSHIRT


#8: THIS TEE

#9: THIS PLAID TOP

#10: THIS SWEATSHIRT
10 Random Pics From September 17ths on my Phone

09.17.16 Guangdong Museum while we were in China adopting Mades

09.17.17 Our Sign Wall

09.17.18 Who wouldn’t take a pic of that face?!

09.17.19 A pic of mine and Kensington’s feet, ha!

09.17.20 I’m assuming that was dinner?

09.17.21 I mean…how sweet are these two?!

09.17.22 Walt Disney World for Kensington’s 14th birthday!

09.17.23 That looks like the perfect Sunday afternoon to me!

09.17.24 My little tennis players 🙂 .

09.17.25 Our fabulous yard art!
And those are 10 RANDOM THINGS!
Happy happy Thursday, friends! I hope you all have the BEST day! I’ll see you tomorrow. xx






Natasha says
I was going to comment on things my kids steal from me (my nail clippers, hair elastics, my laundry baskets, my favourite water cup — yes, they have their own of all of these!!!), but now I’m just wondering how 12-year-old me had a favourite soap opera?!?!?! Because you are so right about that!
Emilee says
As a former Stanley tumbler girl, I’ve recently switched to Brumate cups and you must try! Mine has a covered, flip down straw, and the straw in the cup is stainless steel. Far superior to Stanley tumblers in my opinion! 😉
Elspeth Mizner says
These are some of my favorite posts! Happy Thursday!
http://www.elspethsdaybyday.com
Amanda Bockes says
Love this list! As an early 89s baby myself, I also loved to watch Growing Pains or anything on TGIF (had to love some Friday night tv) and Days of our lives. Our kids don’t know what they are missing 🤪. Thanks for the walk down memory lane this morning.
Alicia F says
The VERY best bible study that I have done (and I have done a LOT over the last 13 years!) is Jesus and Women by Kristi Mclelland. If you haven’t tried that one (or one of her studies) I highly recommend it. Hands down my very favorite.
Mix and Match Mama says
Thank you so so much for the rec!!
Paula Hobbs says
You’re in a no win situation with a house full of girls!! I could not imagine having “all the things” then left with “nothing” LOL!! I feel your pain on the blanket situation! My 16 year old son is a full on blanket thief!!! Great random things today!
Tamara says
Look in the kids’ rooms for that missing book! 😄
Lee Ann Vicary says
My first thought too – and wouldn’t it be a blessing if that’s were it was.
My daughter wore my size shoes for about a week in the 5th grade. My granddaughter is in the 4th and not quite there yet, but she had friends over this past weekend and I had decided it was time to get rid of some of the way to many flip flops I owe and two of her friends fit my size so that was helpful.
I am constantly returning hair clips and varies types of hair ties that my granddaughter has left at my house that I know she hijacked from her mom.
Allison says
Picturing Kensington being “Winnie” instead made me lol.
Beth Valenta says
Love all the sweet pics!
Kim says
Haha Y & R must be a Southern thing. I grew up in TX watching with both Great Grannies, both Grandma’s and my Mom…”the story is on”…time stops! Mom is still watching!!
Libby says
Ah, TV before it became political. The good ol’ days.
Callie says
I saw today that Home Improvement premiered on this day in 1991! How fitting it be in your list today! Also, it’s so fun looking at pictures “on this day”. I love doing that!
Katie Hahn says
So FUN! I was thinking the other day a fun post would be things you say or do in the “South” that might be different from the “Midwest.” I grew up in South Dakota and now live in Minnesota. We call everything a hotdish vs. a casserole, a pop is a pop not a soda, when we mess up we like to say “ope!” I always love to hear about different customs people like to use or differences in what you call things. So random but could be fun! Have a great Thursday!
Mix and Match Mama says
Okay, that post would be interesting and fun because dare I say…we don’t refer to ourselves as Southerners down here. We are “Texans” and people from the “south” are from Alabama, Georgia, etc. I bet we could get several different responses from different geographic areas! For instance, Andrew (who grew up in the Midwest) used to say “pop” where now (because he’s been heavily influenced) says “coke”. We would get some eclectic feedback!
Katie Hahn says
That’s so funny! See, I learned something already 😉 Andrew would definitely have to chime in with his midwest roots!
Alana says
Hahaha I loved the first group of 10 😂 all your descriptions made me lol. But honestly, it’s a compliment to you that they love your things! I love how you just roll with it & order more said stolen things.
K.K. says
The shows really took me BACK!! I love that your growing up included shows like I Love Lucy too. I’m around your age, and I think Nick at Nite was on our TV more than anything… (until Friday night, of course, and then it was TGIF!!)… Do you remember Balki on Perfect Strangers? ha ha ha
SS says
Shay,
I always think of my neighbor (who has passed) she would always make us and her kids popcorn to watch the Cosby show on Thursday nights. We watched Cheers as well. Also, I mean Slater wasn’t your back up plan? 😆I am a little older… 😆 JTT was too young for me… I just thought of you g Simba after the Lion King came out. 😆 Plus, Rim would always wear Michigan Colleges and went to WMU!
Our kiddo will send me pix from yrs past too. 2 yrs ago we had a wonderful Northern Lights show! Ugh..I hope we have more this fall!
Pamela G says
What a fun post!!! My favorite Bible Studies are: Seamless and Matchless by Angie Smith and Ruth by Kelly Minter…I have done a ton of them but these 3 stand out especially Ruth. Also in college, my roommates and I would schedule our classes around Young and Restless…haha
Mix and Match Mama says
Ruth is on my list!! I need to do that oe next!
Nicole Klaver says
Such a happy and fun post! Our boys are Detroit Lions obsessed! Football really does make fall so much sweeter. 🏈🍂 And I’ve never felt so cool with how much my daughter steals from me, haha! 🙃
Leslie says
We grew up with some great sitcoms. They just don’t make them like that anymore.
Kristen says
I think your next dog should be named Winnie! I remember being obsessed with that name back then too!
Mix and Match Mama says
Wouldn’t that be adorable?!
Susan P Fitzpatrick says
I have girls. I understand! 😅 I always loved a Thurs night football game because it meant our weekend was more free but I always felt bad for all the kids going back to school on Friday. Everyone looks like zombies. 😆
Mix and Match Mama says
We are alllllll going to be zombies tomorrow!
Jess W says
Such a great list of TV shows. Except I was a Days of our Lives girlie! Soap operas…just wow!
Patti K says
I love today’s post! Reading through those tv shows really took me down memory lane, so thank you for that ❤️. Also, wanted to let you know there are a group of ladies in our church going through the book Full Accessories of God: the Spirit’s Makeover for Women (it’s on Amazon) and we have only just started our Bible study but so far I love this book!
Also, I love your sign wall! I might need to copy this idea in our house.
Dana P says
Dana. Dana knew that you have quite the collection of cozy sweatshirts! 🙂
Also, have you tried the Built Puff bars?! They are so so good! I bought a bunch with their welcome code and had friends bring them over. And then just like you…my daughter swiped several of them, including the very last one I had!
Mix and Match Mama says
I have seen them, but I’ve never tried them. I need to buy me one! I saw they had pumpkin spice!
Dana P says
I haven’t tried that one! The peanut butter cup was my gateway, but they’re all good! I think I liked the coconut one a little less, just FYI. I haven’t tried any of the fruit ones either.
Faith says
My married daughter still steals, er I mean borrows one of my sweatshirts when she is in town visiting.
My soap opera was Days of Our Lives. I miss the sitcom days of the 80s and 90s. Facts of Life, Gimme a Break, Growing Pains (I was going to be Mrs. Cameron)….Silver Spoons…:I could go on and on.
Sarah DeWald says
Love them all! I’m going to work on the Advent devotional this year. And that Alaska family looks like they were having a fun time 😉 (hahaha – I was never so happy to be back on the ground!)
Arika says
Growing Pains and Who’s the Boss were my faves as a kid. I’m a few years older than you, so maybe you didn’t quite catch these. But wow, they defined my childhood.
Mix and Match Mama says
Oh my gosh, YES! I watched both of those religiously!! Goodness, I would binge them both if I could find them right now.
Jessica Shobe says
I love Kelly Minter bible studies. I am currently doing her Finding God Faithful study and it’s so good.
Sharon says
If I were you I would keep my office locked with your charger, flair pens, hair ties, blanket, protein bars, etc. in there. It would drive me crazy if my kids took my things.
Tish says
Love this post! I have one girl and 3 boys and my daughter always took ALL the things! But now with 3 boys, my husband is experiencing the missing items! haha!
Shay, how do you handle additional bible studies along with doing Bible Recap work book too every day? I have added in the Bible Recap study guide this year and really love it. But, I will say I miss doing other bible studies on individual people or topics. Do you do both every day? If so, about how long would you guess you spend on Bible Recap and your other bible study together?
Mix and Match Mama says
Good question! I do my Bible Recap every day and then, I’ll do a little bit of another more in-depth study as well. Most of my Bible studies are “five days a week”, so I don’t complete an entire day each actual day…I do about half to 3/4 so when you add in the weekend, I can finish five days worth of Bible studying. Does that make sense? Total, I spend *about* 20 minutes on TBR and then 20 on a Bible study.
Tish says
This makes perfect sense and helps so much! I think the Type A in me wants to do “all the things” the “correct” way and sometimes my brain doesn’t pivot. This is a great idea to add in another bible study. Thank you so much for the help, Shay!
Laci Murray says
the tv shows took me down memory lane! JTT, Joey Lawrence, Zack all were my childhood crush.
Chelsie says
As a mom of two daughters, I felt the top list. Nothing I own is actually mine anymore. The best part is when I ask where something is and somehow no one has seen it. I complain about it now, but I already know someday I’ll miss them wanting all of my things.
Amber says
Hey Shay! Did you not just post you’re starting to play mahjong with your neighbors. Why are you letting it go so quickly?
Mix and Match Mama says
I went to a lesson in my neighborhood, yes! I loved it. I don’t know that this is the season for me to really dive in and learn and play though. I left that night with all of my notes and info wanting to play more often but right now, there is just nothing in my schedule I would swap for that. Maybe another season?
Laura Fuller says
Oh My word, my Papa would come home from deer hunting to watch his bestie Victor! Our Mama would tell us not to watch it and take a nap instead (yeah right) since it was considered ‘trashy.’ She had to know we watched it anyway but we did not tell and neither did Granny & Papa. The soaps of the 80’s were much cleaner than most shows streaming these days…
Leigh says
After way too many phone charger chats, I ordered this (I don’t know these people so not a plug) and put a picture from a trip to Ireland of me standing in front of a danger sign. It turns out that an embarrassing photo of mama is a deterrent to phone chargers disappearing!!
https://www.etsy.com/listing/1488043480/custom-photo-wireless-charger-15w-qi?ls=s&ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=custom+phone+charger+with+photo&ref=sr_gallery-1-1&sr_prefetch=1&pf_from=market&pro=1&sts=1&content_source=479fdb2a-0bee-462a-9c71-fd53d8bb4196%253ALT7ea423ba408b1b5c93ecca790b714a294f02fd3f&organic_search_click=1&logging_key=479fdb2a-0bee-462a-9c71-fd53d8bb4196%3ALT7ea423ba408b1b5c93ecca790b714a294f02fd3f
Beth Knecht says
Thank you for the Bible Study Recommendations! I’m going to add that Advent one to my Amazon cart! Thank you!!
Mix and Match Mama says
I think you will love it!
WhittyWife (Lindsay) says
Who’s The Boss is on Disney+ – I loved that show!
I’m finishing up the Jesus and Women study now (someone else recommended it above), and I’m blown away by how interesting/informative/inspiring it is. The homework is lighter, but it’s chalk full of goodness. I can’t recommend it enough; I’ve been telling all my friends! And I also loved all those Beth Moore studies. ❤️
Also, we wouldn’t have been friends decades ago – Jonathan Taylor Thomas was MY intended. 🤣😉