Hey, hey, hey, it’s What’s Up Wednesday!
If you don’t know what that is…on the last Wednesday of every month, Sheaffer and I host this little linky party where we share what’s going on with us right now. It’s a little food, a little family, a little what we’re wearing, a little what we’re doing, a little what we’re watching and a little bit of everything else all in one post.
Grab your iced coffee and settle in as we see “what’s up” here on this July 29th 🙂 .
We are eating all the fresh seafood.
Sushi.
Lobster.
Scallops.
Crab.
Tuna.
We are eating ALL of it.
These two are about to be a JUNIOR and a SENIOR in high school!
Stop it right now.
I took this pic a few weeks before Kensington started kindergarten. A lot of life has happened between now and then, but goodness, it feels like yesterday.
It is HARD to find a photo of me not wearing…
…a necklace from Love Shack (Lola) here on Nantucket (and my girls too!)…
…I get asked about them all the time…
…I have been buying them for years, and I mix and match the pieces every day…
…if you have been curious about them…
…you can find THEIR ONLINE SHOP if you can’t make it to Nantucket.
If you do make it to Nantucket, they are open during the summer season and you will LOVE their cute little shop!
Somehow I blinked and…
…this cutie grew to be a big 16 year old boy who…
…took me on his own little boat to TUCKERNUCK ISLAND!
Four years ago when we first started living on Nantucket over the summer season, Smith and I went on an “adventure” at the end of the summer. We had so much fun that we do it each year now. We always pick something different (we don’t repeat), and we always explore something new/go somewhere kind of remote and spend the day together.
This year, Smith is a boat owner, and he has been telling me since the end of May that our adventure was going to be boating over to Tuckernuck Island…
He was very very confident that on a great weather day, we would have no issues getting over there. We have several friends here who are locals and work in commercial boating/fishing on Nantucket. They all were encouraging him, giving him their best tips, routes, time of day…it has been very sweet this summer to see these men (who own and operate BIG commercial boats) build up a boy with a nine foot inflatable dinghy. On Monday, even as we were getting our boat fixed up and ready to take out of the harbor, a captain pulled up and docked next to our dinghy. He was whistling and smiling and chatting with us, and when Smith told him our plans he said “it is a beautiful day to head to Tuckernuck”. I just love seeing these guys (this one a stranger) encouraging a young boy who is trying to learn how to captain a boat.
Tuckernuck Island is incredibly remote. From what I understand, almost all of the homeowners on this island have other homes on Nantucket. These are *bonus* places. There are only a handful of houses, and they all run on generators. There is no power on Tuckernuck. No actual roads. Not one shop or post office or anything. This is a deserted island with a handful of people who have (somehow?!) built a handful of homes (because really, I don’t understand the logistics of building houses over there!). It’s a little island with not much on it right off the western end of Nantucket.
That’s Tuckernuck across the ocean.
Side note: Smith told me I was on “depth duty”. I actually put myself on shark duty instead.
We see seals all the time on Nantucket, but on this day, I saw more than I’ve ever seen…all so up close and personal.
Our first stop was this beachy area on the far eastern end of Tuckernuck. It only took us about 45 minutes to get from the Madaket Marina to here…
…we made it! We touched down on Tuckernuck!
I felt like Christopher Columbus. Bahahaha!
This first spot was very beachy.
We took a little stroll and decided to…
…head north instead…
…to this part of the island. See the houses?
We anchored our boat and walked to shore…
…this part of the island had a rockier coastline.
…here we are! See us!
We walked up the hill and look at the views…
…just so pretty, right?!
We were excited to explore a bit.
There was a sandy road at the top of this little hill. One direction looked back over the ocean where we had just come from…
…and the other direction looked like this…
We decided to follow this little road…
…off we went. Barefoot, of course 😉 .
We saw several houses after about a mile walk up this road. At this house, a dog barked at us and we waved to a woman in the doorway. We saw about eight other people out and about working some property. They were cutting down trees and doing some yard work. I bet I counted about fifteen different cars parked in various spots. I have no idea how those cars got to this island…the whole thing was really fascinating to me.
Views for days.
Old Glory flying over Tuckernuck.
We spent about an hour exploring and then headed back…
…to our little boat.
On the trip back over to Nantucket…
…we saw a lot of horseshoe crabs…
…we anchored and went for a swim on a sandbar…
…and we saw the largest group of seals we’ve ever seen. They were watching us watch them.
And that was our adventure to Tuckernuck.
Next year is going to be hard to top 🙂 .
You will not be surprised to read that I am dreading going from…
…this to…
…this.
Sigh.
You know me well enough to know that as much as I don’t want summer to end, I am very excited about BACK TO SCHOOL SEASON!
It really is 🙂 .
I fully believe that even when I don’t have kids in school, I will still get excited about school starting back up. For me, it’s even better than the January 1st refresh/new year/new beginning.
It’s SHARK WEEK and we have been…
…watching it all.day.long.
We LOVE Shark Week.
We haven’t watched anything else. Ha!
Like I just said…
…Shark Week 😉 .
Well for starters, DRESSES on repeat this summer…
I love THIS NAVY & SKY BLUE DRESS! Love. Also, my earrings are HERE.
A TEE SHIRT DRESS for the win! It comes in solids too, but I loved the stripe!
A DRESS WITH SEASHELLS? Yes, please! I love that they’re embroidered on the dress.
How adorable is THIS DRESS?! So so cute, right?
How many times have I shared THIS DRESS with you? It is my very very favorite LBD, and it absolutely goes back and forth with me. It’s loose fitting yet not too baggy, it has deep pockets, it does not wrinkle, it’s so comfortable, it comes in a wide variety of colors, and it’s only $32. Love, love, LOVE.
THIS SKIRT was a summertime fave! I typically try and keep Nantucket clothes on Nantucket and McKinney clothes in McKinney, but this skirt is FOR SURE coming back to Texas with me. It is so soft and like wearing a pair of sweatpants or shorts…but it’s a skirt. It comes in SO MANY other colors too!
THIS TOP legit says SUMMER! You won’t believe how many compliments you receive when wearing it. I am wearing it with my FAVORITE TENNIS SKIRT.
THIS TENNIS SKIRT is blue and white with whales. A Nantucket “must”!
And if you’re looking for athletic wear that looks SO SUPER CUTE…
…these are THE CUTEST SHORTS! Can you believe they’re actually ATHLETIC SHORTS?! They’re lined, they have pockets, they’re comfy…love.
Soaking up the last bits of Nantucket.
As sad as we are that summer on Nantucket is coming to an end, there is SO MUCH GOODNESS ahead in August including…
…Friday Night Lights in Texas 🙂 .
Friends, on Monday, it will be the 19TH ANNIVERSARY OF MY BLOG.
Nineteen years!
Doing anything consistently for 19 years is something to be proud of and to celebrate. I’m not celebrating alone though because I could NOT DO THIS WITHOUT YOU. Period. End of story. The only reason this blog is turning 19 years old is because YOU. I don’t care who you are or what your story is or why you come to my site…but your time is valuable, life really is very short, and you will never get these minutes of your day that you spend here reading about my family back. This is valuable time you’re spending, and I know you don’t have unlimited time, so thank you. Thank you, thank you, thank you for stopping by. I am humbled and honored and grateful for each and every one of you. Truly, I am.
How does someone spend their 19th anniversary of blogging? By not blogging 😉 .
I’ve done this long enough to know that there are some moments when you need to step away, and that’s my plan beginning today. I am going to take Thursday through Monday off to enjoy my last days on Nantucket with my family, and then I will be back with you on Tuesday, August 4th for our July Book Review.
Again, THANK YOU for being here with me these 19 years. You showing up here has forever changed my family’s life. Sending you all so much love and gratitude. xx Shay
Elspeth Mizner says
19 years!!! What an accomplishment! Thank you for taking us along for the journey! Enjoy the time off!
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Mix and Match Mama says
Elspeth, thank you so much. I am always so grateful when I see your name each day. xx
Amy Owens says
Enjoy your last few days! We found it hard to leave after four days, can’t imagine after another wonderful family summer how hard it will be. Thank you for sharing with us daily. I haven’t been here 19 years, but I’d say close to 14!
Diane Moore says
What a jam-packed post! Tuckernuck to back to school to blog anniversary! Very fun to read.
Congratulations on “our” anniversary 🎉🥳🎊🎉🥳🎊🎉🥳🎊🎉🎊🎉🥳🎊🎉🥳🎊👏
I’ve been here many years and I very much enjoy starting my day with you 💕
Mix and Match Mama says
Thank you, Diane. I wouldn’t be here each day without YOU! xx
Dustie says
Just love this bright spot with my coffee in the AM! Happy 19!
Mix and Match Mama says
Thank you, Dustie! I am grateful for you being here! xx
K.K. says
Shay, congrats on 19!!!! Wow, that’s amazing!!!
And I love your adventure with Smith! What a great tradition.
Enjoy your long weekend!
Mix and Match Mama says
Thank you, Karen! I have been so blessed by you all these years. xx
Jami Romano says
What an amazing adventure with your sweet, handsome boy! Congrats on 19 years… I have loved checking your piece of the Internet every morning. It’s almost like my Bible. ◡̈ thank you for sharing your positivity, honesty, and love with us each day.
Mix and Match Mama says
Thank you, Jami! I am so very grateful for YOU. xx
Dana P says
ahhh…congratulations on 19 years!!! That really is quite the accomplishment. I honestly don’t remember when I first started reading your blog, but I think it was maybe 2013 when I was pregnant with our last baby? You have been such an inspiration to me over the years. So so thankful you’ve stayed the course! Enjoy these last beautiful days on Nantucket. It looks amazing!
Mix and Match Mama says
Dana, I so so grateful for YOU and your friendship. xx
Marybeth says
Thank you for all you do, Shay! Happy 19th!
Mix and Match Mama says
Thank you, thank you, thank you for being here each day, Marybeth! xx
Laura says
Happy 19 Years! I love reading along every morning – you and your blog are a bright spot at the beginning of each day!
Mix and Match Mama says
Thank you so much, Laura! I’m so blessed to have you here! xx
Scarlett says
Do you and Smith still do YMSL?
Mix and Match Mama says
No, we retired 😉 .
Nicole says
Congrats to 19 years!!!!! I have been following along as a daily reader for 11 years. Thank you for sharing your life with us. You are a true joy and a highlight to my morning. Because of you I am a Colleen Rothschild fan, better book reader and deeper in my faith. Sending you much love and genuine gratitude for your days off.
Mix and Match Mama says
Sending YOU so much love, Nicole! Thank you so much for being here with me! xx
Grace says
Congratulations on 19 years of blogging! I remember when I first came to your blog because of the bundt cake recipes and cake bars! Still love all the recipes, from baking to the crockpot dishes. As your content has evolved over the years to other topics, it feels so nice to find a nice spot on the internet where we treat others kindly and can relate to one another. Cheers to 19 years!
Mix and Match Mama says
Cheers to YOU being here, Grace! I am so very grateful you came for bundt cakes and stayed for the rest. xx
Kathy says
What a beautiful trip with your son! It’s something he’ll always remember.
Congratulations on your 19th anniversary of blogging. I’m not sure when I found you and Sheaffer, but it’s been several years now that I’ve been reading you both. You’re definitely a bright spot in my daily life. And also, I don’t have kids in school anymore, but I do still get excited for back to school and watch the kids walk to the bus stop and pray for them. It’s definitely a thing that doesn’t end. Have a blessed and beautiful day. T
Mix and Match Mama says
Thank YOU so much, Kathy. I am so so grateful for YOU! xx
Paige E says
I have a kinda dumb question. I grew up going to the beach all the time and swimming in the ocean and never once even considered a shark situation. Being a mom, a lot changes and with that comes more fear. 🙁 Do you ever worry about sharks when you are enjoying the beach, or is it one of those things you just can’t get crazy thinking about ALL THE THINGS and you be aware but push through and enjoy the time? Am I the only crazy one? God and I are battling a lot of my fear right now, so its just one on the list.
Mix and Match Mama says
I’m not much of a worrier, so it’s not something I really think about. Here on Nantucket, the beaches with life guards raise flags and close beaches if there is a fin spotting (not all beaches have life guards), so it always makes me feel better that eyes are out watching.
Pamela G says
THANK YOU so so much for blogging all these years! I have followed since Smith was a baby and I have so enjoyed watching your family grow up. I always start my day with Jesus, Shay, and Andrea 😀 I am so appreciative of all your hard work…your blog brings alot of joy to the world
Mix and Match Mama says
Pam, thank you, thank you! I am so very grateful for YOU!xx
Laura Holmes says
Congratulations on your 19 years! Love your blog and will keep coming back as long as you’re writing it.
Mix and Match Mama says
Laura, I’m so thankful for YOU! You have been here a very long time. xx
Gina Gryzlo says
Happy 19th Blogging Anniversary! 🎉
You’ve been such a special part of my daily routine for many years. Reading your blog is the very first thing I do when I start my workday, and it’s become one of my favorite parts of the day.
Over the years, I’ve made countless recipes, discovered wonderful books, found beauty and fashion favorites, learned valuable life and family lessons, and been inspired by so many creative party ideas—all thanks to your blog.
Thank you for the time, effort, and heart you put into sharing your life and passions with us. Congratulations on 19 amazing years, and here’s to many more! ❤️
Mix and Match Mama says
Gina, goodness, THANK YOU SO MUCH! I am truly so very grateful for you. xx
Marlee says
Someone introduced me to your blog about ten years ago, and at first I thought we just don’t have much in common…we are too poor to travel, we live in Canada where it’s cold 99.9 percent of the year, and we have no family who live close by (that choose to connect anyway). But I kept reading and found that we have so much more in common than I realized. Your love for God, your family, your joy, gratitude, and effort to find beauty in the little things every day can resonate with all of us, not matter our lifestyles. And I’ve been faithfully reading ever since. Thank you for sharing daily joy with all of us.
Mix and Match Mama says
Oh wow, thank YOU for sharing, Marlee. I am so grateful you are here with me each day. So so grateful for my Canadian friends! xx
Paula Hobbs says
What a sweet sweet day with your sweet boy!! That just makes my mama heart so happy!! Enjoy your next few days! I’m always sad when you I don’t see your daily posts, but I have the upmost respect for the time you take to savor it with the people you love most! Have a great weekend, everyone!!
Melanie Countryman says
Congratulations on 19 years!
Love reading your blog!
What a GREAT summer for your family!
Making memories!
Karleigh Johnson says
Happy 19th anniversary Shay! Been reading am for about 11 years and it’s been fun watching your family grow, evolve, and adventure. I started reading before I had any children and now I have an almost 5 year old and a 17 month old. I find a lot of inspiration in your parenting and how you make everything magical for your kids. My mom did that for us, and I always knew I wanted to do it too, so thank you for tips and ideas!
Mix and Match Mama says
Oh sweet Karleigh, you are always one of my faves. Thank YOU for being here with me.xx
JoAnne L says
Wow, 19 years. I remember when you celebrated ten years, time flies. Thank you to you, friend. I have read so many of the books that you’ve reviewed, listened to podcasts that you’ve shared, and dreamed about visiting places that you’ve traveled to. Congratulations to you, and your family for being willing to share themselves with all of us.
Mix and Match Mama says
Thank you, thank you, JoAnne! I am so grateful for YOU! xx
Kristen says
Wow 19 yrs, I feel old! I remember all your posts when K was going into Kindergarten! The highlight of my day is waking up , drinking my coffee and reading this blog! Thanks for sharing your life with us.
Mix and Match Mama says
The ultimate compliment to me. Thank you so much, Kristen!
Kristen Sass says
Congratulations on 19 years! Your blog has always been a happy place for me to come to no matter what I have going on in life. I love my Love Shack Lola necklace! I wear it every day since I grabbed one when I was on Nantucket.
Mix and Match Mama says
Oh Kristen, I am so happy that I met you this summer! Thank YOU for being here! xx
WhittyWife (Lindsay) says
19 years!! I’ve been reading regularly for at least 13 years, since 2013. What a blessing you are to me – even from afar.
Wishing you 19 more years of joy and blogging, from my little corner of Maine! 😊🩷🩷
Mix and Match Mama says
Lindsay, thank you so much. I am truly so grateful for YOU! xx
Susan P Fitzpatrick says
What a fun little adventure to Tuckernuck with your boy! 😊 Congratulations on 19 years of blogging!! ❤️
Mix and Match Mama says
Thank YOU, Susan!! xx
Stephanie says
Wow 19 years! I know I’ve been reading your blog since Sean was on The Bachelor and you only had 2 kiddos! Time sure does fly. Even though my sons are grown and I have grand daughters now, I really enjoy reading your blog every day. From your recipes (which I’ve made ALOT of them) to travel, to fitness, and to seeing the joy in every day life you’ve been a great inspiration Shay. I’ve never met you or your family, but I tell people all the time “This family I know that lives in McKinney Tx…”, blah, blah blah LOL. Enjoy your long weekend with your family soaking in the last of summer before the crazy starts!
Mix and Match Mama says
Goodness, THANK YOU, Stephanie! I am so happy you are here with me. xx
Bren says
I have to add my reply here with Stephanie’s as so much is similar. I believe I started reading right after Sean was on The Bachelor and I know I began when you had just two littles, or right about the time Miss Ashby entered your world. I feel so honored and blessed to read your life that you share with us, Shay.
I honestly cannot believe that you have two entering their junior and senior years of high school, just like I felt when I reached that milestone age in our own lives because time truly flies by. Looking forward to what Kensington feels comfortable with you sharing and hearing your perspective, with what you feel comfortable sharing, during this season of life.
Ending with, so much like Stephanie, while I’ve never met you, I find myself saying often “Oh, this amazing lady, Shay, I follow from McKinney,Texas shared….” insert whatever I’m talking about. 😊 As always, thanks for sharing, Shay, and enjoy your time off.
Mix and Match Mama says
Bren, you are such a faithful part of this online community. Thank YOU for your kind words and genuine encouragement. I am just so very grateful for you!
MelanieL says
Love, love, love this, Christopher Columbus! 🤣 I don’t think I could do it but it did look like the perfect day to make the voyage! You’ve had a permanent spot in my favorites folder since the day Chris Harrison shouted you out so however long that’s been!! Congratulations on 19 years ❤️
Mix and Match Mama says
Awwwwww! Thank YOU, Melanie! So grateful for you!!
sandi says
I wish I could remember exactly how I found your blog but it was before the two youngest became a part of your family. There are so many things to cherish about your blog… the positivity, the love of Jesus, the love for your family and of course, the book reviews.
Back to school is looking different around here this year. My husband and his brother graduated from a small Christian school, my mother in law taught there for 28 years and all four of our kids have graduated from there. This will be the first year without someone in our family on campus since the 1970’s. There is a bit of sadness in that, but I am going to celebrate with a milkshake and look forward to no more school emails! The baby of the family is heading off to college in a few weeks and its funny to see her older siblings ask “who gave you permission to grow up”? She has helped move everyone else into college so they will all be there to move her in too. Even our newly married daughter living in another state is driving home to help move her in. These babies don’t keep!
Mix and Match Mama says
Sandi, you are truly truly such a valuable part of this community. Your comments contribute more than you could ever know. From the bottom of my heart, thank YOU for being here with us every day!
Michelle f says
Congratulations on 19 years! I have been reading your blog daily since 2013 and I can’t thank you enough for what you do. I came here for the three ingredient pumpkin spice muffins and I have stayed and enjoyed every moment. It has been a pleasure to watch you raise your children, adopt the girls and see them grow into wonderful children. I love Nantucket, and when I am not there, I love to read your posts so I do feel like I am back on the island!
Enjoy the time and how about those Red Sox! I knew they would turn this season around!
Mix and Match Mama says
Awwww, Michelle, THANK YOU! I am so so grateful for you! Go Sox!
Kristin S says
Way to know what you need and take a break. Enjoy soaking up time with your family!
Today is the 18th anniversary of the day I started my blog…. which I haven’t consistenlty posted on for years.
Mix and Match Mama says
Really?! What a HUGE accomplishment!! Congratulations, Kristin!!
Natasha says
Happy 19th Anniversary of blogging. I’ve been here since you announced you were adopting Ashby, so it’s been awhile. My oldest is also going into Grade 12 this year (we’ve got this, right?!?!?), and we also love to travel. I’ve read many of your book suggestions and one of my favourite sweaters is a striped one from Amazon you recommended a few years ago. And I love my Blue Jays as much as you love your Red Sox, so there’s that too 🙂 Thank you for continuing to share your family with all of us and inspiring your readers along the way.
Mix and Match Mama says
We’ve got this (I think?!)! I’m so blessed to do life online with YOU, Natasha! Cheers to anyone who routes for a team that isn’t the Yankees 😉 .
Debbra Weber says
Congratulations on 19 years! Keep on shining bright. You are definitely a bright spot in my day and I appreciate your genuine thoughtfulness, kindness, positivity and love for Jesus! Thank you!
Mix and Match Mama says
Thank you, Debra! I am so grateful for YOU! xx
Sarah DeWald says
As a boy mama, I absolutely love that you guys have these adventures. I so look forward to having some of my own in the future. How special! And congratulations on 19 years! I love coming here to see what’s new and what we should be reading/wearing/buying. Thanks for sharing your life with us!
Mix and Match Mama says
Thank you so so much, Sarah! Sending YOU so much love! xx
Carrie says
Congratulations on 19 incredible years of blogging!
I’ve been reading for a long time, and it’s hard to put into words how much you’ve inspired me. Through your blog, you’ve encouraged me in fitness, fashion, cooking, creating a welcoming home, growing in my faith with Jesus, discovering great books…and so much more. Your authenticity, kindness, and consistency have made such a difference in my life.
The truth is, your blog is the only one I still read, and I genuinely look forward to it every single day. It’s become such a special part of my daily routine, and I can’t imagine my mornings without checking to see what you’ve shared.
Thank you for faithfully showing up year after year and for using your gifts to encourage so many of us. You’ve built so much more than a blog—you’ve built a community, and I’m so grateful to be a small part of it. Congratulations on this amazing milestone, and here’s to many more years!
Mix and Match Mama says
Carrie, your words mean more to me than you could ever know. Truly, from the bottom of my heart, thank you so much. I am so grateful for YOU!. xx
Christa Liso says
Wow! I began following you 7 years ago after I had my first baby. You wrote a devotion for Proverbs 31 Ministries and your blog was linked. It has been such a happy, cozy part of my day from that point on. I have learned a lot and appreciate you, and the other ladies in this group, sharing wisdom and insight. I am currently listening to Slow Productivity and it is so timely as I head back to work as an instructional coach this week. Enjoy the time spent with family!
Mix and Match Mama says
I’m so so happy you found me, Christa! Thank you for stopping by and staying all these years. xx
Nicole Harder says
Thank you for sharing your life with us all these years. I’ve been reading your blog for so long, truly one of the highlights of my day. I especially love your Nantucket posts- they remind me so much of my family’s summers on Martha’s Vineyard. Wishing you and your family a wonderful rest of the summer.
Mix and Match Mama says
Thank you so much, Nicole! Sending you so much love! xx
Maria Moreno says
I started reading your blog many years ago and it is my little piece of happy in the morning while I am having breakfast.
Just the other day, I remembered the picture that was taken of K, Ebby Lee and the rest the year they were going to kindergarten together and thought how sweet it would be to recreate that for their senior year.
Mix and Match Mama says
Wasn’t that just yesterday?!
Bev says
Cheers to 19 years! Thank YOU for providing such a sweet place for those of us who have followed you for years. It’s not by chance but rather loyalty because you make this more about your followers than you do about yourself. Such helpful resources you share from recipes, travel, books, movies, music, fashion, gift ideas, etc. plus your beautiful family which is always a favorite! You give of your time and it’s so appreciated. We had our favorite everyday meatballs again on Sunday and lemon coconut bars for a church potluck, both so yummy.
Enjoy some well deserved time off! 🩷
Mix and Match Mama says
Oh Bev, THANK YOU! I am always so so grateful to read your thoughtful, encouraging and sweet comments. xx
Cheryl S. says
Congratulations to all of your success over 19 years! 🎉
You have made an impact on me as a reader as well, and you are practically a household name in my Southern California home! I value all of the effort and thoughtfulness that goes into the content you share. It has been meaningful in many ways since I started reading in 2014! Your posts are a routine part of my mornings and I always look forward to reading what’s up next for your family. You are a talented and entertaining writer, and you have gifted countless people wonderful shared knowledge. Thank you!
Enjoy your remaining time on Nantucket!
Mix and Match Mama says
Well goodness, Cheryl, thank you. You truly truly have no idea how much your words mean to me.
Polly Pover says
Wow! Congrats on 19 years! You are such a successful business woman. Thank you for being sharing your world with this community.
Mix and Match Mama says
Thank YOU so much, Polly! xx
Linda Oesterle says
Congrats on 19 years!!! I am obsessed with your pearl necklace. Can you please tell me if that is the petite or nugget pearl and what size your turquoise pendant is? Thanks so much, Shay! Enjoy your last few days in your happy place!! Linda
Mix and Match Mama says
It’s the “pearl choker” and that specific pendant is the medium size 🙂 .
Beth Valenta says
Happy 19 years of making us all happy! It is my bright spot each day and bless you for sharing with all of us.
Mix and Match Mama says
Beth, I am just so grateful for YOU! Thank you, thank you!
Francesca says
Christopher Columbus!! 😆 Sounds like a wonderful adventure.
Kelly Kirkland says
Congrats on 19 years! I’ve been checking in everyday for a very long time, and am so thankful for this little space you’ve created.
Mix and Match Mama says
I am so thankful for YOU, Kelly! xx
Denise M says
Congratulations on spreading positivity and joy to all of us for 19 years!! Hoping you continue for 99 more!
I’ve been reading since Sean’s Bachelor days 🌹
Mix and Match Mama says
Wow, Denise! Thank YOU! I am so very grateful! xx
YOLANDA MCLEAN says
Happy Anniversary. I don’t remember when I came but it was before both littles came along. I so appreciate your content.
Seeing those pictures on the boat with Smith had me wondering if you were sea sick. What a fun adventure.
Mix and Match Mama says
Thank YOU, Yolanda! I am so grateful for you! The weather was super calm or else I probably would have been sick.
Danielle Garavaglia says
Happy 19th Year, Shay! I started reading your blog in 2008 and have come back each morning since then! I don’t comment often, but thank you for truly being a bright spot each morning!! Here is to 19 more years:)
Mix and Match Mama says
You are an OG, Danielle! Thank YOU so so much for sticking with me all of these years. I am so very grateful. xx
Jeanne says
Congratulations on 19yrs! This is always such a fun and uplifting part of my day. I will miss your family in Nantucket too!!
Mix and Match Mama says
Thank YOU, Jeanne! I am so thankful for readers like YOU! xx
Alison says
Reading your blog everyday makes me feel like I could pull up a chair next to you and just chat. 🙂 You bring a tiny bit of joy to all the in-between moments of the day— when I’m sitting in the car waiting for a kid, in a waiting room at an appointment, or just waking up and enjoying a quiet morning. Thank you for sharing your family and pieces of your life with all of us for 19 years!
Mix and Match Mama says
Thank you for your kind words, Alison. I am so grateful you are a part of this community with me. Thank you so so much. xx
Kara says
Congratulations on a huge milestone and for sharing your life and family with us. I found you many, many years ago from The Pleated Poppy, “What I Wore Wednesday” thread! I have enjoyed following your parenting, marriage, friendships, wellness, and most importantly – your faith. This blog is such an encouragement to me. Although I rarely comment, I read everyday and have for all these years. Congratulations and thank you, Shay for all you do for your online Besties! Your little space on the internet is my favorite!
Mix and Match Mama says
Kara, thank you, thank you! I am so grateful for YOU being here with me all of these years. Thank you!
faith says
Congratulations on almost twenty years! Hear me out: Mix and Match Mama- Celebrating 20 Years Anni Conference:
-You would be keynote speaker obviously
-Sheaffer can MC
-Your dad can open in prayer and do a devotional (pass our gratitude journals?!)
-Your mom can design a cozy and comfortable setting/layout for event
-Erika can introduce you
-coffee and treats from Trader Joes
-Andrew and Smith can be security
-State Farm, Colleen, and Nordstrom can be Sponsors
-Create an ACK VIP room
-Sean can DJ (jk, get a professional)
-End it with a 5k with the pups!
I know so many readers would jump at the chance to buy a ticket and meet our inspiring friend/mentor/life coach!
Mix and Match Mama says
Listen, SIGN ME UP FOR THIS! Bahahaha! I love it! Every detail is perfect! 😉
Christine says
Yes, Shark Week! Been watching for years. My boys got me hooked on it and it’s one of my summer’s pleasures. Is that Smith in those pictures LOL You would say that it was hard to be allowed to show him on social media. He has grown. My boys tower over me. Love being boy mom!
Laura says
Happy 19th! I hope you remember…you are my sunshine! 🙂
Karen in VA says
Hi Shay!
I found your blog back when Reality Steve was covering the Bachelor. I believe he mentioned you on it and I have been a fan ever since. I have read your blog EVERY. SINGLE. DAY since then and found I needed it so much. You have been such a blessing in my life. Thank you for everything. Enjoy your time this weekend. I am off to start yet ANOTHER Elin book…28 Summers…lol.
Mix and Match Mama says
Karen, I am always excited to see your blog comments. You are such a positive part of this community. Truly, truly, I am so so blessed by YOU!
Yvonne says
Shay, I loved reading about your adventures with Smith! I too have a son and any time we get to have one on one time is so wonderful, I definitely cherish the it! Congratulations on 19 years! Years ago I read a daily devotional that you wrote. I was so inspired by it, I saw on the bottom of it a little bio of you and your blog was listed there. I clicked on it and followed along ever since! Thank you so much for being a shining star in the internet! I am blessed by it! 😁
Mix and Match Mama says
Wow! Yvonne, thank you! I am truly so very grateful for you and your support. xx
Debbie Hibbert says
Nineteen years is absolutely an accomplishment! I’ve been reading since before Kensington started kindergarten, and I’ve thoroughly enjoyed it. I’ve learned several things here, but most importantly, is prioritizing daily Bible reading … including reading through my Bible two times (soon to be 3 times!). Enjoy your off with your family.
Mix and Match Mama says
Debbie, this makes me so so happy! Thank you so much for being here with me. I am so happy you found me. xx
Robin says
I have been reading your blog since I retired from teaching in 2016. I am not much of a traveler, but I do enjoy reading about your family’s adventures. It is hard to believe that this is your 4th summer on Nantucket. It seems like it was just yesterday that you were talking about finding and buying your house. Enjoy you time there before you return to the heat of Texas. It has been crazy hot and MUGGY in Missouri too.
Mix and Match Mama says
Thank YOU so much for being here, Robin! I am so grateful for it!
Beth Knecht says
Congratulations, Shay!
I love coming for this little dose of joy each day!! Thank you for being you and sharing with us daily! Have the best last few days on Nantucket!!
Also, I cannot believe that’s what Tuckernuck Island looks like! I never would have guessed that!
Mix and Match Mama says
Thank you, Beth! Your name is always one of my favorites to read each day. I am so grateful for you being here with me online. xx
Ashlie says
I found your blog years ago when I was in the trenches of raising my twin girls (close to your Kensington’s age)–now I send them off to college this fall. Thank you for always being positive and an inspiration for moms and parenting! Thank you for sharing the good and the bad-I always look forward to your daily posts.
Mix and Match Mama says
Wow! Ashlie, thank you so much. I am so grateful for you. I hope your girls have a wonderful year ahead!
Krista F. says
ENJOY your last Nantucket summer moments with your family! I have not missed a single post of yours in maybe 12+ years?! THANKS for all the joy, tips, products, inspiration, recipes, pictures, prayers, wellness, books and love you share here!
Mix and Match Mama says
That means more to me than you will EVER know. Goodness, Krista, thank you so much. I am so humbled by this. xx
Nikki says
Congratulations on 19 years of blogging! I started following back in The Bachelor days. You’re right…soooo much has happened since then. It’s been fun to follow along!
Mix and Match Mama says
Thank you, thank you, THANK YOU for being here with me! xx
Caroline says
Congratulations on 19 years!! I remember I started reading your blog when I was 14…I just turned 30 last week, and it still brings so much joy! 🩷
Mix and Match Mama says
Thank YOU so much, Caroline! I am so grateful for YOU!
Laura Ann Fuller says
I LOVE adventures with my boys. I’ll entertain my oldest (23) tonight! And who ever thought Tuckernuck was an actual place? A house on a super remote island with no power? Cars with no roads? Sounds like the twighlight zone….
Mary says
Congratulations on 19 years! As they say the best is yet to come! Although the first 19 have been so fun and informative! Looking forward to your further adventures!
Sheaffer says
19 years???????? How?????????????????? That’s CRAZY!
Kara says
Congrats on 19 years!! How cool is that!? I appreciate SO much content you share and reading your blog is a positive start to every morning for me. I have learned so much and bought so many things based on your recommendations!! Thanks for being here!
Joanna says
Happy 19 years! Your trip to Tuckernuck looks so fun. Enjoy your time off!
Debra says
Thank you for keeping this blog going for many years – it always brings a bit of sunshine and joy to my day and motivates me. Your blog has been a favorite for me for years and I appreciate all the work that goes into it.
Bri says
Fresh seafoood sounds so good! I need some coastal time in my life…
Monica Stoleson says
Wow! Love this special time you are able to share with your son. I also have one son who is 17 and being with him is oh so special. My girls are so sweet and our bond is wonderful but I know what you mean about being together just the two of you. Just like you always say, Those babies don’t keep! 🥲
Congrats on 19 years! I have been along for the ride for 10 years and truly love being here each and every day with your family.
P.S. Could you share the link for the gold and brown heels you have on with the dresses! They are both so so cute!! 😍
Mix and Match Mama says
Thank YOU for being here with me!! I am so grateful for you! And those shoes are from a boutique on Nantucket. Boo.
Amy Azza says
Congratulations on 19 years! I am so happy I found you in blog world. I started reading your blog when Sean was on the Bachelor and have read it faithfully every day since. It is the bright spot in my day and always starts my day with sunshine. You have taught me so much about parenting, style, faith, life, and recipes. And thank you for introducing me to MMT and to Clare and Shanna, my two favorite people. You have changed my life in so many positive ways, Shay. I am so grateful to you!
Mix and Match Mama says
Amy, you are WITHOUT A DOUBT, their favorite client. We ADORE you! Thank YOU for being so encouraging and supportive of my blog and my business. I am so grateful for YOU!
Heidi says
I was scrolling the web many years ago, and a page popped up with a little sign that said “Gone to Get Ashby.” I was immediately intrigued, and I’ve been here ever since! Thank you so much for sharing with all of us! 🙂
Mix and Match Mama says
Oh wow! This means so much to me. Thank YOU for being here with me each day. xx
beth says
WOW! 19 years- congratulations! My goodness you truly are blessed! Thank you for sharing wonderful recipes, insights and the love for what you do!
Lauren says
Congrats on 19 years!! Always a bright spot in my day!
Kerry says
Congrats on 19 years! I’ve been following along since 2010 – it definitely does NOT feel like it’s been 16 years. This is the only blog I’ve continued to follow all these years – thanks for showing up!
I was intrigued by Tuckernuck after reading your story so did some researching and found it interesting that it’s entirely a private island and according to what I read, you’re only supposed to visit with an invitation from one of the owners – is the word on the street with the locals there that it’s more laid back than what I read online? It seems interesting that you’d be encouraged to boat over there by local fishermen if the island is supposed to be by invite only. Either way, super cool trip for you and Smith and good for you guys for allowing him to grow his independence!
Mix and Match Mama says
They definitely don’t want the Hyline ferry dropping people off over there, but there are certain spots where we were told you could go and land your boat (or anchor) and be out of the way. Everyone was very encouraging and supportive of us heading over.
Debbie says
Congratulations on 19 years!