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What’s Up Wednesday {01.29.20}


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I just deleted my entire post.

In case you’re wondering, it’s 11:45 AM on TUESDAY (just to keep things in order here),… and I was about to head to the airport and fly to LA to be on Hallmark Home & Family tomorrow (it would have aired on Thursday) when Andrew called to say that he needs emergency bicep and shoulder surgery (from an injury that occurred on Sunday).  First thing tomorrow morning.  I just spent the past 15 minutes cancelling my whole life and now, he’s having surgery tomorrow (Wednesday, the day you’re reading this).  And then bonus, Ashby is having surgery on Thursday.  So, I already had my post scheduled for tomorrow (your today), but when I came to delete all of the “I’m in LA” stuff, I just decided to delete it all and say this…I’m out until Monday. If you blogged WUW with Sheaffer and me, thank you so much and please link up.

I am going to take care of my people this week and then touch base with you next week.  You know what the Bible says, you can make your plans…but the Lord determines our steps.  Your prayers are always appreciated. xo Shay

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  4. Carly says

    So many prayers for all of you Shay. For everything is a season and this too shall pass. I hope you can lean on your sweet family and community to help you in the coming days.

  7. Kelly Strylowski says

    Sending you love while you go through this rough patch in this crazy life…praying always! Hang in there mama! ?

  8. Holley@BeeSimplyOrganized.com says

    Wow, Shay. God bless you. You guys have had your fair share of medical stuff this year, to say the least. Praying for you today. And tomorrow. Thank you for always setting a good example of great professionalism on your blog and showing that it’s ok to post something so simple like this. You are the best!

  15. Carrie says

    Sending prayers today for your dear patients and for you as you care for them this week. Just remember that God is in that operating room, working through the medical team and He will be with you as you anxiously wait for the procedures to be over. I hope you feel His comfort and love, and we will be praying for His great healing in the days to come. You’ve GOT this, Mama!

  16. Stephanie Stump says

    “I know God will not give me anything I can’t handle, I just wish that He did not trust me so much” Mother Teresa

  17. Bronte Reed says

    Prayers for everyone! Especially you, Ashby, and Andrew. Specifically that Andrew recovers well and that Ashby is not sick after her procedure. Love to you all!

  19. Jodie Kingsbury says

    Praying for Andrew and Ashby for their surgeries to be successful and have a great recovery.
    Prayers also for you in this stressful time.

  21. Annie says

    Prayers for healing. Prayers for strength. Prayers for peace. Take care of your family and also let people take care of you.

  22. Casey says

    Oh goodness prayers for sure!!! You’ve got this mama!!! Prayers for everyone’s quick healing and prayers for you…your strength, patience, stamina…He’s got this!!!

  24. Jill says

    Sending prayers and positive vibes for good surgeries and speedy healing for Andrew and Ashby. And sending prayers and positive vibes to you as you care for them, it’s a tough business.

  27. Ramona Puckett says

    Oh bless your heart! Take care and we’ll look forward to reading your posts next week! Surrounding all of y’all with love and prayers ❤️

  28. Lydia says

    Goodness gracious, Shay! You are walking through some tough times. Your family will be in my prayers. Hang in there!!! God’s got you.

  30. Amy Heinl says

    Sending prayers your way for both Andrew’s and Ashby’s surgeries. May they be comforted by God’s healing hands

  33. Amber says

    Girl! You guys have had quite a season of injuries, surgeries and health challenges. Praying for you and your family. You are setting a great example to all of us reading to put our people first. Take your time.

  34. Angela Ellingson says

    So sorry about the needed surgeries! Glad you can be there for your family. Prayers.

  36. Melody says

    Praying for your family! What a blessing it is that you can step away and focus on your family when they need you.

  37. Jackie says

    oh Shay, I’m so sorry. I hope Andrew and Ashby’s surgeries go well this week. Thinking of you and all your people and wishing them both a speedy recovery. God Bless. XO

  39. Brandye says

    Oh no! Prayers for all of the above. They say timing is everything, but God’s grace and mercy are higher.

  42. Amy St.Hilaire says

    Oh Shay… your family has had a challenging few months! Thinking of all of you and hoping all goes well for Andrew and Ashby this week. <3

  43. Ashley says

    Prayers Shay. I always love your posts but never comment but today just felt like I needed to verbalize that prayers are headed your way. For you and all of your family, as you have all been hit with a lot lately. You are a strong family with a great support system; just take a deep breath and know you can get through it!

  45. Heather says

    Oh Shay! Praying for your family this week! What a season you guys have had (if my memory serves me, dear Smith is now the ONLY Shull who hasn’t had a significant medical procedure/test done in the past few months… ugh!) You are surrounded by prayer and may God grant you all peace and unexpected joy in the midst of the chaos.

  47. Maryann says

    Oh my goodness! What a trying time this has been for you and your family these last few months. I love that verse, and it’s the what I keep telling myself, also. As well as, “To everything there is a season, and time for every purpose under heaven.” Ecc. 3:1. It helps me keep perspective when I’m overwhelmed. Keeping you all in prayer!

  49. Jill says

    Your plate just seems to continue to fill up and overflow with difficult circumstances. I read this verse this morning and thought I would share it with you: “Now may the Lord of peace Himself give you peace always in every way. The Lord be with you all.” Praying for abundant peace for you and your family!

  50. Taylor says

    Oh my goodness, I’m so sorry!! You guys have just had a rough several months. Praying, praying for Andrew’s surgery to go smoothly, for Ashby’s surgery to go smoothly and that they would both have smooth, easy recoveries! Big hugs, Mama!!!

  51. Emily W. says

    Oh boy! Some seasons of life just seem like too much. I believe you’re fully immersed in that season. Praying for you and your family! Your faith is always an inspiration and encouragement! Hang in there Mama!

  53. Kate says

    Oh Shay! I’m so sorry. You have had a tough go. Sending prayers for your entire crew ❤️❤️

  54. Kelly says

    Praying for Andrew and Ashby’s surgeries and you as you care for your family! Sorry you had to bag the trip to LA but hope you can reschedule sometime soon.

  55. Kelly W. says

    Take all of the time you need, we are here supporting you and praying for you and your family. I am so sorry for all of the difficulties you and your family have been through and are still going through. God Bless.

  57. Jen says

    Sending you all the good vibes, mojo, juju… all of it. This season shall pass. You’ve got this.

  58. Charmaine Ng | Architecture & Lifestyle Blog says

    Dang, did I miss your post? I hope Andrew’s alright – praying for the best for your family! ❤️✨

    Charmaine Ng | Architecture & Lifestyle Blog
    http://charmainenyw.com

  59. DONELLA DULWORTH says

    Shay, I just poured my heart our to our Almighty God, I am asking him for healing for Andrew, Ashby, you and the other children peace and comfort in all that is going on around you. Praying also for my cousins and your parents also for God to give them peace as I know how hard this is on parents and grandparents, I am also asking God to stop Satan in his tracks and give you the strength to say ” Not Today, Satan, Our God has got this! Love and prayers

  61. Robin says

    Oh Shay, my heart goes out to you. You have been dealing with so much lately. Praying for all of you.

  62. Kathy says

    Praying for a safe and successful surgery for Andrew today, and also for Ashby tomorrow. I look forward to hearing that all went very well when you are able to post again next week.

  65. Donna mason says

    Dear Shay. You have been through SO much recently and I am a long time reader, rarely comment….but wanted you to know you are in my prayers and thoughts as well as your entire family.

  67. Keesha says

    Bless your heart, Shay. Your family has been through a lot lately. At times like this it is so wonderful to know the Lord is in control. It doesn’t mean it is easy, though. I will be praying for your sweet family.

  68. Katrina says

    Praying for your family & the doctors. Prayers for a speedy recovery & a peace that surpasses all understanding!!

  70. Colleen says

    Such a wise move. I can’t imagine having all that go on at once in my family and so smart to just go focus on them. Hope everyone has a safe recovery and thinking of you and your family.

  71. Danielle says

    Oh my goodness Shay! Hang in there. You all have been through so much lately. Lots of prayers for peace and healing this week. My heart hurts for your sweet family. You help so many mamas. I wish we could all fly to Texas to help you!

  74. Chelsea says

    Sending many prayers for you and your family, Shay! You are right where you need to be. xoxo

  75. Suzie Scherbenske says

    Oh Shay, I will be praying for your family, that both surgeries will go super well. Our family is going through the same thing, One thing after another, and it can be so stressful. But I know that Jesus is holding all of you in His able and loving hands. ???

  76. Kristen says

    Bless your heart-all the prayers for Jesus to sustain you and for successful surgeries and quick recoveries for your loves.

  77. Lisa says

    Prayers for your family, and you Shay. Some seasons are just a lot. I admire your ability to find the humor in it all, or so it seems, and keep looking to God.

  79. Brittany says

    Mamma mia, girlfriend… You’ve had quite the season. Prayers for Andrew and for y’all that this hectic time passes soon.

  80. Nat says

    I am a lurker and not a blog commenter, but I’ve been following your blog for a few years and just wanted to let you know you and your family have my thoughts and prayers. Best wishes for everyone in your corner of the world.

  81. Jennifer says

    Bless your heart! Dropping everything & praying now. Being a caretaker is exhausting & draining. Take care of yourself, too.

  83. Beverly Byerly says

    You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers! You are right, we can make plans but the Lord knows our steps. The Lord will be with you thru this journey God Bless!

  84. Angela says

    Sending prayers for the surgeries to go as planned, for their recoveries and for you as you care for them well!

  88. Lindsay @ Lindsay's Sweet World says

    My gosh, Shay. I’m so sorry to hear about more medical issues for y’all. Keep your chin up, lady. Your family is in my prayers.

  89. Tiff says

    Oh wow, I’m so sorry to hear this news Shay. Will be praying for speedy recoveries for Andrew and Ashby and strength for you and the kids.

  91. Talitha says

    Oh Shay, thank you for your testimony “the Lord orders your steps”! Yes, He does, and although your steps have seemed to be on shaky ground lately, you have the assurance, peace and joy that He is in control, He has gone before you, He is right there with you and will never leave you or forsake you! I join your many followers continuing to pray for your precious family. Your corner of the internet makes a difference!

  92. Dawn Richardson says

    Good heavens! When it rains it pours right? Thinking of Andrew, Ashby and the rest of your sweet family. Prayers up for all!

  93. audra wray says

    Oh Shay. I am so sorry for all that has been thrown your family’s way lately. Many prayers!!!

  94. Sandi Kellman says

    Prayers prayers prayers. Healing prayers and strength prayers for you sweet mama. May the lord give you extra help this week. God bless you all

  95. Michelle O says

    Prayers for your whole family!!! Family comes first. Take care and we will connect on Monday.

  98. Valerie Patton says

    My goodness, Shay, I am praying for your family. Sometimes life is just plain hard, but you guys have had more than your fair share lately. Cling to Jesus one day at a time. You are loved!

  99. Valerie Patton says

    Shay, I just read this portion of a devotion written by Janet Denison, and I thought of you.

    “Ephesians 6:10 says, “Finally, be strong in the Lord and in the strength of his might.”

    It’s okay to feel like your cup runneth under. God actually designed our bodies and souls to run on the strength of his might. He wanted us to need him.”

  102. Cheryl Cramer says

    Oh Shay my thoughts and prayers are with all of you. God must have a huge blessings coming to you and your family.
    Yes please take care of your family and yourself. Remember to take time for you also. God has all of you in His hands.
    Take as long as you need. We will all still be here praying and waiting for your return.
    Hugs and blessings

  104. Lacey S says

    I never comment, but this is one thing I really admire about you that you put your family first admits some really neat opportunities your blog affords you! I hope the surgery goes well. I know you guys have been through a lot the last six months.

  105. Mary Merrill says

    Sending prayers….you guys need a break! I also follow someone else on Instagram and thought of you as 2 out of her 4 kids have Celiac and she went GF recently. Anyway just wanted to pass it along as she shares some tips.

    https://cottonstem.com/

  106. Giang says

    Praying for smooth surgeries and recoveries and for joy and strength in the days to come for your family.

  111. Jeanie says

    Prayers for successful outcomes from both surgeries and for strength for everyone involved. Wishing you all the best. You’ve had a raw couple of months, Shay. Thank God for getting you through it all.

  112. Gina says

    Praying for your sweet Ashby as well as your family. I pray strength and peace for you and your family.

  113. Alyson says

    Prayers for you and your precious family. It has most definitely been A LOT for all of you and I’m sure you are weary. Praying God’s strength and peace for you to come through this week. I admire the way you have kept pointing people to Jesus in this season!

  116. Prudence says

    I am sending prayers to the entire Shull family. It’s been a very tough couple of months for your family. Sending prayers and healing thoughts to you all. ?? ??

  117. Deb says

    Oh Shay, how much more can one family handle? I’m sorry for all your struggles and will be thinking of you and wishing for speedy recoveries.

  118. Sandy Blitch says

    When it rains it pours! Prayers for all the patients, for doctors hands and especially for you, the manager of all of it!

  120. Janet says

    I will be praying for all of you as you deal with the surgeries this week. Your family has been on a roller coaster lately. Hope Andrew and Ashby have quick recoveries. May you feel His presence blessing you with His strength, healing, and love. God Bless.

  121. Liz Thorson says

    Oh my goodness, Shay! I am so sorry to learn that Andrew had to undergo emergency surgery, Ashby has and yet another procedure tomorrow and your time in Los Angeles on TV had to be canceled! You are such a pillar of strength and love! Your family could not be luckier! I hope Andrew’s surgery went well and that Ashby’s will not be to difficult for her to recover.
    Much love, courage and faith that easier, pain free days are ahead!

  122. Shanna Corn says

    What a crazy 6+ months you guys have had! Prayers for Andrew & Ashby as they head into surgery & for you as you well.
    God bless all of you!

  123. Angela Jernigan says

    I have a crazy story. I saw on Instagram that your husband ruptured his bicep tendon. My husband had the same injury. But he is VERY stubborn and hard headed, and refused to have it fixed! (Crazy) Well, he lived with it for about five months and finally realized that he couldn’t really function (he is a high school Athletic Director and football coach) without the use of his right arm, so he decided to have the surgery. By this time, his tendon was unrepairable and his bicep was completely balled up and nowhere near where it should have been. They had to use a cadaver’s achilles tendon to repair his. The cost was triple what it would have been and the recovery and rehab much, much worse than if he would have just had it immediately fixed like he should have done! Good luck to Andrew (and You!) on his recovery and prayers that things get a little easier on your family. But in the grand scheme thing of things, we know God is good, all the time!

    • Mix and Match Mama says

      I’m so sorry for your husband!!! Andrew’s doctor insisted it couldn’t wait, so thank you for reinforcing that. Right now, I’m a little “agh!” but I’m thankful he’s had it done.

  124. Amy says

    Shay and Family,

    Thank you for sharing your life with us. You’ve been through so much. Just wanted to let you know that through it all, you guys are amazing and you have inspired so many of us with your thoughts and tips, etc. You have thousands rooting for you and thinking of you at this time. May God continue to lift you up during this tough, tough season. xo

  125. Kim says

    Oh my goodness – what a stretch you guys have had. Saying prayers for your family today. Hoping the surgeries went well.

  126. Grace says

    We are all here for you, however you show up. And breaks are okay. Take as long as you need. We will all still be here and completely understand when some things just need to drop off for a bit to focus on priorities. Much love and prayers your way!! xx

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