Happy Wednesday from Boston, friends!
Today is LET’S LOOK!
If you don’t know what this is, once a month, Erika and I do a little link up where we “look” at different aspects of our lives (and then if you blog, you share and link up too!). It’s often a random little assortment of topics.
In January, we looked at our coffee bar areas.
In February, we looked at our love languages.
In March, we looked at a perfect night in.
In April, we looked at our fridge and pantry.
In May, we looked at our outdoor organization.
In June, we looked at our summer bucket list.
In July, we looked at our bathroom organization.
In August, we looked at our phone, apps & such.
And today, we’re looking at our MEAL PLANNING!
Here’s the deal, the older I get, the more and more I realllllllly appreciate these trips to Boston to see the Red Sox with my dad and mom. I mean…how many 40 year old women get to go on a little trip with just their parents?! It’s such a special treat for me that I don’t want to miss a minute of it, so I’m going to re-post my Back to School Meal Planning from last year for you to check out today while I go off and enjoy the time with my parents. Last month, YOU GUYS TOTALLY REVOLUTIONIZED MY PHONE, and I’m hoping that today, I can help you revolutionize your meal planning in return!
Here’s a little look at how I make my life a bit simpler by meal planning…
I am such a meal planner…
…hello, I even wrote a book about it…buuuuut even I can get lazy during the summer and just find something for dinner instead of actually planning. Oh, we have sausages? Let’s grill! Ground beef? Quick burgers again! You know, it’s hot, you have a relaxed schedule…meal planning, even for me, can be an afterthought when it’s summertime. Come school year though? I have very specific meal plan that ensures everything we need to make suppers for the week is in the pantry and/or fridge, ready to go so that I can whip up something yummy and quick when we’re in-between schoolwork, therapies, and extracurricular activties. After all of these years of meal planning with you guys, I know many of you are the exact same way. Once that back to school season starts, your hardcore meal planning begins too!
Anyone else?!
Today, I’m sharing exactly what I do when I meal plan PLUS answer many of your questions!
HOW I MEAL PLAN:
I’ve mentioned this many times before, but I meal plan for the entire month on a legal pad. I write out all of the days of the month on a piece of paper (front and back). Next, I go back through and add any important dates/reminders to that month’s calendar and then, I start to meal plan for the month. I try and cook dinner five nights a week plus I make breakfast for my Bible Fellowship Group (BFG) at church every Sunday morning and then, I bake an extra sweet treat or two a week to feature on my blog. Now, that I have a solid list for the month, it takes me only minutes to make my weekly shopping list (because isn’t figuring out what to make the hardest part?!). Obviously, these last six months have been tricky/weird/totally odd but for the most part, I have really tried to stick to my routine. Even though we haven’t been to church since February (WHAT?!), I’ve still enjoyed making breakfast for my family on Sunday mornings while we watch church online.
Here are my exact steps to meal planning (and then, I want to hear yours!!)…
1: I make my monthly meal plan.
2: On Mondays, I build my grocery list for the week based on my already prepared monthly list and then order my groceries online for free grocery pick up at my store. I love doing this because you can “favorite” things and then quickly add them to your cart. Things like milk, paper towels, bananas, avocados and such are favorited items, so it’s easy to add those things in along with our dinner groceries. I also take a sticky note and write down things that I will need to pick up later in the week that are fresh. I shop on Tuesdays, so if I think that by the following Monday, I’ll need 2 pounds of ground beef or more bananas, then I add that to my list and sometime between Friday and Sunday, I will grab those items from inside the store.
3: On Tuesdays, I go and pick up my groceries from my local supermarket and bring them home.
4: About once every 10 days to 2 weeks, I’ll stop by Trader Joe’s and pick up any fresh items I need that I didn’t grocery pick up or just to grab some things only sold there.
5: Then sometime later that week, like on Friday, I will go inside the store and grab a handful of “fresh” items that I need or anything else that has come up (should I need some more fresh items over the weekend). Many times, Andrew will stop by and grab us the fresh items instead…but either way, we typically make one more trip to the store to replenish those items after our weekly “big shopping”.
And then…repeat the next week.
Now, I’ve tweaked this over time as our schedules and such have changed, but this is what we’ve been consistently doing for about a year or so. During the school year, I’ve been typically going to Costco about once a month to stock up on lunch items for the kids like yogurt, chips, applesauce, etc. as well. I also have found many great gluten-free items on Amazon Fresh that when we need, I order (I just ordered more g-free soy sauce this week!).
So, that’s what I’m doing these days.
Last week, I asked you if you had specific questions about our meal planning and you had MANY!! I picked the 10 most popular and have them along with my answers below…
For dinner, always! For lunch, it varies. Andrew always makes his own lunch to take to work each day (some sort of chicken with a veggie), typically the kids are “at school” and eat lunchbox food, but during this quarantine, I have been making lunches at home that the five of us have all enjoyed together (the most popular being grilled cheese sandwiches with tomato soup as it’s g-free, easy and all four kids plus me love it!). When the kids are at school, I eat lunch on my own…typically something from Trader Joe’s (salads, wraps, soups, etc).
I make dinner Sunday through Thursday nights. On Friday and Saturday night we typically eat out or if we do stay home, we grill (and if that’s the case, Andrew or I will pick up food for that). On Sunday mornings, I make breakfast for my Sunday school class and my kids eat whatever at home (frozen pancakes, cereal, etc). Weekends are simple. Now, sometimes, if we have time, I will make a Saturday morning breakfast for my fam, but that totally depends on the sports schedule that day. All of that is pre-planned when I do my weekly shopping.
If you hate it, you should really do it once a month. This way, you’re just hating it one day of the month instead of several days. I think if you sat down and did one big meal plan you would be thrilled each week when you knew exactly what to buy and make.
During the spring, we had our own schedule (nothing was “live”), so we all five ate lunch together, this fall, my kids are all going to be live with their teachers and classes and eat lunch during their normal lunch time…which means, all four of them will eat lunch at different times, so they’re going to make their lunches each day just like they were going into the building and then eat those lunches during their specific lunchtime. This will get us back into the habit of making daily lunchbox lunches, make lunchtime faster for them (it’s all ready to go!) so they can fully enjoy their 30 minute lunch break, save me from being in the kitchen for 2 hours every day and keep the noise down (so that the other three can continue learning).
Because I have a good plan!! When we get busy, we pull out the slow cooker!! If I have the ingredients and take the extra minutes in the morning, I can pop my dinner into the slow cooker and we’re ready to go at suppertime no matter how busy we are. Did you know…
…that my Back to School Slow Cooker Suppers post is always one of my MOST POPULAR posts every single year?!?! I have so many great recipes that you can use all school year long!
Yes!! We both worked outside the home, so when we got back in every night, I wanted to have everything handy for dinner. I didn’t want to have to think about it…I just wanted to know what to make and in a short amount of time.
Totally change it up! I will say, most of the time, this doesn’t happen to me, but if for some reason, I’m just not feeling it at all, I totally switch it with something else I’m supposed to make later that week or I tweak whatever it is to make it seem more like what I want. Not really interested in tacos? You can make chili! Most basic recipes have ingredients you can mix and match into other things 😉 .
I have so many quick cooking recipes (like those Sloppy Joe Bowls I shared last week!) or I have stuff ready to go in the slow cooker!
It depends. I’m not really a “leftover” girl because I don’t enjoy eating the same thing two nights in a row, BUT I frequently make double batches of some things that I can mix and match into different dinners the following night. For example, I will make extra brisket one night and then use the leftovers for my Brisket Chili the next night. Or make a double batch of Andrea’s Pulled Pork and then make Pulled Pork Tacos the next night!
Yes!! Now, when they were super little, I didn’t, but now that they’re older, I ask every week! They don’t all always get what they want, but many times, their input totally dictates several meals. Usually my kids throw out generic terms “I want chicken” or “I want shrimp with pasta”…so it gives me wiggle room to make it my own, but other times, they say “I want that Taco Pasta” and I try to oblige as often as I can!
Okay, every single Monday (or Tuesday!), I share my MEAL PLANNING MONDAY with you to hopefully give you ideas about what to make each week. This week’s MPM is extra tasty…
…and includes my favorite recipes for September!!
So that wraps up how we meal plan. Next month…
…we’re going to look at how we store our holiday decorations!
Okay, what are you guys doing for meal planning? Please comment and share!!!!
Sheaffer Sims says
I’m feeling inspired!!!!!
Natasha says
Meal planning a month at a time is absolutely the way to go! I’ve been doing it for over twelve years and it makes a HUGE difference. We also plan theme nights like varieties of tacos on Tuesdays or soups on Thursday or pasta on Mondays and that helps our monthly planning go so much faster. And I plan seven nights a week but never lunches or dinners. And yes sometimes “eat out” is on the meal plan because #reallife 🙂
Maria says
Would love a post on how you revolutionized your phone!!!! Inquiring minds want to know!
Mix and Match Mama says
I followed your advice in that post! I deleted (or at least removed from my phone) over 50 apps which took my pages from 8 to 1.5. I color coded my apps (not the front page but the second page), I removed some non-important apps off of my front page, I hid my email, IG and FB and picked a light gradient for my background!
Erika Slaughter says
Hope you’re having an amazing time! I keep thinking about your weather and I’m so jealous!! Bring some of that back, will ya? ??
Elspeth says
I love planning for my meals in advance! So helpful for busy days!
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Lauren says
This has nothing to do with today’s post, so sorry for the randomness… but where do you get your kids rain jackets? It was pouring here today and I realized my kids don’t have any! I figured you’d know where to find some cute ones ?
Mix and Match Mama says
Boden for my little girls is great and then light The North Face or Patagonia too! enjoy the rain 🙂
Katie says
Your kids are remote learning already this school year? I thought i saw they were back to school.
Mix and Match Mama says
They are not this year. My post today was re-posted from last year (when they did remote learn the first few weeks). We’re all back in!
Michelle says
You should try the app called Out of Milk. The minute I need something I add to my list. Stopped sticky notes long time ago. That way my list is always with me.
Mix and Match Mama says
Looking that up right now! Thank you!!
Susan says
I just keep my running list in the Notes section of my phone.
Christine says
Thanks for the tips. Not sure if you are going tonight or you went last night. I went Labor Day. Started out very exciting but they ended up losing. There were two proposals during that game though. That was exciting. Take care.
Jen says
I also meal plan for Sunday-Thursday. Theme nights help- Taco tuesdays, etc. Sometimes when I cave and go out even for our family of 4 it can cost my whole meal budget for the week so that quickly snaps me back into the meal planning/shopping mode. We do pizza night fridays (take out usually) and out or togo Sat.
Victoria Szczechowski says
Hi Shay!
I just wanted to say enjoy Boston! My sister just moved there for graduate school, and I visited her over Labor Day weekend. I thought of you at my first ever Red Sox game at Fenway on Saturday!
Mix and Match Mama says
Awwwww! I hope you loved it! I hope she has a great year too!
Emily says
With the ages of my kids and their activities (school coaches post info Saturday or Sunday of each week), we calendar out the week at lunch every Sunday, including meals! Then, I make a list and go to the store between 8-9pm every Sunday night. Everything is restocked, no one else is there. It’s pure bliss! Sam’s run is typically the first of each month. If I’m making shrimp/fish, I pick it up on my way home from the office so we have fresh! Thanks for all of your recipes; a lot of them are favs in our home! 🙂
Megan says
My biggest hurdle with meal planning and following through is remembering to pull meat out of the freezer to thaw.
Joanne says
We meal plan by the month now too and I do pretty much the same thing; making sure that I have busy nights scheduled so I have quick and easy meals for them. We write up our weekly list based on our menu and I will run in again 4 or so days later for more fresh fruits and veggies.
Leanne Gilchrist says
Am I a weirdo because I saved my meal plans from like 10 years ago!? YES! LOL! It’s such great memories of when my kids were small~~~plus, it reminds me of dinners I used to make that everyone loved! I like to use a master meal plan and then shuffle them around. My one big constant problem is forgetting to take meat out of the freezer! Crock pots are a life saver!
Indeed, what a special privilege to have parents that you’re close with, and similar interests! Now that 2 of our daughters are married and my kids are older, I want to make days where I spend time with them as individuals. Thanks for the inspiration, Shay!
God bless you!
Kristin says
My mom and I are going to Boston together next week!! I’ve used your old posts to help plan what to do. I can’t wait!
Mix and Match Mama says
I hope you have the BEST time!!!
Kristin says
Thank you!!
Natalie B. says
DO soak up allllll the time with your parents!! Take the trips, see them as often as possible, take videos and pictures, save the voicemails. I am 39 and have lost both my parents and I would give anything to just have 1 more minute with them. Someday I’ll have eternity with them though. So, YES!!! Blogging can wait. Time with your family cannot.
Mix and Match Mama says
Thank YOU so much, Natalie! Sending you so much love right now. I wish I could hug you. xx
Karen says
I love this post! I also do monthly meal planning. It’s life-changing! My tips to come up with meals are to kind of have a theme. On Tuesdays (Taco Tuesday!) we do some sort of Mexican.. quesadillas, tacos, Mexican casserole, loaded nachos. On Sundays we do meat and potato meals. On Fridays and Saturdays we make pizza, go out, or grill.
Ali says
Follow up question to this post: how many times a week do you buy fresh meat, and how long do you keep it in your refrigerator before cooking it? This is the biggest issue I have with meal planning because I prefer fresh meat over frozen!
Mix and Match Mama says
We do not freeze meat at our house, so we buy it at least twice a week. I will get it on Sunday when I pick up my groceries and then typically, go back and get more on Wednesday to finish off our week.
Jennibell says
Are you going to show us how are you’ve changed your phone?? I got a lot of good tips in the comment section too 🙂
Mix and Match Mama says
I think I answered it in a previous comment but the keys for me were to hide my email and Instagram, delete about 50 apps and then color code the apps I kept but don’t use often.