Hey, hey, hey! It’s LET’S LOOK!
Once a month, Erika and I do a little link up where we “look” at different aspects of our lives (and then if you blog, you share and link up too!).
Here’s what we’ve been “looking” at so far this year…
In January, we looked at our bedside tables.
In February, we looked at our winter wardrobe.
In March, we looked at what’s inside our bags.
In April, we looked at how we typically celebrate Easter.
And today, we’re looking at our weekend!
Er.
Except I didn’t remember that our topic this month was “our weekend” and therefore, didn’t do a great job documenting it.
Eeeeks!
The thing is, this time of year, we typically do nothing but run back and forth between sports. We’re up early, we’re at the ballfields, we’re hustling to the volleyball tournament, we’re eating lunch on the run, dinner super late, we’re up early on Sunday heading to church where we volunteer, go to Sunday school, worship and then run from that back to sports and then holy cow, we do it all over again.
Sound familiar?
I have a feeling it sounds like your typical weekends too.
Buuuuut right now, we have nothing. Notta. Zero. And we’re kind of loving it. I’m always looking for the silver lining in things and as a family, I think we’ve decided that our weekends during this time, have become one. Though we miss our family, friends and sports SO MUCH, we have really enjoyed the downtime. In my entire life, almost 39 years, I’ve had the SAME Sunday routine…and now, all of a sudden, that’s out the window too. I miss my church family, I miss seeing the three year old class I teach, but I have loved having “church” at home too. Andrew and I never would have done this if we weren’t being forced to…but now that we’re doing it, we’ve really appreciated some of this downtime. On Sunday, our family watched a great sermon (you can see it HERE) where he talked about looking for positive things during this time, so at lunch that day, we named some of the positives that have come from being at home together, and it was so sweet to hear their little answers.
Anyway, all of that to say, this is not at all what I thought this post would be about today when I wrote the prompt back in December, but it’s a little silver lining in our current situation.
Here are the pics I had on my phone from this last weekend…
I have zero pics from Friday, but on Saturday morning, I took this one as I sat on my stoop and watched the world (or at least some neighbors) go by. I have always loved walking as a form of exercise/meditation/relaxation/a way to get out and get fresh air, but lately, I seem to be doing it every day. I like to listen to Today’s Top Worship on Pandora while I walk.
This cutie came down to my office and said she was ready to swim. Side note, if you’re looking for a hair tie, Ashby has it on her arm 😉 .
We spent all day Saturday (and Sunday for that matter!) out in the yard and by the pool.
I love going inside after a full day of swimming and hanging out by the pool with my kids!
Andrew snapped this pic for me since Mother’s Day was the very next day!
I enjoyed a book by the pool while the kids swam a bit. While I was sitting here, I started thinking…what if I started a Summer Book Club? Would you girls be interested???
The whole family loves pool life 🙂 .
For dinner on Saturday night, we had Mexican food from one of our favorite places. I took this pic so that I could show you these amazing Yeti drink insulators. They are FANTASTIC and keep your drink cold and keep it from sweating everywhere.
After dinner, we headed to our fire pit to roast s’mores!!!
Who doesn’t love a s’more?!
I prefer mine with a Reese’s Peanut Butter Cup. Once you do it that way, you just can’t go back.
Bahaha! I took two pics of this thing…clearly, I wanted to remind myself to share it with you. I’m in love!
Did you even eat a s’more if it’s not all over your face and in your hair?
On Sunday morning, Mother’s Day, we all woke up and went to “church”. Madeley looks like she partied too hard on Saturday night. Why the sunglasses indoors, Mades?!
My kiddos gave me the sweetest Mother’s Day gifts this year! They painted this for me using their fingers. Each kiddo’s finger was a different color on my canvas.
And then I got these things too! I told my family at the end of the day, it was the weirdest/least normal Mother’s Day I’ve ever had, but it was by FAR my favorite.
I went out for one more walk before lunch. My tights are long sold out, but you can find my shoes HERE.
And then Kensington snapped this pic of Madeley trying to do a headstand with me. Hahaha! I mean…that kid.
The rest of the day, we spent outside together and then Andrew grilled us steaks for our Mother’s Day dinner.
That was my weekend!
Next month, let’s look at…our carry on bags!
In the meantime, have the best day!
Erika Slaughter says
Hahahahaha! Pretty soon Ashby will have hair ties all the way to her elbow! And I’m pretty sure my headstand skills rival Madeley’s. ??
Ahna @ Hammers N Hugs says
That Mother’s Day canvas!! What a sweet idea!!
Lisa says
Yesssss to a book club!!
Charmaine Ng | Architecture & Lifestyle Blog says
Enjoy the break! Sometimes it’s nice to have minimal commitments 🙂 love seeing your family bond during this time! ❤️✨
Charmaine Ng | Architecture & Lifestyle Blog
http://charmainenyw.com
Kristen Thompson says
I love that you are always so positive-it’s so important to look at the silver linings during these stressful times!! I’d love for you to do a summer book club-my mom and I always share the books you review and enjoy it so much!! ?
Sheaffer Sims says
Looks like the perfect Mother’s Day weekend to me! Those gifts are precious!
Sarah says
YES to Summer Book Club!
Tamara R. says
Just ordered that Yeti! Looks like the perfect Father’s Day gift! And was the Mexican Ernesto’s? Did you try their bacon wrapped shrimp? ??
Mix and Match Mama says
Ohhhh! It would be a great Father’s Day gift! And no, it was Anamia’s!
Emily says
Yes to the Summer Book Club!!
Laura says
Yes to the yeti!! We’ve had ours for years and LOVE them!
And YES! To a summer book club!! Fun! I’d join it!
Ashley says
YES!!!!!! to summer book club! I’m totally in.
Jennifer says
Shay, You look beautiful in your neon coverup sitting with your children. There’s a lot you could be complaining about with the temporary tanking of the travel industry – but you don’t. Thank you for your bright corner of the Internet! We love to stop and sit in some of your sunshine for a spell every day.
Amber Vance says
Summer Book Club? Yes, please!! It has been super nice for all of the ‘down time’ with family (even though we are homeschooling- YUCK!) I just want to say your white chairs look super comfy and are so pretty.
Justyna says
Where is that neon green cover up from?!
Mix and Match Mama says
Shop Bop!!
Kari A Maddox says
Yes! That by far is amazing!
Robin Ince says
Summer Book Club…yes please!!
Marissa says
Ummm…if you think adding a Reese cup to a regular Smore is good….try a marshmallow, Reese cup, and RITZ CRACKERS. You might find yourself making them in microwave when the kids aren’t around, they’re soooo good.
Julie says
Yes to a summer book club but now I think you should do a permanent book club!!! Year long! I am reading your books anyway so why not. haha!! Happy Mothers Day Shay!
Gwen says
Yess would love a book club! I literally go to your blog every time to find a new book and you haven’t led me wrong yet!
Mix and Match Mama says
Awwwww! Thank YOU so much!!!!
Jen says
Try s’mores with the Reese’s cup but sub Ritz crackers for the graham crackers….. soooo good!
Mix and Match Mama says
I love that idea!!!!!
Stacey W. says
I’m too much of an extrovert to love all aspects of the current situation, but I am loving all the extra outdoor time. My girls are finally at ages where I can sit outside and read while they play/bike/scooter and I don’t have to have eyes on them every second. YES to a summer book club!
Rachel Embery says
Yes! I’d love to do a summer book club
Holly T says
Where did you get your cool fire pit? Love the design. Thanks!
Mix and Match Mama says
The actual fire pit in the center? Andrew ordered it from somewhere…I don’t where though??
Beth says
I would love to do a summer book club ? and I do love a peanut butter cup on my s’mores too. But you should also try a couple Andes Mints! Super good!
Darci says
YESSSS to a book club!!!!!
Jenna Stiegelmeier says
Hi Shay! Totally agree with your comment about it being a weird (to say the least), but really, the best Mother’s Day. I know a lot of people are hurting–and I don’t want to diminish that either. Having a senior–this has been disappointing on a lot of fronts, but you know what? I’ve been able to spend wayyyyyyyyy more time with her than I would’ve if this pandemic hadn’t hit. Life will go back to the crazy fullness it once was, but I’ll always have this complete family time to remember. For that, I’m thankful.
Mix and Match Mama says
I love your silver lining, Jenna!!
Tricia Cole says
YES! Please start a summer book club! ( :
Sarah Shepperson says
Where did you get your pool lounge chairs? I’m having a hard time finding comfy ones that I love!!
Mix and Match Mama says
Restoration Hardware!
Kelly says
The picture Andrew took of you and the children is lovely:). Yes to a book club and if you could send PA some of your glorious sunshine I’d be ever so grateful:).
Jentry Mahlin says
If you look in the mirror on the nightstand, it looks like a pup is trying to do a handstand too! lol
And YES YES YES ON BOOKCLUB!!!!!!!!
Keisha Dawson says
It looks like you all had a wonderful weekend! YES!!!! Please do a summer book club! My family got me a Kindle Paper white for Mother’s Day, and I can’t wait to lay by the pool and read!
Paula says
Even the dog was trying to do a headstand. That is so cute.
Julie says
Yes to the book club!!!
Elspeth says
I completely agree. As much as I love the busy spring schedule, it has been so nice to just relax and unwind and reconnect.
http://www.elspethsdaybyday.com
Kerry Rehberg says
Summer Book club? I’M IN!
Danielle says
A summer book club would be awesome!!
Jaime Surrett says
Two things: Yessss – please start a book club! That would be so fun!! Second – we just got the Yeti coolers and friend, they are the best thing since sliced bread. Ah-mazing! Okay, maybe three things – I love your blog. Always puts a smile on my face.
Mix and Match Mama says
Awwwww! Thank you so much, Jaime!!
carolyn c cox says
Can your tell me again what kind of air fryer you use?
Mix and Match Mama says
It’s in my review! https://mixandmatchmama.com/2020/02/airfryer-review/
Kylee Edwards says
I really loved listening to the sermon! I feel like I needed that. Is this what you’re family listens to each Sunday? (The sermon for that day off this site/church?) I need to do more with my kids. My husband lost his faith a long time ago and I find myself slowing drifting apart. I need something for me and my children to bring them closer to Jesus!
Mix and Match Mama says
We typically listen to our own awesome pastor preach each Sunday, but this time away from our physical church as given us an opportunity to listen to others. This pastor’s church is in Kentucky I believe!
Kristy Moore says
Our carry on bags will be all empty! 🙁
I’m a big YES for a book club for the summer since I’ve got a whole lotta ‘nothin planned!
Have a great Wednesday!
Ella says
I just noticed the clock outside your house opposite the pool. My family has clocks in every room, including bathrooms, but none outside. Also, how do you keep your shirt in place when you do a headstand??
Mix and Match Mama says
I always tie them behind my back!
Sheila DeSpirito says
Yes to a book club please!
Jamie F. says
Yes to a summer book club!!
Jessica M says
I would LOVE if you did a summer book club!
Lauren says
LOL I had to laugh because it looks like the dog is doing a headstand too.. or trying to! 🙂
Mix and Match Mama says
Bahahaha!
Justyna says
Where did you get the neon green coverup? Love!!
Mix and Match Mama says
Shopbop.com 🙂
Kim says
Thanks for sharing the link to your church service. It was so good! Loved it. Thanks so much!
Julee says
Hi Shea, this is sort of related to today’s post… It is about Mother’s Day and adoption. If you haven’t heard about it yet, you need to watch the sermon from Second Baptist Church in Houston from this past Sunday. It is the most beautiful adoption story. The son found his birth mother who happens to be the owner of the Taste of Texas in Houston. The son now lives in Ft Worth. The story of how his mom prayed for him throughout his life and God weaved their paths together (though unknown to both of them) throughout his 48 years is just beautiful. There is a video and them both the mom and son who is 48 shared a live testimony. Also, the birth mother lost her only son in a skiing accident 10 years ago. Anyway, it is just extra special and worth your time!
Rachel says
Random question, but I just finished the Q&A’s with you and Andrew…ya’ll are too cute by the way…anyways, do you know the name of the exterior paint color on your back patio doors?
Mix and Match Mama says
Ohhhhh…good question and no, I don’t. Sorry!!
Lucy Bertoldi says
I absolutely loved this post! Nothing can be more fun than pool days- and to top it off with smores?! Well then, I call that perfect! A summer reading club sounds amazing!
Carrie says
Am I the only one that now had to go back and find the dog in the pic doing a headstand after reading the comments??!! Hahaha…
Jennifer says
Try bacon on that Reese’s s’more. So good.
Mix and Match Mama says
WHAT?! My mind is blown! This is amazing! I must try this STAT!!!
Megan says
Yes to a book club! Also, have you found GF graham crackers?!
Mix and Match Mama says
Yes! On Amazon!
Margie says
Yes please start a book club! The book reviews are my favorite posts!!
Kathy says
A summer book club sounds like a great idea! Ashby looks so sweet sitting around the fire pit with her legs crossed and hands placed just so! 🙂 I’m glad you had a wonderful Mother’s Day weekend with all your people.
Anamarie Rebori says
What’s your favorite Mexican restaurant? My in-laws live in Prosper and whenever we visit we’re always looking for good food. We come to McKinnney a lot!
Mix and Match Mama says
We love Anamia’s! They’ve had one by my parents’ for years and years but recently opened one up by our house too!
Andrea J McAnally says
LOVING your fire pit!!! and Ashby with all those hair ties 🙂